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Sunday, March 20, 2022

Wordless Evening Post...

 


30 comments:

  1. Are you serious?? Keep that word to yourself ,internet never forgets. In case you eventually got married and have children. To avoid them throwing shade.

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    1. Truthfully, she shouldn't have kids. We need more ngoni okinji wela. We have enough bbn

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    2. She can decide to have kids tomorrow. It is only a fool who never changes his mind.

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  2. Does anyone really have a perfect life, when ever am on Instagram,I swe perfect happy marriage, vacations, like everyone is happy except me, I have a biz and like 20m savings, but I just feel am not trying enough, am 33

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    1. Enter your reply...See that your savings,a quarter of it will solve all my problems.This life no balance.

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    2. You dey over try, I'm 32 dont even have up to 30k in my account

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    3. Immerse yourself in something good, like church, outreaches. Gain experience outside work

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    4. Anonymous 18:42 you're trying please,many people including me don't have quarter of your savings but we're all still pushing it....Super proud of you🥰🥰🥰🥰

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  3. Okay Angel ..your life,your choice

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  4. Childish spoilt brat

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    1. All the more reason she shouldn’t have children, don’t you think?

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    2. She didn't say her reasons. Maybe she can't cope with the training them .Training children is a serious job. Not all that have children are qualified for the job.

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  5. Better for you and for the world.

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  6. ...which I think is a good decision in certain situations

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  7. Let her proceed to monastery and join the sisterhood.Good.decision
    #THATOGOJADUDE.

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  8. Anything that makes you happy.

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  9. Personally, I think not everyone should get married and same thing with having kids. If you are not game, don't sweat it.

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    1. They will come and vomit under your comment now

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  10. Good decision by her.Let her proceed to monastery and join the sisterhood.
    #THATOGOJADUDE.

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  11. Good decision by her.Let her proceed to monastery and join the sisterhood.
    #THATOGOJADUDE.

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  12. Why are people insulting her for saying she doesn't want kids? I don't want to have kids too. I can't imagine carrying pregnancies and all the pain that comes with childbirth and raising kids. When I think of breastfeeding I feel irritated. I can't imagine little babies latching unto my breasts to be fed and my breasts falling like deflated balloon andflying about. Not everyone fantasizes about it. I've always been about making money and securing my comfort. I love staying on my own. May just adopt a kid if I change my mind, not sure but definitely not having mine. Mothers don't like to speak up about the insecurities that may arise in one due to postpartum body changes. To raise kids is not easy too. The narrative that kids change our lives and fill them with so much happiness needs to change. Many people will never voice it out but they know they were happier without kids. Kids also put a lot of strain on marital relationships. Couples always have themselves to themselves before children but kids can separate them. The world is overpopulated enough as it is. 7 billion people! More people shouldn't have kids Please. Is it really an achievement? Anybody can have kids. Male sperm and female ova is in excess. Please nobody should blame her. As for kids taking care of her in old age, let tomorrow take care of itself. I can't spend 25 years of my life worrying about kids and paying their bills, not sleeping in, cooking and cleaning up after them, etc. I love my solitude. The worst is having kids with a wicked man. I dodged a bullet with my ex fiance who hounded me for marriage just after 5 days of meeting me. I was still very young and naive. My mother said I should accept him because time waits for no 'woman'. It didn't later work out because his mother refused after the introduction, reason is that I refused sleeping in their house like he ordered me to when I wasn't prepared for it while coming and it wasn't in the plan. She said I'm stubborn. I never understood how desperate women are for marriage so I never knew at the time that I was considered 'lucky' to be chosen by her banker son. If such a little issue can cause separation between us after an elaborate introduction then I wonder what the marriage would have been like. He wanted a fast marriage to hide his nasty character. I later learnt he's a woman beater too. Imagine having kids with such a human being. Let everyone do what makes them happy please.

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    1. If you like have kids, if you like don't have, breast wey go fall go fall. You said couples have themselves to themselves before kids, who told you couples that don't have children don't drift apart? Anyway do what makes you happy

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  13. Anon 4:29, thumbs up

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  14. Children don't take care of anyone in old age, money does. Those whose children are footing the bills for treatment and care hardly spend time with these parents. All most old people have to battle loneliness is WhatsApp and their church.

    I know of women and men who went ahead to have these kids and found any and every excuse to walk away without any sensible explanation. Even when the children reestablish contact for the sake of a wedding or whatever, the parent disappears again because they just don't want to have that connection with the child no matter how well or poorly either party is doing. This is why I advise that only people who have interest in raising a kid should make one. Not wanting kids doesn't mean you are damaged, it's not rare in human society or history, it's just that people of that leaning feel compelled to make them. The social media groups for parents who truly regret making children are a good lesson for those who think they'll just have one to fit the mold. You'll hate that child for stealing your life and eating up your time and that's not good for anyone.

    Not everyone is paternal or maternal. It is easier for a man to hide this part of himself as he is majorly expected to provide and not care so he seeks a job that keeps him far away from home till his children are almost adults and he is able to relate to them as an older friend. I know men who basically lived in their study when not away from home. Some women hold on to marry a widower or divorcee with kids as it is taboo to even state disinterest in being a mother or they just have really long term relationshis with the understanding that the man should find a way to procreate without emotional strings. Some women have the kid to silence wagging tongues and are happy to have their older relatives raise them into adulthood. The moment the kid wants to come close, it's boarding school or university in another country. It's when the grandkids come and Grandma is still keeping a distance that the child can no longer deny being abandoned from birth.

    It's not about the pain of childbirth but the complete disinterest in providing parental care to a little human being. I feel the Reverend sisters were really duped twice with being hereded together to watch other people's kids instead of having their freedom. It's no wonder most of the ones I know are clearly frustrated. They registered at a time when they couldn't say they didn't want the conventional life and branch out on their own.

    The mistake this lady made is announcing it, still seeking permission of a nosy world. Just let people with no life keep policing yours while you do what you live your destined and divine life. No one will arrest you for such choices.

    Plan for your retirement whether or not you have kids. Even people who have kids regret the choice.

    I am actually amazed at how people desire having kids. Like they feel bad when they can't have them and spend good money to conceive. I couldn't care less. If having a child is what will stop global warming, let the world overheat abeg.

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