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Friday, November 06, 2020

FRIDAY IHN

 Hailings.....The day is bright and sunny but cold and i am sending YOU some love and Sunshine.........


IHN will be back next week by God's Grace.....








IN HOUSE MEMO

*sideeyes @shooter gyal*

Is there anyone on this Blog who does not have biabia on their privates?
Please if you claim you don't have,then buy some cos we are all adults here and don't need anyone to tell anyone how to behave........

Shooter gyal you should be apologising to the person you cussed yesterday,its what anyone with a head on their shoulders should do......

And go for anger management classes and stop cussing out.......

This also goes for you all out there always cuss,you can have a healthy conversation with a few shut ups and ferk off but not curses.....

Being controversial in a negative way aint cool at all..
Being toxic is even worse........

I am sending you the love of God and the wisdom of solo



#StelllasSinglesMingles post loading at a December date close to you....will think of a day and announce...







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BIG BANTY GIST - PART ONE



I have always wanted to get married as early as I could hence every of my relationship was always a serious one with good intentions. I have never had any casual relationship just because I am an hopeless lover,very expressive with my feelings and always let my intentions known to any lady I am interested in,but I haven't been fortunate enough with any lady.


I will try not to sugarcoat my story but I will be very honest with everything that transpired even though I have about 2 to 3 bvs who actually knew of everything I am about to say.


I met this beautiful lady around August 2018 I approached her exchanged contact and we started talking but nothing happened we were just friends till December of that year when we started dating.


At that moment I just left where I worked for 9 years because of months of unpaid salaries and allowances to start something of my own with the experience I have in my field I said I would be able to thrive even though I knew it was going to be tough and difficult one.


I explained everything to her about my present situation and I also told her my intention was a very serious one and she also said she wanted something very serious that would lead to marriage. I told her it isn't a problem for me but marriage won't be feasible the following year 2019 not that I couldn't afford a wedding at that time but I was thinking about the aftermath if i we do this now it was going to affect our marriage and things would be hard I am a very practical person so I always think things through before taking a step.


She agreed to it and we started our love life but there was something i noticed about her,she couldn't comprehend things like when you tell her "this is a boy" you have to patiently analyse who a boy is to her before she would understand your point,it was difficult communicating with her because you would just have to explain and explain before she could grab anything and I would be thinking to myself but this girl told me she finished from the university.


Then she started pressuring about getting married.......remember we started dating December 2018 by January 2019 the pressure was crazy. I could remember towards the end of January her mom and her practically took me to various event centres to book for our wedding and I couldn't even say no but was just accepting whatever they say,at some point the mom will ask me if I have spoken to my parents about it I would tell her yes I have,while they were preparing for a massive wedding my parents did not know a single thing I was getting myself into because I couldn't just tell them I would be getting married to a lady I just met a month ago.


By February I started noticing her true colours.... can you believe a lady I want to get married to has never for once entered the kitchen to cook for me or say let me help with the cleaning of the house while i was cooking.

 I am a kind of guy who doesn't see cooking as a lady thing because I love to cook that is the only thing you can wake me up at the middle of the night to do and I will graciously do it but an intelligent lady should know what to do and when to do it because I believe in marriage equality and equity.


The only thing she does was always ''babe please make poundo yam and egusi with orisirisi'' or ''babe please I want fried rice and turkey'' I would happily do that without thinking twice.she has a business she runs, she has never for once get to the market to buy things for a way to show support.


Then by March the pressure to get married got so crazy that I had to call my mom that I would be getting married........

TO BE CONTINUED





Cant wait to read to the end.....
So you sabi cook egusi soup with orisirisi?And fried rice with turkey?please oh,when are you visiting me to cook for me?







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FROM A MAN WHO WORE HIS WIFE'S SHOES















This is so funny...I hope some will read this and also help their wives?E no easy at all!!!










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TEEJAYS CORNER


Growing up sometime around late 90's, there are some things that happened back then I still remember vividly as if it was just yesterday. One among them was a young boy who all of a sudden, started going insane.




We lived in the same building. The mother had brought food for him to eat and the next thing we saw him do was laughing and speaking incoherently. He lifted the food and placed on his head and everything poured on him. 


The mother rushed at him asking, "what's the problem?" The boy looked at her and asked "who are you?" then started laughing again, saying some strange things. At that point, the mother knew it wasn't funny anymore. She shouted, beckoning on neighbors to come to her rescue. 



Before you could say jack, his body were already soaked with Olive Oil with prayers fired from all angle in the living room by neighbors who believed it was a spell of madness cast by an enemy. The boy kept laughing and as well murmuring while they prayed.


Fortunately, a young lady who's a medical personnel living in the same compound came back. On hearing the shouts and prayers, went inside. After some minutes of observation, she tapped the mother aside and inquired from her what happened. 



After a brief explanation of what happened, she asked the mother if her son was any time sick recently. On the affirmative that her son has been sicked of malaria typhoid for some few days now but responding to drugs intake gotten from the pharmacy, was all the young lady needed to confirm her fear. "Madam, this is no spell but an effect of a malaria typhoid. Let's take him to the hospital before it get worse than this." Said the young lady.


The next day evening, the boy was discharged from the hospital after being treated of malaria typhoid. Normalcy was restored on his health and mental. With this, I came to the realization that, not all mental imbalance people we see roaming the street was as a result of hard drugs, weed intake or even spell. 


Some could be depression, shock of a tragic incidence or even untreated Malaria typhoid that got to the brain cell as we saw on that boy whose story I just shared.


Many years later, nothing of such has ever happen to him again even now he's married with kids. One thing I've been asking myself after many years is that, what if he was chained and taken to one church or ministry believing it was an enemy's spell on the family? Only God knows what would have happen to him. No doubt prayer is good but never substitute a known medical situation with prayer









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129 comments:

  1. It's Friday IHN 😊


    #ENDBADGOVERNANCE

    Call me 🤙

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    1. Hello from IB City...
      Thanks stella and blog PA for the data giveaway
      Well appreciated

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    2. Big Banty, this is really sad already. Why do bad things happen to good people? Please finish your story.

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    3. Ihn don land again with her big bumbum...enjoy the rest of the weekend you all ✌️

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    4. Stella please what happened to melody the runs geh? Has her story ended?

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    5. Teejay, what the boy had is called cerebral malaria. It affects the brain and makes the person act insane.

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  2. Hellloooo Paris Savanah and Essa. I saw your shout out. I'm good just not commenting regularly..

    May God preserve us beyond 2020.amen


    Kissssss and have a blessed weekend.

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  3. It's the sign out pic for me ❤️❤️

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  4. Good pm to y'all on here and do have a fun filled one today.Happy weekend,Beevees and of course,IHN rocks....🔥🔥💥💥 Trump lovers in Nigeria and the Biafrans that had a walk of shame for him,how market? The US of A under the Trump Administration has been a mess and Trump Jnr,you deserve to rot in jail tbvh

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  5. I love your sign off quote @ No revenge at all... move on and be happy.
    👌👌👌👌

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  6. Hello Everyone🙋🙋🙋🙋

    Thank you all for your prayers and good wishes,we are home and my sonshine is doing well.

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  8. Holla darlings❤️❤️

    I can't wait for the continuation of this Big Banty gist

    Sign out meme 👌👌

    Tee Jay ignorance is bliss🥴🥴

    Ciao 💋💋

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    1. Paris Savannah, please do you know the meaning of "ignorance is bliss"? How does that relate to Teejay's tale - just asking in peace? What is the bliss of ignorance in that circumstance? Or you meant to write "wisdom or enlightenment or knowledge is profitable?

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  9. Thank God the weekend is here. I need the rest biko.

    Good afternoon everyone.

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    1. Good afternoon to you...hope your day is going well?

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    2. My day is very well. Thanks @ giftmoesha

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  10. All these ikwerre landlords that will come and be disturbing someone for rent that is due in two months. I'm tired!
    Hallo Stella and everyone!

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  11. How can I reduce the heel of my shoe? Please help me the shoe is 4 inches and I want it yo be 3 inches

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    1. Bebe get tape rule then measure the inch you want then use a very big scissors to cut it then u good to go

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    2. Check out shoerevamp on IG

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    3. Pls you can use machete don't dash the shoe out you hear

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    4. 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 @ 14:39 you no well

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  12. Stella, don't mind my brother. He is the one who wrote that piece about assisting his wife take care of of their daughter.

    Even to change diapers, he doesn't know. To feed the daughter he doesn't know. To bath her be say na further mathematics you want him to do.

    But he is a great father and a veryovery funny one.

    I saw him writing yesterday and told his wife, the wife has been laughing since. Funny thing is that he will do the work till Sunday midnight.

    The wife wants to help out but I refuse her. We just want him to know that it's not easy taking care of a baby. Just as it's not easy going to work and coming too.

    Good thing is that he is learning and doing well now. Even laughing at us that he needs more kids to take care of.

    The wife and I are enjoying ourselves watching all the television series available. Life is good jare.

    He is my elder brother.

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    1. 😂🤣😂🤣😂 But he's learning

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    2. Enjoy jare 👋👋, women need to also relass and be taken kiaruf

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    3. Awww Good sister you are. May happiness not depart from your household.

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    4. You write like your brother.
      🥱

      I sha hate the way people sometimes denigrate stay-at-home mothers. Taking care of the home and your children is a valid contribution in a marriage.

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    5. See me smiling all through, its really thoughtful of him. Enjoy your leave jare

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  13. Yes!!!
    Move on and be happy.
    If your marriage don reach 10years,congratulations,its not easy being married

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  14. Heloooo IHN


    OAP ADA

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    1. How are you doing my love ❣️😍 hope good? xx

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    2. Am doing great, Work no let me see front well
      Thanks for flashing some love this way


      OAP ADA

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  15. @Big banty.. I dey queue to read your gist o, you must finish it by God's grace

    @the one week husband/househelp.. Lol 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 , now you see say e no easy.

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    1. Hey babe how's business ?


      Big Banty nice one , can't wait for the continuation , thanks for sharing i appreciate this.

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  16. Ihn don land ,gboza..heeee,come to think of it,new blog ID come yapa now,mind u,i nor say dem too much o..all new blog visitors are all welcome IJN.

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  17. You can’t change what’s behind you, but you can do something about what’s in front of you. God’s mercy is bigger than any mistake you’ve made. He can still get you to where you’re supposed to be. You have to do something important: forgive yourself. You have enough people in life against you; don’t be against yourself. Don’t go around thinking about everything you’ve done wrong. _Joel Osteen

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  18. Weldone Bigbanty, interesting read.

    Better husband well done ohh, you are absolutely right, tending to kids is not a small wahala..lol. God bless all our mothers..
    Good afternoon people,TGIF.. enjoy your weekend.

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  19. Good afternoon everyone.

    Mothers with babies that don't like drugs, please how do you cope o. She always throw up after giving her drugs

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    1. Hello, Sprinkle water on her face right after giving her the drugs, the splash of water will catch her off guard and make her forget that she wants to throw up. I got the tip from a pharmacist at medplus when I complained about my son throwing up right after taking his meds. It's a crude method but it worked 100% for me.

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    2. Anon 15:36 you get it, my mum used to do it to us,and I also do it to my kidS,and it works

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    3. Thanks anon and treasure. Will do this

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  20. Good afternoon guys.
    Big Banty, I love guys that can cook and I can't wait to finish your story.
    The oga that helped his wife in taking care of your daughter, God bless you and all mothers. Motherhood is easy job.

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  21. IHN is here. We spiritualise so many things in Nigeria. May God give us spirit of discernment. Thank God for that medical personnel,

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  22. Pls where is the ashewo article, has the story been completed?

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    1. Yes she has. She had a near death experience that took a miraculous turn.

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  23. Hi everyone how is the day going
    Saturday is approaching fast
    Stay safe

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  24. Ah Big Banty from the little I read, that babe seem to be wife material one and half yard oh. See entitlement on top desperation

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  25. Good day good people of SDK blog.

    Stella i must first of all commend you for being patient with BV Shooter gyal.

    Shooter baiby, You know i love you you so much shey?? Please love, be calming down abeg. You really need to apologize to everyone you've wished death to in here babe, That's like the height of it all. Yes alot of them got on your nerves and made you cuss them out but there should be a limit to everything. Learn to not be taking everything seriously especially in here my love, It will always bring out the worst of you.
    Funny thing is you may actually be a sweeter being or even a more well behaved person than most of these people tagging you all sorts but they somehow have learnt the act of living the exact opposite of themselves outside their various homes, (Not asking you to stop being your real self gorgeous) But babe, learn to manage your temperament and zodiac sign. The leo in you is over shawdowing the sweet kind hearted soul that you undeniably are, WORK ON IT BABE.

    Please, can you start by apologizing to everyone and really not going back to those extreme harsh words?? You would right?? Thanks finny, 💋💋.

    As for some of you BVS that are very good at starting quarrels and problems and turn around to play victim, Y'all better stop it cos it's childish and wicked at the same time.

    @Nkiru Iwuchukwu, You're such a Queen mama, I saw your comment at the SP post and i got to understand that you have forgiven Shooter, Way to go Queen, daluu💐.

    Bikonnu, let peace reign oo, This is SDK blog, Our favorite blog. Let's make it conducive enough for all of us.

    BV mama Mia and Shooter, Would love to see you Queens make up out here bikonu, You gorgeous souls are few of my faves out here and i'd love you all to be cordial with each other, Love you girls💐.

    Hehehe, I know there will be a whole lot of typographicals but wetin concern me??

    Shooter biko, do the needful,. I'm waiting for your fine ass out here.

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    1. I've done the needful. I hope I'm forgiven by all

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    2. I hope everyone accepts her apologies whole heartedly and move over everything. No Shooter unnecessary slandering will be accepted out here, She has apologized so please don't come for her if she doesn't come for you. Udo! ✌️✌️.

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    3. "The Leo in you" what does that even mean. I know you are trying to be a good friend however blaming every other thing isn't the way to help your friend. Shooter is just a hot tempered lady and it can be worked on. I doubt if she lashes at everyone that offends her the way she does here. Her being quick to apologize when she's wrong means she's ready to work on herself. Shooter gyal,please work on your temper,a baby girl for life shouldn't be cussing out like this,e dey reduce beauty abeg

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    4. Don't worry @Omeh. The Leos in the house perfectly understood what i meant by that line. And most importantly, The person i referred to understood as well and she has done the needful so kindly keep it moving. Or you're looking for something else??

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    5. You always come thru 😍😍😍😍 Thank you baby girl. I love you long time 😘😘😘

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  26. Life no be moi-moi
    E hard, but life must go on as long as you are still breathing.
    Kudos to mothers...I could pass as one too, cos I have being a part-time nanny to two of my nephews.. its isn't easy.
    My mom is a super mom, gosh I can't understand how she took care of 5kids.
    I can't wait to read the final part of Big banty's story.
    Interesting friday In-house news it is.

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  27. Good afternoon everyone, enjoy your weekend and stay safe

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  28. I cant wait for the continuation of your story@big banty

    @chronicles of a runs gel,abeg finish ya story na.

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  29. Apologies to Marvel and Nkiru. I take those words back and won't do such anymore. As it is now my head is full
    Once again, I'm sorry to each and everyone I've hurt with my words

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    1. 😘😘😘😘...You've done well darling. Take a deep breath and move on from it. 🤗🤗🤗

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    2. That's more like it babe, Everyone forgive, forget and move on please.

      Shooter is not perfect, Y'all aren't either. Let love and peace reign bikonu🌺🌺.

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    3. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    4. Shooter I luff you gan ni walahii

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    5. Way to go darl. Love and light to you ♥️

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    6. Awwww love and light babes, only if you know how much I heart you ehn despite your flaws it's like copied assignment.

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    7. I dont know but I think I like you..

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    8. Way to go babe....I love you 💕

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    9. Awwww... There's something attractive about you Shooter G.
      I love you😘😘😘

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    10. That is my girl I have forgiven you dear I am glad you are taking the right steps..Just be the good you that I know is deep inside of you..E-hugs..

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    11. Omg such massive love! Thanks for the love guys, I love y'all right back😘😘
      I'll do right by everyone and change for good. No jokes! ♥️♥️♥️

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    12. Way to go girlie
      Thank you for doing this .

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  30. Big Banty... I remember when you use to write about cooking delicacies for you then fiancee,it's well jare. That's life for you! Tee jay very true o,I've experienced one case like that. Wasn't funny at all,thought the girl was going to die. We don't treat ourselves properly,we keep swallowing paracetamol for headache. Headache is not an illness but a sign of an underlining disease. We need to take care of ourselves more. Good afternoon people

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  31. Teejay so right on this one👍 👍 👍
    Big Banty I can't wait to read the continuation of your story. Wehdone
    Good afternoon everyone 💐💐💐

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  32. Teejay i have seen that acute malaria in action, it happened to about 4 girls in secondary school, and two of them are my friends. Very terrible thing, the school had to send for their folks to come get them.

    Oga well done o🤣🤣🤣🤣, its not easy o, i think baby girls are more handful, my small madam is showing me pepper.

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    1. I have seen such situation too..This woman had a maid that works her life out day and night like a slave..The woman has a booker ( mama put). The maid was sick instead of taking her to hospital, she resorted to self medication.. The maid started behaving like monkey, climbing every tree in the estate..At the end of the day, the wicked woman had to take her to hospital which she was avoiding..

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  33. Good afternoon, this Friday sun is hot ooo
    Big banty can't wait for the rest of the gist

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  34. My dear Shooter Gyal! I have already forgiven you in my heart! I know it takes a lot! When you are nice to people good things will come your way! I know deep down you are are sweet person. Hateful comments,speech will get us nowhere. Nice that you could apologise this is a stepping stone, stay away from comments that make you angry or trigger your outbursts! It is well. Apology accepted ✌. Good afternoon everyone 😘. Let love reign!❤

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    1. You're such a beautiful soul Nkiru. I hope Marvel and every other person she offended forgives her.

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    2. This means a lot to me. Thanks for accepting my apology

      "stay away from comments that make you angry or trigger your outbursts" Stamped for life!!! Thank you

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  35. Hello IHN Happy weekend to everyone 🤗💓💃💃. Big Banty Gist, your story is very interesting, I can't wait to read more, if only I could be able to follow up. Well done Sir. That anonymous that wrot about taking care of his family this week is so hilarious ��. May God Strengthen all women and bless them. Teejay corners, you might be right������

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  36. Good afternoon everyone, sign out meme,I don't quite agree,there are somethings you revenge and some you just move on , even though it's written " vengeance is mine, says the Lord" but as humans , there's this kind of satisfaction you get when you treat some fuck ups.
    Big banty, can't wait to finish your story, inukwa marriage plans without your family knowing,the Lord is your muscle.
    One week stay @ home hubby,e Pele oooooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, your story is funny, glad for the experience and now you appreciate/ understand better, hope you do this often 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
    Teejay, may God help us in this country oooooo,we spiritualize almost everything.

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  37. Oga u don see say e no easy to take care of children,dey fan ur wife everyday.

    Shooter its well with ur soul, sometimes power beyond our control makes one become very mean to people. Thank God u have apologised

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  38. It's the fried rice and Turkey I want @Big Banty😄😄

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  39. It's the fried rice and Turkey I want @Big Banty😄
    Can't wait to finish reading your story...

    I can't believe Christmas is almost here

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  40. 2020...Well done Sir. What a year!!

    Its weekend o jare and I have the Friday and Saturday all to my pretty self. Zero worries.. Spirit, Soul and body to be taking care of.

    Phoenixx 😘😘😘😘.. I just want to hail you small. Happy Weekend darling.
    Hugsss and Kisses beautiful people.

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    1. Hey baby girl you try jare!! Kisses right back 😘😘🙌

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    2. Hey baby girl you try jare!! Kisses right back 😘😘🙌 Happy blessed weekend to you

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  41. Teejay I have experienced this with my father. Never knew that malaria can make someone to start behaving abnormal.
    My own father started talking out of point seeing things that no other person can see. I became afraid and called my elder brother and he told me to take him to the hospital that it may be malaria. I took him to the hospital and the doctor said the same thing and he gave us malaria drug which after taken it he regained his health

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  42. Ihn is here,good afternoon TGIF💋💋💕💕💕💙💙💚💚💚💖💖💞💞

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  43. Big Banty, I can't wait for the concluding part of your story......

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  44. IHN.....I can so relate to the nakpin gist,I never thought I would wash poo,kai this life,i do it with joy and i know with time everything will fall into place.two people bought pampers for me within two days,so i have enough to last for sometime,had to give out some to a neighbor who also uses cloth pieces,am happy, these are memories and i will cherish them always.God bless women

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    1. Wishing you better days ahead, Mom B. Keep the faith.

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    2. It's not easy, I tell you. I've been there, but with time, it gets easier.

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    3. Its well boo. It can only get better. You'll look back at days like this and give thanks.

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  45. It's always a handful taking care of kids, God bless everyone helping out with that.

    Big Banty we want more of this your story, can't wait for the next one. Have a nice day everyone.


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  46. Lord, please come through for my family! I love the signout quote.. evening everyone.

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