OMG OMG Look at her face........JESUS!!!
In a post and delete video on IG, she said
"They think I'm crazy but I'm not, this video is to let the world know, that I'm done with the marriage, I don't have a lot to prove that I'm done with him but I'm done, I'm done! I'm leaving with my life finally, I can't say a lot now but you will hear my story"
It's not a shocker naw. See how she drastically changed for the worse. When a woman changes like that, know that something is seriously wrong
ReplyDeleteBut someone said in the comment section that their was trouble in paradise. Footlocker to her. Better to be alive and sane,than in a marriage and be miserable.
DeleteThe moment she talked about being awakened, I knew she was going to opt out of the marriage. Everything will work for her good on the long run. I wish her the best.
DeleteBTW, she's fine! She's just realizing her path and nothing more. Guys let her be
I knew it, I knew that something was off!!
DeleteAll of a sudden, she changed drastically. Not as if she was sick.
Ohh my God, I didn't see this coming. 😲😱🤯
If she truly slept with her sister's man and also slept around while pregnant as I've been hearing then this might be karma.
Delete@Anon 11:22, you have said it all
DeleteBig sigh!
ReplyDeleteOmg beautiful chacha.
DeleteAll will be well🙏
Big sigh!
ReplyDeleteIt is well
Wow
It's so sad.. I really like cha cha.. This news just spoilt my day
DeleteChai 😣😣😣
DeleteNa wa ooh,God help us.
ReplyDeleteHaaaa what again? I thought this marriage was the real deal o. I mean it tick the boxes people have been hammering on.
DeleteHe was age appropriate, not rich, they had a simple wedding at a time when she was a new star. She settled down and had 3 children. So what again? She didn’t go chasing private jet lifestyle yet this? Haaaaaa why now?
Obara Jesus🙆🙆 what is going on with marriage tho? Dear Lord have mercy on us! Wishing her strength and light🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteSomething unsettling abt her hubby second to last post on IG. D lady makes weird comments...my mayor
DeleteObara Jesus🙆🙆 what is going on with marriage tho? Dear Lord have mercy on us! Wishing her strength and light🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteWhat is going on is that most women are now wiser and undersntd that marriage is not do or die affair now,that they can still live fully without a man.Men have been like this before ,our mothers accepted their ways for peace to reign and for them to still answer Mrs due to our African culture, but these days ,most women have refused to be suffering and smiling in the name to answer Mrs.
DeleteSo Apt @lily Ambrose.
DeleteHolding men to the same standards women have had to live by.
@ Lily, well said. Most of our mothers, grandmothers and great mothers endured a lot in marriage. A lot of them were not happy but stayed for the kids and culture demands.
DeleteThats it my people.
DeleteAhhhhhhhhhhh
ReplyDeleteI think this is a joke...
ReplyDeleteNever!You can't joke with something like this naw
DeleteHmmm,na real wa!
ReplyDeleteThis comment has been removed by the author.
ReplyDeleteChai, Sapphire, you get sense no be small!
DeleteHmmmmmn, seems you know alot
DeleteYou’re right abeg. She disappeared overnight even while present, babe was looking like a shadow of herself.
DeleteYou don’t look like that when happy.
And she has deleted the post!!
ReplyDeleteI hope her colleagues reach out to her and help her out of there!! It's not a do or die affair..... I wonder who made it so
The fire brand holiness preacher's here, say na do dr die affair for marriage, Religion made it so ooo
DeleteAbeg leave religion out of the matter. U've not even heard what caused their break up. There are so ppl following those religious tenets u speak of, that have been enjoying their marriages for decades. Try and get better understanding about how something works first before u get into attack mode.
DeleteSo many marriages are going thru a lot,but I’m glad she had the courage to leave without fear of what people will say,may God heal them both.amen🙏
ReplyDeleteThis is sad. What happened? 😥
ReplyDeleteOh God
ReplyDeleteComfort and healings to all going through marriage ishes. God Almighty give you all solace.
ReplyDeleteWhen you marry, just know your battle has increased in triple folds. Don't stop praying for your marriage. Sow and sacrifice so that the devil will not break the edge.
Many edges are being broken and the devil majestically entered.
It is well with you chacha
"hedge"
DeleteWhat happen between them. I hope it's not abuse. Someone should tell me it's a joke
ReplyDeleteHmmm, this thing called marriage na God to,you just have to involve him from the onset,even before courtship,allow God lead you,no perfect marriage but with two genuinely God fearing people,bliss is sure,now that's my story..Amen
ReplyDeleteThanx for that. Well said.
DeleteChacha hasnt be looking good lately. I wish her well.
ReplyDeleteYeah something has just been off with her.
DeleteEver since she got married, She went from being the extremely beautiful no nonsense sexy hot chic to something i can't explain. God be with her.
DeleteBut she denied the rumor then and called people names. Claiming that she simply stopped doing makeups and posted a walk out photos
DeleteDomestic violence will make you a shadow of yourself .
DeleteI pray she gets help and recovers 🦋
bitch fan emmanuel, nobody cares if she said that so run along now with your bitter soul. chacha it is well with you, you will come out stronger
DeleteOmg.... What's all these tori olorun 🙄😳😏
ReplyDeleteI don't even understand marriage these days ,may God help me to bring up my son's not only my daughter's in the right way .
ReplyDeleteThis! Amen.
DeleteThis is sad to read. May God heal all parties. Shine again beautiful woman
ReplyDeleteIt is sad and unfortunate to hear that.
ReplyDeleteBut the people I pity most are those girls that are
deceived by "happy couple pictures" that these Nollyladies post
on social media, like the one in this post. I pity those who believe
everything the read and see on social media and think that their lives
must be like "these."
Is anyone still doubting that Nollywood celeb culture is a scam?
I have one in my family and I know exactly what I am typing here, compared
to what she posts on social media. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
That's serious...hmmmm!!
DeleteWhat has Nollywoood got to do with her marriage crashing?
DeleteShe doesn't even act again.
The one you have you in your family is now a yardstick?
Marriages crash everyday,the difference is they are in the limelight so we hear what is going on In their lives.
Finally, when 'we' you have sense bikonu?
@11:58
Deletepoint of correction,
They put out their (fake) life events for us to see.
If it is only their acting that we see, we won't be
bothered about "crashing marriages"
Please can you give me sense so that I will have it?
😊😊😊😊
11:36/58, I love the way u write.
Deletepls shut up, which fake life....she post family pictures like eerybody else so which one is fake life..just commenting rubbish..what is celeb culture is a scam...all celebrities home abroad post about their lifes and we still get to hear the bad news so what is a scam? if they hae quarells as a couple they should post ideos of the quarells abi? celeb or no celeb we all put out nice things for people to see
DeleteHmm
ReplyDeleteHer weight loss and always looking unkept shows that all is not well with her . This girl use to look so pretty without much make up. See what marriage has done to her. I pray they don’t convince her to stay back with Austin. Parents should stop encouraging their daughter to remain in abusive relationship because of what people will say or the kids.
ReplyDeleteI wish you well chacha .
Chacha used to be such a beauty and a hotty, Look what bad marriage did to her. Instead of becoming the best version of herself after marriage,It seemed as if though her lights and shine was Dimmed. Ladies let's be careful and love ourselves more no matter what.
DeleteI hope you got to keep your kids sha🙏
ReplyDeleteYou can easily guess the problem. He probably cheated and kept cheating, also left the financial responsibility on her shoulders. When she complains, he hits her. These are the major problems in Nigerian marriages and honestly, women are tired. We are not our mothers.
ReplyDeleteDoubleBloom
Gbam
DeleteThis comment made me sad. I dont even want to imagine what she's been going through
DeleteWhen you marry your divine partner,your best friend,you glow,chacha lost her glow a long time ago,don't know why I have always felt she has been stiffled in her marriage,the man looks mean shaa but that doesn't count,I am tired of hearing marriages pack up ,is this endtime or what?!so long as GOD isn't involved forget it,it's just a question of time
ReplyDelete😢😢 She sure lost that glow early.
DeleteOh dear, very sad. I hope you guys work through your issues If It is not DV. If it is, run run run!!! They never change.
ReplyDeleteJesus is lord!!!Inasmuch as i hate seeing marriages fall apart,if life is at stake,don't think twice about leaving.Some bvs said it sometime last year,i guess there's no smoke without a fire,i really loved her family,so sad😔😔😔.
ReplyDeleteThis is painful but I do not blame a person either woman or man for leaving their marriages,they wear the shoe and know where it hurts..
ReplyDeleteWishing you the best Cha Cha,I remember one celeb replied one of her photos those days and told her plainly dat all isn’t well but no one paid the lady any attention cos it sounded like a bad belle something .
Na now we go know her real weight,whether she’s doing wieghtloss or Na depression
In all,I wish you well going forward
Na depression na🙄🙄
DeleteI went through that stage of feeling worthless. I know exactly what happened to her🙏
Funny enough,my own's name is Austin.
When someone maltreats you so much and manipulates you sooo much you begin to see yourself as the problem...asking yourself oohh there must be something I'm doing wrong 🤣🤣chei but I survived...I'm still surviving!!
I'm stronger now!
I'm a good girl that can make a good man bless God that he met me😁
Please singles look well🙏
Don't ever be in a haste!!
Don't succumb to parental or societal pressure!!
Let every step be your conscious decision 😜🙂😅
It's well dearies😘😘🥰😋
Awwww 11:54, Thank God for you, you are more than a conquerer.e-hugs😘😘
DeleteThank God I dodged Austin. A month after introduction I started seeing signs only my family members saw before me. Manipulation is their first name followed by Austin. I jump and pass.
Delete11:54, you are exceptionally great. Don't let anybody take away your positivity. Keep being strong.
DeleteHa! Ha! Ha!.
ReplyDeleteI'm in shock.
She became a ghost of herself so suddenly, it was obvious something wasn't right. When a marriage begins to drain you & leave you in a terrible state as compared to when you were single, it's best to walk. It doesn't really matter who is the leech or cancer to the marriage, they are simply not good for each other and before life is lost, the one being drained should RUN! It's not a do or die. I wish her all the best. Let her do what is best for herself & her kids. She doesn't owe us any explanation.
ReplyDeleteVery true, I kept on hoping that with time he will realized that am not that type of person, 18yrs of marriage 14yrs of constantly alleging am cheating, constantly asking me to move and at the same time begging he loves me. I have done everything humanly possible to make this man happy from closing my business to not having any friend come to visit, now I cant even visit any friend with him calling me names. 2019 it's done on me that am not really the problem but he is hes own worst enemy, no trust possessive controlling, feeling his words cant get through to me again, he now turn to my children to tell them how am cheating, how I dont want to respect him, how he pick me from Street now I dont respect him. Am laughing because he can better me with words I will overlook and face my front but when you in anyway try to turn my kids against me then I will fight with everything in me. Now we live like neighbours till further notice.
Deletewhat are you still doing there? you want to waste your youth away till further notice? life is to be enjoyed not suffering and smiling.
DeleteI wish her well in her next endeavors.i can never be a fan of toxic marriage/ relationship,flee if you find yourself in one.
ReplyDeleteShe probably stopped making up when she did on his dictates or probably just to please him.
ReplyDeletePlease people, take your time to get married. Pick a partner that complements you, that you are friends with, that you share values and goals with, that you are honest with, that supports you to get better each day and vice versa.
ReplyDeleteDon't give yourself deadline of I'm almost 30, let me marry this one that seems serious or see everyone around getting married and start tensioning yourself or say I need to get to this next goal let me get marriage out of the way. Wait for the right person.
Marriage is hard enough with the right person, don't give yourself double wahala by going into it with just anyone.
Finally don't be afraid of all the marriages going wrong, your own can be different
See eeh, all that you wrote is okay, but my dear Friend, Life can happen, there's no manual-fit-all for relationship/marriage!!
DeleteI am 7years in marriage, but I can tell you, I am still learning and unlearning stuff.
I feel bad hearing this because I know her Charity, socially, our kids attend same school. She seems like a sweet soul.
She has a good support system (parents) she will be okay.
Wishing her lots of love and strength.
thanks for this
DeleteNo wonder you changed totally Chachaa. Now I get it. What bad marriage can do to a woman,chai.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you don't get.
DeleteYou can only imagine
I wish her well. This is just sad to read.
ReplyDeleteHmmm! I knew something was off when she drastically went "natural" condeming make up and filters.
ReplyDeleteIt's well with her.
ChaCha, I shall be praying for you.
ReplyDeleteThis is a sad revelation and shocker.
Anyway, the devil battles marriage union as it threatens his peace.
May you find happiness for yourself and kids. I'm so sorry for whatever pain you're going through.
Talented, intelligent, beautiful ChaCha. ❤️❤️
Oh dear, what could be the reason? it is well with you Chacha. i admire your marriage so much without knowing something was going on behind close door.
ReplyDeleteWell, na you wear the shoe and na you kuku know where e dey pepper you.
Na wao!
stella please investigate o, they said she is going crazy right now in Asaba o that ambulance has come to carry her and it has to be jazz or something
ReplyDeleteUna don start..
DeleteBeing in a bad marriage can make someone insane!...
Austin that can fuck anything..
Without condom sef..
Let her leave!..
He hit her too claiming she sees other men..
Stupid men that cant take what they dish out!...
Oh dear, my prayers are with her.
DeleteBaby girl run don't stay if it's working
ReplyDeleteWhy are you shouting OMG look at her face???? Her face at its worst still looks better than yours.
ReplyDeleteGod punish u Austin..woman beater and a leech.
DeleteDont be stupid this afternoon! Are you alright! Come stop that nasty talk! Bitter leaf somebody.
Delete12:27 show your own face na. Chicken liver.
DeleteYou must be thinking with your anus and not your brain (assuming you have one, that is). "See her face" clearly means she has never looked this bad. It's not from a bad place, it's not meant for comparison with anyone else.
DeleteStop being so callous and stupid unless of course that's just how you are.
For this one mind naw,you don insult Stella 🤣🤣
DeleteIt's like you're new here🤪
Stella that has thought Soo many of us self confidence and self love🤣🤣🤣
As l have learnt over the years how good it is to love yourself..no insult de penetrate inside me again ooohh
Anon 12:27...just love yourself and you will be fine🤗🤗😘
See this one. You feel that you've insulted right? You need help.
DeleteIt is well with her
ReplyDeleteMarriage is hard! My husband is very manipulating and cunning. I saw him with a lady he wanted to date before she got married in his car. I asked him why he should be driving the lady in question while his stuff are there to take the lady around till they get a better apartment for her. The man changed the whole story against me, and starting insulting me, telling me how l like associating with men. How a pastor romanced me in his house.
ReplyDeleteNote: He reported me to the pastor when we had issues, and the pastor came to take advantage of a fine woman. I reported the said pastor to him, and all the men that asks me out in daily basis. I thought, he will be happy with the way l disclose my life to him but l was wrong.
The man called me different names this morning why trying to dodge the question of why carrying the woman in your SUV the whole day.
The most painful part was when he insulted my over my Certificate. That l am the same level with him in life with no qualifications, just WAEC. Meanwhile, l have OND the year before l married him. Got a job and was earning 50k per month, but l choose to carry the family for one year, cause he was not doing tangible thing. I dropped my education, just to hold the family down. This is my 7years with him. There was a time he beat me to collapse, and thank God for neighbours who came and saved me. My parents came the next day, and almost locked him up.
My family wanted me to leave him, cause he is always bitter and angry towards me.
For 7years of marriage no issue, l just became pregnant. He is still the same person without pity.
I understand what ChaCha is passing through. There are sometimes, he will be insulting me,and my sister will start crying. He made me to see myself as a worthless fellow, a saddist. Infact, l am just calculating my time.
I cannot kill myself over marriage.
Oh God,may God come through for you Amarachi. I wish you safe delivery
DeleteAnon 12:31, then leave!! Can't you see the man dosent want the marriage anymore?
DeleteWhy did you even get pregnant for such a human being who treats you like rag??
You sound helpers and hopeless!!
Start making plans to vacate that marriage before you go insane or he kills you!!
I feel so sad, reading this! Ehugs
Sorry to know what you are passing through. Is there anyway you can leave that marriage and sort yourself out? You don't have to stay with him until you find your feet.
DeleteMay God Almighty show mercy and give you peace.
You really need to move out whether pregnant or not. Not good for your state of being.
Prayers are with you my dear
What stupid time are you calculating? Are you Ok? You want to have and bring a child up in this kind of toxic environment. You don’t love yourself at all, it’s your baby I feel bad for.
DeleteLet the beautiful baby growing inside of you keep you strong and powerful to come out a winner🤗😘🙏
DeleteAmarachi with a C, I hope you are not as stupid as your story sounds?
DeleteHe beat you into a state of unconsciousness, your parents came the following day and "almost locked him up". They begged you to leave but since you were yet to achieve your aim which is, to cause them grief/the pains of loosing a child.
Keep bidding your time. I wish you whatever you wish yourself...
Sister! What are you still doing with him, you should have seized the moment and walked away before baby came. Safe delivery. It's well
DeleteAnno your parents knows more than you but mba you are doing Indaboski we die here
DeleteKudos
I have made plans, and will soon vamoose. Thanks for your advice.
DeleteAmarachi you’re one of the problems in the society. In spite of everything you’ve Said, you expect us to feel pity ? Once that child is born, leaving becomes harder. You’ve had 7 years to wise up and you didn’t good luck
DeleteAmarachi you have not made any plans
DeleteShut up
You are a lazy woman and you will never leave
He was not bad when you guys enjoy yourself in the bedroom
You got pregnant for a bad man?
Enjoy and keep fasting
Amarachi... I’m going to say the same thing other people have said, probably it will sink more, the more people say it.
DeleteLeave that toxicity you call marriage. You are married to yourself. Perhaps, your inability to conceive for six years was God giving you an opportunity to leave and restart your life on a clean slate but you stayed, for what reason exactly?
Your destiny is in your hands. You can’t even blame your husband because he has shown you who he is but you stay regardless
Guys calm down!
DeleteDidn't you read 'SUV'?
Didn't you see 'staff'?
Amarachi is enjoying the money, she prefers to cry in an SUV.
Amarachi, you don't have any plans to leave. If you wanted to leave you would have done so when you were still TTC. Laziness to go and hustle is what is holding you down. You thought a baby will change him. Keep enjoying my dear. I don't pity you sam sam
This is a big shocker to me. Their marriage seemed perfect to me. Now i know better not to envy anyone.
ReplyDeleteSomething was really off with her. She lost herself at some point, so it was all cos of her marriage. 7 years shared life gone like that. People that celebrate 30 to 40 years marriage how are they doing it.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad. I actually loved her then in movies after getting married she just started looking drained. My husband’s aim since we got married is to always make sure I and the kids look good to prevent side talks like he isn’t treating me well. There was a time I went on an extreme diet he told those close to me to talk sense into me.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm..... So far she's alive, all is well. You will shine again Cha cha....
ReplyDeleteShe went through post Partum depression and never recovered from it. It was a new phenomenon and the people she counted for support on could not understand. Depression when not handled properly can be detrimental. It was never abt the husband cheating etc. He too was going through this new phase not knowing what his wife was going through. Post partum depression is not talked about in our society but it is very real and dangerous. Even on set, she acts strange. I pray she gets the help she truly deserves
ReplyDeleteThis came to my mind too. It started when she had her last child. The symptoms were there. The husband should have opened up and help would have reached her. Please female Blog Visitors pay attention to your health after child birth. This condition is real and it is one of the reasons marriages are suffering. Seek help when you notice continuous melancholy. It is well.
DeleteIt is well with you Chacha🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteOh, not again! Chacha Eke the happy going bubbling girl.
ReplyDeleteShe was so beautiful and she suddenly started losing weight and looking unkempt most of the time, I thought maybe her career and children were getting overwhelmed, not knowing that Austin was the reason behind her new look.
I pray strength and courage upon her.
I read she has been sent to the hospital
PPD.
DeleteWhat! This is real shock,this is sad
ReplyDeleteI thought she is based in the US?
ReplyDeleteOh wow. God be with her.
ReplyDeleteOh Chacha, this is so sad
ReplyDeleteBvs talk am o I comot yan$h for una o. Opoor
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteEh ya
Life can be so unpredictable.
ReplyDeleteIt's jazz. She stepped on toes.
ReplyDeleteNa you’re toe she step on?abeg fly
DeleteExplain please
DeleteBig surprise, indeed! Life is truly a matter of prayer.
ReplyDeleteThis has been a rumour for so long. Whatever makes her happy..
ReplyDeleteHmmmm I'm shocked!
ReplyDeleteFirst its FFK's wife going crazy. Now Chacha? Somebody is doing jazz to mess up their minds!
ReplyDeleteThe fight for these men is real!!!
Damn! Be prayerful guys! This is not normal. Some people dey waka fpr una, una dey there dey do social media. Once you marry na prayer warrior you suppose turn to cos how can you fold your hands and somebody else is waka-ing in the bush to fake prophet to mess up your life??
This is terrible!
Regina going through same thing but she is acting to keep up with social media. Forget that mapiatea she is claiming is reason for her slimming down. Marriage is not easy. God come through for all.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad.I pray she gets all the help she needs.
ReplyDelete