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Saturday, April 02, 2022

Actress Elvina Ibru Recounts How Armed Robbers Violated Her In Her Boyfriends House

Nollywood actress, Elvina Ibru has recounted to media personality Chude Jideonwo on how she was raped by armed robbers inside her boyfriend’s apartment. 









She says she was in a relationship with someone at the time who did not have an apartment of his own and that she was unable to visit him initially due to her tight schedules, but had to squeeze out time after the numerous pressure from him.

“I was raped in my boyfriend’s house, it wasn’t in my house. You see, that’s the problem I have, people don’t put down what you said. It wasn’t in my own house,” she said.

“Back then, he (my boyfriend) kept pressurising me to come and spend the night with him. When I met him, he was living in Benin. It was easy then because when he comes on weekends, he would be in my house due to the fact that he did not have his own house.

“Then eventually, he moved to Lagos because of me. However, he moved in with some people that already had a family. So, it was still not convenient for me, how can I be sleeping with someone that is still living with married people.

“So, he would stay there during the week and on weekends, he would come to my place.

“I didn’t have any issue with that. The problem started when he got his own apartment. The place was very far around Abule Egba axis of Lagos.

“Due to my tight schedules, I couldn’t visit him then. Then one day, he just called and said, I don’t blame you, it’s because I’m a princess and his house is too humble for me. So, I just had to visit him. Unfortunately, that was the day armed robbers came to the apartment and I was raped.”

The 49-year-old also enjoined people who have been s#xually assaulted before not to be ashamed to share their stories.

“If you have been raped before — either as a man or woman — it’s not your fault. And you should never be ashamed to talk about it,” she added.

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34 comments:

  1. This na old interview na

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  2. I bet the love he proclaimed for her died that day. No man can bear it. If they do, the woman will be living in hell with him.

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    1. Because selfishness doesn't understand the pain of another and only understands how it affects the non victim

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    2. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Correct Jet Li
      Selfish people never see the pain of others.

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  3. Ohhh mine. This is sad. This relationship will be difficult to continue. Thank God they didn't pass disease to her. Evil people.

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  4. How many times?

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  5. SAD....Knowing men,dat rltshp wont see d light of day after dat incident. Many of dem are not emotionally mature to handle many trauma's women endure.

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  6. Some years back, I almost suffered this fate only that the guy was a married man. Na Wuye amala he use lure me go him area and we ended up at his place.
    Robbers visited that night and it was hell. They beat him with their guns ehnn...i feared for his life. Blood all over.
    Nobody should come for me ooo, this sun is too hot.
    Some of us, the things we need dey married men hands.

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    1. I blame hunger and poverty of both mind and pocket. Amala Iya oyo of all things. Thank God he didn't die. You for be Chidinma in jail by now.

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    2. So na amala dey the man's hands? Really?

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    3. I'm beyond shocked @ shooter. So married men now use Amala to get girls. Like how cheap can you be!

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    4. Àmàlà iya Oyo, the most overated Amala joint ever in Abuja. Absolute rubbish.

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    5. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣am evil for laughing but this is so funny

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    6. U guys are waaaaay too serious. Allow people tell their tales in peace. One reason I visit this blog is the varied experiences of the good, bad and ugly I read here. Sometimes you people stifle people to the point the blog becomes boring. Let the commenter be abeg. Some of una pretence and fake life of lies no go allow una see road. Perrrfecct peeps. 😒

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  7. Well this story na oold gist.. but wetin she fit nor know be say the guy man arrange am

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    1. Enter your reply...Exactly wetin dey my mind be dat.

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    2. After using manipulative words of humble and princess and she wanting to prove say ......


      Aunty the tricks of the insecure and mean

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    3. l want to believe that her so called boyfriend was on it! Well, his life must be hell now cos you don't get away with such!

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    4. Hmmmm I also had this thought.......

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  8. Wow. It is sad the wickedness done in this world. Every woman at any stage of life can be targeted. Just this week we heard of the 92 yr old woman being assaulted. I wouldn't be shocked if the boyfriend was complicit in the attack. There have been cases where boyfriends, husbands and lovers have participated in or organized such attacks.

    We need to speak up. We need to stop hiding family members and close friends who are violators, we do not owe them any peace, we do not owe them any protection. Victims need better support.

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    1. Hmmm i know one woman her boyfriend invited her over and spiked her drink just cos she refused an abortion. He got his friend who was a doctor to perform dat abortion on her while she was drugged.

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    2. This cannot be true except that ‘doctor’ na quack otherwise which dr would wish to risk their hard earned license to please a friend?

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  9. Keep some experiences in the grave wer it belongs.

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    1. On the contrary, experiences do not stay in the grave. Your spiritual body (your soul) is conscious, i.e. goes with your consciousness to judgment.

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    2. Why?
      Why should she giver it up. She didn’t do anything

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    3. She is only using her experience to give hope to others who are passing through similar ish. That is what you do when you overcome.

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  10. Go for your level...
    In thinking and attitude...

    Stop following down...

    Insecure people are a problem waiting to happen

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    1. My dear I have learnt this lesson from this blog.

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  11. So sorry about your experience.

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