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Sunday, August 22, 2021

Sunday In House Gists - Dating Someone Your EX Is Friends With...

Do you know how uncomfortable it can dating someone your ex is friends with? If you are lucky the ex will not bad mouth you or throw in a word.....







Ever been in a situation like this? Did you have to break up or you went on to marry this person...

Someone said the worst kind of ex's to have are women because they will never let you move on and they will spoil any new relationship you have, especially if they know the person.... Do you agree?

Lets gist!

42 comments:

  1. have never been in that situation with so I'll pass

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  2. I pray not to be in that kind of shoe oh. It can be so uncomfortable

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  3. Actually Stella women can be petty! But so does men...so it's a 50/50 issh.

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    1. Men are more petty o! Don't be deceived!

      The bad thing about men is they tend to believe their fellow man. A lady on the other hand is more likely to ignore negative talk about her man from his ex. She fit even fight the ex sef

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  4. People who cling to their pasts end up ruining their futures.
    Why cling to your exes?
    Why not forgive and give Jesus your past and move on to a new life? Life cannot be lived inside a bottle of bottled up bitter emotions. It will destroy and ruin you. You will die an old bitter maid. But if you let go and let Jesus in, you chart a new life and eternity.

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  5. I wouldn't mind dating anyone my ex is friends with. I treated my exes right and none will have anything negative to say about me. So no qualms 😊

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    1. Eesah sef get ex🤣🤣🤣🤣,wetin Lola no go see for the okoyes hand

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    2. That means none of your exes is a BV, else they sure would have plenty to say about you 😂

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  6. Do you want to know why women do not ever let go?
    "The earth cannot bear under a woman that is void of love..."
    I have quoted from the manual of life, Prov. 30:21-23.
    When an unsaved woman is not HAPPILY married, she will do everything to separate two insects on nuptial flight.
    Sad but true. Those saying otherwise are pretentious and hypocritical.😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝

    From the first day my "friend" (actually a colleague who
    pretended to be friend) heard that I was getting married to the man
    she had known over the years, she began telling me scary marriage stories. I got the intent and offloaded her quickly.
    😝😝😝😝😝😝😝

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  7. Hmmm! My ex and I dated for 10yrs, he married someone else. It’s been 4 years, still single. He has a female bestie, who was like an elder sister to both I and my ex. I’ve spent nights in her family house. Her younger brother met me 5 yrs into my relationship, he is also close to my ex. He used to tease my ex then to leave me for him. He liked me and would spend a lot of time with me back then. My ex was aware but they tease each other with it. It’s 4yrs since my ex got married. I stopped speaking to him after his trad. This guy has been asking me to marry him since the day of my exe’s trad. Not like I owe my ex loyalty, but I just can’t bring myself to even date him. Most of his friends are my ex’s friend. Including his sister. Not an easy decision. Maybe if I had mad feelings for him it would be easier.

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    1. You better go ahead and date this guy,because your ex is married and you're here saying until you have mad feelings for him.
      Odiegwu.

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    2. Please give him a chance,you never can tell.

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    3. Just give this guy a chance. I am sure your ex is happy in his marriage.

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    4. How do I send you a brain resetting slap please?

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  8. Hmmm! My ex and I dated for 10yrs, he married someone else. It’s been 4 years, still single. He has a female bestie, who was like an elder sister to both I and my ex. I’ve spent nights in her family house. Her younger brother met me 5 yrs into my relationship, he is also close to my ex. He used to tease my ex then to leave me for him. He liked me and would spend a lot of time with me back then. My ex was aware but they tease each other with it. It’s 4yrs since my ex got married. I stopped speaking to him after his trad. This guy has been asking me to marry him since the day of my exe’s trad. Not like I owe my ex loyalty, but I just can’t bring myself to even date him. Most of his friends are my ex’s friend. Including his sister. Not an easy decision. Maybe if I had mad feelings for him it would be easier.

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    1. Better develop that mad fillings for him now so it would be easier… this guy don de your matter for 5yrs now and your village people still de block your eyes

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    2. Please consider him if he is a nice person

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    3. Kazmor be calming down 😂😂😂

      DR Pls review the guy's case if he's worth it... Go for it. Your ex is happily married ooooo

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    4. Why don’t you consider him?

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    5. He's been asking you out for 9 years? You better give him a chance

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    6. Dated for 10 years??

      I hope it was from primary school because I dinnor understand that kind of dating.

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  9. Stella, you just described Love & Hiphop and Real housewives franchise.

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    1. I laugh in my gonaked hair 😂

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    2. Lmao. Anon, you ain’t sleek. 😂😂
      Porsha, our wifey.

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    3. @Perxian I can’t wait for the new season. It finna be lit!

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  10. Never been in this kind of situation before.

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  11. Never been in such. Reading mode.

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  12. I did unknowingly, and the it leads to their fight,Cos the ex was always taunting the new one cos of me, I later stopped dating the new one,and they become friends again, unfortunately the guy I dated after that is also their friend and I ended up marrying him, we are all married now and we still same clique

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    1. 🤐...🤔...🤐

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  13. I have never been in that kind of situation and I pray to never be

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  14. Some Ex are really petty it takes only the matured ones to keep their mouth shut, though I have never been in such situation before

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  15. This situation ship ended my marriage. Heaven knows I did not date the guy. We were just friends. We visit each other. Gist about everything. I introduced him to my main guy then. I got married went for a function one day with my hubby. We met one of this my friends male friend who happened to be my husband course mate and friend. They exchange pleasantries. I greeted him too. Few days later hubby asked me why l lied to him about my supposed male friend. Honey l did not lie to you. He is just a friend. Nothing intimate. He gave me a slap and said they guy we met at the function called him to say l was sleeping with the so called friend. This life ee. What kind of wicked lie is this. All efforts to convince my hubby l never slept with the guy fail on deaf ears. He called my friend and told him he is leaving me for him. That was how the marriage breakup started and the centre could not hold again. God dey.

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    1. Anon 20.41 sorry if he lied against you he will have his reward.

      Did you have children in your marriage?
      Give us the Chronicles please we can learn from it

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    2. Vengeance is of mine says the Lord no be this case…
      That man will surely come before arusi Okija to replay the sex scene for my husband ooo

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    3. This is witchcraft. The lie that can wake the dead.

      Where is the place of trust and understanding in marriage?? Even if anything happened, can't he forgive??

      He will definitely pay his sins in a major way... gosh..

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    4. Kaiiiiii!!! This is why people poison people

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    5. GOD will surely reward all involved

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  16. This one no normal biko. Village people at work. Thank God he told you the person behind the lie. Oya start pouring holy ghost fire on his head every morning and night until he says the truth. Even write his name on a paper and take to alter of God. Inukwa aruruala bikonu 😒😒

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  17. I once did.
    The ex was an acquaintance to the new one, not friends that even hang out, just same tribe in a northern state kinda thing.

    The ex tailed me to the new guys house( that was how he knew where the supposed friend was staying for the first time), ex got there and downloaded everything pretending to state how things where with us, luckily I was truthful with the new guy regarding my health challenges, and new guy just said she already told me. Ex went as far as saying he helped me buy my car instead of saying he followed me to buy my car, I paid personally from my own money and he helped me drive it to the new state... New guy foolishly felt ex used his money.
    Ex was there to spoil everything though because in his guise of begging he had gone to even do mini introduction with someone else before we broke up...I found out a month after we broke up.

    Bottom line, I didn't marry the supposed friend of ex, he was acting like he did me a favor.

    I got married to someone else who isn't known to both exes and I made sure I blocked them because I noticed they were both fond of following people that know me to keep tabs. One even followed my sister on Facebook after we broke up and my sister ain't even on a friendship level with this ex.

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