Hmmm...
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CONFUSED
Hello Stella,
Hello Stella,
Please I just want to rant. How can I get my money from this lady? I'm so confused and I don't know what to do. I can't go to her house because the last time I went I heard she moved out.
She has no job as of now but runs a business and she's always Missing in action.
I dont even know how to track her and get my money. The funny thing is she's so relaxed and undisturbed. She's even giving me attitude. Ahh!! She said that my actions will determine when she will pay.
someone I thought I did good when she was down.
To think I considered her my friend. When she asked me for this money I gave her immediately and she was promising heaven on earth that she will pay. Since October last year till now April I haven't seen 10kobo.
I can't leave this money. How can one be so ungrateful? If they money was less than 10k I would have let it go but its 500k.
Please I would appreciate if I can get suggestions on how to get my money back. I was thinking going diabolical but my mind no carry me. Any good advice would be helpful.
Thank you .
You borrowed your friend 500k and she is now saying that your actions will determine when she will pay back?
Thank you .
You borrowed your friend 500k and she is now saying that your actions will determine when she will pay back?
This does not sound normal at all... Please dont get killed trying to get your money back (she can also go diabolical)..... if you can eh, just move on and ignore her, Karma has a very good way of dealing with such people but if you cannot leave it then go through the legal route and not diabolical...
if you have proof you lent her the money then report her to the appropriate authorities or get some people and go and seize everything that she sells
Going diabolical; selling your soul to the devil?
ReplyDeleteYou think your soul is as cheap as that?
it cost Jesus his blood to save your soul and you haven't considered acknowledging him in your life or reporting the matter to him?
You want to move straight to the destroyer of human souls?
No my dear, don't. 💕💕💕💕
Omo read to understand o. Chai
Delete@Ladybird
DeleteWhy don't you explain it to her if you think she did not understand. She advised this lady NOT to sell her soul to the devil because she wrote she was contemplating doing that. You ladybird advised her nothing, absolutely nothing.
Poster, take her to the justice court if any of you live in Lagos. Search for "justice court nigeria" on YouTube. It's a female Judge Funmi and she helps people get their money back. Once she passes judgement, the debtor must keep to the repayment plan else he/She will be arrested.
DeleteGet 1 charcoal and 7 seeds of alligator pepper.
DeleteBurn the charcoal on gas cooker for some minutes to make it hot.
Open the alligator pepper with ur hands behind u.and pray over it.
Put the 7 seeds one after another into the charcoal calling her name and decreeing what u want.with Faith,Its done.make sure u come back and help out the needy on this platform when u get ur money.
Shalom
Ignore 500k kwa????
ReplyDeleteI know right? In this age and time of buhari...odi too much
DeleteOmo, you may just have to leave the money and the friendship as well cus she knows what she's doing.
DeleteShe doesn't intend on paying you, so what's the need of stressing yourself, it's better you know it's gone so you have rest of mind.
I so a video were some guys I think kidnapped a man and was burning him with wire asking him to call his wife and tell her to bring the money.. oops I just came back from church now
ReplyDeleteGoing diabolical bawo..You are not even serious yourself cos if you are,you would have gotten the appropriate authorities involved to seamlessly retrieve your dough
ReplyDeleteGoing diabolical bawo..You are not even serious yourself cos if you are,you would have gotten the appropriate authorities involved to seamlessly retrieve your dough
ReplyDeleteReport her to the police.. since she does business, then it's best you set her up with someone that wants to patronise her then get her arrested..
ReplyDeleteOr gather her details report to efcc and send to all this popular blogs to call her out..
Exactly what i will do if i were the poster. This is reason some people hardly help dis time around.
DeleteYou know what Jesus taught about lending monies to people?
ReplyDeleteMatthew 5:42 Give to them that ask you, and do not turn away from anyone that wants to borrow from you...? And then, as much as lies with you, be at peace with all people.
What I do in my business over the years is: if you want to borrow from me, I will give you the much I know that if you do not pay, I can bear it. Mine is 1k dollars. If you like, ask me for 50k dollars, that's how much I'd give you and not even expecting it back.
For this poster, hers happen to be 10k naira perhaps. That's just what you shouldn't give beyond. As for the matter on ground, don't pursue, it might cost your life.
Just thought I should share this to avoid stories like this.
Shalom.
I luv your response and advise.
DeleteThank you
DeleteCost her life because she’s asking for her money back?? Are you kidding me??? She’s obviously not letting it go and I’m sure she’s learned her lesson. She wants her money back so she should get it!!! Poster please take this woman to court.
DeleteJewelechi, this your red pen no follow at all oh, how can you advise her to ignore a whole 500k? Haba.. that was how I was reading a story about how someone wanted to transfer 5k to someone and ended up transfering 500k, the ingrate blocked everyone and ran away, but after the faillout on social media, she was tracked down and arrested.. poster contact all this popular social media influencer to call her out
ReplyDeleteGbam! Awon ole oshi
DeleteWhy is she ungrateful? Someone helped you and all you could say to appreciate is that her actions will determine when you will pay!
ReplyDeleteGod will judge her accordingly.
I wish you can move on because from your write up, she seems like someone who can go any length to avoid paying up.
Please pray and send holy spirit to arrest her soul and pay you your money and any evil plans she might have against you shall backfire.
Some people are heartless ooo
ReplyDeleteHow can you borrow money and be determined not to pay back and even giving attitude.
I don't borrow people money I cannot let go in case of any f**k up
That money is huge oooo, in this present economy, I would have said arrest the person but you said the person is your 'friend', maybe you should term it as irrecoverable debt if you can
Don't move on.
ReplyDeleteTravel to ogoja and do work to make her pay.
In less than 1 week u will get ur money back. I hate ingrates like her rubbish
Abeg wetin dey happen for ogoja?
DeleteDem they dance atilogwu there 😁
DeleteLet me help you complete that statement with a question mark;
Delete...travel to Ogoja and sell your soul to the devil and book your eternal place in hell?
The easiest way to get killed, is to lend money to a friend. If you can, I will advice you to leave the money for her.I was poisoned by a friend, I lend money.
ReplyDeleteImagine the wickedness.
DeleteIf you are in Lagos,take her to Justice Court.
ReplyDeleteI have similar problem,she borrowed 400k over 8years now plus other small cash bfor that. I have written it off a bad debt but sometimes I unconsciously curse her from my heart,I dream of scattering her farmlands. I still ask her abt it and she keeps talking stories. But I know my heart is not pure towards her. God help me
ReplyDeleteYea poster need to collect her money to avoid stories like this. Imagine a while 400k just like that. I’m pissed man. It hurts
DeleteI have learnt my lessons when it has to do with leading money to friends.i don't even have strength to type my experiences.The new methods my friends and colleagues use now is tell me to pay for something or buy it out and would refund but they never get to refund..now they are spending rumours that I am stingy when I ask for my money...I have told myself I won't allow such happen again...most humans are ingrate and look for who to leech on
ReplyDeleteLock up
DeleteProverbs 17:13 If you repay good with evil, evil will never leave your house.
ReplyDeleteTrust God to deal with it his own way. I have experience it.
🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Nice quote.
DeleteThat's why I don't like borrowing people money, just give them any amount you can afford cos toncollect money back from people is hard.
ReplyDeleteJust pray to Jesus for a your way out of the situation. She will return the money
ReplyDeleteGo to court.
ReplyDeleteIt's people like this that will jazz the money before paying it back. I've heard stories. It's not easy to leave this kind of money. I'll advise that you don't fight her, just go easy till you get your money back and then cut her off.
ReplyDeleteShe's just being wicked. Next time, just don't borrow or give what you can let go of.
😨😳 huh this one shock me ooo,that girl is heartless.
ReplyDeleteMy own is my blood brother, borrowed my life savings since November 2018, plus my land totalling over 9 million.
ReplyDeleteI don’t know where to start, I keep holding my heart not to nurse any bad feelings for him till yesterday night when I started sensing evil was going to come his way.
I woke up and told him and he confirmed he had a bad dream too.
It’s hard not to get my heart to feel bad, I m genuinely hurt and when people hurt me that much, there are consequences yet I pity him.
You people should pray against bad thing (s) or evil.
DeleteChai!, just hand it over to God in prayers.
DeletePoster becareful with this your friend because she could harm you or get you killed so that she will not pay back.
ReplyDeleteI know is not easy to let go of such money but you have to try and see how you can let go. I have someone I borrowed him 300k since last year till now the person hasn't pay anything but I saw the person moved into a bigger apartment in an expensive estate. The person bought a car, has been updating on social media yet nothing to offer to me.
I have closed doors of borrowing anyone money, if I cannot dash you that Money then I cannot give you. Just look fir ways to distract yourself towards that your money before she kills you.
Most times the money you lend to people never comes back I one peace.
Let me rant cos Ive never done so concerning some experiences with some people
ReplyDeleteSome people lack empathy.
When I was in school, a close friend used to sell ladies stuff. She will bug and bug and I'll buy- as per patronize my friend.
I bought 2 dressing slippers from her (after much cajoling from her) and promised to balance her soon as usual. (I have never owed beyond 2-3 weeks.
So because she saw a post on FB with a new item I bought, she sent me a stinker- 'pay me my balance of 4500 don't come and ruin my business which isy only source.'
I paid her few days later. After a while I forgave her for that text and moved on.
OverTwo years ago same person saw a beautiful pair of shoes on my WhatsApp status (I usually buy for sale whenever I travel) she indicated interest.
I told her someone else in my church wants it, she drove down to my house and collected the shoe. It's over two years now- no money.i also wondered event service to the husband and he is also owing me for over two years now. Sometime in February 1 asked them both for the money for the umpteenth time. They kept postponing.
Hmmmm.. I wonder whAt she would have done in my shoes.
That's how I borrowed one lady in my office 50k. Well she doesn't talk to me again because I scolded her for deleting a file containing a project I was to execute.
Some people just lack empathy and cannot tolerate what they dish out to others.
Your actions will determine if she'll pay back?
ReplyDeleteWickedness is on the rise.
As in...my mum had this colleague that will borrow money, show you money she has saying..."see money for here, no be say I no get money but your turn never reach, maybe in 5 or 6 months time". Sometimes people never got their monies and if she is pestered too much in cases of gbese she will return your item even if its 2 years later.
DeleteZoo people. Very dishonest and shameless. Another buffoon was saying shit about me cos I refused to lend him 3m. I told the fool to drop his Benz with me until he paid back. Na so I become villain. Say na blood money I get that's why I don't like to help. The entitlement! This was the same idiot I cleared 100% of the bill when his wife was held at the hospital after he couldn't pay when she had their first child. I tracked the fool and he denied saying that. This is someone without a proper job. How did he intend to pay back biko? You no get money but you like to do big man.
ReplyDeleteI don't like Keyamo, but I like what he did to that jagajaga guy. You can't be a beggar and be entitled.
Madam poster I doubt you'd get that dough back. Do not involve the police. It's a civil matter, and do not go to court. You'll surely regret it. If she refuses to pay, you just have to let go. The lesson here is not to lend out what you can't let go. If they insist, they should drop a huge collateral and sign a proper agreement. Nigerians are crooks. Nearly all of them.
I agree totally. Many Nigerians are dishonest.
DeleteA very few of them are honest. Na so I lent a colleague 400k 2 pay house rent.
I remember she and her cousin came to my house to drive me to the bank and back home as I had just given birth then. She paid back some. That baby is 8 years old now.
Another time na money for her daughter's school fees. Till 2moro she never paid back. Her daughter was in jss1 or 2 then, she is now in ss1.
I have ruled it as bad debts, she never ask me to lend her money again after I asked her for my money as soon as an alert came in and she was like make e cool down.
Make I just step out come back, she had given the money to someone else.
I told her never again cuz she was indirectly calling me an unwise person.
I go just dey corner dey watch she and her stupid irresponsible husband feeling smart.
Rubbish
You cannot borrow someone 500k without evidence. Even if she is your sister, except you already made up your mind that the money can go.
ReplyDeleteArrest her and charge her to court with evidence.
This kind of person that doesn't want to repay is a witch or a customer to jujuman/woman, so qs you sue her back it up with serious prayer, report her to your God too.
Or if you want to go the peaceful way then maybe you can let the money go and watch how she enters into a trouble money cannot solve.
My 100k dey outside for a year now
ReplyDeleteI missed registering for a very important course cause this person refused to pay, I have begged even half of the money should be Paid.
I have forwarded the evidence to his mentor and he has promised month end.
Else I would call him out.
I told him my dad was sick and I needed just 25k out of my own money oo
I didn't see kobo yet he's always on line dragging Buhari..
Now the maximum I give is 10k nothing more or less.
I can let go of 10k but 20k no way
Go to justice court tv on youtube, copy their number and call them, you can also watch their episode, it like judge jury. Not the one ebuka did oh, she's Jusice Funmi Alagbuo
ReplyDeleteThey will find her for you and she will pay. She won't have any choice. Just watch their episode, so you know, you will get your money back
I did contribution of 50k for 8 months and collected my money,my friend ask me for 50k to boost her biz in 2019 I gave her and she paid 10 k twice in July and aug of that same year,30k remaining till today I have not seen it,she is not even talking about it,but one thing happened and I was surprised too,when I am hurt the person that hurt me will suffer,that same year her husband was suspended and his salary stopped since late 2019,she too collected loan and the bank started removing more than half her salary for the loan,they were given quit notice,they had to change their daughters school to a cheaper school,she saw me and narrated all that but still not willing to pay me,I live her to God but I have learnt my lesson,I don't give loan now no matter the level of your tears.
ReplyDeleteI was doing contribution of 40k*10 one year like that. A junior colleague and friend came to me to lend her, a single mother of 3,she needed to pay house rent and cooperative could not give her then.
DeleteAn EXCO of the cooperative said I could give her and when she is given by the cooperative, she will give me.
The 1st sign of trouble was when she lied that I was to give her the whole 400k,i went back to the EXCO, he said she was entitled to 300k,so I gave her 300k,in fact I wanted her to sign an agreement then o but I kept delaying and eventually gave her the money without her signing anything.
Three months later, when I knew she ought to have received the money from cooperative, I went to her, she kept lying to me that she hadn't received. I went back to the EXCO to ask him if she had been paid, I read his body language, he was shocked but simply told me that she will receive and pay me.
Turns out that she had received the money and invested it in a business that eventually did not last or yield anything.
Hmmm! I entered panic mode cuz I knew that it was only thru the cooperative that she could pay me back, and that would be by the following year. Meanwhile, that is how she pays her house rent, by borrowing from cooperative, so how will it be done?
I went back to the EXCO, he encouraged me not to worry that since he was aware, she won't be able to collect money from the cooperatively without paying me back.
Ff to the following year, she applied for loan, Mr EXCO said include that the money should be paid in N's name, she refused, went round the office and telling people to beg people.
That one no work, her daughter came, I no gree o. She eventually added my account number and that was how I got my money back.
All thanks to Ibro
Poster if u are a Christian, call her name every 1'0clock midnight and command the Angels of God to give her sleepless night till she Pays u, it works, if u don't have patience for this one pls involve the police ur money go come out quick quick
ReplyDeleteDon’t bother going to the police as I have had similar issue with one idiot and he told police he would bE paying 10k every month and he paid once and absconded, she can even tell police it’s 5k every month she would be paying u and scatter the money for u, u would be so upset for coming to the police sef
ReplyDeleteI don't know what attitude your friend is giving you, but it's just to cover her shame at not being able to repay. If truly she is into business, have you considered the effect of the pandemic on her business. Bad people have made good people look bad, but there are cases where a person is genuinely handicapped and cannot pay, though communication is very key in such cases. If I trust my friend to lend her 500k and she doesn't pay back, (because I wouldn't give just anybody that amount of money), I would suspect she truly has challenges paying back and hand her over to God and her conscience; in the event that she just doesn't want to pay.
ReplyDeleteThe friend is a bad person abeg
DeletePoster, I was taught to loan money I can forfeit. No matter how you cry or wail, what I can forfeit is what I give. Even siblings disappoint ontop money. Take heart dear. I hope you get your money back. I advice you take it to God in prayers. She'll remain restless until she pays up. Good luck.
ReplyDeletePoster, google justice court. It is a show where you can report case like this. Judgement on the spot if you can prove you lent he money
ReplyDeleteI downloaded all the episodes, and watched them at my free time. Very interesting and commendable. Poster follow this advise, you will get your money, and don't be bothered how they will find her, cos they will
DeleteLife , we learn everyday. You trusted her, she was never your friend. Don't go kill yourself. Juju no dey work for who no dey fly, take this to the bank. Learn from your mistake and move on. If she eventually pays good , if she doesn't good. Some debtors fight dirty, some go for your life. Just be careful. Chose to stay alive and avoid spiritual battles with her. However if you can prove she obtained the money through deceit go the closest EFCC office and file a complain. This is the easiest way to get your money back .
ReplyDeleteAugustus Caesar
Hi everyone reading this post, please if you're owing anyone, pay up if you have the money. apologize if you have delayed in paying back. The entitlement mentality some people have is disgusting especially if they feel their benefactor is rich or comfortable.
ReplyDeleteI help people when I can by giving, but if I borrow you and you don't refund, for me that's good riddance to bad rubbish. You can never come to me for help. Also before you lend money to someone, do a mental analysis of how the person will payback. If this is questionable, don't lend out
Nice one
DeletePoster, the easiest way to get back your money without wahala is to go the RantHQ on face n post ur story. Make sure you include evidence of the transaction and also include her facebook name n if possible, her phone number. Na she go de beg to pay you back. It's very simple
ReplyDeletePoster, your friend is so ungrateful and heartless.
ReplyDeleteI had a neighbor who loan her friend a huge some of money to add to her business, when it was time to pay back she started giving excuses..
My neighbor went to her house one of days to demand for her money, she walked her out of her house and threatened to deal with her..
Do you know that this wicked friend went diabolical,she sent calaber belt juju, within few weeks my neighbor died o, for her act of kindness.
Pls,hand it over to God, let him fight for you because you don't know the extend she wants to go too
A young man was murdered recently by his own relative because the relative didn't want to pay back what was owed.
DeleteAnd I bet you he’s living his best life and you’re here hurting. I don’t understand some folks sometimes honestly. He’s seen you like a mumu person and knows you won’t do shit hence he took your money. Carry your cross abeg or take action
ReplyDeleteTake action In the sense of going to court or other legit/legal means o
ReplyDeleteI dont borrow money that i cannot forget. No matter the story you give me.I don learn
ReplyDeleteI go take police arrest her and she wont be released till i see my alert. What a wicked friend.
ReplyDelete