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Wednesday, April 13, 2022

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  1. Before marriage, no



    *Larry was here*

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    1. @Larry
      So you did after marriage?

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  2. Lived?...no.
    Sleepovers...yeah.

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  3. No, but it seem like I'm currently doing that as my boyfriend spends the night almost everyday in my house. I enjoy him being around but a part of me want to stop him but not to hurt him.
    Note: we aren't having sex so its not a same thing.

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    1. Why do you want to stop him

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    2. No sex?? Maybe every other thing but no penetration YET! You guys are getting close to doing it. Don't worry.

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    3. If you’re not having sex, I see no need to ask him to stop. You should use the opportunity to get to know who he really is and bond with him.

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  4. No!! I dont even like the idea of staying with someone you're not yet married with..I'm not judging those who do but me I can't mbok! No so see finish dey take start

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  5. If it's before marriage, naaa. I don't believe in such.

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  6. Yeah. I'm living with my lesbian partner and it's the best thing to ever happen to me.

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    1. Well, God is watching. Jesus is calling. Will you answer him?

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    2. It's a sin dear. I know you are tired of hearing it but it doesn't change the truth. One loveπŸ‘

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  7. No,but there is absolutely nothing wrong with living with one's partner as long as you will get your own apartment once you are settled..

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  8. Yes, I lived with my partner for a while when I had accommodation issues when I first came to Lagos

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  9. No, I don't even like it when he is always around sef. I wonder what will happen when we get married. Wahala go dey coz I really love my space.

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    1. Why do you want to marry @FINNY, since you love your space a lot better you stay single now, na wow oo.

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    2. Wahala no go dey,be positive please.

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  10. Story long o,let me summarize it

    🎀 voice message (30:50)

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    1. Hahahahaha
      Na only you & stella go listen to your voice message ooo.... 😁😁

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  11. If it is before marriage, nope.

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  12. Im mama beat me throwey my things for street one night. Today, she still dey pursue dem. Uche free ya sef

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    1. Mama uche no want make e marry ni?
      She come still beat you untop,
      Aiye leh o

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  13. Yes, for 10years and we got married at the 11th year.

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    1. You are indeed strong and lucky. Most long live in lovers don't marry after wasting each other's time.

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  14. Yea when I had accommodation issue. He lived closer to town while my parents house was farrrr.

    I had a job that made me go by 4pm and I close by 12:30 am. I stayed with him. It was better he opened the gate for me whereas there was no one to do that for me at my house I couldn’t disturb my hypertensive mother. All my friends gave me rules and regulations.

    He never acted up for a day. I was even the one giving attitude. I didn’t regret it. It made me realize who he was better and this is someone I want to spend the rest of my life with!

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  15. Yeah, like 4 months (period between our introduction to wedding). I didn't want to pay rent for 4 months in this lagos abeg.

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  16. Never!!! me love myself with so much respect.

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  17. He wasnt exactly a partner as at that time but he was attracted to me. I am about 4 years older than he is. I had to live with him when I came into Abuja for my job and hadn't gotten an accommodation.
    Small time, we start to nack oo. It was under duress on my part because I was kind of stranded.

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    1. I respect your soft heart. You are real. No time to hide or lie

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    2. I like your honesty on this blog sha πŸ˜†

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  18. Live in Nope,sleep overs Yes.
    I think sleepovers is not bad for a serious relationship that might lead to marriage.Them no Dey know man finish but u can have little clues about ur partner.

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  19. We were so into each other and discussing marriage. Along the line i had an accommodation problem and moved to his house for like 3months, see finish entered and relationship scattered.

    I still regret moving to his house, he was the best i ever had! I pray for another opportunity to meet a good man, I promise not to mess it up by giving distance and hiding my flaws until we get married lol

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    1. Anon 21:28, just say you are an abuser. Nothing like see finish.

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    2. He is not the best. I assure you the best will soon locate you. Which best cannot tolerate your flaws for just 3 months. Did you kill his grandmother?. No dear. You are better than you think.

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    3. instead of working on your flaws, you want to hide it. you think the next good man will put up with it

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    4. Better go and work on your flaws instead of hiding she unleashing yourself on one innocent man.

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    5. The Original ShugarGirl14 April 2022 at 06:24

      No, it's not just see finish. It went exactly how it would have turned out if you both were married. Deal with the roots of the issues you and the guy had.

      In marriage you still cant hide your flaws and it could still end a marriage prematurely.

      Live-in is not totally bad but use your sense to read the signs and do not get carried away bcz what you see while at it is what you get in marriage.

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  20. We were so into each other and discussing marriage. Along the line i had an accommodation problem and moved to his house for like 3months, see finish entered and relationship scattered.

    I still regret moving to his house, he was the best i ever had! I pray for another opportunity to meet a good man, I promise not to mess it up by giving distance and hiding my flaws until we get married lol

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  21. Yes yes yes and I enjoy it bcos of the knacking infact am still in his house now like this n will go knack this nite....those of u saying no no no na una own worst..

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  22. Papa was a strick disciplinarian. The fear of him followed me everywhere l went. The thought of what he will do or say if he hears l am living with a man made me not to. I was stranded at a time and that was the only option but no way. Can't even allow a man pay my rent to avoid claiming co tenant or landlord. If you can do it and it makes you happy without sex. Enjoy.

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  23. Yes! And It all helped to shape me into a good wife as I learned a lot on being a wife, mother and friend at home. It also helped me to discover my true personality. Yes! It was a yoruba guy so you can understand the respect aspect. I am married now to my darling Igbo husband and I am the best wife anyone can ask for. I have a very beautiful marriage now.
    On the yoruba guy, he was good just that the pressure and wahala of his babymama was too much. The lady started fight when she heard he had a beautiful Igbo girl that he wanted to marry. His family became divided on who they stood with. I just woke one day when it all became too much and left.I married shortly after. The guy is married now too but to another girl.

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