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Hello Stella and fellow BV's
I have a situation that has given me high blood pressure in pregnancy and i cant sleep anymore.
I am presently pregnant and in my 5th month and have just discovered that my husband knows that i may be pregnant for his brother and has said nothing.
I was suspecting him of cheating with someone with both know and i cloned his whatsapp to snoop but got the shocker of my life to see conversations with someone he is very close to concerning the pregnancy.
The problem i have is that i am jittery because i have slept with my brother in law on several occasions and I am not sure if it is his baby..... Does it matter? Are they not all the same blood?
For those that may want to call me cheat, well my husband is also one and has slept with all my friends and any female around me so you see, I learnt from the best codedly. sleeping with his brother started as a mistake but the Do was so good i could not stop.
I cannot say much because i do not know if they are silent BVS here or if anyone of the persons he has told this to might be reading here.
Please my dear BVs, how i do handle this matter? I am a citizen of another Country and was thinking of travelling to have my baby and not coming back to the marriage of some years of painfully ttcing with a man whose deek is serial.
Or should i confront him? Remember i snooped on his phone so what will i say? The house is becoming increasingly uncomfortable because I am scared he is up to something.
What do i do?
Hmmmm another paternity scam loading!.... I will advice you to run away since you did what he is suspecting you of eeeeh... He may be planning a big disgrace for you. Please take off and send a message that you needed to cool off.... Dont call of the Marriage ,just wait and see what he is up to...
Wait so because your hubby is a serial lover,you decided to pay him back in the same coin with his brother? HIS BROTHER? You are local HO!!!!
Ayayaya SMH which kind quagmire be this 🤯🤯🤯🤯
ReplyDeleteThere is a probability that your husband has a fertility problem and kept you in the dark. Man might be sterile.
DeleteHe knew that he is not capable to impregnate you and will rather keep it with you than confess his health problem.
Yiu can travel for the delivery, Guage his reaction after you give birth.
May God help you. 💜
Wetin person no go read for sdkville.
DeletePoster, at this point it's best you take your leave unannounced. Your husband's attack would be deadly and shameful. Pls move out NOW.
You sef no try o, why his brother? You dey keep the pregnancy for the family abi? You try
@OfficialPrestige, you may be right. The husband may have issues and so secretly approached his brother to have an affair with his wife so they could keep her pregnancy in the family. Maybe he thought his wife might not agree if he openly asked her to sleep with his brother, he didn’t know he already had a ho for a wife!
DeletePLEASE MARTINS OR ANY BV, kindly tell me how I can check my husbands watsapp messages through my phone like this poster did, please it’s very important as this is the only way I can get proofs . Please help a sister
DeleteWhat was even the point of staying in the marriage and bringing your dignity down like this?
DeleteNow you will still leave and probably your husband is planning something evil against you
Official prestige ,haba now did she say her husband was sterile?
DeleteAll I see is that you cloned his WhatsApp, please how did you achieve that.Help me biko
DeleteWahala be like wetin again.......?
ReplyDeleteE be like bicycle 😁😁😁
DeleteA tit for tat kinda story right? You learnt from the best o and y'all should continue fooling yourselves in that sham you call a marriage..Brash couple!
ReplyDeleteBoth of you are cheats naa, you are his karma, he is yours. Go back to your country before dem kill u throwaway. Women are giving men a run for their money. Hahahahaha ewoooo
ReplyDeleteAsin real run for their money. Since I started watching Paternity Court....I fear Women BIG time
DeleteI dey tells you
DeleteOmo! Problem noh just wan finish😂😂😂😂
DeleteUna doh o
Madam poster disappear before dem use you do nkwobi.
DeleteMy emotions while reading this went like😳😳🙆♀️🙆♀️🤯🤯🙄🙄🤣🤣 madam, what are you expecting us to tell you? Hardly does one come across your kind of association. Please Ma, we have no experience in this field to give you advise.
ReplyDeletei have slept with my brother in law on several occasions and I am not sure if it is his baby..... Does it matter? Are they not all the same blood?
DeleteHer words ,🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕 threw me off balance. No shame or remorse at all. If you feel your husband is a cheat and it's a deal breaker for you, then take a walk..
She was even suspecting him and cloned his phone when you had done worst...
Your epic reward is coming in full loads. Take yourself out of that environment..
There's no justification for crime or wrong doing. Two wrongs have never made one right the last time I checked.
ReplyDeleteMadam, I want to let you understand that, there are women suffering the same thing you went through but didn't sell their dignity, father they walked out of the marriage. Why didn't you address the issue or still, walk out on the marriage than fucking around. Your husband is bad but I can tell you that your own action is even worse and despicable. Of all people, it's his brother you opened legs for.
*rather
DeleteOhhh please!!! How can we verify that your husband has a wandering prick?! For all we know, you have made up that part to absolve yourself of your infidelity, and to minimize the insults you would receive here. If we hear from the man now...we will be told something completely different.
ReplyDeleteHow can you be sleeping with your bro-in-law, and have the audacity to clone someone's WhatsApp? Another thing is, if he is someone that has consistently cheated on you, why would you need to clone his phone to see if he is cheating? Wouldn't that be something you already know? After all, you said he has slept with all your friends?
They say, "birds of the feather, flock together"...and you have proved that correct! It seems you and you friends are all runs babes (aka prostitutes)! It's embedded in your bodies and souls! mtchewwwww
Don't mind her. Justifying her wicked deed...
Delete😳🥺🥺🥺😫😫😫
ReplyDeleteDante and Ceaser,food don land.
ReplyDeletePoster you are a disgrace to your gender
My dear, the duo will soon come out bearing arms and ammunition, and the silly poster didn't make it look easy on this my gender.
DeleteOmo x 100
ReplyDeleteHahahaha I don't know why this chronicle is making me laugh
ReplyDeleteWhy are you jittery? Na disgrace you dey fear or you think he'll harm you? Potopoto husband and wife, una fit unaself hahaha
You two fit each other, but must it be HIS BROTHER????
ReplyDeleteIts obvious your husband is important and kept that fact from you. So pretend you don't know too till he comes out with the truth.
How is he important?
DeleteI think she meant impotent anon...
DeleteI guess he meant impotent*
DeleteSome people are so lucky. If a man cheats, the society permits them. So cos you have a cheating husband,you have to sleep with brother.
DeleteAnon keep quiet,you must be blind not to see it was a mistake. Sabistus
DeleteHaa😱😱,two wrongs never make a right.Well what's done is done,as suggested,it's best you leave for a while till things cool off.There's nothing new under the sun,however,you must prepare your mind because anything can happen....
ReplyDeleteRun for your life! You will need to take out time to have a session with God, if you believe we are all answerable to him. Forgive yourself for everything that happened. It is fine to make mistakes, some we may not be able to correct but being able to learn and grow afterwards is the best. Walk away from that union. It is not healthy for you and your unborn child. Open a new page....Life still continues
ReplyDeleteHow do some people comfortably sleep with people they are not married to?
ReplyDeleteHuman beings get mind sha
I pray you deliver safely
Stella, please do not insult "local hos" by including this woman in their rank (and file).
ReplyDeleteHoes; both local and international do not sleep with their brother in law, do they? And she even have the audacity to tell us how "good the do was?"
Biko, hoes have some family dignity.
See as this woman entered to scatter a family and put division among these brothers.
Please leave her to chop all the shame that they are cooking for her.
Nne, repent or you perish.
Hahahaha chai
DeleteAs in ehn , her gut though... she has reasons for her all her actions..
DeleteDead conscience...
Madam run away to where? This a child you're talking about. A lineage with ancestry whether it's your husband's or his brother's, your child will grow up and know his ancestry whether you like it or not. Better deal with the situation sooner than later. Instead of belittling yourself and sleeping with two brothers why not remove yourself from the equation? Who's snooping, having sleepless nights and sending chronicles now? Na wa.
ReplyDeletePlease hos are better. I've not known a hoe that sleeps with brother in law.🤮🤮
ReplyDeleteIt doesn’t matter getting pregnant for your brother in-law? Lol
ReplyDeleteCos your hubby cheats, you decided to cheat too and with his own brother and you are actually proud of it.
You could have walked away you know, Smh.
Some of you women don’t have sense. In the world we live in, wether you like it or not, men get away with certain things. If a woman does exact same thing, she’ll be labeled all sorts of names. Like I always say, it’s better to walk away respectfully than giving yourself a disgusting name or even giving reasons to justify your fuckup and have no peace of mind.
Serial dick? What about you? Abeg get out, na people like you make others see women as nothing.
So of all the people you could sleep with to get back to your husband, you had to choose his brother? Shame on you!!
ReplyDeleteI have no advise for you, go do as you please. Paddle your canoe madam.
You suspected he was cheating , how did your suspicion turn in to wandering dick. Like men who cheat, women who cheat tell stories to justify their cheating. A hoe is a hoe, you have always cheated and you will always cheat . Accept who you are , a morally bankrupt individual. How does having sex start with a mistake. You weren't even decent enough to use a condom. Eventually the truth will be exposed and you would have succeeded in destroying the friendship and relationship between your husband and his brother. Mentally deranged individual
ReplyDeleteIf I were you I will leave to birth my child somewhere else. The deed has been done. Leave now and face your choices alone. Leave now rather than complicate issues for everyone, especially for your child.
ReplyDeleteJehovah overdo leeeeeeeee! Kai! This one full my mouth. Madam, have a discussion with your husband. Both of you open up well to each other. Tell him what you know about his escapades and tell him yours. You've both made mistakes.
ReplyDeleteRunning away will not solve the problem except he is the violent type. If you cannot face him, go somewhere and place a call to him. The world will not end after the discussion. But I'd prefer face to face discussion because calls can be recorded and used against you.
If there's a way to find out the paternity of the baby before it is born, please do. This will help you know where you stand. If the child is his, he should know. If it's not, let the biological father know. If your husband decides to call off the marriage, there's nothing you can do, because African men can philander but can't even imagine their wives being wooed by another man. Let alone sleeping with her and getting her pregnant. And of all people, his brother. You'd be literally walking on egg shells all through the remaining days of the marriage.
If you have elders in his family or yours who can be trusted, please involve them so they can solve this. Every locality has rules pertaining this kind of issue. . Let them use the law that prevails to sort this out. If you feel that it would expose you, then talk with your husband. I'm writing this because, even if you are to relocate, do so on a clean slate not with issues hanging over you. When you have the child and you find out it belongs to his brother, please kindly let the brother know
The advantage of doing things the right way in life is that in future, God fights for you and you can be bold to face anyone regardless of who he is. Clear yourself here, even if you want to leave. The world is a small place and you may never know what happens next.
This is what being woke has caused. Shey what is good for the goose is good for the gander? But it doesn't apply in marriage. God has already said to the woman at creation that her desires shall be unto her husband. This means that whatever she does should please her husband. Genesis 3:16. Read it in KJV and then use the Message translation to read it.
So because he was wandering you decided to follow suit. It doesn't work that way. Women should know that the enmity God placed was between the woman and the devil. Genesis 3:15. The man was not directly involved in that enmity. That is why a woman should always fight in prayers when problems come. And not to be apportioning blames. The woman has full control over her home. But many women don't know. Whatever she decrees in prayer stands even over her husband. No matter the wokeness in the air, you as a woman are under your man. The only way to be happily under a man is to marry a man who fears God. Such man will not toy with his authority.
Ask God for forgiveness and repent of your wrong doings. Go close to God and ask him what next for your life. He alone sees the future and no matter how far you go wrong, he's always patiently waiting to receive you. Please pray very well before initiating the discussion because it's not going to be a pillow talk. Let the Holy Spirit take charge so it doesn't deteriorate into the unimaginable.
If after you've prayed, your husband insists on divorce, then take it in good faith and relocate.
Gen 3v16 was a curse on the women not original intent of God. Unfortunately, even after Christ death and resurrection the church isn't preaching about it the way it should be. Logically God made a woman as a man's co- pilot( help meet) not some slave and subject. Sadly, even many in the world even Christians are still living as if there lives depend on a husband. This is not wokeness! But undiluted gospel of Christ. Freedom is part of what Jesus paid for.
Delete17:36, Christ died for the freedom from the yoke of sin. He didn't die for women to be free from their husbands. The bible portion that says women should submit to their husbands was written after Christ's death. Except you are saying that Christ's death cancels out the Genesis 3:16 which is impossible. Scripture doesn't cancel out scripture. God made a woman a co-pilot which she still is, because they are one. But she still has to be under the man by submitting.
DeleteYou better run away before your husband disgrace you, no matter what you should have walked away from the marriage than sleeping with his brother. Two wrongs does nor make a right.
ReplyDeleteI tot you are a smart woman when you took this stupid decision to sleep with your bil but nope you are dull so handle your problem yourself.
If I give my BIL the slightest opportunity, he will sleep with me and my horseband will still support him.... strange? That’s my world.
ReplyDeleteRemoving myself from the drama was she sanest thing ever
All ov you saying run away... Have you considered if the husband knows he is infertile and decided to plan with his brother? Like... He would rather its his brothers baby than a stranger. Well, untill we know the true story any advice here is one sided.
ReplyDeleteYou want to wait for the true story now, but if na man give him wife sister belle una no go talk say may be the wife be dey barren, abi?
DeleteI suspect husband is sterile and he knows it. Madam, move away then confess make dem no kill you. What is done is done
ReplyDeleteSuspicious Anonymous, go try the man make e knack you then come and give us the result if he is sterile or not.
DeletePoster are you for real???? The greatest mistake a Woman can make is to sleep around as payback for a cheating Husband! I would advise you to run! run! run! DONT dare confront him otherwise he will not be responsible for his actions! He might even kill you!
ReplyDeleteYour husband have some fertility issues and he's well aware of it, there's high probability that sleeping with his brother is a coded set up.
ReplyDeleteLeave.
ReplyDeleteGo have the baby abroad and give it up for adoption. That's the only way to clean the slate. You know you are fertile now.
Marry someone else and have biological children. You can adopt too.
Giving up the child is for his/her good. No matter what your hubby/lover's family will have those who will use the fact of your infidelity and the nature of their arrival into the world to taunt and insult him. If he becomes something in life, they'll use it to blackmail him.
Pray, ask God for strength and act.
Which kind advice be this? A woman that has been looking for a child should give out her child for adoption!!! A married woman!!!! Because of side talks and rumours!!!!!!! Nah wah
DeleteHun!!! Advice of the year...
DeleteThe marriage is over. That family is asunder. The are both unrepentant cheats. The child is better off being loved by a family seeking a child.
DeleteThe woman can recover from this experience and grow to love again, conceive and bear more children.
It's quite simple really.
For your husband to be silent, he knows he is infertile and can’t have kids.. but his is a dangerous situation as u don’t know what he is capable of, u get mind sef, what if he stabs u at night if a spirit takes over him? For ur best interest run away, Thai won’t end well. Even if he doesn’t know, it won’t still end well and for him to talk to someone else about it, shows that it’s no longer a secret! U willl be disgraced .. leave !
ReplyDeleteSo you chose to play in the mud because you wanted to remain friends with a pig??? What a wawuuu!
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