A Medical Doc, Dr. Ifeyinwa Angbo , in a video posted On Twitter accused her husband, Pius Angbo , a staff of channels TV, of beating her and trying to strangle her......She details also that he sat on her stomach when she was three months pregnant and tried to strangle her....
His Principal Channels TV;also responded because she mentioned that the works there.
"Hello People
My name is Ifeyinwa, i am a doctor. I'm married to Pius Angbo, a journalist with channels tv. We've been married for six years.
For six years I haven't known peace,its been from one woman to another,he sleeps around. I just had a baby through cesarean section.
Because I advised him to start spend wisely and stop this spending recklessly on women, considering that we have four children and these kids have to be trained, that's how I got this beatings, he tried to strangle me, sat on my stomach, on my incision. The kids were crying. Even when I was pregnant at 3 months, it was the same thing,he would beat me,sit on my stomach and try to strangle me and all that
So I'm calling him out, he works at channel tv. His name is Pius Angbo from Benue State.(their son comes to her and says ''Mummy sorry'' and she tell him Thank you'') I thought I married my fellow human being"
I saw a prayer request he wrote even before we got married that he thanks God for saving him from hatred and abuse from women but see my face
He sat on her CS Incision?She has been receiving the beating and kept quiet but she called him out because she almost died this time....
Madam leave this man,you might not survive the next one.....Stay alive for your kids!!!
I watched the video and am like wow!!! How can a doctor reduce herself to this extent, what then is the value of education when one can't even see his or her life is in danger. Madam please leave this man and stay alive for your kids. Think about your loved ones and do the right thing for ones, 6years and still chopping beatings.... borrow yourself sense abeg.
ReplyDeleteSo you haven’t seen how some men mistreat lawyers also?? See ehn, they make one lose their self esteem and when depression sets in, they just act like zombies, controlled by the wicked man.
Deleteit's your type we are weary of. always shaming the victim like anyone is happy to be a divorcee.for her to come out now isnt that enough. madam perfect marriage.judgmental hypocrites
Delete4kids in 6yrs and he beats you during pregnancy. I wonder how women open legs for these animals dat beat them even during pregnancy and dey keep getting pregnant. She cant fit IUD for herself.
DeleteA whole Doctor,reduced herself to this. Madam u better leave and stay alive because this monster will never change,someone dat hasnt given u peace in d whole 6yrs uv been married.
This man will kill u one day,see blood. Gosh, what a devil.
Has anyone thought of the fact that she might have had multiple birth, that's why the 4kids in 6yrs,if not na wa for the matter oh. Madam doctor, kindly pack out of that house. You would be fine on your own with your kids.
DeleteMarriage is not do or die.. This is the time to close your legs, enough with getting pregnant.
DeleteGod hates divorce not the victim..
Walk out of this marriage now so you are alive to take care of your kids.
Drag this monster to court and ensure he is made to fulfil his obligation towards his kids.
It is well with you.
@bed and Roses you said it all and perfectly.
DeleteI still don't understand how women even get pregnant again for an abusive partner. #longhiss
@ BEDS AND ROSES 7, you spoke my mind and further more, l noticed the man is yet to have his space with his wife and he is frustrated simple.
DeleteSad still, on the flip side if she didn't make baby on time another wahala, he will still be frustrated, because sex will now become a task.
See as she fine before the marriage. Y'all should stop scaring us singles na!
ReplyDeleteI'm telling you! Such a beautiful woman.
DeleteMadam please flee from this devil before he sends you to the afterlife pleasssssseeeee.
Madam I hope you are reading this LEAVE BEFORE YOU BECOME A DEAD PERSON,I thank God that my sister has finally summoned the courage to leave her dead beat husband! The last episode that made her resolve to leave was when her husband wanted to slap my sister her eldest daughter held her father's hand to prevent him from slapping my sister! He also said my sister will die a miserable death!She left with her 3 kids and she is doing fine. So madam husband is not an achievement I pity women that carry husband for head like gala! I am a shock absorber if you do things to me I can't take I move on no time for sentiments. We were not born on the same day oo! If I die they will not bury my husband with me so no hard feelings!
ReplyDeleteWhat broke me was when her son said ''Mummy sorry'' Chai Marriage is not a do or die affair!! Abeg make she just leave for her sanity..It is well
DeleteThank God for your sis Nkiru
Deletefinally your sister summoned the courage to leave him,, i am so happy for her. thank God....
DeleteChai, marriage!!!!
ReplyDeleteHe has been beating her since they got married yet she stayed and kept having more children for him. Imagine 4 children in 6yrs of marriage, not a sweet marriage o, a bitter and violent marriage. I'm sure she will still go back and kuku die there. Family and friends will beg her to go back and raise her kids under the same roof with their father.
ReplyDeleteThey are on this blog too, reading comments. They keep receiving maltreatment from their husbands, yet they remained and kept having more babies.
I just hate it when women keep popping out kids for these monsters. Why , why do it?. If you cannot leave him at least use birth control!. Imagine popping out 4 kids in 6 years for someone who beats you and cheats on you!. And she is a dr so she will have access to birth control easily.na wa oo i dont know what she wants us to say or do.
DeleteI just hate it when women keep popping out kids for these monsters. Why , why do it?. If you cannot leave him at least use birth control!. Imagine popping out 4 kids in 6 years for someone who beats you and cheats on you!. And she is a dr so she will have access to birth control easily.na wa oo i dont know what she wants us to say or do.
DeleteHmmmm...I hope she the man has not been raping her to birth all the children.
DeleteDomestic abuse/violence comes with rape too.
Madam Doctor run oooo
This is what i said,she cant fit IUD for herself as a doctor. 4kids in 6yrs
DeleteWith all the beatings how does her body even heal beating her during pregnancy and after CS. Animal of a man
She has gone back already, just read it now that the governor of benue state intervened, and so she's back with him 😥
DeleteThis is serious!
ReplyDeletebeating a woman is bad not to talk of a woman that give birth through cs.
She must not die there for heaven sake!
ReplyDeleteHow can you allow a man continue to do that to you?
How can you allow your children to be raised in a toxic environment?
If you don't love yourself, at least consider your innocent children that didn't asked to be born.
Madam doctor, please leave this monster 👹 alone and make sure you take your kids while leaving.
His aim was to kill her, thank God she survived this one, she may not survive the next attack.
This is so pathetic. Smh
DeleteShe should do the needful.
Wait, fourth child? Six years marriage?
ReplyDeletePls i am not understanding something, She says she has not known peace for the six years of marriage, how come she has four children? Does the man sleep with her in her dream?
She kept opening cookie thinking that will make him faithful. Did he change? No!
DeleteU are mad
DeleteThink outside the box, who knows if the man was raping her too.
DeleteSometimes it is an up and down thing. One moment the abuser is all lovey dovey and all is forgiven, next he turns into a wild lion. Very horrible something........
Delete10:55, the man was raping her and she stayed for six years? a doctor?
DeleteThink outside the box ko, think inside the box ni
What if sex wasn't consensual ?
DeleteWhat if sex wasn't consensual ?
Delete@11.09, go and educate yourself on victims of domestic violence and abuse. Also, their mental state includes psychological wellbeing. Then you can come back and give your review.
DeleteChochlate she cant fix IUD in her clinic even if d man is raping her?
DeleteHer body needs to rest,along with the beatings shes putting herself through alot. Her CS incision didnt even heal before he pounced on her again.
Even if you do not even love her, she is the Mother of your Kids! Such wickedness! Jail awaits him
ReplyDeleteThis is so heart wrenching and the kids are so adorable. Mummy I want popcorn, mummy sorry but as a medical doctor with an irresponsible beast of a husband why are you having 4 kids in y years? It is really well with your soul. People please let go of the life you've planned and work with the one you have, if you've always wanted 4 kids your entire life; having those kids should be dependent on the life you have not what you planned. Examine the stability of your marriage and you finances then have the number your current circumstances permit not what you wished for. Dear doctor, your children need you please leave that situation and stay alive to raise those children and they need to get out of that toxic environment, they are already telling you mummy sorry, so they are old and smart enough to see what's going on. The last thing you need is for your children to see this as normal and they end up being abused and abusive to their future partners as the case may be. It is truly well with your soul doc.
Delete@Iyke loud it oh...People please let go of the life you've planned and work with the one you have, if you've always wanted 4 kids your entire life; having those kids should be dependent on the life you have not what you planned. Examine the stability of your marriage and you finances then have the number your current circumstances permit not what you wished for.
DeleteThis point is so important, you see well enlightened people who aren't balanced financially rolling out children and you wonder, what is their plan for these kids or is it just to fulfill a desire. Na wa oh.
What a wicked and devilish man, trying to strangle your wife, He should be arrested for attempted murder. I hope she finds the strength to leave this man, I just pray she helps herself, Na person wey dey alive dey train pikin.
ReplyDeleteFor six years you haven't known peace yet you kept on getting pregnant for the wife beater.
ReplyDeleteWho knows if the man has been raping her too to birth the children.
DeleteBirth control ha now finished abi ???
DeleteDear anony,she is a medical doctor and has access to family planning.
DeleteWhat a pity. Demon from hell. There’s one here, that used to hit his pregnant wife on her stomach and do midnight prayers, for God to kill the baby.
ReplyDeleteMarried Man oh. Brought this young girl from Nigeria and maltreated her so much. That lady went through hell but she called someone in New York, who then called 911, for a welfare check. When the cops got there, she was bleeding. They took her to the Hospital and after she gave birth, they looked for a safe house fir her. That’s how this young lady, left that fool. The state, went after him and he pays child support now. Some men wicked sha. May our kids never cross oaths with such evil Spouses.
Amin...oooo
DeleteStory story!! she won't leave she would rather die than be called a divorcee. SDK leave matter oooh
ReplyDeleteI don't think so, A victim's reasons for staying with their abusers are extremely complex and, in most cases, are based on the reality that their abuser will follow through with the threats they have used to keep them trapped.
Delete@ Finny, true. God forgive me, but I no longer feel anything for women in such situations. She'd soon make another video, showing she and the element loved up and back together. No be Naija woman again?
DeleteFor those who think that finances is the reason abused women stay in their slave situations, shey you see she's a doctor? With access to birth control sef, yet...
It's a mindset thing. The average Nigerian woman feels incomplete or a failure without marriage, doesn't matter what kind, just let them sha be with anything male that moves. That and letting society determine their lives for them, as per say what would people say and all the other yadiyada.
Una go dey alright.
That’s the part that weakens me. With all his wickedness u still had 4 children?? And u are a doctor? Hian
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DeleteI'm anon 13:18. Guess what? Madam has gone back to her handler oh. What did I say earlier?
You see women in DV situations, esp in this our Naija, no bother abeg. If she really does finally leave, hail her. If she dies, type rip and keep it moving. Sounds insensitive, but best if you don't want to look like a fool.
That's all.
They might sack him or suspend him without pay and the frustration might make him kill you. You are a doctor, you can raise your kids.
ReplyDeleteBe wise as serpent...
Who will sack or suspend him? Channels?
DeleteHave they sacked the Yoruba demon that was called out that year for domestic violence by his girlfriend?
Please ran for your dear life and make sure you do with your kids.
ReplyDeleteHow could she have endured all this wickedness and unfaithfulness for 6 years.. She even had 4 kids.. I really cannot understand my fellow women.. As a doctor, she should have stopped at 2, now she will be a single mum with 4 kids.. Feel sad for her, feel angry towards the man... What makes a man hate his wife and still sleep with her until she gets pregnant...
ReplyDeleteYou guys forget that in Nigeria, up till four years ago, you need husband’s signature even to tie your tubes.
DeleteDomestic violence affects people from all works of life. They sleep with their spouses and bear children and sadly most times the victims find it difficult to leave. The victims need first to make up their minds, then a support system to enable them. Many die in the marriage. Some survive... So sad.
DeletePls u don’t need husbands signature for birth control pills or coil enh.
DeleteThis is a medical doctor, bringing matters of domestic violence and infidelity to social media instead of the court of law?🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteSocial media is the best for her most especially when she knows the kind of job he is into.
DeleteHmmmmm court indeed...Lack of support to victims by police officers and law enforcement who may treat violence as a "domestic dispute," instead of a crime where one person is physically attacking another person. Often, victims of abuse are arrested and charged by law enforcement even if they are only defending themselves against the batterer.Dissuasion by police of the victim filing charges. Some dismiss or downplay the abuse, side with the abuser, or do not take the victims account of the abuse seriously.Reluctance by prosecutors to prosecute cases. Some may convince the abuser to please to a lesser charge, thus further endangering victims. Additionally, judges rarely impose the maximum sentence upon convicted abusers. Probation or a fine is much more common.Despite the issuing of a restraining order, there is little to prevent a released abuser from returning and repeating abuse.
Is this not Nigeria again .....
Why do couples who hate each other... Fight each still sleep together and have kids.. I don't envy any marriage.. No one knows what is hidden behind locked doors.
ReplyDeleteI am sure the man used to take her whether she want or not. Besides, according to my brother, you don’t fight thirty days in a month.
DeleteAfter beating he begs her
DeleteI do not understand it too oh😖😖😰.
DeleteWhen ordinary talk wey I no like sef...I Don lock up☹️
So after taking her she can not take postinor??
Delete4 children within 6 years of marriage. Madame is sex your hobby.Anyways I dont condone domestic violence but 4 kids is too much pressure on the man especially when you go through CS. Make una know abuse me ooo, ba observation.
ReplyDeleteHave ever thought maybe the man will be raping too and abusing her;... think outside the box. Domestic abuse/violence comes in various forms.
DeleteShe should have taken postinor!!
DeleteAnon,if he has s*x with her 4times a week,will she take postinor 4times? Thats how many a month/yr? You do want her to mess up her sys? Nawa oh!
DeleteFamily planning is the best.
Do you*
DeleteShe get mind stay that house
ReplyDeleteWhat's wrong with these unwise men.. why hit a woman if not for "self defense" when she hit first..
ReplyDeleteI'm guessing the 'advice' was given in a rude and insulting manner.. why himself no 'advice' am back..
Omo, you guys should learn from me nah.. it's what you bring you'll get.. if you bring Peace and happiness, you'll get back in multiple folds.. if you come with toxic behavior, you go still get am back in multiple folds.. you use your mouth stupidly, me sef get mouth..
Men be wise abeg.. only stupid men allow women destroy their lives.
Stay blessed
Yimu
DeleteU dey craze sir
DeleteYou are guessing the advice was given in a rude and insulting manner....osheyy ominiguesser!
DeleteOf cos na! You must try to twist the scenario so the man is deviod of blames.
Life is indeed hard for the foolish. You keep disgracing yourself.
Devoid*
DeleteDante, you fall my hand. Are you married? Two wrongs doesn't make a wright. Please purge yourself of this mindset. Rather, tell yourself that as long as it is left to you, you will do all things to be at peace with your spouse and all men. Pray for God's help during times you feel like giving tit for tat.
DeleteLife is easier when we overlook wrongs and forgive without the person even asking for it.
I understand your point of view and sincerely, the thought came to my mind as I read through the narrative. Men loose their temper when disrespected with words or in the way and manner in which those words were conveyed. However, as an adult, we should always be mindful and intentional with our reactions. The husband's reacion was way out of line and for that, he should be disciplined.
Lol.. @Shantelle
DeleteI see you haven't move on from how I gave you some sense 2 days ago😃..
I pray you don't end up with someone like Mr pius here, who won't be nice like me to 'advise' your silly ass when you come at him with your rude and shameless attitude. He go don panel beat your ugly face finish, you go come run here dey cry.. that's when you'll wish you took my advice..
Be embarrassing yourself.. I won't reply you again cos I see my reply is beginning to turn you on..
I can see you are one of those girls who suffer from Verbal Humiliation (Google the word), it's a branch of BDSM.. they get wet when you talk to them in demeaning manner.. You girls are 2 here that I have observed that verbal humiliation is your fetish.. the other one is the girl that was encouraging you last night to keep going in.. in to where Lol.. Ode girls.. I knew from back in the days when she was always constituting nuisance everywhere..
I won't let you girls be using me to get wet😊.. you can keep crying under my commemts.. would only school your ass whenever I see you make dumb comments..
Now run along... joblessness at its peak
This moronic fellow is at it again. Why not mention my name na? I won't stop advising you to get cured of delusions of grandeur. You make the most irritating comments so how will such even turn us on? Leemaoooo be fooling yourself.
DeleteYou don't even come close to the REAL men we have on here. You ain't shit nigga! Get over your dusty self
Stella that comment wasn't harsh oh,it was very mild na. El oh el..
DeleteMarriedfor 6 years, suffering domestic violence n a cheating hubby, u still birth 4kids?? Family planning Don finish?? I pray them is dealt with squarely by channel's tv.
ReplyDeleteA doctor for that matter o, if you go hospital now na Dem dey advice women to use family planning
DeleteA doctor for that matter 😖😖
DeleteWhich Channels TV will deal with him?
DeleteThat one that beat his girlfriend that year and was called out, I still see him anchoring that programme
I don't think we should blame the woman (doctor).
DeleteFirstly, who know if the man has been raping her.
Secondly, domestic abuse/violence make one forget their sense of reasoning. If you check properly from her colleagues, I am sure they will say she was not longer her bubbly self since she got married.
When someone is in a domestic abuse/violence situation, they lost themselves. They can't think for themselves because of the constant reminder of their toxic home.
Please lets be kind to victims of domestic abuse/violence and stop this blame game.
Also, Religious or cultural beliefs and practices are not helping matter too in this Nigeria and may not support divorce or may dictate outdated gender roles and keep the victim trapped in the relationship Belief that two parent households are better for children, despite abuse.
I beg enough with the story of him raping her. Has postinor finished? It’s even cheap. Which one is raping her and she is still there? This woman is a die hard. I have seen it. I’m sure the marriage was even by giri die. And now instead of leaving she is reporting him on SM. When u check now she go still cack for the man house!!
DeleteAnno 11:16, family planning still works on rape victims. She's way to educated to allow this happen, 4 kids in 6 years in an unhealthy marriage makes no sense
DeleteShebi I said it that she is a die hard and will cack there?? See pics of them reconciling with gov ortom. Baby no 5 loading!!
DeleteOh God! Please Help marriages, and make the home safer for d kids!
ReplyDeleteExactly 😖, poor kids, going through such traumatic experience at a young age.
DeleteMadam, please pity your children ohhhh
Women damaged him, now he's on a revenge mission if the accusation is true.
ReplyDeleteThere are so many damaged people out there.
chim-oma a.k.a Miss Kapusu
What is dis one saying? Which women damaged him? Did he tell u dat? Which accusations is true? U kukuma no get sense...What kind of comment is dis?I guess u wear d kapusu on ur brain .
DeleteMaybe she'd leave the devil as a corpse.
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful woman going through an avoidable hell in the hands of a devil. Ify malife biko!!
Lord have mercy. A very beautiful woman, may she find justice, peace & healing away from him
ReplyDeleteOh Lord!
ReplyDeleteAre you waiting for us to come help you pack your loads?
Sorrow and pain for the past six years?
After being suspended from work now,hes coming to finally kill you and kill himself.
LEAVE TODAY o
Financial reasons is the primary reason women stay with violent men. The fear that the man may refuse to pay school fees and provide for the needs of the children. Money to hire an apartment. In this case, the lady is likely to have a good job as a medical doctor. So l doubt if finance is an issue.
ReplyDeleteWomen considers what society would say about them. This is the stupidest reason for staying but it's a factor. Family pressure is also a factor. You tell your parents you are leaving and they insist you stay there. Especially if they didn't really approve your marrying the man and they had to change their minds because of your insistence or because you became pregnant. The fear that the next guy may not be a better person is also a factor.
Woe betide that man that will raise his hands to hit any of daughters, children l have never even shouted on since they were born. I will go after him and wreck him.
Reading this yesterday on Facebook,I was so angry with the woman even the comments made me more angry 😡😡😡 but when I watched the video,my heart melted and even when her son said mommy sorry,I felt so sorry for her,she ended with,"it is well with my soul".... I believe for her to call the man out,she have swallowed enough,she can't pretend anymore. You see after that Bv Flora's case that year,I don't bother my head with domestic violence victims again, honestly you can't save who doesn't want to be saved unless the person involved takes action...... I pray she doesn't stop halfway and for the sake of her beautiful kids,she do that which is right.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad, 6 years of pain. This woman is strong abeg. I hope this call out yields better result for her.
ReplyDeleteWhy do we always blame the victim?
ReplyDeleteSame way these victims cant get respite anywhere. They go to police, they get blamed. They go to social media, they get blamed. They go to their families, they get blamed.
And while you blame the victim, the abuser escapes blame.
We need to do better on this blog. The mindset of a victim of domestic violence is quite different and anyone can be a victim. Whether we like it or not, the society is hard on single mothers and divorcees. Arent you people saying a divorced woman should stay separated while a divorced man can remarry.
Does our court actually work? How many domestic violent victims have gotten relief from the court?
Everyone is telling the woman to leave. Do you think it is easy to raise four kids alone? We need our Nigerian system to work? We need women in National Assembly to ensure that laws on domestic violence are implemented and adhered to.
Would he try this outside the country?
Of course not.
And guess what, it takes him to tell his side of the story even if it is completely false for Bvs to change their mind and start calling out the same woman.
Doctor, if you can relocate, please do. Relocate and leave him. The kids belong to him too so take the kids you can cater for and leave. So sorry about all you are going through. You deserve better. You deserve peace of mind and true love. Its not your fault you are being abused. Don't ever blame yourself.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
The Benue state Governor just reconciled her with her husband. Smh!
ReplyDeleteYes o. Odum has reconciled them. She has accepted cos of the kids. God help them.
ReplyDeleteSad part is the kids learning that this behaviour is ok. Her small son might go on to beat his wife in the future thinking it’s the only way and sorry will do. He daughter will get together with a man who mistreats because this is what she has seen and the cycle continues.
ReplyDeleteHopefully the governor and his wife will keep an eye on him. That’s all that will keep him in control. Knowing that she might shout and the world will come next time, he might be careful. Yes he might still punish her emotionally but if she is wise she will have her eyes on a potential exit. With the help of the governors wife, get a visa to the UK. Write your exams, relocate with your kids. Finish! There are loving men out there in the world. They will cherish you and accept your faults without resorting to beating. God help you! I hope you read this hun. You didn’t look happy despite the reconciliation, you alone know what you have been through and the betrayal. Use it to your advantage. God sent the governor and his wife for a reason, use the opportunity to organize your future.