Some EX's are just too Vindictive.... ah ah...walking away is too difficult?
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Sunday, April 25, 2021
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This is sad though. We handle heartbreak differently. He could have promised her marriage like that only to leave her for someone else. But it's not enough reason to kill him, herself and her unborn baby.
ReplyDeleteIt is well!
This is a warning to those who use others. At least she also killed herself. Put her in the family way and try marrying another? Very wicked man! Even had nerves to go for a drink and probably *fuck* her again🙄? Useless goat!
DeleteThe funny thing is she may not even be his Ex,they may still be seeing and she got wind of his marriage plans......he probably sees her as his side'chick that he plans to continue seeing even after marriage.
DeleteSome ladies dont know how to handle betrayal. Pls stop playing with ppls emotionals and life. Some are already dealing with mental health den u disrupt their lives just for sex and games. No bi everybody dey normal o.
RIP to them all.
One last sex have sent him to his grave.
ReplyDeleteStill sleeping and getting her pregnant while planning wedding with another.
DeleteI am an advocate of burning all unnecessary bridges..it's because of things like this.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this comment, a married man should stop every communication with an ex, burn that bridge it might send you to early grave
DeleteWhat did they say about a scorned woman?
ReplyDeleteRip to the dead. We graduated from same school; Mouau
This is why some ex's should be ex forever; especially if you know they feel you dashed their expectations.
ReplyDeleteWhy meet up with her @ all, talk much less of few days to YOUR wedding to SOMEONE ELSE, while she is still unmarried.
Bereaved bride-to-be, may God comfort you and give you a more faithful man.
Guys, keep your wandering eyes and pricks one side!
This is wickedness.
ReplyDeleteWhat is he doing with an EX few weeks to his wedding? Last gbensh or he is already cheating on his fiancee
ReplyDeleteRIP
Yeye dey smell 😎😎😎😎 He killed himself, why honor such invite. Mtchweee 😎 😎 😎
DeleteHe was double-dating apparently and the girl was also pregnant for him. I guess she could not handle the betrayal.
DeleteWhy is he still frokiing with an ex. God will have mercy on us all
ReplyDeleteSign of a foolish man, you so loved and can't leave your ex. Why marry someone else.
DeleteStella you say Walk away with pregnancy ???
ReplyDeleteSo The guy was still sleeping with her even without protection while he knows he was more committed to another woman.
And she was his sales girl. Only God knows the promises he had made to her and eventually dumped her with pregnancy and moved on to marry another woman.
Even if he didn’t want to marry her, he should have at least waited for her to have their baby, be there for her the much he could before carrying on with his marriage plans with another woman. These men keep taking women for granted.
It’s called crime of passion for a reason.
For her to have killed herself too means she was really deeply hurt by his betrayal and she had already counted her losses.
You said it all.
DeleteBe careful how you treat people, men and women.
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DeleteYour ex? Why go on rendezvous with her, she's not happy not being with you forever, why dinning with her. Let's be guided. RIP man.
ReplyDeleteShe was pregnant for him.
DeleteWhat was the drink all about? If you break up with someone, why go back to meet or chat or drink? I bet he didn't tell his wife to be because that one wouldn't have supported it.
ReplyDeleteShe had to kill the guy and herself to what end? Saw this few days ago and couldn't wrap my head around it.
A family friend died while having her 7th child, what in God's name is she doing with 7 children? Isn't there a reason why family planning exist? Their eldest sister died just like that 10 years ago and now this? I am angry on my spirit biko....
You guys asking why he went back, the scorned lady is pregnant for him FCOL.
ReplyDeleteA wandering prick hardly retires. Some men go about promising different women one big deal or another yet having someone they're really commited to. Now the lady found out he's getting married while she's carrying his baby. How will you feel if you were in her shoes?
I'm not justifying the lady's action but this is totally avoidable only that the guy thought through his legs. Ladies should know their emotional capacity before opening legs or involving themselves with some people. Some ladies are very emotional and might not be able to handle some emotional traumas.
Self control and emotional intelligence should be thought in our schools cos most people moving around happily today can be triggered by the slightest thing the next minute.
May their souls rest well.
Rip to the dead..someone av to be careful when dealing with heartbreak ,it can make someone to go crazy
ReplyDeleteOh dear! See what betrayal and heartbreak can cause. Men but why? You impregnated her and left her for someone else and you still had the mind to meet up with her. Hmmm
ReplyDeleteThe arrogance of the ignorant fool killed him
DeleteI heard of a guy that broke up with a lady and in order to compensate her contracted her to Bake the cake for his wedding. Long story short she poisoned the cake everyone that ate from it died
ReplyDeleteFoolish man
DeleteHeartless man, May God console the bride to be.
ReplyDeleteYes, the guy died in the process, but you all know playing away games just before marriage is more common with you women, because sey una no die abi...dashing other men children upandan to thier hubby
ReplyDeleteHe killed himself by himself.
ReplyDeleteWhy honour such invitation,,na wah ooo
May they rest on.
his soul rest in peace lesson to the rest of us one last meeting with ex's n to say good buy be a wedding is dangerous
ReplyDeleteSome men are purely wicked, there's this ex of mine calling me upandan now, despite being married to an oyibo for green card. This is a guy that practically treated me like a hoe. I was so bitter and angry but decided to just take a walk. He's back now to score more points for himself and I respectfully told him I no do again yet he insists. If not for God, I would have gone wit a poisoned drink for him alone, me I love life. He is mocking me bcos I made myself a fool. I swear to God if ik continues to mock me, he wil die prematurely. Stay yaa own.
ReplyDeleteDon't cooperate with his village people
DeleteBlock him everywhere and face your front
Ignore the stupidity on two legs
Clearly some BVs read a fuller story on other media about this incident because the post does not mention the woman's pregnancy
ReplyDeleteA woman who wants to kill or cause harm to her ex-boyfriend will do it any way possible for her before or after the man's marriage. Some women who were not pregnant have been known to kill their ex-boyfriend. So we cannot say 100% or not that the pregnancy made the woman kill the man.
If a pregnant woman calls for a meeting, is it a crime for the man who impregnate her to attend the meeting? Do we know whether or not the woman lured the man to the the meeting using her pregnancy and baby needs? If the man did not attend would he not have been accused of not even caring for the unborn child? And please were the bodies found naked in a room or on bed to insinuate the man went to sleep with the woman?
Poisoning the man was the easiest method for the woman to kill the man. The man may have drank the poisoned drink because the woman drank too. That they drank together is even evidence the woman may have lured the man into believing she was not as hurt as her heart was.
Drinking with the woman was not the cause of the man's death. The woman could have arranged for other men to kill the man at the meeting point. She chose the cheapest means available to her.
Impregnating the woman and going on to marry another woman was not what killed the man. If the woman found out after her pregnancy that the man was an unrepentant evil person would she have insisted on marrying the man. It would have been chorused that: "sister, thank God you dodged a bullet". Likewise, if a man found out a very bad unusual about a woman after she got pregnant for him cant the man withdraw from the relationship.
It is the society and obsession that caused the needless death of the man, the woman and their unborn child.
The Nigerian society shames the unwed mother and depreciates her bridal price when she is eventually sought to be married. This is commoner in South East Nigeria. Please pardon my french. As a South-Southerner, I have some personal experience. Please let us ask ourselves why the issue of "baby factory" is more prevalent in South-East Nigeria?
An obsessed person goes the full mile to get a desired person or to prevent every other person from having that person's companionship. People obsessively desired have been killed even when they did not know about the killer's desire or even had any relationship with the killer.
In most cases, the situation is worse when the obsessive woman/man sees the desired person as a ticket out of poverty. Any threat to a planned marriage between both triggers unbelievable reactions.
I have observed that when a woman does bad or evil to her boyfriend or husband, SOME women will never see any wrong in it or empathize with the man or his family until it happens to their beloved brother(s) or to their families. It appears to me that such women project their desire for revenge against one man into every story of relational harm or injury to any man.
Three lives were wasted as this post and additional info says. But majority of the comments by the women BVs are blaming the man. Please spare a thought for the victims' families. Would any of these man blaming BVs want their brothers or sons killed because they changed their mind about marrying a woman after she became pregnant from consensual sx? Would they wish any of their sisters or daughters to commit suicide because a man did not marry her after becoming pregnant from consensual sx?
Lets us ask ourselves: If a woman has a right to kill a man for not marrying her after pregnancy, what about the woman's right to close her legs to prevent herself from being impregnated before marriage. Remember rape was not mentioned in this post or by Bvs who added extra info it.
Those who have lost loved ones in avoidable death at the hands of or caused by other people will understand where I write from.
No offence or gender war intended.
15 paragraphs! Are you a writer?
DeleteBut the post mentioned now. Lol
DeletePlease read well, first line.
I didn't make sense of this epistle.
DeleteI get where you are coming from but there is no baby issue that cannot be discussed on the phone especially since the baby is still unborn. There is no need to be drinking together and being overly familiar with a person whose heart you just broke. If this guy wasn't being unwise and unfeeling, he won't have the time for all these a week to his wedding.
DeleteHe was also not forced to have sex outside marriage or without a condom when having premarital sex. Most men who go into the field to sow wild oats will come out lightly scathed or postpone the results to after their burial when warring factions are dragging shovel and filing lawsuits but you see, a few will choke real fast on their mistake. Not saying the women did right by wasting three lives, I am saying the man did wrong by putting his life and that of his child in danger.
@ Castle Windsor 22:17, you could not make sense of the epistle?
DeleteAre you one of those who believe the woman justifiably killed the man? Okay, "she did well by killing the man." Can you now make sense of the epistle?
But remember she was somebody's daughter, sister, cousin, niece, auntie. Put yourself in any of those persons shoes.
She was also a mother-to-be who killed her unborn child. Think about the child and all women in one clinic or hospital now "about to conceive".
When you are done, maybe, just maybe, it would be more easier for you to make sense of the epistle.
Not all matters are men against women or vice versa, except for those who fell from the skies and have no male or female as family members.
Not all matters are pure black or white.
@ Castle Windsor 22:17, you could not make sense of the epistle?
DeleteAre you one of those who believe the woman justifiably killed the man? Okay, "she did well by killing the man." Can you now make sense of the epistle?
But remember she was somebody's daughter, sister, cousin, niece, auntie. Put yourself in any of those persons shoes.
She was also a mother-to-be who killed her unborn child. Think about the child and all women in one clinic or hospital now "about to conceive".
When you are done, maybe, just maybe, it would be more easier for you to make sense of the epistle.
Not all matters are men against women or vice versa, except for those who fell from the skies and have no male or female as family members.
Not all matters are pure black or white.
Epistle of epistles ekushe oooo
DeleteEse, hope you slept well?
DeleteEse, hope you slept well?
DeleteCrime of passion,
ReplyDeleteRlp to them
I don’t think it fits into the description for a crime of passion since it wasn’t a spontaneous act.
DeletePoisoning a drink or meal as the case reports is a premeditated act.
I hope others can learn from the unfortunate story and conduct themselves properly.
Ours is a generation with a dwindling 'moral character'...... For whatever reasons, an ex should remain an EX. Nothing justifies keeping close communication with one to whom you were once emotionally attached, there's no smartness in it, you will pay one way or the other because it amounts to a form of betrayal, as harmless as the ibten8may be
ReplyDeleteSome maintain relationships with exes because of gains, selfish motives thinking they're smart!
My ex once told me of how he atended the weddingsl of his previous girlfriend,met with her for a last round,but claimed she asked him to come, he made a contribution to the wedding, attended the reception and took a conspicuous seat in the reception. Ate and drank while staring at her..... the lady in his narrative was uncomfortable throughout the reception, unknown to the innocent groom! Now tell me the outcome if he had other vile motives before the wedding, or if such two maintained friendship after?
Or is it my brother-by - law who kept seeing his ex to the point of planning to help her secure an apartment in the same compound where he stays with his wife until she cried out to his family, he equally goes to another married ex of his in the name of visit, and he keeps boasting of how he advices and helps her etc because her husband doesn't treat her right. He takes it as a thing of pride when these ladies call upon him and he rushes to their 'rescue' ..... Today he is taking his wife from one place to another because she is ttc. People should be careful,there's a price for everything.
Your first paragraph,what are you saying? Didn't you see she was preggy? How was he supposed to stop communication with her?
DeleteI see others commenting like you on this topic,its not by writing epistle,read and comprehend before commenting. Ciao!
I would like to congratulate the woman he would have married. I would like to thank God for her mother and entire family who were saved from decades of horror and pain that their daughter would have brought them by ignoring the signs and joining her life with this two-faced man of no integrity.
ReplyDeleteFrom accounts of those who knew the characters in this story, this lady who committed murder-homicide was no ex. She was his sales girl whom he led on. Along the line, he met this other lady who was better in bed though not good at cooking and was boldly dating both of them. He decided to go for Aunty bedmatics and dump the lowly salesgirl who knew how to cook but did not exactly break the bed. Despite the salesgirl being pregnant, he decided to flaunt the lady he had been cheating on her with and fix a wedding date. In his mind, he had a pregnant second wife/ permanent concubine even before marrying the "first" one.
To all those thinking themselves to be all wise, have you considered that the person you are playing may be MAD? Have you considered that such a person may have nothing to lose? This story will save those that can be saved. May the dead rest in peace.
Well said.
DeleteSome men are so arrogant and they are all in all. Only God knows all the lies he would have told this girl only to go and marry someone else.. His type will even arrogantly tell her to be grateful sef for even getting her pregnant.. Sorry no pity for anyone. If you do anyhow you go see anyhow
ReplyDeleteI swear
DeleteI always tell men to be careful when dealing with women,don't thnk you can hurt every woman and go free cos you are a man.personally, I can't take cheating or betrayal,I know I will eventually strangle you in your sleep esp as a married woman cos I can't HV a sugar boy so I can't stomach the idea of my husband cheating.i will poison u a little everyday.
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