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Boredom Eliminating Post...

 

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  1. Yeah

    Story too long abeg🚢🚢🚢🚢

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    1. I was in love with him, still am but distance kept us apart and it's about to grow even further Cuz I'd be leaving the country soon and he has no idea.
      The thing is life kept us in 2 different but neighboring countries I then told him he could see someone else but only on the condition that he tells me first and what did he do?he didn't tell me and had the effrontery to put up her picture on her birthday with some stupid talk about him being in a dark place before meeting her. Relationship aside that was an insult to all the time and emotions I had invested in us now he is back and begging buh no baby. I love you but I love myself more πŸ’”

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  2. Do I love? I just like girls. Yes, I have always walked away for no good reasons.

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  3. Yes, he got married to his long time girlfriend,and he begged me to wait for 6 month after wedding the girl that he will marry me, he said he already promised the girl and she has really suffered with him, to assure me that he will marry me, be asked that we do court marriage without anyone knowing as he will only do traditional with the girl, all his documents was in my care, he bought properties in my name, but I know I deserve better than a second fiddle, I told him he either leave the girl, or me, but he said the heartbreak will kill the girl if he leaves, So I walk, he did everything he could do, but I no gree, I got married to the other guy I was dating few months after, we still talk sha,he always call me impatient girl, anyway we've both been married for 12 years now. I'm not in love with my husband but I care for him,and he loves me crazily. Life!!

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    1. Can you imagine?
      Not in love with your own husband because of an ex that abandoned you because of another chick?

      This life na pot of beans

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    2. Na wah o. This life eh.... You love someone who loves someone else who loves someone else and who loves someone else... The cycle continues...

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    3. Are you a cousin to the one that kneel down for her sugar daddy??? because na the same wrapper tie una twoπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. Aproko πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    5. Please free the innocent man. He doesn't deserve you

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  4. Tribalism,my parent refused

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  5. Yea... My last relationship. Truth is that, It's not hard to realize when someone is no longer for you. It's just hard to accept it. If I had an idea that I would miss her this much; I would not have loved her the way I did.

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    1. Yeah ......

      We were engaged. Very Beautiful chick. Career oriented, ambitious. Classy.

      But sadly we were not compatible. It was a December. After thinking it through and through, I realized that if we ever got married, I wouldn't be a happy person ......so many signs ....I like attention and quality time. I like love.

      She was a Choleric woman, not really affectionate, or the type who is good at expressing love. Communication skills for her was below par. Very independent, doesn't want to receive instructions from any man.

      I looked ahead and forecasted that the marriage would not stand the test of time.

      I called it off. It was painful but it had to be done. She is married to someone else, I'm married too.

      The journey of marriage is too far to travel with someone who isn't your soulmate.

      I think about her some times. I hope she's enjoying her marriage.


      On 2 the Next!

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  6. Yes. He can't keep to our agreement of no sex until marriage.

    Japa level...

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  7. Yes his family wanted him to be with his ex gf and I left him because I only go where I am wanted. We are both married to other people now! He didn’t marry his ex gf in the end.

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  8. Love is never truly enough.

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    1. I think you are right. Sometimes I want to ask, what do people really want? You show genuine love to them but in return you get nothing but disappointment.

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    2. Money is not enough either, if not Bill Gates and the other billionaires would have still been married

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    3. @teejay na better disappointment

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  9. Yes, too stingy. From Aguda to lawanson after fuck, he gives me 100naira for t. Fare. He did not ask if food they my Belle, na to use his big gbola they pound me, use one hand they pound if I dey on top. I received sense. But I really loved him then.

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    1. Mine gives me 3k, at most 4k last time I told him it's such a small amount as I really have lots to do with cash n the idiot said "we can't solve all our problems in one day". Wicked stingy short cancerian igbo devil that takes sex enhancement supplements tufia. Stellz plzz post

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    2. Since when did relationship become a poverty alleviation schemeπŸ˜€πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…???

      If You have lots to do with cash why not hustle to solve your problems. This is the reason why a lot of men don’t take women seriously in relationships.
      Transport fare on top relationship. When he comes to see you do you give him transport fare back???

      Pls do away with this mindset for your own good. This is 2021

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    3. @yvonne abeg ask them for me ooo, can you imagine, you have a lot to do with money.

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    4. Yvonne O, you nailed it.
      It's this mindset that makes most guys indentifies with lady as an article off any shelve. Objectifying our intentions. Yet they won't do the same for the guy, as if the guy too doesn't have a lot to do with cash too at that moment.

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    5. God bless you for this 🀝

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  10. Yes
    I prayed about the relationship and I did not receive peace.
    God’s response was « let go and allow me to... »

    My Ex was seemingly perfect but I had walked with God long enough to know He has my best interest at heart. He sees the heart of man, he has seen the future I I know nothing of, I had to let go while trusting Him. It wasn’t easy, one of the hardest decision I had to make. I cried for days, was so heartbroken.

    My ex kept calling and begging, he felt he had done something wrong, my excuse didn’t make any sense to him, he said it was my mind playing tricks on me,
    My friends called me names, from stupid, to fanatic, They never understood. Our relationship was goals to them.

    It didn’t make sense at the time, even to me but It definitely all makes sense today.

    I married my hubby without really ‘‘knowing’’ him well, but I prayed and I had peace, Today i feel like is like custom-made for me, my brother and best friend. The most selfless person I ever met. I can’t imagine being married to any other person ever. He treats me like egg and above all I still have Peace;
    ‘’This peace that surpasses all human understanding’’ is priceless and I would never trade it for anything.

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    1. Only someone with DEEP relationship with Christ will understand this!

      You did well. He sees what we don't see. Mind you, there maybe nothing wrong with your ex. But that marriage journey was not for you & him. Something as small as a child falling sick may have brought out a demonic side of him that will shock both him & you!

      All the best!

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    2. Lol.Yvonne I see what you did.replying yourself in anon mode.keep deceiving yourself. you wish youare what you wrote oshisco. how you manage to move from insulting people to born again overnight lol please remain in insulting side that is the real you

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    3. Thanks anon 20:31
      You are right. He’s happily married now too. I’ve learnt not to work by sight nor trust in my own understanding. It wasn’t a days journey. God is Everything
      God is everything.

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    4. Very insightful.

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  11. Found out l was dating myself.

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  12. I did and I still love her funny enough but she’s not the kind of person that I would want to marry.I am married with kids but and have come to realize that love alone doesn’t keep a marriage.one person will be the others victim if love alone is the foundation.

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  13. Yes, we were both AS, but he said we could do something about it.
    I couldn't risk it.

    Sometimes,Love is not enough.

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  14. Yup!

    He was not the marrying kind

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  15. I'm so in love with him and he loves me more and treats me like a queen I mean he was a perfect gentleman and care for me out of the little he's got. But you see, he isn't ambitious.. he is just comfortable with life and the 50k job he is doing (in Lagos),no effort towards searching for better opportunities and he is brilliant too,top of his BSC class.
    I on the other hand, wants more out of life, I'm a professional, very ambitious and I'm scared of living below average, grew up poor.
    We dated for 5years, now he wants us to settle down, I do not want to end up resenting him for pulling me back or him resenting me for pushing him to hard.
    I broke up with him 4 months ago and it's been hell, the LOML fell sick when we parted, I had to play nurse, lol. still call me every single day and we hang out at our fav spot once in a while.
    Love is truly not enough.

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    1. Lucky you. I resent my husband because of this

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  16. Yes ooo oga was dating me and using his ex(as he claims) as screen saver saying he finds it difficult to change it, dated for 4 months and I Waka, seems I was the one truely involved

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  17. Yeah
    I walked away big time
    I prefer breaking my heart b4 u break it 4me fah.
    After some years he started calling n chatting, both of us have married though. tnk God I am happily married. After so many calls n chats, he asked me if I still have feelings for him
    I told him noooooo. he said he regretted his actions. he wouldn't av allowed me to leave dat time.

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  18. Na only me they said have many exes which I didn't know when ,how ,where and who they are.Lolll!!
    Work of lazy sick small small guys that are looking for a lady that will pay their bills.
    Dey no tell them say I bi omo Igbo.
    Slippers get size





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    1. 🀣🀣🀣 Lol @"Slippers get size"

      Same thing my friend's dad said when he heard one old guy proposed to his youngest daughter. 🀣🀣🀣

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  19. Couldn't understand why I was madly in love with him. He's a pathological liar. Infact I think he has bipolar sef. When he wants to be sweet, you'll forget all your problems, but I realized I was beginning to run mad with his lies. Mo ya fere si. It took me months to get over him but I kept telling myself I deserve bera.

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  20. Hmm I'm presently in my guy's place. I actually came to do my passport but na the day I reach dem say dey don postpone am till June. So, now I have to wait till June, I'm very faraway from home. Well, coincidentally, his dad came around. We sha agreed that he'll just introduce me as his friend😏 but kasala don burst. All his friends decided to come around this period. Na so so wife wife the man dey hear o. Chai but seriously me I'm just enjoying myself. I no wan marry, I no get strength for marriage Wahala abeg. We've actually discussed this but this guy too dey love. We've been friends for 13years and counting. Guy man no gree leave me. Now everybody is thinking something is cooking meanwhile there's no food sef.

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  21. Yes.
    It’s been 6 weeks.
    I miss him like crazy.
    But, I just had to walk away.
    He didn’t love me the way I wanted to be loved.
    It was a selfish one sided love even though he claimed he cared.
    It was always Me, Me, Me, Me!!! with him.
    I spent on him. Never asked him for money though he’s got money. Loved him. Did everything to please him. Respectful. Obedient.
    Everything had to be his way. And, I always obliged him.
    I had no say in the relationship.
    I miss him like crazy. I miss our conversations. I’m hoping he’s missing me too. I know he is. And, I hope he’ll reach out to apologize and make things right very soon.
    I’ve been praying, fasting, giving alms.
    I want him to come back. I want him to Propose, to love me passionately, to marry me and to spoil me silly with gifts. All things he refused to do before.
    My terms will be non-negotiable this time around. I’m not asking for much. God will do it. I know He will. We will get back together. I’ll be back to give testimony on this platform. But, I’m also submitting to God’s WILL. HE has the final say.

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    1. Instead of you yo be happy to dodged a bomb. What a pity.

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  22. Yes. We were so in love. He was the definition of my kind of man. People envied us. Why did I leave...? I loved him so much but always had this nagging worry at the back of my mind. We dated for 5 years.
    My Pastor called me and advised me to stop, my mum too, said there were too many challenges. I didn't care.

    In the midst of all the confusion, I went for a church program somewhere I had never been before. As the woman was preaching, she walked up to me and told me to quit that relationship 😲😧. I was shocked. Still didn't agree. But I went back home and talked to my Heavenly Father with a heart to give it up if it wasn't His will.

    I asked for a sign and it happened that way. I was still doubting then I had a dream about him, I woke up panting... I didnt need an interpreter for that dream, I saw him trying to cut my hair with a pair of scissors for rejecting him 😧..

    That was the day I ended it. I cried for months.. He also did. He even wanted to go crazy, came to our house at midnight dead drunk and acting all crazy.. In short I saw a part of him I never did before and knew I dodged a bullet.

    After 6 months I met my husband😍😍. The rest is history 😊😊

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  23. Yes

    When I found out I was dating my very own self, I had to walk away to avoid causing pains and suffering for myself.

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  24. She got married and then relocated. We loved each other so much but I loved her more. She is so nice and caring to a fault. The decision to get married was tough for the two of us, but she had to. I'm glad she met a good guy who adores her. I'm lucky to have found a good guy too. Hubby and I will be travelling this summer to the country she resides, she wants us to hang out but I'm scared. I'm still trying to talk him into picking another country. I don't trust my feelings. How do I face her after five years? I still love this babe like crazy, I don't think I'll be comfortable seeing her with our hubbies around.
    I really don't know what to do.

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    1. Talk this over with her before you travel.

      When you get to the country, don't see her when hubby is there!

      Tell hubby you want to go for a walk and meet her in a mall. Talk, laugh, cry, whisper etc. And go home!

      If you know you don't want to be branded a whore or whatever, avoid seeing her in front of your hubby because that love will expose you people. Else both of you are good actresses. Don't also meet her in a secluded place.

      The catch up at a mall will prevent old firewood flames aka sex (so you didn't cheat) and also give your heart rest. Because if you don't see her, the pain will be burning you and making you cranky, sad and frustrated. Let off that steam!

      Things will change after you see her. You will still love her, but a part of you will finally accept the fact that life has changed and she has a whole FAMILY now!

      Don't cancel the plan. Just do as I say! You need that her love for bad days with hubby. Men don't give second thoughts when doing stuffs that shatter your soul. In times like that, you need your *soul sister*!

      All the best!

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    2. Thank you! @Anon 9:16

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    3. Anon 03.08.
      Pls don't see her. She is in Your past now. Let it end there... Don't go and open old wounds and bring condemnation to your family and marriage. As you said, you don't trust yourself, even your spirit know that you might fall. That part of your life is OVER. Flee fornication... And ask God for forgiveness and help to live RIGHT in Jesus name.
      Cheers..

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  25. Yes. I was going through hell and he didn't care.

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