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Saturday, October 17, 2020

Saturday In House Gists - Worst Thing(s) That Ever Happened To You...

 Pray tell,what is the worst thing that ever happened to you?Was it losing money?losing a job?losing a loved one?losing properties?losing yourself?An armed robbery attack?


Or is it something worse?


Sometimes it is good to talk about these things...

215 comments:

  1. Being a Nigerian is the hardest thing that has ever happened to me.

    Tho I am proud now but I wonder how long the feeling will last.

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    1. The worst thing and most painful thing that has ever happened to me was when my brother had an accident and lost an arm, I pray I don't experience such from any of my loved ones again. I can never forget that day 7/5/2018 when I received the call around 8:45am "we had an accident". I died and woke up immediately because I've had the dream over 8 years ago and I do put him in prayers every time that they won't bring him back disabled. Before he could say the gravity of the accident, I already knew

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    2. Forgetting myself while building another person. It kept me behind in life! It really hurt when I realised the person got too comfortable and felt it's my job to just be building him, while his energy is on himself too.

      I am now building myself back. I wouldn't have what I did another way though. But I regret forgetting myself while at it! I shouldn't have been behind

      It is well

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  2. The thing is that once this type of question comes up, I won't be able to remember even one thing. Then when it is over, u will now start recalling. So annoying

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    1. Lol, let me think and come back. πŸ€”

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    2. Who said you should drop a comment now now, you can always think through and drop by later or is Stella deleting the post soon

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    3. Silence is the best answer.....

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    4. Me too, like i am so blank right now.

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    5. So this doesn't happen to me alone

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    6. This happens to you guys cos good memories have occupied your minds.

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  3. An armed robbery attack and that was back then that i was returning back to my lodge(off campus).My Blackberry and Nokia asha phone got robbed and i am pretty sure they were students all armed up.The other one was when i plugged my phone back then in the school and it was stolen/taken away by some unscrupulous element

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    1. TTC.. My husband told me today, "it seems you're not ready to carry children.. Are you not tired of the shame? If you're not I am!... So many words..." It broke me today. After 2failed ivf and so many drugs and procedures.. I'm still trying to find closure

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    2. Anony 17:27, None shall be barren says my God. Though what your husband said is insensitive, it came from a place of helplessness and worry. Please forgive him but dont forget whenever you go to God in prayers. It is not to report him to God but to let it fuel your supplication to the almighty. I was once in your shoes but my husband never said such to me, and in the 11yrs we waited, he encouraged me but not everyone can withstand Nigerians' subtle mockery.

      To encourage you, I had 8 cycles of IVF(fresh & frozen) before God said the last was the last! Pls continue to uphold yourself and hubby in prayers, and I pray the miracle worker will visit you, and you shall testify. Amen!

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    3. Anon 17.27...God cannot lie, you will carry your own kids. Cry out to God from your heart today, I know you must have been all this while but channel today's hurt and pains into prayers..then wipe your tears and give thanks. I pray the good Lord will remember you like He remembered Hannah. I await your testimony darlπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—❤

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    4. Anon 17:27
      I pray God comes through for you and that it doesn't take long
      Please forgive him while at it

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    5. Anon 18:15,thank you so much, you are not talking to me but your words consoles me.. sometimes I feel like ending my marriage and running away but when I remember my hubby has shown me nothing but love in this TTC situation, I just stay back because it will devastate him.
      To be candd, sometimes I wish he maltreats me so that I will use it as an excuse to run but it is/has not happened..I feel Soo exhausted and frustrated by this TTC and to say I married too early,knew nothing but found myself in this situation is so tormenting for me.😭😭😭😭

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    6. Amen! May your womb be blessed and receive its fruit in Jesus name
      Amen

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    7. Anon 17:27. You will carry your baby soon. You will always be in my prayers. Just be positive.

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    8. @Anonymous 19:50, I am anonymous 18:15. I feel you dear because I went through the same feelings. I took a year after our 8yrs of waiting to do an MBA abroad. I was just tired but my faithful and loving husband stuck with our marriage and our vows. He visited constantly, and when he couldn't get away, he paid for my flight ticket to come home. It was a really trying period! I wouldn't advise you do same but try and take holidays once in a while with your hubby. Enjoy yourselves now because when the kids come, which I am going through now, you will have little time for the lovey-dovey.

      God will open shut doors, ours is to believe that He has done it, and according to Isiah 43:18-19,He is able to create a new path where there was none, and create rivers in the desert if we believe. I believe!

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  4. Mine is losing 2 different jobs. It broke me. I have not recovered from it. I don't know where to from.

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    1. You will bounce back stronger don't worry.

      πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ•Š

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    2. A bigger and a better offer coming soon soon

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    3. Same here too but God will recompense at an appointed time in Jesus name amen.

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    4. Bigger job is coming your way...

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  5. D worst tin dt cud ever happen to mi is dis covid times. I was so rich to d extent dt i frgot d colour of 1,000 Note. I also got to knw dt der are 7 pads in always blue pack and 8 in d pink pack. Its well

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  6. Mine still remains being abducted, it still haunts me , I still wake up really scared , I panic when im asked about my whereabout.
    2ndly losing my brother πŸ’” the pain is out of this world.

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    1. I'm so sorry πŸ’” losing a loved one is the worst

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    2. 😳you were abducted and lost your brother? Ha!
      God Will make you smile again.
      πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ•Š

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    3. Oh dear, may God continue to comfort and protect you.

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    4. Abducted??? By aliens??? Pls explain further...

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    5. Oh so sorry about you still being scared. It is well with you dear.

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    6. So sorry dear, it's well with you

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    7. Loosing my babies and my dad. I haven’t quite recovered from it.

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    8. Sorry about the loss of your brother. It is well with you.

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    9. So sorry darling, it is well. You are safe now and nobody will harm you again. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    10. It's well...πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    11. Can't even begin to imagine what you must have gone through. May God continue to heal and strengthen you booπŸ€—❤❤

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    12. You really are strong
      Sorry for the loss of your brother

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    13. Sorry about your loss. It's well

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    14. Awww thank you guys I really appreciate
      Thank you so much πŸ’“ πŸ’— πŸ’› 8

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  7. Heartbreak oo

    I placed love above everything. I dated without expectations but stupid me then was so naive not to know that different people date for different reason.

    I didn't care for money even though I wasn't rich just okay with my 100k job. I just wanted true love and nothing else but the guy had other expectations. I gave him the little money I had since he was job hunting. When he was hungry I gave him food. I just wanted love and gave love. I had no expectation of him. Guys with money and good looks were chasing me as per fresh chic but I said lailai this guy gives me peace of mind and that is what makes me happy but I was wrong ke he was a pretender

    I became broke and he changed towards me. Even though it was a no sex relationship I didn't give my body but I gave my heart. Advice, prayer, encouragement just to show him I care but he was with me because of what he was getting. The moment I became broke and lost my job he started asking for sex I guess he started wondering what I was bringing to the table since money have finish 😭the nice guy was an act to make me fall for him. He wasn't nice at all I started seeing him for who he truly was. He gave me attitude and we just had to alert ways for my sanity. Days later he started dating a new rich chic😭

    πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ•Š

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    1. ChaiiiπŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™† he did not value what he had. Thank God he showed his true colours after your job loss. He would have pretended till both of you probably walked down the aisle.

      It is well with you. Nkirukamma

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    2. He will continue to port from one rich chic to another till he finds the rich chic that will spray pepper on his eyes.

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    3. Some men don't just have shame and self respect

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  8. Invested my ALL in a man in the name of marriage. Despite all l did he left me for another woman. He made me doubt the existence of God. I was BROKEN. One of the things l went through was we needed to pack out of the barracks to a better apartment l paid for. This man said he does not want his neighbours to know we are packing out. He refused to lift a pin from the house to the car. He refused me inviting someone to help us pack to avoid onlookers weighing our property from afar. I single handedly packed our loads from the room to the car. Go drop them in the new house. Come back again. I started packing from 6pm to 5am without resting for a second while dear husband was sleeping on the floor in the parlour Oh. what a terrible experience. I can't even imagine how l did all that.
    God thank you for seeing my through in all things

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    1. What kind of heartlessness is this? He preferred to watch you suffer rather than give his neighbours a wrong impression?

      Na wa for some men Sha...

      May God wipe your tears and give you the best.

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    2. When l thought l have heard it all. And his. God will see you through. May you find happiness in all you do. Amen

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    3. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    4. Such a heartless man, him leaving you is a blessing in disguise. Don’t dwell too much on it. You deserve better.

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  9. Raped... Still can't get over it. Flashes every damn time and this is over 10years ago.

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  10. Being raped.
    I'm thankful for strength to move on.

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  11. Getting scammed twice of all my savings. I cried so much at night that I was beginning to believe I wud hv HBP but thank God Didn't. I HV learnt the hard way

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  12. I'yet to get over the loss of one jean that was stolen when my room was burgled. I loved that jean a lot.

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    1. Lol πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜†πŸ˜. Your own better. More jeansπŸ‘– to your wardrobe.

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    2. If people looked like what they've been through, so many would walk with shoulders drooped from frustration, lack, hunger and severe suffering.

      May God remember us to bless us with financial abundance.

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    3. Miss Aboki oooπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ this is so funny. may more jeans will come dear.

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    5. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€ Awwww, more jeans to your wardrobe...

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    6. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣, Hannah you no go keep me abeg.

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    7. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ more clothes to your wardrobe

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  13. I was set up as a fresher, yr1. A friend who slept over left a wrist watch in my room at school. My room mate drew my attention to it, told her d babe will come back. I called her, she said I should bring it to class which I did. After lecture, as we stepped out, her bf walked up to me n said should return his watch which i "stole" to him...haaaaa aye mi...my jaw dropped, did I visit u? How did I steal it? . I said you dey craze with enof ginger in me. He held my hand n demanded his watch, I said I dont have ur watch, I only have a watch which sharr ur gf left in my room, he said nooo sharon said i took it, I now brought out d watch n he said ahhaaaaa this is it...olΓ©....

    I couldn't cry, I screamed n ask her to tell her bf the truth, this mgbada of a friend went deaf n dumb, I held her down n pressed her cheek, did babe fought me, haaa my roommate added voice, boy! I felt like purging, my credibility was at stake, I refused to let her go until school security stepped in n threatened us with expulsion, na there she talk true...but fam...d damage was done, despite printing d truth in d school gazzette, I stopped school, my parents asked me to come home, I pack up n left that state n got admission afresh into another school. That's how I lost a year. I still keep tabs on sharr, she apologised, we moved on. She dey US now😁 n sends me wrist watches every year minus this year, I dey sell am. But babe, I haven't forgotten,Incase u read sdk.

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    1. BB dear, sorry about the incident.Thank God you cleared your name before leaving that school.it's well.Take your time and heal at your own pace.cheers

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    2. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—❤

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  14. After youth service. I bought so many food stuffs and other things for my parents and siblings because l served in the north. I also bought 8 pieces of Nigerian Wax for all my aunts in the village. My father invited his brother to show them all l bought for them(my parents and siblings). This singular act caused a lot of problems for me. Its from this issue l knew jealousy is bigger than witchcraft. Please parents when your children gift you things. Please thank them and let it end their. Most people are not happy that your children have you in mind.

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  15. First is losing my mom despite spending alot on diabetes.πŸ•―πŸ•―

    Second is losing my pregnancy πŸ•―πŸ•―

    Cant wait to be a mother.

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    1. So sorry for your loss.you will surely testify.

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    2. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    3. Comforts to you and baby dust...

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    4. You will soon dearie. May God continue to comfort you over your mumπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  16. Mine is the loss of my parents , 13 years apart. Mum left us first. She was only 48 years. I still remember out last phone conversation, her words to me ( Adaeze, kpe bere Mu ekpere na Mu Amara na Mu aga adighi kwa na oria) .I prayed, cried and asked God to spare her life but still she couldn’t make It. The worst part of it was that I was not around when she died. They say with time it gets better but it doesn’t. Dad’s own was expected because he was sick for a long time and I am that I visited him and said my good bye before he died. Rest on mum and Dad , till we meet again.πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”

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    1. Sorry for your loss.
      In my case, I loss my mum and dad in less than one year. I almost went crazy. I was just a young teenager. I n fact, I lived in denial for years. I just recently started coming to terms with their death.

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    2. It is well dearπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    3. So sorry Sally. They 're in a better place now

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    4. It's well Sally and Anon...

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    5. May their souls continue to rest in peace.πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  17. In the course of not putting my eggs in one basket while I was single, I met a guy on my way from work one day and he started professing love, he claimed to work with LASG, I've forgotten the ministry. We started seeing and after some weeks,guy man came with some documents and started telling stories of how his mother has been sick that he made use of official money to treat his mom blah blah blah, I fell for his gimmicks and lost my money to this scammer that called himself Tunde. The painful part of the whole thing is that the money is more than my two months salary then, I actually borrowed the money from my colleague, and his phone wasn't going through again since that day. I later saw him with another lady in the same area I first met him.

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  18. losing myself.i don't want to go into details, and the death of my two sibling.

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  19. I have lost a lot of things but losing my dad is the worst of them all

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  20. My parents separation since 1997 till date. My ex father is a demon, I am 34 years now. Very irresponsible scally wag. No care or concern of any kind. Thank God, I graduated from the university, I have a thriving business, my siblings are graduates too with my bros working in an oil servicing firm and this modafu^ker wants to come back with pride sef.
    I got no time for baggage. He's got 2 more wives and 9 other children don't know if he has more.
    Telling us to move on as if it's easy and so proud. I've got no time for this human being.
    I can't type all Sha. It was a heart breaking experience. We move
    #Enddeadbeatdads

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  21. Loosing my mum is like a bad dream I wish to wake up from

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  22. Loosing my mum😭

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  23. I was betrayed my first year of uni. I was a very well behaved and intelligent girl while at home. I was keep friends but i don't miss school or parry like my friends then. I do follow with brain, got admission to uni with very high jamb score. So i guess envy crept in but that i wasn't smart enough to notice.

    Anyway my first year was so difficult like most people can affirm to, but my envious friends took it as an advantage.
    They came to our face me i slap u compound and started saying i went to school to do prostitution and i got HIV. I don't blame them i was size 16 then only my first semester i got to almost size 8. Omo i was starving trekking and stressing.

    The most painful thing was my parents failed me in all this, they didn't know i was even still a virgin. How would they know when its forbidden to discuss sex education with your kids. They even stopped sending me feeding money i had to beg, not knowing the rumour was the problem. Stella it wws so painful because i was understanding that things was difficult for them reason why they didn't send me money.

    I am crying typing this. How i hsd to beg my lodge mates for food even if its one indomie to survive.
    Only to get back during break and the ehole compound people started singing pretender always carry diseases.
    They all never believe i was still a virgin because its not normal for 20 something year old growing up in AJ to be one at that age.
    I never told anyone because i know they would try to convince me to start having sex like them. Reading mills and boom makes me give them gist that they think its real.

    Stella i was broken, my parents opened their mouth and told me that was the reason they didn't send me upkeep as usual. Stella they didn't even tell me what the rumour was about sex, until i was about going snd my distant cousin told me.
    I am so sad to say my parents failed me. That day all the intelligence in me died. I struggled to keep this sadness away, this betrayal and the hurt still hunt me. I just don't know hoe i survived. I finally left the school with a 2.2. Which is below my intellectual capacity. Saying this i hope i will get the closure i need. This happened sinve 2008 but i am still hurting because i didn't concentrate in school and i went to school and had sex with the first idiot that said how are you. And i am not anon i need to heal i think i really need a professional to talk to.
    Its really not going away forgive my typos

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    1. It is well with u dear and I pray u get the closure u seek..I can relate with what u are feeling.e-hugs

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    2. Your parents went too far. They should have heard from you first before stopping your allowance. I think you need a therapist to help you find closure. African parents should stop being too strict on their children. I am a mother with a teenager who tells me everything. She even told about having a crush on a boy in her class, asking me if it’s allowed. I did not scold her nor shout at her., I calmly explained to her that she is too young to think like that. She has a phone which I monitor and she doesn’t feel bad about it. Being a parent doesn’t mean your children should be terrified of you.

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    3. Eyaa,chai.Lady B please try to forgive your parents so you can be lifted of this burden.Remember unforgiveness on its own is a very big burden,so forgive their ignorance. I believe they lack that part of exposure to have discussed with you as their daughter instead of believing on hear say.

      Try to forgive and see how light your body and inner mind will be transformed positively.

      May God heal evry broken part of your life and restore happiness to you,in Jesus name Amen.

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    4. This got me teary, so sorry dear. Parents need to do better with their children.

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    5. This is just awful, sorry ladybird.

      Like i don't get it, how can someone just cook up horrible stories to tarnish someone's image? The heart of man is desperately wicked abeg.

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    6. It's well my dear. When lack of trust comes from the most loved, it breaks one down...

      A clear case of wrong parenting having negative effect on the children...

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    7. This is so horrible! So sorry about this dearie. I hope you find someone to talk to...but most of all talk to God, He alone can heal you completely, help you move forward and still create an amazing future for youπŸ€—πŸ€—❤

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  24. The loss of my dad
    It been a year and six month
    Some days are fine some days are hard
    I'm yet to get over it but I'm learning to live with it



    Jums

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    1. Sorry for the loss. May his soul continue to rest in peace.

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    2. May God continue to strengthen you dearπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  25. PS its not even the lies that broke me. Its my parents failing me when i needed them most.

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    1. Sorry sis
      Forgive yourself.
      It will end in praise

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    2. Don't give them the chance to mess up your whole life. You need to seek professional help and I believe you will be better when you do. It hurts when the people you hold in high esteem betray you, but you need to understand that they can't reason beyond their intellectual capacity. Also, prayer works.

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  26. Loosing my job.The last eight months, it can only be God.

    Lovelace.

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    1. Its well with you dear. Something better will comeπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  27. A company, I joined when they started and nobody knew their left and right, I was begged to leave my job at the city to come help them build the one in a semi city with better prospects, I didn't want to go in the first place but when I was offered the head of a department, I went in order to beef up my CV but after toiling day and night and even working during the weekends to be sure the place stands head to head with other firm in that profession,a new manager came and used his position to frustrate me out of the job because I refused to play ball to his demonic demands,I left because the man made me miserable at work and threatened people that are close to me thereby turning them to my enemies!
    I left this man told the management nonsense and they wrote a termination letter that he wanted to foist on me but I told him,Oga I sacked myself so save your sack letter.He took it upon himself to make sure that nobody employs me in that industry in the city and state by going to every office he knows their manager to scandalise me,for good two years I couldn't get a job in that industry until someone told me that "his boss said he would have given me a job but that my former manager told him, long time ago about me that I am difficult to work with and that I will push to overthrow him with my woman power because I almost did with him"
    I went home cried,for a man I have not really opened my mouth to say what he did to me to be going up and down to castigate me really made me to tell anybody that cares to listen how horrible a "Reverend" he is,yes he is an Anglican Priest,I feel like calling him out but I leave him to God because God is seriously dealing with him now because they have sacked him as well!
    Since then,it hasn't been easy with me but I thank God.

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    1. So so sorry dear,I pray to God to better your life in anywhere it's lacking.May God grant all your heart desires amen.

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    2. This is so sad. God will favour and bless you more.

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    3. Some people are just terrible.

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    4. He will definitely meet his Waterloo. Wishing you all the best.

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    5. May God easy your affairs, aameen

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    6. Thanks guys, I feel your concerns and I say it shall be well with all of us!

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  28. Not having the job I work so damn hard for, simply because I was not from the State it still hurt no matter how many years as gone by.

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  29. My "friend" whom I dined and wined together came to court to testify against me in favour of her landlord who let his dog on me and left me to death without paying a dime in the hospital for my treatment!

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  30. Mine is losing my eldest brother. It's been 11years. But it still feels like yesterday. He was such a kind and loving bro. May his soul continue to rest in perfect peace.

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  31. First losing my kid brother, cant get over it,not easy.
    The pain is out of this worldπŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”

    Loosing my job

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    1. Sorry for your loss Stella.πŸ™

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    2. So sorry for your loss SM baibayy...May God continue to strengthen you dearπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    3. Thanks umunne m❤❤❤❤❤❤

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  32. December 1st 2017 it was a public holiday. I went to a friend house to charge my phone and also to watch TV less than10mins after I came Sars came and bursted the house they took everybody to there station and I ended spending my whole weekend from Friday afternoon till Monday noon for doing nothing. I will never forget that day in my life. Sars cell is the worst place to ever been in life.

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  33. Losing my dad. It's been 2 and a half years but I still think about him everyday and cry. Will the pain ever go away? I was always a daddy's girl being the only daughter and last born and just 2 months before I had my daughter that was supposed to be his first grandchild, he had a bleeding emergency while away from home on a work trip and died due to Nigerian hospital time wastage and negligence. It still hurts so much because it was an avoidable death.I miss you everyday daddy and cant even bring myself to delete your number from my phone. Rest easy Pops.

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    1. If crying will help you, please do because I cry in private when the pain gets too much. It is well. RIP to you Dad.

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    2. May God continue to strengthen you dear. So sorry about your lossπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  34. I was betrayed, he was just a pretender,I was naive and I blame myself.After I got pregnant he promised to be there for me,even proposing marriage to wipe the shame from me,only for him to change his mind after sometime, spoilt my name,abandoned me,now a single mom with no source of income still depending on my mum,kai,God bless you mummy.I know God has forgiven me of every sin and mistakes and He will surely restore all my lost years.

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    1. Oh yes He has! You best days are yet ahead dearie. Keep forging ahead!πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    2. God will uplift you beyond your imagination. He never fails and he is able.

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  35. Losing my dad in 2013 is the worst thing that ever happened to me. I was talking to him on Thursday on how I miss him and how some things would have been different if he was here. I like to think he hears me, it helps me a lot. I began to really see people for who they were. The mask fell off all their faces. His death taught me many lessons to last a lifetime. I still miss him and wish he was still here but God knows best.

    The second worst thing is being betrayed by a family member to an outsider. I used to hear of such never knew I'd have a personal experience on it.

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    1. May God grant him eternal rest.

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    2. May God continue to strengthen you dear. So sorry about your lossπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  36. Hmmmmm, finding out I'm HIV positive 10years ago, I almost committed suicide if not for my God given husband

    Then nor been able to get a job, anytime hubby is saving for me to start something another thing will come up.

    But on a brighter side, I've never fallen sick ,and I told God I will see the end of this disease, please do not scroll by without a prayer for my husband, he's never used this against me, and he's always assuring me of his love, so caring ,always standing by me,I pray to get a job to ease him

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    1. Oh dear,may God bless your hubby abundantly, I pray For strenght for you to carry on, amen.

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    2. Aww honey πŸ₯³πŸ₯°♥️❤️πŸ˜πŸ’ž God bless your husband really good. He's one of a kind. May God keep you in perfect health and grant you your heart's desires.

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    3. Your husband is a rare gem. May the love that you both share continues till eternity and may God grant you all that your heart desires.

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    4. God bless your hubby abundantly

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    5. Rare husband, the lifter of her head. No sorrow, no shame, no sadness, no sudden death will ever be upon you. Your glory days have just begun. God bless you both in love. Amen

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    6. May God bless and always provide for your hubby.To you I pray you keep enjoying good health.

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    7. God bless your husband...

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  37. I can’t really explain it but I had always ask why I was born into a family that hates me no matter how hard I try to be my best to them. The last event was when I arrived at UK to work as a Nanny since I alive children(been a children Teacher in LFC for 10years now). Arrived at Uk then my Madam who lives in Northern Ireland while I live with her boys and husband in Durham(her husband is always on night shit)so No he didn’t have any interest in me but supported his wife to emotionally abuse me each time she comes to visit and worst she always calls my family for support. My family wouldn’t hear me out instead they will call me back and start insulting me(I wanted to return back home but March virus started). I couldn’t understand why she wasn’t even happy with me because her boys love me(they will always tell her to leave me alone because I will withdraw from her boys when she starts insulting me.
    July she send me back home through Contour, I had to pass the forest to Nigeria. My Aunt in US called my family to talk to them about me.
    Now am in Nigeria, my family is all sorry but I don’t feel I can trust them anymore. I don’t call anyone, am all alone, wondering what next. Is been a painful experience to know that the people you love, don’t have your back. No more hurt

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    1. Wipe your tears and believe that the best days are coming.

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    2. Chineke. Sent you back home just like that,oh very sorry o.May God give you closure

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    3. It is well. I pray things work out well for you.

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    4. May God continue to strengthen you dear.πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    5. ..you didn't quite articulate what happen between you ..I have heard so may stories from both sides ...the lady who braids my hair now came as a nanny too but was somuch liked by her madam that she filed papers for her and she finally left the job when the kids were older and is presently making so much money from home service braids ..some of you not all are too emotional instead of keeping your eyes on the bigger picture you will spend time on small quarrels look at that now ,ending you back in this hard times ..

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  38. May 27,2016....I was involved in an accident that almost took my life.Thank God for sparing my life,but I lost some of my teeth as a result of the accident 😒.It's an experience I'll never forget in a hurry......hmmm it is well.

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  39. year 2014 October 16 when i lost my mum to the cold hands of death would be the most painful experience i would never forget in a hurry.

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  40. I worked tirelessly with a man who was infamous for always breaking promises.He would owe salaries but dole money to outsiders.He would at times pay half salary but dashed outsiders 3 times ur salaries. It got to a point that he started involving his siblings in the matters of the company. The siblings would call you and lambasted you as if they were your bosses. I used to hear about these nonsense until one of them tried to be rude to me. I happily insulted her and was sure to send her back to her brother. Less than a month later the brother sent me a note that he has decided to reduce my salary because of economic woes. I laughed, I got the message and I resigned make them carry their company go. Unfortunately, the company is in limbo. It was however painful because I put in a lot of efforts and risks in that organization trying not to let it collapse. Laughs. But unfortunately , the man's greed collapsed the company. This is someone that had done many works for head of state, international agencies, federal parastatals etc before o.

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    1. I regret not marrying my ex despite his pleas after I caught him sleeping with my best friend now I am married to a man that is not financially bouyant while my ex is now rich enjoying his life but still sleeps around

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    2. I regret not marrying my ex despite his pleas after I caught him sleeping with my best friend now I am married to a man that is not financially bouyant while my ex is now rich enjoying his life but still sleeps around

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  41. Lossing my mum is the most painful experience of my life,she wasn't Sick for even a day....she was just laughing because my sister said something funny sunddenly she started coughing,my sister went to bring her water before we said jack she was struggling to breathe,we rushed her to the hospital and within 6mins on arrival she gave up...just like that😞😷

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    1. May God continue to strengthen you dear. So sorry about your lossπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  42. Marrying a man who I thought loved me but he married me for my money. Once I signed that dotted line, he cut my family off, psychologically, physically and emotionally abused me and tried to suck me dry financially. Once that avenue dried up, he ignored me and our unborn child.
    Had I known, I would have married for money instead of love.
    Well, I am on to the next.

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  43. The death of my loving dad was a blow to me in 2016. He was my source of strength when i cant handle it. I lost one of my twin boys in 2017 i had hbp when i was pregnant with them and i was somehow careless with my hbp and had STROKE dis year. lost our accommdation in d town and move down to village but sometimes i cry,sometimes angry with myself for nt planning my life but in all i say thank you JESUS

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