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Saturday, October 30, 2021

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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A STORY WIRTH SHARING:




Good day Stella and blog visitors.


I am presently 6weeks pregnant.


I have lost two pregnancies this year. I was slated for a surgery at the hospital, they collected my blood to do the normal tests they always do before surgery. I even gave the nurse my pad and pant inside the surgery room, told her my menses might come during the surgery as I was already two days late.


After the surgery and all, I heard a congratulations you are pregnant. Lol
Didn't know whether to cry or to laugh.


Due to my two miscarriages I take injection for the pregnancy twice a week. I also go for dressing for the surgery (had lumps removed from my two breasts)
So imagine the mental stress of having pregnancy hormones, nausea, sore breast and nipples and all and also having plaster all over your breast and walking like robot.


The drugs that was given to me at the hospital to make the surgery heal fast and to relive me of the pain, I am always scared of using them, because of my pregnancy, I Am so scared of losing the baby.


Plus when I use them, about six of them in total I always have serious cramps, like fight is going on in my stomach. It is always so scary. So most times I don't use the drugs and I end up with unbearable pain in my breast. I will say, it's better to endure this horrible pain than to lose my child .


Recently, my nurses wrote drugs for me to buy to make the surgery dry up faster because it was removing purse (because I wasn't using my drugs) I asked if they were safe for a pregnant woman to use, especially first trimester and they said yes.


The first time I used them, I thought I was going to have a miscarriage, I had serious cramp all throughout the night. Rolling and rolling on the bed. I was just praying and begging God to help me.


Called the doctor the next morning and she said I should stop using all the drugs except ****** and folic acid. Because of my miscarriage history.


It is well. I also have to worry about the lumps removed, the test results (to see if it's cancerous or not) will be out in a weeks time.


And on top of that doctor said I should try not to think or worry about anything because of my pregnancy, even house chores is limited, my husband does everything now all to help me get through the first trimester successfully. Bathe me and cooks before going to work, comes back, enter kitchen to make dinner.


It's just too much, I had to stop working too. And this is our first child by the way.


Back to the s#x life gist, my husband has refused to have s#x with me since after the surgery lol. Man is so scared and me I want to be touched or played with. He said 'how do I touch you with the plaster in your breast, and with the baby growing in your womb that we have to be careful not to lose. 


Guy man no gree oooo.. even though I try to seduce him sometimes lol. He bathes me cos of the plaster and all, I sometimes joking drag him and guy man will just jejely remove himself from the situation....

It is well with me.


Don't know if this is worth a chronicle, but pouring this out just made me feel better. Will give an update about my life in a month or two from now, and by Gods grace I will be better and have lots of testimonies to share.
Thanks everyone for reading.



*I wish you all the best.. thank you for sharing and keep us updated....

I hope also that the drugs dont affect your baby. As for your hubby, maybe he is doing the right thing by refusing you.... Respect to him.

77 comments:

  1. May God grant you speedy recovery and protect you and your pregnancy, the baby will survive it and God will bless him/her




    *Larry was here*

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    1. Speedy recovery to you darling and may God protect your unborn child. Amen

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    2. You are are strong woman. Ur healing is perfect in Jesus name.

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    3. I was advised to stay of sex especially during the first trimester due to a previous miscarriage.
      I was also placed on gestone injections you can ask your doctor about it, it serves as some kind of hormone booster.

      But please avoid any strenuous activities for now, please do extra research on medications given to you this period.
      No two pregnancies are the same.

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    4. Plz how many milligram of gestron were u taking per dose ? Plz I have gone through series of miscarriage

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    5. I pray that God heals you fast and make that baby stay and grow healthily. I also pray that taking out the lumps were the best decisions the doctors made. I think your hubby is right to put sex aside for now especially with the history of miscarriages which might put your pregnancy in high risk so you should really take everything slowly. God bless your family.

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    6. I honestly do not remember but I went in once a week.
      It makes you feel very terrible afterwards

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    7. So sorry about all you are currently going through. You have to be strong and remain positive. Please participate in the ongoing healing streams services with pastor Chris. Search for it on any social media. It starts at 7pm. God will come through for all of us and we will return with testimonies Amen. It's well dear. E hugs

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    8. May God perfect your healing.
      You shall carry your bundle of joy in Jesus name Amen πŸ™

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    9. The Lird will perfect all that concerns you. You will rejoice and celebrate. His hands will rest upon you now and always.

      You will share your testimonies. God be with you..❤❤❤❤

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    10. God is on your case, trust and believe in Him. Speedy and God's Divine healing

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  2. I no blame you hubby jare 😜
    Let the man be. He's scared .. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    Don't worry. God will see you through. You'll carry your healthy baby to term, amen πŸ™πŸΏ

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  3. Saint Elsewhere Phoenix30 October 2021 at 15:06

    Thank you for this. Just keep your head up and speak with your doctor about the drugs you are taking.

    You got a good man. Congratulations dear and please share the good news

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    1. Your baby is preserve for greatness and for your hubby, heaven gave you one of the best man and that of your health God will prefect all that concern you.

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  5. Wow!, I wish you a smooth journey to delivery, God is with you all the step of the way.

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  6. I pray that God will perfect your healing and you will carry you child, please try not to think or stress your self, am also happy that you have an understanding hubby. Congratulations in advance

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  7. This is just too much 😩.I'm having goosebumps just reading it all. May the good Lord strengthen you ,be with you ,grant you your heart desires and save delivery.
    Tonia

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  8. It will end well. You're a strong woman and your hubby is a great manπŸ’™

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  9. Wishing you loads of strength and smooth delivery. E hugs poster

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  10. It's well with you, you will carry to term and your healing is sure

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  11. Congrats in advance ... The Lord is your strength...

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  12. Really sorry about what you are going through and I hope it all ends in praise.

    Also try to bear with ur husband cos I totally understand how he feels. If God forbidanything ever happens to ur baby after he has sex with u, he will probably never forgive himself so he is trying to be careful especially because of ur miscarriage history.

    I pray the test result comes back as non cancerous tho and I wish you a successful pregnancy and delivery

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  13. Madam why do I have a feeling that the drugs u are not taking is your post op antibiotics hence the pus u are draining? Hope u know sepsis will harm Ur baby faster than u can imagine. Leave sex for now because u don't need to stress yourself and the baby. I wish you the best .

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    1. True, I was on medications after several loss and I just had my baby 3 months ago, if u are in doubt, type on google if the names injection or medication is good during pregnancy, it’s that simple! How come u didn’t visit google or type the names of what u are prescribed so we help u?

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  14. God bless your husband. May God perfect your healing


    Pretty Patience

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  15. It will end in praise but doctors should prescribe drugs that are safe for the baby and that will relieve you of the pains from the surgery and help you heal faster.

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  16. This is too much for one person to go through. Going by your history of miscarriages, I will advice you bear the absence of sex for the main time. I pray you heal very well.

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  17. I was in your shoes about 11 years ago,I lost 4 pregnancies, avoid sex for now,the injections are hormones.You will carry your pregnancy to full term In Jesus Name.What God cannot do does not exist.

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    1. Exactly
      I was told to avoid sex my first trimester
      I know someone that was told to avoid sex through out the pregnancy.
      Please poster consider this and also speak to them about those boosters

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    2. I also avoided sex for the first trimester but afterwards, we continued gently till I gave birth

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  18. So Stella, why is my comment not showing; isn't the husband a hero here?
    Let's commend good men when they behave. or is there a gender war here?

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    1. Leave Stella say your own. I agree with you the man is very exceptional. May God bless him and give him the strength to continue to be supportive. The journey is long. Madam poster wishing you all the best and praying that you come back with testimonies. Amen.

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    2. @15:52
      Gender warrior, if the table were flipped, will you encourage the woman to wait and "continue to be supportive?"
      Even if it is that the man lost his job which is so common in the Nigerian economy now? πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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    3. Yes her husband is awesome. It's not easy to look after someone in that condition, go to work, pay the bills etc. I mean, he has to worry about making money, worry about the baby, worry about you plus house chores? MAY GOD BLESS YOUR HUSBAND ABUNDANTLY, HE IS AN ANGEL

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    4. 17:43 reading and comprehension is your problem. You are obviously the one wanting to fight gender wars. Continue fighting you hear? So with all that you read up there that the wife is going through, it is paining you that the man is supporting his wife, smh. You had hoped she would complain about her husband. Anyway like I said, God bless such a good husband as the poster's and give both of them the strength to carry on. Poster you have been so strong, may God continue to strengthen you and perfect your healing.

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  19. I wish you God's divine healings to you Amen. God Almighty will perfect what He has started with you Amen.

    Be strong and stay positive because you will carry to full term.

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  20. May God's healing hand locate you and protect your baby until nine months in Jesus name amen. CONGRATULATIONS MADAM

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  21. Congratulations to you.. Wake up every morning and declare this pregnancy is going no where.. It will reach full term. And don't entertain negative thoughts.. All the best.

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  22. Thank God u are pregnant. Hope ur hubby is not getting sex outside before I commend him. There are women that has never been pregnant in their entire life. Sex no be food oh born pikin lst.

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    1. Which one is hope he's not getting it outside? You see a man who's supportive of his wife in her delicate condition and this is what you could think of him? Too bad.


      Poster, you have a good man there. Please bear with him for now esp at this early stage. You'll be fine, okay?


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    2. Na you her husband dey collect sex outside from? You leave the gist of the chronicle come dey suspect the husband. No go face you husband/boyfriend.

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    3. Natasha 16:08 Your head is so messed up that you can't see anything good in a man doing the right thing for his wife.

      A man is traumatised seeing his wife go through a lot of surgery and is trying his best not to sucumb to sex so that his wife will carry a baby to term and all you can do is baseless suspect him of infidelity.

      I can imagine you would accuse your own spouse if this chronicles were yours and cause wahala in your home.

      cutemista

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    4. Very insensitive comment. May God have mercy on some of you.

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    5. Even if he is, give him some slack. The man is going through a lot, both physically, emotionally, mentally and otherwise. Why not praise him for the support and care he is rendering now? Poster please don't think negative about your husband. I know a lot of douchebag men who won't be supportive or do half the things your hubby is doing. Concentrate on appreciating him and praying to God for a perfect home.

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  23. U sincerely pray for you that you will deliver a healthy baby.

    The test result will be in your favour.
    May God bless you and give you the strength to pull through.
    Warm regards to your husband.πŸ’–πŸ˜˜

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  24. Nne God is on ur side,he will perfect his good works in ur life,in all this,it shall turn to a testimony. Don't do sex now,its nt advisable.ur Oga get good hrt.
    Ada ohafia.

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  25. God bless you and your husband
    Your husband na better person
    Congratulation will end this story in Jesus name

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  26. so sorry about the pains and all dear.
    Please please and please,pus coming out from your surgery site is not good. Also I don't get why the nurse will give you anything that will harm your child. Now to what to do my dear;


    Go and meet a gynaecologist. And show him all the drugs you have been given. He will determine the ones safe for you and your baby or not.

    3 things are so important
    That you heal fast and well enough( a gynaecologist checking those drugs and recommending safe pain relievers and safe antibiotics is very important)

    That your baby is safe(same drug stuff)

    That you are ok mentally and all

    I know it is not easy dear,but hold on to God. He will perfect it all,amen!
    I dunno if you can take my advice on drugs. I m a health specialist too...use progesterone vaginal inserts to help keep the baby. Then u can take ceftriaxone,sulbactam combination iv drugs,then paracetamol for the pains as this is what is safe. Continue your folic acid as well.

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    1. I am the lady.
      The drugs I was given was Tab Augmentin (branded)

      Tab Chymoral

      Tab vitamin C bottle own.

      Tab flagyl 400mg. The Chymoral was the one giving me cramps. I had to stop all the drugs except augmentin when I told the doctor.
      Thank you for your advice will ask my doctor about the drugs you recommended so I can get them if she gives me a go ahead.
      Thank you sir
      I take the progesterone injection already, is the insert necessary too?

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  27. I was in your shoes 14 years ago. The cramps when you take the drugs are out of this world, but don't worry, God will not start what he won't finish. My daughter will be 14 yrs old next year by God's grace. She is doing very well . All will be well.

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  28. I wish you speedy recovery and safe delivery. You shall come back and testify the goodness of the Lord.

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  29. Divine healing dear, it will end in praise in Jesus name Amen.
    congratulations in advance

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  30. God will perfect that which he had begun in your life. You will carry your pregnancy to terms and deliver safely. The balm of Gilead soothens all pains and heals the surgery wound in Jesus name

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  31. So with all the pain and stress you’re going through sex is your problem na wa o

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    1. I tiya lol, u are having pains and still thinking of sex and u know what u have been through for a child , what of me wey the man abandon when I was two months pregnant? Who did I sleep with? Ur priority should be having a successful pregnancy and googling to know the effect of the medication with pregnancy, I don’t know the dunce of a nurse or doctor u have that can’t reassure u that it’s safe for pregnancy, here in d U.K., they won’t give u nothing that isn’t safe with pregnancy, I don’t know about Naija and if u are really concerned type it on google , u would see answers

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  32. Divine healing madam,the God that make it possible for others will do it for you in Jesus name Amen

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  33. Divine healing madam,the God that make it possible for others will do it for you in Jesus name Amen

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  34. Divine healing madam,the God that make it possible for others will do it for you in Jesus name Amen

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  35. Poster, I v been in a slightly similar situation.
    Mine was breast cancer at about 30.
    I had embryos stored so I could still have kids incase chemotherapy affected my fertility.
    To cut long story short, after I got the all free and decided to try for a baby, I lost all embryos, with just two left.
    The first of the two left, When it implanted, I was OVERLY careful yet I miscarried.
    The last embryo did not fertilise. Top Consultants Claimed I could never have my own Baby etc. I had to turn to God wholly.
    I am carrying my third child in my hands (naturally) as I type.
    In summary, worrying won’t help, hold on to God, save yourself first before any looking for any Baby.
    You need to be alive to take care of a Baby.
    May God guide and help you.. Amen!

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    1. What a testimony!! Glory be to Jesus.

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    2. Thanks Anon 20:05 and jet Li
      Glory to God in the highest! My testimony no be for here.
      I m God’s favourite.
      I forgot to add that IVF could not help as my ovarian reserve value was too low for doctors to recommend it.
      Chei, I remember those sad times, always playing Olowogboboro and just looking up to God.
      Can’t believe I m same person now scared of getting pregnant

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  36. Healing hands upon you my dear

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  37. You're a strong woman. Thank you for sharing your story, I'm sure it strengthened a lot of people going through different challenges.
    May God see you through and I pray the results will be good and you'll carry your baby to full term. And Gob bless your husband real good. His type is rare.

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  38. Awwwww, This was me 6 years ago.
    I was pregnant with my baby girl and had to undergo an orthopedic surgery on my femur and for the entire 9 months I was on clutches.
    I was on strong antibiotics for 6months straight.

    Thank goodness, my Orthopedic surgeon has a brother who is a renowned Gynaecologist, so he okayed the medis, Lol, but you know, pregnant women and worry na like 5 and 6.

    On the 26th October 2015, our family was blessed with a very cute super hairy girl.
    My dear mum counted her fingers and toes and they were complete( my mum na drama queen, lol)

    She's beautiful, sensitive and affectionate child. She just celebrated her 6th birthday last week. Happy birthday Somma my girl!

    Poster don't worry, Everything will be alright, believe me.
    Kudos to your sensible husband, God bless him.
    Please update us.

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  39. That is a lot you are going through to be a mother. Wow.

    I honour your strength and perseverance. I doubt that I would have been half as strong as you are. May you hold a healthy baby in your arms and the child bring decades of joy to your life.

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  41. May God heal you up fast and help you carry your baby to full term.

    You are strong.

    God bless your husband too

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  42. Poster you will carry pregnancy to terms, God bless your husband and trust in God.

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  43. You are a strong woman poster, may God keep your baby, you in Jesus name. Talk to your husband about how you feel.

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  44. I'm just "wowed" by all the testimonies here. Our God is indeed a great God.

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  45. What God wants to do does not exist

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  46. Poster, God is a miracle working God, what he has started, he will complete.

    Hold God tight. Also Listen to ‘the altar of prayer’ by apostle Joshua Selman. It’ll help you.

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