Stella Dimoko Actress Toyin Abraham Says Sometimes We Are The Bad Friends We Complain About + Gives Advice To Colleagues..


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Wednesday, April 14, 2021

Actress Toyin Abraham Says Sometimes We Are The Bad Friends We Complain About + Gives Advice To Colleagues..

 Hmmmm Nollywood and its diverse characters and Interests....

While some are crying injustice and unfair treatment, some are using their mouths to blow the flames .....

Toyin posted this to calm everyone.....

She says...

''You complain that friends are bad and so you don't want to have friends. I complain that friends are bad and so, I'd rather do without them. But honestly, who are these bad friends that make us all want to do away with friendships if not us all? Ṣé ẹ fẹ́ gbọ́ òótọ́, most of the time we are the bad friends we all complain about. All of us are guilty in one way or other. We've been a bad friend to somebody at one point or the other. So, if we avoid, cancel or run away from everyone who has offended us at one point or the other, what do we do with ourselves?

I think it is easier to point out other people's flaws than it is to accept that we are all flawed humans in some way. And so, when we expect perfection from one another, we ruin the beauty of friendships. Because ẹ wò ó, ká má parọ́, we all have our good and bad sides and it is never realistic to think that we can experience people without their flaws. ⁣

So, rather than avoiding one another, rubbishing one another, exposing our weaknesses and publicising our offences, hoping it would create the balance and stability we desire in our friendships and shield us from being hurt by "people", let us hold one another with grace and compassion instead. It is only then that it becomes possible to lovingly hold one another accountable and help each other grow into our best selves! Igi kan kò lè dá igbó ṣe, ká fi ọwọ́ w'ẹwọ́ ni ọwọ́ fí ń mọ́.''


  1. can you address nkechi blessing Sunday directly and spare us

    1. Don't mind her, she's so fake and always gumming body with other celebs, nkechi has been the one doing the most , and nk is a sweet soul

  2. Know yourself and know those you call friends.
    Bad energy zoom !! zoom !! zoom !!

    My friends are too mature for nonsense.
    Less circle, less drama

  3. Madam practise what u preach and go reconcile with MERCY

  4. Sometimes we're the toxic friends we complain about.

  5. "Less circle, less drama", jare. I like friends with respect for friendship. No time for immaturity or olofofo, I just park them one side and zoom off permanently. My life, my space and my choice.

  6. Nollywood Actresses and unsolicited advices are like 5&6. Learn from those you copy and stay mute. Post your pictures and go.

  7. It's still better to be safe than sorry. If you smell toxicity even from afar, please stay on your own to avoid stories. I don talk my own.

    Friendship is not by force.

  8. Shes very right....i have same set of friends since i was 10/11 and only added 1 through d yrs. I think ppl always make friends just too easily,not everyone u must call "friend". Some are just acquaintances and colleagues. Pls know d difference.

  9. Toyin abeg shift..... We know you and nkechi are not in good terms, nkechi on the other hand is lousy but has a very good heart , she stood by toyin through thick and thin


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