Friday In House News....

 The feeling that Friday gives is awesome!

I dey hail.....

IN HOUSE MEMO

The N100k business giveaway has been transferred from BV Blogbrity to the recipient who will post her appreciation message soon ..... Thank you very much Angel Blogbrity..... I hope its OK to say you are the Angel?

Thank you and God bless you so much.

May he reward you a 100 fold and as you have given, may you receive double measure, pressed down, shaken together and RUNNING OVER.



Hope your Friday is going well? I am attempting to make Jollof rice in a bit..

Jollof rice and fried Ram meat.....*Licks lips*



E go be!





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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


Before I met “somebody’s son", I read a lot of books about marriage and running a successful home, I attended a lot of singles and married seminars, I was trying to prepare myself. Though I knew one couldn't be totally prepared because this life could be unpredictable, I just wanted to cover the basics. 

One major area that was left out in all those programs and books is the stress of deciding what everyone would be eating.


Seriously it is stressful planning meals day in day out. I have tried different approaches such as using a time table, buying cooked meals but after a while it becomes ineffective because it just looks like we are eating the same things over and over again.

I try to introduce new delicacies from other cultures but they can sometimes be very expensive and not practical enough to include it in our daily meal plan. With the current increase in the prices of food stuff, I have had to think harder on the best ways to feed my family without making it boring.

 I really don’t have any solution in sight but hopefully something will come up soon.




It is as if I wrote that up there...

What i do is that when i dont know what to cook anymore, we just order for food or we go out eating.... It is not easy at all and is the hardest part of running a home...Respect to all the chefs out there who make food time tables for the homes they cook for.... E no easy at all.

Most women have this problem right?






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NAZIRITES INK



In my spinster days, I met a guy on social media once, he was not well schooled. I was desperate for a better life at that point in my life, so I became vulnerable and opened up to him, he offered an accommodation and encouraged me to move over to his location for more options. 

I knew this was wrong and my life could be threatened because of my selfish decision but I didn't care.

Forehand, he told me he was into me and would like to date me but I concocted lies to remove his mind from that direction.


On the set day, I moved. When I got there, he received me with open arms and as we began to get familiar, I reiterated that I meant what I said about not interested in any relationship and he would do well to keep his hands off me if we are to stay together.


My instructions were difficult I know but to my surprise, he was matured enough and respected boundary. Throughout my stay, I slept on the rug while he slept on the bed. It was a one room apartment, he never touched me inappropriately nor engaged me in lewd conversations, he would leave whenever I want to dress up, he never saw the need to take advantage of me. Additionally, Whenever he goes to town, he would call to ask if I needed anything for myself, he was a total package, he knew how to treat a woman...

Neighbors thought we were an item not knowing that there was absolutely nothing between us, I in turn returned the favor by cleaning the house, cooking and sometimes wash his clothes alongside mine.. It was a most respectful relationship.


Sadly, my mission to get a job and stabilize failed, besides, I began to consider myself a burden after weeks passed... I had to leave. Till date, we are still friends and rapport like families.


After that experience, my orientation about certain things changed and I came to the conclusion that there are still some few good people out there no matter how corrupt and terrible the world has become.

Hmmmm he try!!!

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VACANCY

A cooking club is in need of teachers to teach kids in the club. 

The right candidate must know how to bake and cook and must be a graduate from a reputable institution. Must not be more than 30 years and MUST be VACCINATED.

 Applicants must be presentable and be willing to work with children and teenagers. Preferably resident on the Island but mainland residents too can apply. Send your applications and CV to:

adeponle@gmail.com
laqueen48@yahoo.com

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