Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative - UPDATE

This update came quickly!

This is reference to my Chronicle which was posted on Friday January 29th thanks for posting my mail, I was in a really bad shape when I posted that, It's been almost 6 months that it happened  and I have resolved to count my losses and move on. 

There was however a turn in events yesterday, a childhood friend of his made me realized how I dodged a bullet. He told me the following:

- Psychiatric illness runs in his family and that suddenly added up when I remembered how he engages in violent outbursts


- His elder ones at 40 plus are neither here nor there.


- He has refused to be useful for himself in US but lives off government benefits and friends who end up throwing him out after he misbehaves.


- He is a gigolo and often dated women in exchange for benefits and even when he sees a friend dating a well to do lady , he will ruin the relationship and try to take over except the lady is decent and can tell him off


- He is boastful, lousy, loquacious full of pride, strife and envy and never wishes anyone excelling in his circle well and bears false and malicious tales about people


I realized God had and has been saving me all along but I failed to realize and jettison him early enough and I am ever grateful to him for saving me from what would have been a mess


My mother's prayers has always been that even if I am at the edge of getting married to a bad man, God should intervene and ensure the relationship breaks.

All the comments are soul lifting, thanks everyone. I will adhere to your advise.

*Its good to hear that you have given yourself brain and decided to move on.....

I pray you find love soon....Check out Stella's Singles Mingle on February 14th OK?

Errm,i hope this childhood friend is not toasting you oooooo,or will not attempt to? Please dump his circle and move on...