The Drama climaxed a week ago at the burial of her hubby Dr Tosin Ajayi MD of First foundation medical center...
She is closing this drama with this last post she says....
''This is the first day of Lent a time for spiritual healing and cleansing. This will be my last word on this matter.
''This is the first day of Lent a time for spiritual healing and cleansing. This will be my last word on this matter.
It was never my wish to talk about the passing of my late husband Dr Tosin Ajayi on social media, despite the fact that during this 10 month period, from his death on April 26th 2020, I was accused of murdering him by his adult children and their mother after spending 42 days in St Nicholas Hospital by his bedside and dragged to Panti police station, then to coroners court and then to High court.
I am thankful that God delivered me from all these false accusations and gave me victory to bury my late husband in the manner he deserved.
I want to express my gratitude to those men and women of God praying with me during these trying moments. I am also grateful for the unflinching support of my family and friends all over the world, who stood by me, even the "Aprokos" propagating me to stardom. 😁
Throughout this 10 month period my sole focus and objective was to ensure that I gave my late husband a befitting burial in accordance with his status as an Icon in the healthcare field in Nigeria, which I am happy I achieved in his honour. Love is at the heart of everything in life. For God is love and Love is God''.
I want to express my gratitude to those men and women of God praying with me during these trying moments. I am also grateful for the unflinching support of my family and friends all over the world, who stood by me, even the "Aprokos" propagating me to stardom. 😁
Throughout this 10 month period my sole focus and objective was to ensure that I gave my late husband a befitting burial in accordance with his status as an Icon in the healthcare field in Nigeria, which I am happy I achieved in his honour. Love is at the heart of everything in life. For God is love and Love is God''.
*Hmmmm this is not much but it says a lot, been watching this drama from the curb and I am glad it is over.
As if she was not expecting it when she's a second wife
ReplyDeleteMistress, partner. Never married her so she’s not a wife.
DeleteI didn't even know the first wife is someone I know, we attended the Baptist Church together and grew up with her kids. Very disciplined and lovely woman with well brought up children.
DeleteWomen, receive sense. You stay with a man for so long, he refuses to divorce his first wife and marry you and ure bearing his last name 🙄🥴🙄.
Hmmmmmmmmm. Sade Okoya, hope you reap your own too
It is well oooo
Women, be applying sense oooo. Staying with a man ure not legally married to.
DeleteHian
The man never married her unfortunately.
DeleteShe was never married to him.....
DeleteAnnon. Shade Okoya get sense. She's the one controlling the man's dynasty. If that man dies today she will not suffer. Worse she will let go of the companies but she got her back up. Don't be deceived oh. This one is facts not social media news.
Delete"his older kids and their mother"..you mean his first wife that he didn't divorce before marrying you?
ReplyDeleteListen! This will be the fate of any woman living with a separated man just because he told you they ain't together anymore. It's always messy!
He NEVER even married her,they just cohabitated and had a child...anyway oyinbo ppl will call it "common Law wife" sha.
DeleteExactly! Separated isn’t the same as single. The wife is still legally and spiritually tied to the husband.
DeleteLouder Sis 🙌
DeleteThank you:
DeleteExactly!
DeleteBut why didn't the man properly divorce the first wife all these years while you were married to him? Now look at the mess you are in!
ReplyDeleteI thought you are a lawyer? Why didn't you push for the right thing to do? Women don't seize to amaze me!
I heard he died without writing a will and he did court marriage with his first wife, which he failed to annul all these 25 years+ he was married to you.
Now the first wife and kids have come to claim ownership.
Please women be applying common sense whenever you are dealing with any human being. Remove emotions aside and use sense!
I feel for her sha.. watching helplessly as everything you worked and build is being taken away.
These men hardly legally divorce their first wives....they die and drama begins.
DeleteDaisy Danjuma did her own smartly,she just legally married TY Danjuma like 6yrs ago....after so many yrs.
Pls she built nothing with him, get your facts right. She was even instrumental to their separation. That greed she went in there for will be her undoing. That peace she scattered years ago will be her undoing. Women be extremely careful, sometimes this men are still very cordial with their wives etc they are bad mouthing to you. Let me go anonymous on ds one
DeleteNo will? I don’t believe that. He knew what he was doing by not marrying her so she won’t lay claim to his assets.
DeleteWhat exactly did she work and built? Go and read the first wife's tribute and see how she started everything with her husband before this intruder came. I pray she looses everything, served her right.
DeleteFEEL FOR HER ...
DeletePERSON HUSBAND
WOMEN STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN WITH BROKEN HOMES
FIND YUR OWN
She did not build anything. The man was already established and rich when she met and married him.
DeleteEverything she built and work for? Girl bye!
DeleteThis one obviously came to reap where she did not sow, I believe he was already made when she met him. The first wife was the one he built with, this one just came to enjoy someone else’s sweat.
What did she build?. She should reap what she has sowed
DeleteWhat???? Watching as what you built? Are you for real?
DeleteThe man and his first and only legal wife built everything together before the tramp Helen entered the equation and took over an already made man. She deserves every embarrassment she gets. She kukuma nor get shame. The children were there way before she came greedily into the picture to pitch her tent... ole.... she brought along her 2 children from her previous marriage and added one more leech to the harem.
The man did not legally marry her because he knew deep down that he had done a great diservice to his first wife and children. He spent his time and energy on this Helen woman so he left everything for the first wife and children and rightfully so
Wow! Very careless of her if all this is true! Court will still recognize her tho even if he didn't properly divorce his first wife.
DeleteSo I saw the video of Helen Prest Ajayi and the first wife at loggerheads over shovel of who to perform the rite first at the burial ceremony of their late husband Tosin Ajayi.
ReplyDeleteThis brings me to think:
A burial should be the place people realise that this life and all it's struggle is futile,yet this people dont seem to understand it.The person they are all scrabbling over has become nothing but a memory,he cannot use any of the things he possessed while alive so what is the point of fighting. Polygamy to me is the worst family ever.And men should set good examples while alive,put your house in order so that your demise can be peaceful. Vanity upon Vanity!!!!!!
Keep your house in order.... 📣📣📣📣📣📣📣📣📣📣
DeletePolygamy should be discouraged...
Polygamy never ends well. May God intervene.
ReplyDeleteSo she was his side chick? And home wrecker?
ReplyDeleteShe was the official side chick
DeleteYou allow yourself to be side chick to this man all those years. He only separated from his wife, he never divorced her or married you. Now you have little say yet calling him husband. Aunty it’s like you were just a girlfriend. See how they yeye you like stranger for grave site.
ReplyDeleteSidechic.
ReplyDeleteGbam 👍 iji ya
DeleteSide Uriom okuko...
DeleteThe drama of been a second wife.
ReplyDeleteTheir drama no dey finish.
Been following this story and the proper thing this lady shld have done was inform his kids he was gravely ill. Even if dey dont have good rapour,relay d message thru his sister/brother etc.
ReplyDeleteLet them known step by step the treatment of their father. Let them visit d man and make decisions alongside u. They were not informed till the man had died.
If all this was done and u were transparent with his care,dey wont accuse u wrongly.
Gbam, gbammer, and gbammest.
DeleteHe shielded the man from them till he died...
DeleteExactly
DeleteSo true...very wicked of her!...im glad they showed her pepper
DeleteNa wa
DeleteWas this woman not Miss Nigeria at one time?
How come she was so dumb to be with a man for so long that never married her legally. What a shame.
Helen is a lawyer weh mumu! She thought she won all these years! Now look at her talking gibberish.
ReplyDeleteYou are not smart woman or intelligent. Nonsense.
By the time they are done with you, you will be asking yourself if marrying a seperated man was worth it.
They never married. They were cohabiting.
DeleteI hope other married men sees the nasty drama they will always leave behind when they indulge in such drama as this.
ReplyDeleteThey do not think about that aspect. Only present gains
DeleteWomen,Look before you leap.
ReplyDeleteWhy get married to a Man with five kids. Five!!
Kpele Madam Helen.
If I hear!
ReplyDeleteWhy did you not tell the adult children that their father was sick? So their father was sick for 42 days and you could not tell them? You owed them that!
You are a wicked and vindictive woman!
Best comment.
DeleteWhat if the man wanted it that way?
Deletevery wicked. She quotes Bible but did not apply wisdom.
DeleteThen she should have applied wisdom and lovingly convinced him otherwise. Giving them the opportunity and then throwing the ball into their court, what they do next, na them sabi, but they would have been given that opportunity.
DeleteNow, who's explaining herself??? She's the loser...
DeleteTo any female dancing to this particular tune that she danced and is currently reaping the fruits of her labor, i hope you are watching and learning? At the initial stage, it'd be all rosey, fun, sweet and everything good in between but when it's time to face the consequences of your action, please brace yourself and face it fiercely because you know, you asked for it. Stop wrecking your fellow women's home,stop being the other woman in any woman's life, stop trying so hard to reap from where you didn't sow by any means available, stop causing another woman pains. There's always consequences for it. The man don die go and now she's stoked up and being dealt pains and humiliations. Strength to her though.
ReplyDeletehe met hele 10 years after he separated from his first wife she was not the cause ..he did not do the right thing to divorce properly she should have insisted..I won't personally after 35 yrs of separation come back to fight whom ?? any way blame is not the wives but the man himself
DeleteHelen Prest Ajayi, please change your ways. All these will lead to nothing but more expose on you.
ReplyDeleteAt least be truthful and acknowledge that the "adult children and their mother" contributed immensely to the burial of their dad and husband.
Be humble.
You paid for a casket of 750,000 naira, the adult children and their mum upgraded it to 1.5 million naira.
You paid for a vault at Ebony Vaults for 3.5 million naira, the adult children and their mother upgraded it to 12 million naira.
Trying to take the glory for what you did not do.
The adult children and their mother are very quiet and were pushed to the last wall. I am glad they listened to advise to speak out.
Fantastic comment.
DeleteAll that wasted money on someone who is dead. I will never understand people's mentality.
DeleteAfrican women will never seize to amaze me! The two women are busy writing accolades about a man that by his actions only cared for himself. To be a girl/woman in Africa is so hard!
ReplyDeleteVery hard oh, God have mercy! #spotremover#
DeleteMy dear!! The system is built against us. African men are so selfish.
DeleteOnly hard for those that wants it so. One of my life slogan is to love myself more than anything else in the world. Heck my peace of mind isn't negotiable too.
DeleteSelfish and entitled looking for those to use
DeleteAlas they keep seeing those that will fall into their traps
It's not hard anything... When they refused to use their God given brains...
DeleteWere they both not busy eating his money? How did he care only for himself? If you see the extend some of this women go to get these married men and hook them, you will stop writing gibberish about being a girl/woman. Did he use rope to drag Helen into his life? Was she not after her own interest (money and good life)? It's high time women start taking responsibility for their own mistakes and stop blaming men in everything! Helen entered another woman's home with her adult eyes open and enjoyed all the glitz and glamour, now its time for consequences, the man should be blamed. Better blame both of them, because they were two consenting adults involved in a long years of adultery!
DeleteStop getting into relationships with married men!!! Haba!!! He never divorced his wife and he never even married you. Why bearing his name when he never married you?
ReplyDeleteDr Ajayi has settled Helen with properties she will not disclose. Haters can go flush dia faces in the toilet
ReplyDeleteShame on both of you leeches, intruders. He never settled her with anything!
Deleteawon side chics wanting to take over a home another woman built, hope you are following this story
ReplyDeleteI really like this woman. Always wanted to write like her when I was younger. May God see her through.
ReplyDeleteAmen 🙏🥂
DeleteLord have mercy!
ReplyDelete