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STELLAS SINGLES MINGLES BROUHAHA

Stella

 I'm getting married next month to a great lady I met on your blog But I have this issue. I responded to a request from the singles post that year. And we got along well. She is a very good lady, very nice when she wants to be. 

I used to like her more than the friend she introduced me to, who is from a neighbouring state. She on the other hand hails from my side, the next town But she is too proud and very insecure. 

I asked for a relationship twice, twice she turned it down with the excuse that she is not ready for something serious and that I don't meet her expectations in a man. All this time I was just friends to this two good ladies But that ended my interest in her, and opened my eyes to her friend who has became so involved in almost everything thing I do. 

She just wants to help in anyway possible she could not minding the demands, most times without my asking. In most cases I pay her back if it involves financial help. She is very thoughtful like me and more understanding than I am. 

She said she loved my all round maturity, and she enjoys my company. And honestly it seem like a sibling kind of thing. She could call me up that we should hangout and I'd turn up, sometimes we share the bills, or I take care or she takes care of it also. Very unlike the one who introduced us together. 

She was so simple and less difficult. 

This continued for 2 years to a point that I asked her for a relationship, which is now leading into marriage. 

Which is now a problem, the BV that introduced us is playing victim. She said we played on her intelligence, that I used her and dumped her for her friend. 

Stella, this is so wrong.

 I was never in any relationship with her, because she never encouraged it. She knew we were dating, because the three of us had gone out together a couple of times with her purported boyfriend coming with us twice (they are often on and of). And she was the first person I told that I want to marry her friend.

 I must admit she choked when I mentioned it but said it was nothing and I never read any meaning to it. Now she has been telling everyone how she was backstabbed. I'm not happy with her position, we feel being used as well. 

I have never collected anything from her, nor has she assisted me financially in anyway- I did which she is yet to repay. We've never kissed nor had any sexual encounter. Sadly she knew about I and her friend, and now she is cursing that I especially, used her. 

This is someone that introduced me to her friend because she believed my mindset tailors more with that of her friend. She's arguing that I never asked her to marry me, I was more after a relationship. How else does one evaluate compatibilities if not in a relationship? 

We are often at opposing ends of opinions and views. I have reminded her of he rejections, some which she reemphasized via our chats. 

We are getting married anyway, just don't understand how people can be insensitive and manipulative. And it has left me feeling disgusted by her tantrums.

 Some people are chronic sadists', especially for religious person like her. We plan on reporting to her church and parents. Because it's getting out of hand. After all, I never met her expectations in a man, but I met that of someone else who doesn't see anything wrong in me nor I in her.

 Thank God, I didnt push further, I really believed I could manage her insecurities and immaturity.

*Hmmmmmm.... what are you reporting her for? will it change anything? please do not invite her to the wedding or allow her take part in any preparations... Whether she feels betrayed or not, the deed has been done...

How do i even know if you are saying the truth sef?

I feel so sorry for her but if you say you told her then its fine.

Please if you are the lady that feels offended about this guy marrying your friend, can you contact me with your own side of the story and lets see how we can sort this out?

Thank you!!!