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Wednesday, January 06, 2021

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HOW TO GET A DIVORCE FROM AN ESTRANGED SPOUSE


I've been estranged with my husband for 2 years now when we lost our newborn baby, he said my Mum is responsible for the loss that she initiated me into her coven. 



All efforts to reconcile us was futile as he doesn't want to. I don't know where he went to in the village And they told him I'm possessed that I'm responsible for his problems, that I will kill him etc ( Story plenty).


Why I'm sending this chronicle is because I just learnt he married another woman last month and the woman in question is even pregnant.


He said I should divorce myself. 

Please those that have passed this road, how do I get a quick divorce?





After two years of abandonment,I think divorce is automatic if you have money to get a Lawyer and can prove it to the Judge that the man has moved and there is no room for settlement...You can even add that you are also pregnant for another..LOL
Sorry about the predicament and hope you no longer love him...he was probably brainwashed by whoever he went to seek advice from....Na wah!!!

38 comments:

  1. This is why I detest people who go to prayer houses. They just see rubbish visions. Madam, get a lawyer and file for divorce

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    1. You will have to divorce yourself to be able to move on because there is hardly any such thing as bigamy against a Nigerian male in our constitution.

      Just get a lawyer as Stella said. It's easy. It won't take over a year especially with both parties not wanting the marriage anymore and have both moved on with other people.

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    2. Maybe the guy brought up the excuses based on the fact that he found a new babe 😷

      Nothing is impossible

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  2. I dont like when women hold onto "divorce me properly" . Heck, the man has moved onnnn, you too get some sense and hook up with someone else, any body that is pained should file for divorce first. Cant be waiting for man to file and he is busy having fun. Keep waiting till your time passes.

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    1. Show some empathy.
      Don't judge what you havent passed thru.

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    2. Muru anya ka azu6 January 2021 at 15:59

      Anon is right. We need harsh truths, tough love. Women stop playing victim or looking for who to pity you. Send your people to return his bride price.the money is usually less than 5k. Return of brideprice is a symbol for divorce. Stop waiting for him! Move on!!!

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    3. Na empathy go kill una. The anon is right!! Poster move on and stop asking annoying questions

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    4. A divorce is necessary if people want to remarry legally. Plus if one party has moved on, why hold on to the marriage?

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    5. If a person marry legally, it pays to separate/divorce legally. There are documentary/official records, inheritance rights, police looking for husband/wife, etc. matters to consider.

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    6. For your mind now, you get sense. Educate yourself on legal and non legal implications of actions/inactions.

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  3. It is now 3yrs in Nigeria Stella

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  4. You see all those pastors, prophets and all, nah them work be this. Useless people!! Madam pls try and get a lawyer if you can afford one and divorce that wicked man you call husband. God will surely see you through 🙏🏻

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    1. Your father, brothers, husband and the son or sons you would give birth to, are all scums

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    2. Women are saints

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    3. Lmao! That's how one imbecile told me women are evil and I replied; including his sisters and all the women in his life, dude got pissed.

      "Some" men are scum please

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  6. Get a lawyer. Sorry about this. It is well.

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  7. So if he didn’t marry you would have kept waiting to be reconciled with such a vile person?

    Women sha.

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  8. Only way is to get a lawyer by yourself. That man wants to keep you tied to him even though he has moved on

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  9. Lawyers are many if you need them. Good luck

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  10. All these pastors that claim to see vision have done more harm than good in people's lives. Sorry about this poster.

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    1. @Beautiful
      Did this poster mention "pastor," or did I not read well?
      Or you just want to vent your hatred on some recipients today?
      🙄🙄🙄🙄

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  11. I feel for you poster.start hooking up oo no time!!!

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  12. ABeg move on with ur life & stop disturbing urself with divorce.... I don’t know why divorce pains women more...

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  13. Ehya very sorry about this dear poster.
    Find money and get a lawyer so you can divorce him ASAP.

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  14. @ppster, there are many grounds for divorce under the matrimonial causes act. The fact that both if you have lived apart for more than 2 years is enough ground. Other grounds such as intolerable behaviour, which you can not reasonably be expected to live with is there etc etc. Get a lawyer. He doesn't need to respond. There is what is called undefended petition. All uou need is proof that he was served eith the divorce petition. Grt your divorce and move on with your life. Depending on where you are living, the divorce can be gotten in less than six months especially if he is not defending it. All the best.

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  15. Speak to a lawyer whose speciality is family law and they will tell you how to proceed and what costs are involved.

    My dear, in the future please make sure that you only marry a man that adores you. Do not settle for anything less. Watch how he treats to you in the little things and the big things. I wish you all the best.

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    1. Some persons are really in the Coven with spiritual husband. After this divorce she should look for what the problem is.. Because if she contiunes with another man then same problem shows up.

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  16. In my brother's case,reverse is the case.
    After they lost their baby, the wife moved out.came back to beg, brother accepted her. Not too long after she moved out again. Is this not enough reason for the judge to grant them a divorce?
    Bro thinks he can't move on cos they aren't officially divorced.

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  17. If you married in court or a legally recognized church (don't know about mosques, sorry), get a lawyer to file on the basis of abandonment. For traditional, return the bride price through your family or to his bank account and get a receipt (whichever is faster). If they refuse to accept the refund, you can use the bank route and go to customary court. In Lagos, people have four months to reconcile after a party leaves the marriage. If they don't, the marriage is immediately dissolved once a party applies for the dissolution after 4 months. With proof of returning the bride price, you can get the divorce the same day. They will even backdate it to when the abandonment reached 4 months. I don't know of other states though. Divorce traditionally and legally because one does not cover all in Nigeria. Good luck and may God guide and strengthen you at this time. I hope you also have great support.

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  18. Nawaooo men of this generation
    The new wife thinks he would not do same to her.
    Do Women ask men why their first marriage crashed before jumping into the man house.
    Poster take heart

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  19. Sorry poster, get a divorce either returning the bride price and filing legally or both
    Move on with your life obviously he has , no kids between you guys so it’s even easier . Nothing to remind u of the past . Wish you best of luck 🦋

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  20. Return the bride price, get a good lawyer to help you out so that yiu can totally move on. Your ex has moved on without thinking of you, stop wasting time.

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  21. This is very easy na. Just get a lawyer and the proceeding starts. It doesn't matter if he appears in court on not. The court will serve him several documents to inform him, if he chooses to appear, na him wahala be that, if not, still his wahala. The proceeding will go on and you will be divorced.

    Let me suggest that you do not do file your case in a Lagos court. They have lots of cases and so it will take time. Go to neighboring states/cities and it will be faster, sango ota, sagamu etc. I have assumed you stay in Lagos. If not, you get the gist.

    The case will be concluded within 6 months in a court situated in a less populated area. You don't need to communicate with him at all, the court will do that.

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  22. Poster please get in touch with me. I am a Lawyer, I will do the matter for you Free. But you will pay all the filling fees but no professional fees to me.
    Just to assist you. Though i don't know where you reside. You can reach me through Auntie Stella.
    Be strong.

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  23. Poster where do you reside?You can go to Legal Aid Council.This is a government ofice that renders free legal services and they have an office in the 36 state including fct. You can locate the office closest to you.

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