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Sunday, May 02, 2021

Sunday In House Gists - You Said NO But...

 This might be a sensitive post for some and a post for some to learn from......




Have you ever been in a situation where you said NO but you were still violated/raped?

How did it happen and what happened to your violator thereafter?

What situation led to this rape? was it a friend? someone you trusted? or a stranger? Did you get pregnant from this rape? what did you do about it?

Did you tell anyone about it? were you blamed for the crime?

Please note that my question is for both genders as applies to them

I also want to ask the men if it is possible for a man to be raped since their mind is in control of their getting turned on or not.....This is a simple question that is always on my mind


Remember that NO is NO.


Lets gist!



88 comments:

  1. I've never been in such a situation before. Let me read comments.

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    1. I was molested as a kid by someone that stayed with us and by my landlords son. It started with hide and seek at my landlords apartment, he would make me hide in their wardrobe and make me suck his d..k. He made me watch my first porn. Ohh . Remembering this now and I am so emotional.
      This other guy that stayed with us made me touch his stuff, he dry humped me and came most times, he would rub his d..k on my head, make me kiss his d..k.

      Trust me , you would ask where where your parents?. I wouldn’t say I was scared or anything, I didn’t understand what they were doing to me.
      When I was in jss1 I was put in a federal boarding school and that was when I understood that everything these guys did to me was wrong.
      Oh my . I hated them so much that I wished them death.
      Kenechukwu was my landlords sons name
      Chigozie was staying with us
      Chigozie left my house while I was in boarding school and I was so scared that he might have done it to one of my sisters. 6 girls in total, me being the first.
      These people introduced me to porn at age 7 or 8.
      My parents are pastors. I hated my dad cos I felt he would have known something was wrong with this girl, even tho he didn’t , I have forgiven them tho.

      But you see chigozie, I prayed for him to suffer, I prayed he will suffer an ill fate. When I heard that his wife gave birth to twins, I know it was wrong but I prayed that he won’t reap the fruits of whatever labour he ventures into
      . Yes he died 2019 , I was overjoyed, I was so happy eh . Cos I confronted this dude because I needed closure, like how can you do this to the first daughter of your benefactor and he had the guts to tell me that nobody would believe me. I told one of my sisters about his death.
      Yeah you guessed right, he molested her too.

      Chigozie and kenechukwu wherever you are,I will be 28 in few days to come, I am better and I will be great. This is the first time since 2003 I have ever written or tried to talk about this. I pray witting this will help me be better and stronger.
      I pray I keep getting better and quit my porn addiction. Any tip at all can help. So help me God

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  2. As undergraduates, I took her to a friends room. I wanted to, she said no. I forced her. She left with annoyance and did not clean up. We ended up dating secretly afterwards as she had a school boy friend then.

    We're married now as fate brought us together.

    An experience.

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    1. You ended up getting married does not clear the fact you raped her then! Even in parts of Asia and some Muslim countries, a rapist is offered a choice of marrying their victims or go to jail. Marriage doesn't clear the fact.

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    2. I don't even know what to say

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    3. You forcing her against her wish was an absolutely disaster. I hope u dint blackmail her into dating u secretly.. That you two are married now doesnt make u free from the crime of rape. Not trying to judge you, but I just feel you didnt realize the evil u did at the time might have made her miserable. Please teach your male child not to force a woman when they say NO>.

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    4. Man can also be raped. While this is controversial, it is an established fact.

      Growing up, boys are taught that when a woman says No, she is just playing hard to get. A little persistence and cajoling will make her say yes. That is how boys are groomed as potential rapists. They engage in forcible touching and kissing as a way of persuading girls.

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    5. ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿฟ Absolutely true!

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  3. I have never been in this kind of situation and God will blind them to see me.

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  4. I was a virgin at 20 but he did not believe me. He forced himself to prove a point. I was devastated.
    Till date I am not trusting anymore.
    Although, he pleaded for days but I couldn't forgive. I became numb and never looked back.

    Again, it happened in University. I was almost suffocated with a pillow by a friend I liked but the relationship was not formal so I kept myself but he had other intentions.

    Married now and praying that my daughter does not fall prey like I did.

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    1. If you do not forgive, you are the sufferer of your unforgiveness and not the rapist.
      "forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sinned against us..."

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    2. **** why are you like this? Why do you make Christianity appear as bondage where you are forced to comply?

      She needs to forgive her rapist I agree but you just made it seem as if she brought this ill upon herself and the only way out is to forgive outrightly without you realizing that learning to forgive for some is a process and sometimes it takes time and asking God for grace.

      I REALLY DON'T WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH PEOPLE LIKE YOU. YOU RUB OFF ON ME THE WRONG WAY AND THIS IS ME PUTTING IT MILDLY. Tufiakwa!!! Azigbagi!!!

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    3. By force forgiveness ๐Ÿ™„
      Sorry dear anon. Forgive only when you are ready.

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    4. @Twins
      If you don't forgive, you don't have forgiveness from God. That is simply the Lord's prayer that
      I quoted there. Quarrel with the Word of God, not me. I didn't ask you to have something to do with
      me, a mere human. Have something to do with Jesus.

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    5. Thank God the God I know and HAVE is nowhere near what you portray Him to be to others.

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    6. @Twin
      Okay, I give up, please teach me the meaning of;
      Matthew 6:12 "forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sinned against us..."
      And Romans 12:19-21
      Please teach me.

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    7. @19:15, though the scripture yoh quoted was right, it wasn't the appropriate time nor the appropriate verse of scripture for her. You came across as very insensitive. A simple 'just pour out your heart to Jesus,He will fill it up, and forgiveness would flow would have sufficed'.

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    8. ****
      The word of God is all about Mercy and Truth. While you are trying to make a point from the Bible, learn to be sensitive. Let your words be filled with grace and edify, not condemn.

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  5. I said No and he tried to force me but the strength that came over me ehn in fighting him off me..I succesfully exhausted him and he gave up. My No was always my No.

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  6. Stella, it's very possible for a man to be raped. Though it's often rare but it does happen.

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  7. I use to date a man so then,the first time I told he no! Dude literally pinned my legs and forced his way. Has such a dirty attitude,saying no kind of makes him horny,never met a man like him. Had to quit the relationship for my sanity and because I deserve more...

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    1. why I'm always careful choosing a male friend.
      And I have never had any animal as friend.
      There are still much responsible guys with human conscience,and thy always have my respect.
      Any man that talks and thinks only about s*x,I avoid them.

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  8. What a wawu!!!

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  9. I couldn't even say No,As all I remember is Bro shola rubbing his pee on my V when I was little.it happened thrice but never penetrated.I started running away from him anytime I see him but couldn't tell my mom.The day I heard he died I don't know why I was happy.As I think karma even took too long to visit him as I heard he died of drug overdose.

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  10. Thankfully no. I was raised by รœber strict parents so I didn't really date til I was 24. I say really because I had the usual phone boyfriends but I never got physical with anyone. By 24 I was already on my PhD and decided to give dating a trial. I had car hangouts and strolls with the first person only to discover he was married with a newborn baby. He invited me over severally and I turned him down. My detective skills helped me. I swore off dating but the month wasn't ended and a second charmer came along. I investigated him no wife no kids cool. This guy was always preaching and stuff so I decided to visit him one holy Sunday. We talked at length career, past relationships, family. I even educated him as I do anyone I meet on the dangers of unprotected sex even though he should know that as a pharmacist he said he was. He cooked for me wasn't that great for a boastful calabar guy, we watched film, cuddled and I had my first kiss. I had already told him I was keeping myself for whoever I would end up with and he promised to help me with it hehe. Ordinary cuddling guy was already wet next thing I saw giant penis in one hand and the other hand shifting pant. I was meant to sleep over but I left in the dead of the night and we are history. Sexual irresponsibility! You didn't ask if I was in and you don't even have the decency of using protection. The fact that I'm a virgin doesn't translate to being clean from STDs. God forbid what if I got something from birth or transfusion or needlestick or another means.

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    1. And you with all your phd did not know that you had no business sleeping in the house of
      a man that hasn't paid your bride price? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
      Some could have raped, killed and hidden your body and none would find out.
      You know what? Ask Jesus into your life and get divine wisdom by reading his teachings
      in the New Testament. That is the direction, the way.

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  11. This is the first time of opening up about what I went through In the hand of my maternal uncle. It started when I was 17 years old, I was sent to Abuja from East to spend long vaccination with him and his family. He was a married man with 2 kids , his wife is so beautiful.

    When I got to Abuja, they all welcomed me well. The next day he said I should get ready that he is going to show me around Abuja. I got dressed, he took me to Nicon hotel, we had lunch. After lunch, he now said, he will take me to a site where he was building a house as a contractor. As he was driving, he asked me if I was a virgin nor have a boyfriend. I told him that I am still a virgin though has a boyfriend. I felt embarrassed with such questions.


    He drove me to the site which has lots of uncompleted buildings. As we got there , he show me his own house, took me around and as we got to a room, he pulled me close to him and started fingering me. I wanted to shout but he held my mouth. He brought his manhood and forcefully penetrated me. I was too surprised, ashamed and tired to fight back. When he finished , he apologised to me and told me that he will sort me out that I Should not worry about getting pregnant. He drove to a Pharmacy, told me to wait in the car , came back after 20 minutes and gave me a pill to take. I took the pill and he warned me not to say what happened to anyone. When we got home , I was too tired, I started thinking of my mum and that the reason I was sent to Abuja for holiday was because things was hard for us and we needed money for my school fees next semester. How will I go back now, will my mum blame or believe me for allowing him to rape me.

    Stupid me decided to stay because if I told him I was leaving, he won’t give transportation fee. Then mobile phone was is not common. How will I let my parents know. I stayed for 3 threes weeks and avoided going out with him. His wife was a stay at home mum , I spent every day with her. After 3 weeks, I told them I will be leaving in 2 days, he was like why? I said I need to go backs and get ready for new school year. He frowned and said, he will think about it. His wife said that it’s my decision.

    The next day, he said, I will go with night buss. I agreed not knowing he has other plans. We Left his houses around 6.30pm to the park, as we were driving, I noticed that it was taking long not knowing he was driving around to get dark. He parked on a quiet room and started fingering me again. This time I just blocked my mind from whatever he is doing and allowed him has his way because we were in the middle of no where and he might harm me and tell my parents that he put in the buss. When he finished, he gave me tissues to wipe up and drive me to the park paid for the buss , gave me 20 thousand then drove away. I cried all the way from Abuja to East. I did not tell anyone because I am too ashamed and thought it’s my fault. The last time I saw him was during mum’s funeral 16yrs ago. Last month, I pray never to see him again.

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    1. I am so sorry you had to experience this. May the Lord deal with him for this wicked act.

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    2. In tears right now. This is so painful. Sometimes I wonder why God allows such....

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    3. Dear Lord ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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    4. I cried after reading this poster pls see therapist or speak to a wise trusted elder...why would someone take advantage of a young girl like this

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    5. Oh dear! ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

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    6. This is so painful,evil uncle from hell,he will never go unpunished.

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    7. So sorry. Hope you are in a better place. You did no wrong, he was a disgusting piece of sh*t. He will get what's coming to him. It is well with you๐Ÿ’•

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    8. This weakens my heart.
      Please people should try to speak up against rapist.

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    9. Sorry about your experience. Very sad. Next time you see him, shoot him in the leg ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฟ‍♀️

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    10. Oh dear๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ
      So sorry. This is so painful,
      I really can't wait for the coming of the Lord. What is this world Turing to for crying out loud

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    11. Anon 14:56, gosh that was a graphic and gory read. May God console you, u see that man, no matter how long it takes, he must be exposed and punished, don't worry, maybe at his prime of his success the demons aiding and abetting him will turnaround and disgrace him.

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    12. So sorry dear..
      May God heal you completely.
      I was also molested by my cousin and our driver(an old man) he should be in his 50s. My parents were not careless cos he doesn't even have a direct interactions with us. The two times he molested me was within 5-10min,when my mama got down from the car to get something.
      I can't be more than 5-6 years old,I couldn't tell anyone cos I scared.
      My dad later sacked him and the last I heard about him was his death.

      At the age of 8 years my cousin already had a big boobs and was already seeing her period. She is fair in complexion,that attracted a lot of guys. I guess she was a victim of abuse too,we lived very close to each other so she comes to play in our house likewise me. She was a bit older than me and she touched me several times inappropriately. I am a lady by the way. She later went to a girls only school which I'm sure made her to become a full blown lesbian.

      I later try as much as possible to avoid her and also stopped going to her house. I thank God those experiences didn't really change or affected me much.

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    13. Thanks guys. I heard he relocated to river state with his family. He has five children and can’t take care of them because he is broke. I am married with 3 children and live in England, I haven’t told my husband and won’t because I am still ashamed. I wish I wasn’t an introvert or that I was mouthy like me siblings. This ordeal made me had low self esteem. What I learnt from my ordeal is for parents not to be too strict to their children, allow them to be your friend and always talk to them.

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    14. ๐Ÿค•๐Ÿค•๐Ÿค•This is sad.. Your uncle that should protect you. So sorry for your experience.

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    15. May he live a miserable life until he confesses and apologizes.

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  12. Stella, men get raped too but most of them tend to play along even if its not what they want. But when it is a point where the raper(s) are armed and begins to fondle him, there's no way he can be able to control his getting turned on.

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  13. It happened to me but I did everything possible that the idiot could not penetrate.

    I knew him true an uncle and we've been friends on facebook for over 5 years, he asked me out and my uncle too said I should give him a chance.

    We had a date and there I knew he's not someone I can date, I told him we can't date. That was around February, and our communication dropped, no call or chat again. Then around April, my uncle came home, gave me some gifts to deliver to him but I just couldn't get to him, around July I told him I wanted to deliver his gifts, so that it won't be as if I don't want to give him those things, he gave me his address and I went.

    After spending few hours, I told him I would like to leave and na so he came to me trying to touch me offensively, I reacted immediately and that was how he bundled me, and took me to his bedroom, we struggled for over 2 hours in bed, I was wearing a gown and he pulled it up, but I resisted everything. My body aches for good 4 days after that day.

    He later asked if I was a virgin for me to be that adamant and I said yes, begged him seriously and he wasn't interested.

    We were seriously struggling and sweating, then I told him I've surrendered but he should at least go to the sitting room to bring the rechargeable fan, that was how I followed him and I broke free, told him I will pull down his TV, spoil things and be very brutal, that was how he calmed down and I rushed to open the door, later told him to go and bring my purse, phone and everything. That was the last time I heard from him.

    My uncle was so furious because he was planning on sending laptops to him from UK to be selling for him. He now chatted me that how could I tell my uncle such? The guy once lived in UK o, but he's as useless as anything. And that ended his friendship with my uncle too

    Over 40 years and with nothing to show for it




    *Larry was here*

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    1. Useless man! So sorry for that ordeal

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    2. Thank God for u starry, who knows if has HIV sef, evil man

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  14. My last relationship started as a result of rape. He came to my house one afternoon and raped me, I had to start dating him because he already got the sex which I didn't want to give him in the first place,so I'd be the one at loss if I didn't date him
    Immediately he had his way, a call came into my phone from a girl he once dated in the estate. She tried to warn me about him and revealed that he raped his sister's househelp and some other girls in the estate. All throughout the call, He was angry and denying that he didn't do anything and that the girl accusing him was spiteful because she was after his money and couldn't get it. He labelled the girl as a bad girl whose ways weren't pure. And threatened to involve the police
    I choose to believe him but not up to two months, He started showing his true colours, receiving calls from different ladies with claims that they were just friends, this was someone that restricted me from even having anyone as frds and accuses me of sleeping around if I received a guy's call.
    I went to his house unannounced last 2months and caught him with his ex girlfriend(according to him) .I'm finally happy that God exposed him on time, if not he'd ve continued with his deceit. My only regret is that he prevented other serious guys from coming close, he was fond of calling and warning them to stay off me. Now I have to start from the scratch again

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    1. Nawa for you o!!!! By why date someone who raped you in the first place?? What where you thinking!! You ought to know he is very useless and irresponsible and he will never change.. It is well with you

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    2. dating him because he raped you was a very very veeeeeeeeeeeeeeery bad idea.

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    3. God exposed him from the first day, you just didn’t care.

      I’m sorry about what happened to you. Also, work on your self esteem.

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    4. You guys have to understand how messed up psychologically she must have been . A lot of people end up with their rapist. Thank God he is out of your life. Sorry for all you went through

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    5. Dating a man who raped you is like trying buy his guilt and make it sound like a normal thing. Dont do that ladies.

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    6. Anon 15:12, biko the only prayer u need to ask God is to upgrade ur esteem to 5G. Rapists are meant to be hated not loved, it's well dear, thank God the beast did not make u a baby mama, by now it would have been worse.

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  15. This is bringing bad memories. My parents were/are very generous. I remember that as a little girl then that after service every Sunday, some Church members always come visiting. My parents will always happily feed them, these became a routine and so my siblings and I ignorantly called them "uncle and aunty".
    Brother Joshua, I don't know where you are now but I believe God has dealt with you severely. He didn't succeed penetration but his fingers did when he came to help fix the light on a week day because he was an electrician. I still couldn't tell my parents but I told my husband and he was so supportive and understanding.

    He made me dislike members of that "turban tying" Church till date.
    I'm married now with kids but I'm so fearful and over protective of them.

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    1. So sad. The people you trust the most are the beast you dont ever want to come across

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    2. Don't worry dear anon, brother Joshua has reaped the fruits of his labour wherever he is.
      The turban tying church is meant to be loved dear, let go of the pain I know it was too heavy for u back then.
      It's well with ur soul sis

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  16. My experience

    Back in unilag I had this guy asking me out amongst others. One way or the other I also like the guy so I gave him a bit of attention. As God will have it. This day he asked me out for a drink. I obliged. We finished and headed back to campus. On getting there nigga drove to staff quarters I said no take me back to my hostel. He said let's gist small na. I again obliged. We got to the high rise and a moment later I noticed he locked the room. I pretended like I did not see him. Next thing. He comes and started cajoling me for sex. I was amazed. How na! I said NO. He insisted I said NO. Next thing the guy was already pulling his cloths and stopped to start pulling mine. I told him not to try it oh. Then the force began on top undressing me. I pushed him off me and grabbed a bottle. I was very clear with a spirit I cannot say took over me. I told him if you touch me I will destroy everything in this room and thereafter I will harm you and I will scream out so loud. I said just respect yourself open the door and let me go immediately. He was "shocked". He got up zipped up opened the door and let me out. Freedom. It was late. I could not walk again. I was still devasted. He drove behind me. Begged me to enter the car. I initially declined. Then again I told myself babe enter oh and be vigilant. I got in. He dropped me at my hostel and that was it. He tried to beg me but I was not having it. Funny thing is I kinda liked him but that experience was the end of us.

    Second one was another nigga. In this same unilag. I went to his house in Ikeja. Very fine boy. I wanted a phone and he got me the phone and said come and collect it. Quickly I went oh. Thinking one of my toasters got me phone. The guy almost had his way I won't lie. No penetration but I had to let the phone go oh.

    After that one. I just stopped dating or having anything with "school boys". Moved on with older working guys and I am glad I did.

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    1. Anon 16:30 lucky u dear, it's good to be indabosky sometimes if not ejiri gi gwooo hi nmanu. I like people like u with hot blood that knows when to activate it.

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    2. @2nd story
      When a guy starts to give you what he won't give to his fellow guys, just know that he would be expecting from you what his fellow guys wouldn't be able to give him.
      You know this, a lot of you girls know this, but you like to pretend to be ignorant because of greed so you can turn around and play victims..

      Is he Santa Claus? Even Santa Claus sef, you have to pay before you get a gift..

      I still blame the guy tho.. he isn't smart and if he continues like this, he would enter a big problem.. I don't subscribe to sign language, I'll spell everything out for you so you can agree unequivocally or not.. e.g. these are what I want in exchange for so and so.. are you game or not.. why should I be ashamed when you're not ashamed to ask me for money and gift.. am I your father?
      Mtcheew

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    3. Dante Dante Dante ps calm down. This is like some 15 years back lol. I am over comfortable now and can gift phones. God as been great to me and my family. Lol.

      In this guy case I liked him and was going to date him sef. Matter of fact he told me to take the phone but I did not. I "felt" cheap not even insulted. See in uni I got phones from someone that never asked me for sex and from day one he wanted marriage. Not every guy is a mumu abeg. Also not every girl just wants to chop a guy. Some people just like some women are just nice. And not everyone is poor. Now with this guy that pampered me he was single but rich. I am Yoruba and his Igbo. He was like 10 years older than me. Buying me a phone of 100k then was nothing to him. For goodness sake he was already building properties at Carlton gate like some 15 to 20 years back. Money was not a problem for him. He gave me money to kick start my business. He never asked for sex and I never sexed him. Matter of fact if I was "greedy" I would have married him. We went our separate ways when honestly I told him how I felt. I hated myself for not loving him. He was understanding and did not lament although he was hurt cause his intentions where realllll. I had even met his family including his mum. We are still best of friends. Both married. He knows my husband and I know his wife and everyone is happy. He married a woman that truly love him and that's the best. I would have been a terrible wife cause my attraction would be money.

      Uncle Dante. be calming down oh. Have a great week ahead.

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    4. This story reminds of when I was waiting to go for service. I met this guy in my area, he was so smooth with words plus good looking. I started liking them tho I knew I would never date him cos he had this bad boy attributes( tattoo, earring) plus I didn't want my estate drama. One time I went to visit my uncle that stays very close to unilag, I told him I was around he said he went to collect his certificate that I should come see him at the highrise. I went to do my NYSC registration so I said ok no p. Baba said I should take drop to the place that he'll pay. When I asked some girls how to get to highrise, the kind of reaction they gave me told me to abort mission cos I kept asking him if it was a restaurant or something, he didn't say. I forgot to add he was always talking bout sex, asking if I was a virgin and all. Later learnt highrise has a lot of bad boys

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  17. "I also want to ask the men if it is possible for a man to be raped since their mind is in control of their getting turned on or not"

    SAME way as girl might get wet when the act start even tho she said NO, that's the same way a guys dick might raise to the occasion even if he doesn't want to do it.

    That a guys dick is erect doesn't mean consent, same way that a girl's pussy is wet doesn't mean consent.

    No means No as a general rule, cos we can't deny that there are no exception to this rule.. e.g, some girls are programmed to keep telling you to stop while holding you tight and leading the dick to the pussy, but to avoid trouble, when anyone say NO.. Stop abeg..

    Guys get raped but it's shameful to speak up plus girls don't see it that they forced themselves on the guy.. for example, many girls would be using the D to rub the surface, the guy would say she shouldn't put it in, at least if she wants to put it, let him wear protection, she'll promise not to put it in, saying she's just rubbing it on her clit, next thing she puts it in and start riding.. this might not seem like a big deal, until you switch the role and imagine a guy doing same to a lady..

    I wonder how people rape sef..for some of us, nothing kills our mood faster than trying to make us beg or struggle for it.. junior go just sleep.. very proud hommie

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    2. Dante, Omo you get mouth o. Most of what you wrote here are truth anyway.

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  18. I remember when I was little boy in nursery school . My mum I guess needed help because was in school of nursing back then. So she brought her cousin ( Aunty A) to live with us just to help out. Aunty A always make me suck her P****y every evening when return from school. I remember licking fluid that draws like okro and whenever I ask her what’s the liquid thing I am sucking, she will say its the okro that she will use to make eba and she will say I shouldn’t tell my mom and give me biscuits thereafter..

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    1. This broke my heart...oh my God, human beings are worse than the devil they blame

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    2. Wow, what a wicked woman? A nursey school kid? Haba that's bad, where do we get all these evil women from? So sorry about the experience.

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    3. Olorun O

      Olorun Oba
      Haaaa

      Shanu fun wa

      I am so sorry my brother

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  19. He was an uncle and I was in primary school, My parents will ask us to stay with our cousins after school and he stays with them. Everyone liked him and believed he was better than his brother who they all saw as stubborn and spoilt but this gentle uncle of ours kept on harassing us sexually. We didn't know how to report as we might be doubted. Most times our lesson teacher was our saving Grace. Thank God we packed out of that area. Unfortunately he died few years after on his way to Lagos. 2. A lecturer friend of mine called me up one day and said he was admitted in the school clinic and asked that I help take him home. I agreed, only for us to get to his house, Oga became well. Before I'll say jack he locked the door and said he wanted to get something from his room.OK oo room like play like joke he came out stark naked saying "Chi, you want to go for service without us having sweet memories". I tried screaming but he told me to look around "no one will hear you, I stay with my landlord only and they are not around". I don't know where I got strength from as I kept struggling and fighting him off until God showed up. His landlady came back and as he went to open the gate I followed him behind and ran off. God really saved me

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  20. I don't want to talk or think about it.

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  21. I want to give a self defense tip to all ladies. If you're in danger of being raped and you have struggled so much that you're getting weaker, just go on your knees and pretend to comply, if he is half naked even better but if he is not, pretend to want to give him head and then grab his balls and squeeze as hard as you can.
    Trust me he will be paralysed long enough for you to escape. Just make sure you acting is believable. Also, scream as loud as you can, even in the forest, there is always a hunter around.
    If that doesn't work, if he is on top of you and about to penetrate, pretend to caress him, he might relax enough for you to use your knee straight to the balls.

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  22. When I was serving there is this fellow corp member I liked so much, he is good looking, religious and humble. We connected so well and we became friends, I followed him to his lodge after one of our CDs and I couldn't resist the urge or hide my feelings,the guy noticed and was trying to stop me but I was able to have my way and I gave him correct BJ while he was still trying to stop me I climbed him and gave him correct cowgirl style and his tune change o... But I thank God we are married now with 3kids... I got to know after the sex that he has never done it before, I "divirgin" him... Gosh he is a master in the game now and a lovely hubby

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    1. You are a man that wrote this to elicit unflattering statements to women. If you said it happened to a young boy or teenager, I'd agree. However, a full grown man being unable to push off 1 woman is ludicrous.

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    2. You know this Anon 20:09 no mind am

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  23. How do i even talk or open up to people that my husband have been raping me, i dare not say no to him, else i will be forced and he will have his way, but after that he will apologize,he will cry like a baby if i don't accept the apology,then he will buy me gifts the following day, after few days,he will force himself on me again, he will beg and buy things for me,

    I'm just tired of everything and i don't know how to open up to someone.

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    1. Did you hear yourself? So you have been denying your husband sex and you want us to clap for you?
      Very disgusting. Keep doing it until he goes out, do it and come in and share the std (sexually transmitted
      diseases and demons) with you. Even God is not on your side in this. He said, 1 Cor. 7:4 the wife's body does not belong
      to her and vice versa and you should not deprive each other of intimacy except by mutual consent for a time to devote yourselves
      to fasting and prayer.
      It is beginning to look like you are enjoying the game of "force and gifts"

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    2. When you have had enough you will leave that marriage. You owe nobody any explanation. Just plan yourself and leave when you are ready.. He will have other victims and am sure you are a laughing stock amongst others. Leave the evil man while you still can and don't waste your time just existing. Marriage doesn't matter in eternity

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    3. Walk away

      Don't look back

      Walk away

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    4. Madam asterisks ****,you are SICK!!!
      Always quoting bible to justify rubbish!

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  24. Hmmm mmm reading this makes me SICK

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