Great Update!!
This update is about the Couple in a fix ...The one the hubby who works out of town and wanted his friend to go and stay with his wife in a self contained room because the friend needed somewhere to stay
The update says..
''Thanks madam Stella and all BVs.
The NO from all of you gingered me to say No too. Wednesday last week, while getting ready for work, hubby called and said " Jewel, I asked brother X(family friend) about it and he pleaded we accommodate him knowing how the said man is (character wise). Please you have to adjust to accommodate him." The way I shouted no in his ears could deafen one.
Told him, he hates me and I can't believe he is putting other people feelings before mine. Told him since it's this way, no problem. By Thursday, I packed my bags waiting for him to come because next day was Oct 1st. When he got home and noticed I have packed my things and asked why, I told him I would rather go back to my parents or friend's than put up with the man or the talks that will with his presence.
At this point, he knelt down and started pleading for not understanding my reasons for refusing the idea. And promised to talk to the man to look for somewhere else to put up. Well, it's a new week no man and I asked him how far with their discussion.
He just told me I should forget about moving to my parents or friend's that it has being settled. Thanks to all of you once more''.
*Thank God it ended well for you both....
Im happy for you. You took the right decision. Thank God for giving you an understanding hubby too, some men would have made an issue out it. I can't even imagine myself living alone with a male family friend even in a three bedroom flat.
ReplyDeleteFascinating!
DeleteNice one. To avoid had I known
DeleteSelf contain house no even fit enter me alone not to talk of to add another person and opposite gender join. How do people think sef and how do adults claiming to be mature enough to be 'spouse' think sef?
ReplyDeleteCan you please try to be sensitive and sensible with your comment.
DeleteWe all 'know' that you live alone in a mansion somewhere in an island.
Your husband is one of the good men remaining...
ReplyDeleteNice one. He needed the common sense from you.😘😘
ReplyDeleteI pray oo my friend come to with my wife hmmm so men sha
DeleteWell, nice ending
ReplyDeleteBut note that it is not always nice endings like this
Some others will pack to their parent's house and write chronicles
that "for months in their parent's house, he hasn't asked where she is"
It is not everything that you pack to your parent's house. Just note
If he doesn't ask in your analogy then she is married to herself and the man is an infidel
DeleteThankGod it end well.
ReplyDeleteBenefit of listening to sound advice, tank God it ended in praise.
ReplyDeleteAda ohafia
What a reasonable HUBBY God dash YOU lol...because MOST men are unreasonable and DAFT! I'm happy for you...take care
ReplyDeleteGood ending..
ReplyDeleteThank God you stood your ground, and I am glad that your husband got the message clearly.
ReplyDeleteThank God for you
ReplyDeleteThank God for you.
ReplyDeleteThank God it ended well
ReplyDeleteIts a room and parlor apartment not self contained.
ReplyDeleteI'm the poster.
Thanks all. Learning so much here.
God bless you. And give you more wisdom for days ahead.
DeletePraise God for the victory.
Thank God it ended well
DeleteThey are all classified as self contained. A room "self contained" and a room and parlour "self contained"
DeleteEven that is still too small to accommodate a third party. Self contained apartments are mostly for single people,
Self contained and a room and parlour is the same thing, after all, they both have one room. For your husband to even suggest his male friend stays with you while he’s away baffles me. I hope he loves and cares for you.
DeleteBut how could your husband have even considered accommodating the man. Well, it's good it's been settled
ReplyDeleteI wonder too
DeleteMy husband would never conceive that thought. If someone even raises it, he will quickly turn it down. I mean someone who is not my blood brother or his own blood brother coming to live with me in our flat, not room and parlour self contained o.
When you have a good heart, you think everyone else is the same. Unfortunately, life is not so simple. Hence the Bible says to be wise as a serpent but harmless as a dove
DeleteClearly the man felt one good turn deserves another. He did not realize he has to be selective about the "another".
The man appears to be good natured.
19:12 abeg leave that good heart kini kan. A full sized man with functional penis, you said he should go and stay with your wife in a room and parlour?? No be say na your brother or uncle o.
DeleteE be like say the husband swallow juju wey big like Eba to even have the temerity to suggest to the wife.
Poster thank God for you o that you did not marry awon 'my wife must be submissive' with hammer in their mouth. U for don dey measure your leg to ya papa house.
Even brother or uncle or father means nothing in such a small space, a man should be protective in his thoughts and actions not exposing his wife to possible wahala or danger
Delete19:55 some of you are so filthy minded you think every one is like you. his mind will not have gone to his friend thinking of that with his wife, moreso he was just thinking to repay one who has helped him..
DeleteI swear! If not one day you will will be accused of commiting adultery even if nothing happened. Also your husband never even considered the man may over power you and rape you at night if he had stayed?thank God everything went well. I was speechless the day I read that chronicle.hmnn
ReplyDeleteThank God it ended well
ReplyDeleteGood one and enjoy your husband.
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