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Thursday, July 08, 2021

Stella's Singles Mingles UPDATE...

 It is time for update so that we can rate how the Stella's Singles Mingles is going....




Are you talking to anyone from the last Singles Mingles post? How is it going?

Are you talking to anyone from any of the Singles mingles post? how is it going? 

I know people who met and married through Stella's singles mingles  and already on their third child...

I feel like a fairy godmother when I am updated.

Please tell us how it started and how it is going...

If it has ended, please tell us what happened!

94 comments:

  1. Thank you for posting the singles mingles. There where a lot of scammers that contacted me. Outlook blocked my email just because there where a lot coming from Nigeria. Met two men. The only thing is that you could sense desperation in their voices when they discovered I was abroad. You could sense the trying to please attitude. Already calling someone you have never met dear and dearie and so on. Then there was one that was requesting for pictures even though we have not even known anything about each other. How can you be requesting for pictures when you have not even measured the persons intellect? What makes you think that me seeing your picture will make you more appealing to me? In your eyes, you might be so handsome and in my eyes, you are the ugliest of them all!!!!. Nigerian men should learn to look for substance before appearance. I stopped chatting with both men because I knew i was not ready to go through that stress of brining a man aboard and then teaching the man what to do and what not to do. It just always comes back to bite. I need someone closer to my location. No long distance drama.

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    1. See as she lumped over a hundred million men together? Same country we have RMD, Ebuka, Denola Grey, Buhari,Nnamdi Kanu, ehen, just lumped them together and called them desperadoes? How come you couldn’t find love in the abroad or they love differently in the abroad? You need to take a breather next time you want to write, do you now how you come across from your write up? ABW, we are not the cause of your anger, go figure

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    2. Gosh! You sound so hard to relate with!
      What's wrong with sending pics of what you look like? Abi you think they don't get to have a say or preference?
      Your kind of person would pick men apart looking for faults while all the issues are from you.
      Best of luck finding your dream man in the abroad.

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    3. Even as a lady, Ild like to know who I am chatting with, it's better to put a face to the person
      Don't you put your pictures up on most dating apps, so what's wrong with that?
      Look for people within your location but I don't see anything wrong in wanting to knows what you look like.

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    4. Don't mind them I don't know what some of these ladies are feeling like. What is wrong in you sending pictures so they will know who they are relating with.
      Me I participated in the last SnM and when he asked me to send my pictures there wasn't any problem at all, I sent mine and he sent his.
      From there we are growing, we have met and everything is going on smooth. He is a nice guy and I am enjoying every moment being with him.
      Not Everytime we ladies will be complaining about he asked me to send my picture. That is what you signed up for when you put your contact out online for dating, there must be sharing of pictures to avoid the case of some people catfishing

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    5. @ slay queen
      I'm suprise πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    6. Still friends with few i met here

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    7. So because you live abroad, he shouldn't bother to know what you look like.

      No wonder you can't find love abroad. You are just full of yourself.

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    8. No one has addressed the dear, dearie familiarity...Anon, limit the options to guys in your location. It will save you stress.

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    9. Are you minding the mumu lady? So full of herself. She thinks being abroad is everything? Who told you the guys want to come abroad sef? What if they want you to move back to naija. You better chill madam intellect wey no too get sense

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    10. Please follow your heart. I Filed for my childhood friend (now husband) and the culture shock I experienced almost scattered our marriage. We fought a lot because I left naija when I was young so the so called naija culture in me has watered down and he also struggled with that. If not for God, our Christian background, constant communication and being family friends/childhood friend, I would have ended it. It’s very difficult marrying a typical naija man. I think naija’s harsh environment, hustle have really affected a lot of Nigerians. I tell my friends to find love in their location/abroad or better still date from other cultures. To each their own sha.

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  2. I am still talking to some but I have not seen any. Some I have blocked, some we just stopped talking
    Most of the men that I spoke to, speaks well and have a good command of their diction with great sense of humour. Meeting them will finally seal options
    From 7/8 that came to me. I have screened them to 3. Plans are still on going

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    1. Afi screening agent. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣 enjoy o hare.

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    2. Lol don't mind meπŸ˜‚

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    3. Well done. Abeg pick the best.

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  3. I am talking to two in which i am attracted to one.Anytime I make up mind not to have anything to do with him again,he will just show up from the blues. Communication has been a little bit consistent but i think we are better off friends as I just enjoy my peace of my at the moment

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    1. Yea he’s not the one. He’s emotional unavailable. Don’t settle.

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    2. Sorry I meant He is not emotionally available*

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  4. This last snm na soso married women I dey jam there, after meeting the second one, how did I know she was married? she came over to see me, prior to that day, I dreamt a man was chasing me with a sharp dagger on the street, I was like what sort of a dream is this, immediately she came, I just sensed something was off about her. Her phone started ringing, she didn’t pick, the ringing continues. Later she said she’s leaving not spending up to an hour. She blocked me, but because I also saved her number on my WhatsApp GB, her husband had a birthday the Sunday following,i called her and she said she thought I’m a wiseguy, didn’t understand what she meant, i didn’t bother calling her again, me I’m tired, na soso married women I dey meet

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    1. Lmao. Sorry

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    2. Any married woman on this blog that is cheating on the husband....l say big shame and disgrace be your portion, until you repent..you are a disgrace to this blog.

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    3. On Single and Mingle, and they are always eager to accuse men of cheating.

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    4. Any married man on this blog that is cheating on the wife....l say big shame and disgrace be your portion, until you repent..you are a disgrace to this blog.
      Better repent before chidinma is your portion.

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    5. This is funny
      Pardon me for laughing

      So married women can be this daring? Na wa o

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    6. They are tired of their marriageπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ they want to use you to settle scoreπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    7. Married womanπŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ˜Ά

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    8. This is a shame on the female gender.

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  5. Would love to participate in the next one.thanks Stella for the good things you do for people with your platform.

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  6. I met one that was forming mystery guy. Let's meet no. Show me your pictures bros still said no. I got tired of asking to see who I was talking with.

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    1. Women and confusion. Anonymous 14:48 didn’t want pictures, you want pictures, make una swap your suitors now

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    2. Lolll I know this one. Better delete. Your car is on a treadmill going no where.

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    3. Loling at your comment Anonymous 16:23

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  7. I met a good man here, at first I had complains about communication and tried to walk away but he fixed it. We have even met in person cos he is currently at my my location and, communication was great. But, the truth is I don't see it working out cos I am not feeling it on the love lane. I think I am more comfy with us as friends, and I have told him on 3 accounts. He is trying to put in more effort but, for me I am just not feeling him that way.I hope he understands cos I see him forcing my hand and I do not want to block his numbers cos I think it's a harsh thing to do. Love can not be manufactured, it's natural jor.

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    1. Forget him he has a main chic and just wan use your head. Block him

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  8. well, I haven't actually met any of the ladies tho..stopped talking with a few whom were really nice ladies but distance played a hard factor. the other few just stopped talking, kinda funny tho..still in contact with one but we're yet to link up

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    1. Why won't they stop talking to you , most guys that participate in snm don't know how to communicate, very annoying set of guys .

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    2. Of course it is kinda funny to you, you are not the one at the receiving end, I just hope the one you in contact with ,stop talking to you as wellπŸ˜…. I just pity her.

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    3. @17:31 I'm not the anon above but why so pained?some of u women are highly irritating.they stopped talking to him so he should kill himself right?

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    4. Guy, anyone that stops talking to you, block them.

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    5. See how depression dey start..if u can't help matters then u keep mute

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    6. Anon 17.31 read the initial comment wrong and assumed the guy will just stop talking.. when actually he meant they just stopped talking.

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  9. Hi Stella. I decided to participate in the last one and I was hit up by a guy. He said we could be friends which was OK by me. 3 correspondence later, he is telling me he wants us to do and get married sharp sharp. He doesn't like wasting time. He doesn't stay in lagos but would come down ASAP for us to finalise. To say I was weak is an understatement. After I calmly told him the error of his ways, na so baba come start to dey beg. Telling me he hadn't eaten that day and I should please send him some money.
    I never replied and left it at that.

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    1. See person wey wan marry dey ask for giveaway, sapa is real

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    2. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    3. Wahala be like bicycle. I can't stop laughing - shameless man! See how he disgraced our gender.

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    4. πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ€£

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    5. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣
      Urgent 2k geng!

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    6. E won run u street before🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    7. Nothing person no go read for this blog. Lmao

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    8. He's a scam

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  10. So one pretend for two days and we talk well but he kept talking about chidimma the killer girl. Then I asked why he was so worried about the incident as if he is a married man? Guy man said he is single and went on to invite me to his house the next day. I told him that we should just keep talking and chatting till we are comfortable meeting each other. He started calling me names and said no decent girl would post her number on Stella's blog, that we are all ashawo. Hahahhaha. I laughed it off and just blocked him.

    Another person asked if we could be close friends? Me:What does that even mean? Then comes the interview of how much do you earn? πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚

    Na like that e take end Sha

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    1. Oh u were the one that made that prayer on yesterday's post ehyaaa

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    2. Anon: 17:23. I am not the poster but l am the person that made the prayer post yesterday. Seems the same person contacted both of us. That guy is razz personified. Just because you sent someone a chat and she did not respond on time. You started calling her names I did not give him the dignity of replying him. I just blocked him. He will meet his match.

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    3. I have been hearing about said guy in most of the update posts. He doesn't seem mentally sound and is out for who he can use. This type no fit kill person so? Scammer! Abeg beevees make una dey careful.

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    4. You will ask to be whatsapped, the mad man sent me a whatsapp message, called and sent me sms to insult himself and his generation in less than 1 hour. He even lied that he had spoken with me before. True caller Identified him as Michael Godson. Y'all should stay woke. He's a sore looser. Depressed and frustrated that the girls He's contacting are not desperate.

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    5. It's best to send Stella his number, so an innocent lady doesn't fall prey

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    6. This guy is everywhere. Very stupid and frustrated

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  11. I am 44yrs old single woman, is their single and mingle for older people?

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    1. Dear Stella, kindly do Singles and Mingles strictly for men and women ABOVE FORTY. Thanks.

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    2. 1709 forget that thing.
      People under 20 will still reach out to them.
      You will clearly State your age preference, one dunderhead that sapa is blowing eternal breeze over his head will still crawl into your inbox creaking "hi'angle'"

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  12. Na married women looking for play full everywhere. I don't want to die young. If you hate your marriage, deal with it like everyone else.

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    1. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha... Sorry I just had to laugh,very funny

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    2. Things are happening oo

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    3. Na today i dey hear this one oo. Married women won play away match 😢

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  13. The last snm for the diaspora ladies from Nigeria was hitting me up when my profiles says abroad I have nothing against that but I don't have that energy when I know I can't come over for us to meet .
    Abeg oo another snm for diaspora in fact for us only I am not selfish my opinion.

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    1. 🀣🀣🀣 Chomil na mad man you meet.

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  14. Mine actually never happened...I saw his very nice advert, well spaced grammar, good punctuation. Noted the part that he was father of 2, said he didnt appreciate demanding for pictures and lettit just flow bla bla bla...

    I said yessssss, this one has common sense let me WhatsApp him....

    I sent the 1st 'Hello' but something said Google this number, naim I see the uncle's different advert from different years.

    Quick delete and blocking. It took me over 48 hours to even decide to reach out self, I no like wahala biko.

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    1. You were wise to investigate.

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    2. Anon 16:42, hahahahaha. I laughed so hard. He's always participating but never meets up. Na unserious fellow.

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  15. People should know that most of the people who add people from SnM are not blog visitors but people who must have heard about SnM from others and as such would want to hunt and try their luck. When things do not go as planned, these people resort to insults that can kill ones self esteem.

    From the things they say no matter how subtle, you would know.

    So good luck to those who have met genuine people from SnM. Congratulations to those who have met their life partners here.

    To those who are still planning to meet people from SnM,all the best.

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  16. Mine were married women, I saw d wedding band scar but played along, linked up with 3, met up, each at different times n locations, they looked good but time for a second meet, its excuses, and I cant seem to reach them from 4pm, both chats n calls. Later 2 admitted, I was a bit hurt, d other one is still evasive.

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    1. See life ooo. And I am single.

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  17. Lagos Mainland Girl8 July 2021 at 17:23

    I didn't get to participate
    By the time i saw the post,more comments werent allowed

    No wahala,we move

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  18. I met my husband here on single mingle, neither of us were serious when we met, we chat for a while and we just go off for a while, after like 3years we started talking again and the rest they said is history, we have been married for 2years now with a child .....thanks stellz for giving me the love of my life

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  19. One was, I think 10 or 12yrs below the age I stated and said he didn't read the part I stated the age I wanted and mehn, the guy uses confusing abbreviations. I have no issue with people who use them but, I was tired of myself asking, "please what is this or that?".
    Another I met, sent "hello" and the next thing he said was, "can I see my baby's pictures"? I was confused at first. In the state of confusion, young man sent me lots of his pictures. Then, I snapped out of my confused state and asked that, he stopped with the "baby" thing. I mean, you've just said "hello" and the next thing is "baby". And next thing, he starts talking about having faith. I just confuse more more. Then he asked for his "baby's" pictures again. I just left the chat unanswered. And that was the last. Communication started and ended within some minutes.
    When I later went back to read the whole chat, I just laughed and smh.
    I still have friends I met from snm. Friends I would always be grateful for. If I begin to talk/type about them, they would know and discussion go start. 🀣

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    1. can I see my baby's pictures 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ @ my baby's picture

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    3. πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ Na wa ooo. Wetin Chibuzor no go see for him shop.

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  20. I met this really great guy on one of these SnMs editions. He's a witness and I'm pentecostal. For me, religion and belief is a big deal and I know deep inside that I can never be a witness,same as he can never change.This guy is a very very great guy. He's tall abi huge sef and handsome with this very nice gap teeth and a nice smile,he's comfortable,considerate,and his voice is to die for. Oh,he is team no sex��
    Besides, considering my single mom situationship,dude deserves better jare.

    Hi Geeeeeeeee,if you get to see this just know that Im praying for you although we hardly talk again. You deserve the best because you have a large heart. God will grant you your desires.
    No too vex for me for the other matter....
    I need to stand on my feet now for the sake of my girls

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  21. Someone called me, he said he is a Togo man πŸ™„πŸ™„ he called twice, other were flashing and sending messages. Poor men want a relationship, but can't afford money to buy credit 🀣🀣🀣 May God help me 😏😏

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    1. I just dey laughπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      One was telling me how if we are in a relationship I would reduce my trouser wearing πŸ˜‚. I intentionally posted me giving on my status with bum short. Guy did not message again. I was so glad and I blocked him
      It's not me and you that would be doing Mary Amala.
      Pls let me show off my legs.πŸ™„πŸ˜Œ

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    2. Flashing? In 2021????? Abeg run.

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  22. The comments I've read so far has made me laugh out so loud that people around me are wondering what the matter is

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    1. As in, it's so hilarious. Even funnier than the funny comments post.

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  23. I have been chatting with one recently but not my age preferences,he is in his early 40ths though he sounds cool, not my tribes preference too, just wants to keep him as friend that's all. Looking forward for next S&M.

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  24. I wish all the singles enough and meaningful patronage

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  25. I stated I wanted an igbo man based in Abuja, most guys that chatted me were based in the west and south south, I no get strength for distance relationship biko.

    One now chatted me recently, guy man said he lives in uk, siblings in Naija. I sensed he just be really elderly and probably married, my instincts were validated when he sent his pics.
    Its well.

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    1. U don hear abroad preference don change

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  26. Na waoo. It’s called singles to mingle not gossip to yab anyways, I am single and ready to mingle and yah am yoruba answer what again I don’t really have feelings just a serious n pragmatic individual but I don’t lie

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  27. Met with one from a couple of SnMs ago. Didnt reach out immediately, guess I wasnt of the right frame of mind at the time. Well, I eventually did almost a year later. We got along quite well and had good chemistry, but turns out she was getting married very soon. So we did the most logical thing.....had mind blowing sex as much as we could, and stopped contacting each other after the wedding!

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    1. Hehehe I comot cap for una,🧒
      It's good shaa

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  28. I am tired of SnM. Na to go find one man and tie am remain.

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