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THE BOYFRIEND AND HIS LINGERING EX

Good day Bvs
I need to ask this question before they say I am overreacting.

So last night my so called boyfriend let's call him Dave, posted a video of his Ex girlfriend on his status. His ex girlfriend first posted the video on her status( you know all those type of videos babes post doing nothing just smiling to the camera with music at the background)

I happened to know the ex girlfriend because there was a time she won a game and I sent her the winning prize, and she saved my number cos we were in the same old school WhatsApp group, then I didn't know she was my boyfriend's ex girlfriend. I saved her number then. But we are cool. I don't even talk to her about myself or my relationship and she doesn't ask. We see each other's status. And I do post my boyfriend once in a while, and she didn't say anything about that.

There was a time sometime last three months she carried two pictures Dave posted on his status and reposted with kissing emoji, I saw that and questioned Dave, why will two ex be seeing each other's status, still be in communication to the extent of reposting pictures, he said I shouldn't mind that, besides he won't because they have broken and see her as an enemy, that I'm the one he loves bla bla. I should take his words. 

OK I warned him severely because okafors law is still in existence, he said that can't happen. Ok , later the girl deleted the pictures, I didn't ask why. I minded my business. I and Dave returned to normal lovey dovey for like two months since then. Only for him to suddenly decide to test nonsense
, he said he was testing my maturity! 

For goodness sake he posts pictures of other girls, his besties, his guy's girlfriends, his classmates, I didn't even snap so why will he migrate to posting an ex to test my maturity!

 I told him I'm done, and that he's the immature one, that he can go and be with whomever he sees as the mature one. He apologized and said it won't ever happen again. I didn't reply him. He started calling, voice calls, video calls, phone, I didn't pick. I had to switch off my phones so that I can sleep.

This morning immediately I turned on my phone, his calls started. Will I have to switch off my phone forever? He texted for me to hear him out first.

As I'm typing this he is still calling. I can't pick because I am not ready to have this conversation. I will cry if I pick up that call cos I am very emotional. And I don't want to cry. God I am messed up already. To think that I have a professional exam to write this weekend. Why this kind of emotional stress now.

I hate drama! It seems love is not for me, assuming I know that they were still in talking terms, I won't ever agree to be his girlfriend.

*Well he may probably just be friends with her or still have something for her... Whichever it is, please out the nonsense he wants to say first. why should you cry? are you a baby? stop being so emotionally dependent on a man and showing him.....You can break up with a guy without even telling him sef, thats more painful.... This guy you are dating is childish, move on if you are looking for something meaningful and respectful.