Good day Stella ..
I'm the lady that wrote in about my husband carrying offering basket, his mistress leading worship and my daughter pointing it out. Truth is before I got to this point of coming to a blog, I've seen and endured a lot.
Its not everything I will put up here. I have hardcore evidence, chat, videos and all. It was new to me that my child knew what was going on. I was in a really bad place, deeply hurt and I'm sincerely sorry for saying I wanted to hurt him. I spoke out of pain and hurt but I wont follow through. I've heard all your counsel.
I'm grateful for them, all of them. I'm also forgiving myself too and I've made up my mind to move on with my life, face my God, my children and my business. I look forward to a brighter tomorrow and better life. Since then I left my business unattended but I'm back in my showroom since Tuesday morning.
I will care for myself and be intentional about me. Last 2 week i had a pain in my chest, very tight pain, dizziness and I left like my spirit was leaving my body....Got to the hospital the doctor said I had complicated malaria, hbp and it would have resulted in heart attack, stroke or internal organ failure.
I spent 3 days in the hospital with lots of drips, injections and all. I left that hospital a different person. I left that hospital changed... In dealing with another person's errors I was hurting myself. I'm not ready to die and I wont die but I'm determined to extinguish whatever is left of anything I felt for him. I'm in a better place today and I look forward to rising and doing so well in my business and life. I'm doing this for me, I'm living for me....im excited about me. I'm grateful my family, the best online family one can have....when the time is right I will do a give away to properly say thank you for saving me.
Doctors say i should lose weight lol...I'm also working on that and looking forward to a brand new me. I love you Lord I love you Stella I love you Bvs.. I love me....
Please share in my joy. Thank you all for holding my hand.
*Awesome mindset!....... Please live for yourself and stay on this positive minded lane
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 wishing you strength and peace .
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DeleteSo happy l contributed in saving a life. Am happy that you are in a better place.
DeleteThat was how l lost my friend l did Ashebi for in 2006 last week.
She died of Heart attack. The husband na wahala with his family.
This particular lady is from money a d being the only daughter, they took her around the world.
Now her shop is in the man's hand now.
Whatever you do, Biko be happy as no man is worth dying for.
Thank God u listened. Love and light
DeleteI'm super happy you listened and took the right decision. She deserves to be happy...
DeleteWishing her all the best..
Poster they call that thing private part for a reason. There is no lock that ties your husband's amu to ya otu, or vice-versa, you're both free to gbensh other people
DeleteIf your brain still cannot process that please hurry up and do the needful, and I don't mean you should kill the poor guy you know how to put yourself out of your misery you evil witch
This is the spirit and God bless you,ma'am..
ReplyDeleteI am glad that you have decided to move on and face front like nothing really happened
Please don't joke with your drugs. You need to stay alive for your kids. Dont joke with your drugs.
ReplyDeletePlease dont joke with your drugs!!!
Yes ooo.
DeletePoster listen to Anon Dee
I love this update.Choose to live and live well for your daughter and yourself.You don't need to hurt yourself because of another person's mistake.Cheers to a new and happier future🥂
ReplyDeleteStay positive🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeletePoster thank you so much for purging yourself of that negative energy. I'm glad you've chosen to tow the positive path and I pray God blesses every of your endeavours going forward. May God be with you.
ReplyDeleteAmen and this is the spirit
DeleteWell done mama, super proud of you. You can do this. 💜
ReplyDeleteWow! I'm happy for you ma'am. May lines fall in pleasant places for you. I wish I can read your first chronicle, pls who has the link?
ReplyDeleteThank you Martins
DeleteAren't you such a darling Martin's ? Thanks a lot.
DeleteWow now that is the spirit of courage and resilence...Wonderful thought process..I promise you you will be healed and made whole by God...I admire your strength and I believe that you will pull through..All the best
ReplyDeleteTHAT IS THE SPIRIT, AM REALLY HAPPY FOR YOU...KEEP IT UP. THE LORD WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR STRENGTH.
ReplyDeleteThank God for a better and new version of you dear. Peace
ReplyDeleteI love 💕 your will/determination to be better and live your life to the fullest while serving the Lord. God bless you dear 🤗💕🫂💋
ReplyDeleteNice one.. which chronicle is this one bikonu?
ReplyDeletehttps://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2021/08/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_0649173497.html?m=1
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Thank God for a change of mind set. God will help you.
ReplyDeleteThank God for a change of mind set. God will help you.
ReplyDeletePlease you need to live for yourself and your children. Noone can care for your kids better than you. When my husband walked out in 2019 few days to our 7th year anniversary, i felt like a failure but thank God for awesome friends and siblings. Today i am happy for me and my kids. Now he is trying to come home and it is on my terms. He is trying to talk but i am not leaving that chance open not because i am angry or pained but because i dont want to be ditracted as i have things mapped out. Today should be our 9th year but it is well. two years ago he threatened divorce and all, blocked me, now he dey unblock and i am not bothered. Just be a good father to your kids and leave me biko.
ReplyDeleteso please be determined to be happy and seek new ways of making money, friends ....you will look back as yab yourself for wanting to die because of man. It is well. take hug jare 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I like your spirit, don't show any man your weakness
DeleteGreat desicion 💃💃💃💃
ReplyDeleteGod wont allow us suffer for other people stupidity ☺
Thank God you listened to our advice and you followed the path to be happy.
ReplyDeleteThe fact is, you're not yet healed, but you will surely be fine. Go out more and stay in the midst of people that will make you happy and trust me, everything will end fine for you.
*Larry was here*
WOW! This made my day!💃 kudos to you dear it's not an easy thing to bring oneself out of depression but you did it! Hallelujah!💃. Make sure you go to the gym TWICE or thrice weekly, eat MORE of grains, vegetables and fruits, do away with suger and replace it with ORIGINAL honey. Eat healthy, exercise regularly, be discipline and be determine! And you will see your fat fading away...I'm so happy for you 🤗 Take CARE of yourself and your kids...muahhh😚
ReplyDeleteAwww. God bles you.
ReplyDeleteGod will see you through.
ReplyDeleteThank God for you Sis, your life is as beautiful as your mindset.
ReplyDeleteMy dear God will see you through.
ReplyDeletePlease can we have a link to the main chronicle?
ReplyDeleteThank God. This the kind of feedback one wants to hear. MARRIAGE should not be a do or die affair. Please don't relent.. For those shouting marriage is an achievement una weldone...
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This is good. Congrats poster. You will rise & be celebrated again
ReplyDeleteI love this.. God bless you!
ReplyDeleteYes oooo, way to go ma'am. Thank God for you. Na him loose oo
ReplyDeleteWay to go Mooma 👌
ReplyDeleteSuper proud of this new you and your resolve.
Abegggggggggg leave man matter, he will come crawling back when he comes to his senses but by then, ur ship fit don sail.
Please make ur self happy, build ur empire, stay fit and firm, hold ur head high Sis.
Shame, go be choir mistress abi na praise singer she be portion.
E hugs Mooma
Wow!, that's the spirit..
ReplyDeleteAll the best 💕😘🤗🤗🤗💋
The joy of the Lord will continually be your strength💪
ReplyDeleteAmen!
DeleteWeldone ma'am 👏👏👏
Awwwwww this really got me. You're strong, you got this, you will pull through. Sometimes we just need to vent. I'm glad you're letting the Lord have his way. Take good care of urself. Sending you lots of hugs
ReplyDeleteWay to go ma'am,no man is worth your stress💪💪💪
ReplyDeleteThe Joy of the Lord shall be your STRENGTH. I love this your new decision. You will not slack back.... Amen
ReplyDeleteSuper proud of you ma'am 🤗. I pray God grants you the Grace to pull through 🙏. Everything will fall into place and you will rise again Amen. Take care of you 🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteLove you ma'am 😘🥰
I know you wont leave your marriage just make yourself happy. All the best
ReplyDeleteI know right, she’s not saying anything about it. Even if Na to separate for now so she can heal properly. Whichever way, stay strong and love yourself first. Wishing poster good health and happiness
DeleteSo glad you're doing great and you listened and you're ready to follow through. Take care of yourself you matter alot❤
ReplyDeleteWow? Thank God for you. May God continue to strengthen you. May God keep you for your children cos nobody can love them like you do.
ReplyDeleteThank God for you. Awesome mindset. The Lord will keep being your strength. Amen.
ReplyDeleteE-hug for you madam, please take care of you and be strong the good Lord will surely see you though.
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy for you
ReplyDeleteI have learnt through time to manage my expectation from men. The gender that let God down? We have to deal with them with wisdom. The narrative of paternal power does not really fit seeing how fickle they are....no matter what, watch your head, ladies..
ReplyDeleteI am so excited you are back to the stage of recovering yourself.
ReplyDeleteNo man is worth dying for.
I pray this day that the good Lord Jesus will order your footsteps and give you inner peace
You are strong. God will guide you through it all. I'm happy for you
ReplyDeleteNice one, Self encouragement.
ReplyDeleteThank God for this testimony.
ReplyDeleteI am very happy for you.
Great decision ma.. May the good Lprd continue to guide, support and see you through😍❤️
ReplyDeleteE hug poster
ReplyDeleteGod is your strength
That’s the spirit
ReplyDeleteI love your mindset.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you real good babe.
Keep keeping your head up, God got you!
I am so happy for you ma 😊😊😊😊, we love you too 😘😘😘😘
ReplyDeleteLet it go poster,ur mental health and well-being is more important,please take it easy.no go commit crime cos of a man.God will be by ur side all the way.E hugs to u🥰
ReplyDeleteThis is growth. Real wow
ReplyDeleteHow about getting a lawyer and doing the needful?
ReplyDeleteSince you've decided to remain in the marriage despite evidence that he's cheating, please protect yourself. HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases are real. I wish you well.
ReplyDeleteKisses.
ReplyDeleteWhat I don’t get is this why would you stay in an unhappy marriage? Are you hoping one day it’ll get better? Is there a straight ticket to heaven for the best sufferer in marriage? Will God wipe away all your sins if you suffer in an unhappy marriage? Just thinking out loud
ReplyDeleteWoke up feeling depressed but this news just brighten my day...
ReplyDeleteGod bless you SDK for this chronicle sessions been saving lifes 4 over 600 years now...
God bless u all positive bvs ...so many times it feels good to b here