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Friday, April 01, 2022

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative



Please help me. How can I stop thinking about this guy and get over him? I've stopped all communication and don't have access to his social media but I still think about him so much. Please help a gurl. Love sucks.

You cant get over him yet because there was no closure.....Did you both date for long? why did you shut him out? Sometimes viewing his social media pages and seeing he has moved on also helps you move on....

I would have advised you to date someone else to get over him but that is not the solution.... Why dont you get very busy? if that doesnt work then unblock him on the social media and see what he is up to.... Women dont stay in love for too long if they know a man is not interested... You will be fine#



Please someone speak to me because i am getting tired, I stopped attending my former Church and changed area, but my mum keeps calling and saying that there are revelations every time for me and that if I dont worship there I wont get married, please my people is God not everywhere?

If you dont worship in a Church, you will not get married? what have people turned worshipping God into? Is it the Pastor that is interested in marrying you or what?
Please for your own good, do not step foot into that Church again because this does not sound normal at all.... Before you will wake up ten years later and see you are pastors wife and have 15 kids with him....
My Dear RUN!!!


  1. hard to give advice on issues like this when you dont have the full story...deliverance is in the WORD of God and not resident in a church except if she is saying a "deliverance ministry" specifically. Any bible believing church grounded in the word can pray with you if at all there are issues in your life preventing you from getting married.

  2. Poster 1, Keep your self busy with work or anything and make sure you block him on all social media handles.

    Poster 2: Tell your Mum that your are now dating an Obodo oyibo Guy biko.

  3. "Before you will wake up ten years later and see you are pastors wife and have 15 kids with him...."
    Stella, this part of your advice to the 2nd poster cracked me up. 🤣🤣🤣

  4. Lol Stella this your second advice carry weight.
    Poster one just get busy and after a while you will get over him. Learning how to unloved someone na work.

  5. Poster one. E no easy but you will be fine. Things of the heart are so deep. You have not read here where married people still think and prefer their ex even when both of them have moved on. Seat your inner self down and have a talk. Think of all the negative things he has done to you. Do an imaginary argument with him and pour out your anger and frustration. Cry if you want. Beat the air if you want but remember no one deserves dieing for. If he has moved on. It's time to move on. Get scripture verses that talks about God's love. Start loving yourself intentionally by taking yourself out and buying good things for yourself. Above all. Stop being alone where your mind have space to think. When that comes, look for a distraction either with book, movie or read comments on Stella blog.

    Poster 2:. Mothers take pride in seeing their daughter marry at their local church so that old friends and enemies will attend. Some go to the extent of promising God and pastor that their daughter will marry in their local church. Just be careful. Know God for yourself. God did not give condition for marriage. All he said is ... Non shall lack his mate. He did not say... Non in your mother's church will lack his mate. When my mother says some words to me most times I will rebuke it immediately. Learn to stand your ground. It's your marriage and not your mother's marriage. When you get married. Your mother will cease to be the most important person in your life. She becomes a visitor.

  6. Poster 1, give yourself time and the feeling will no longer be consuming you. You broke off with the person abd bkocked him off on purpose,never forget your why. Dont stalk him by viewing his social media handles, that will be detrimental to your wellbeing and don't even think of dating another person to forget him, that is unhealthy and you will regret it. Keeo moving with your life and you will heal in time.

  7. Poster 1: love matter tiring
    Poster 2: I learnt ooo if you believe a pastor's prophecies too much ,he will soon start prophesying things that suits him and what benefits him. Know GOD for yourself and live right.


  8. Please the first poster should read this and know whether it is Love or LUST that is working here.

    1 Corinthians 13: 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

    8 Love never fails

  9. Dear poster,it ain't easy but you will get over him,if you are working get busy,if you are not,you can start doing research on the net and learn new things,new language or even download season movies to keep your mind busy,also focus on the reason you broke up with him,time heals all wound,you will be fine,if you want to cry,it okay,but don't listen to music like Adele or Taylor swift,they will break you more, wishing you the best

  10. Poster 1. Get a d**k yo take good care of your emotional needs

    Poster 2. No mind mummy jareee. You go marry

  11. Poster 1- the best way to get over a man is get you another man. You need to reprogram your brain..normally you should take sometime to heal and gather your thoughts but since you can't stop thinking about him, find another guy. Rebound or not, just get you a man who'll serve as a major distraction till whenever you're tired.

    Poster 2- People say you're what you eat. I believe that You become what you believe in. No one should tell you where or how you should worship your God. Not even your family. Do not believe whatever prophecy you're told. Decree and declare what you want for/in your life and so shall it be for you.

  12. When you love someone more than life itself, u find yourself in such predicament.

  13. 1- you have started on the right track, with time you will get over him.
    2- God is everywhere,so stand your ground.

  14. Poster 1.True love doesn't sucks the truth is most Nigerian men don't appreciated true love they like liars and pretenders.Some of them don't value good woman you can't blame them they were bought up like that.Some grew up in polygamous home,some of them have never experienced any kind of love most of them don't have a mind of their own they depend on their mothers to make a decision I know you're hurting but you will be fine eventually and when you do you finally met the one that loves and appreciate true love.

  15. Dear postet 1, time, it heals almost all wounds.

  16. Poster 1

    Give yourself time.

    A breakup is like a wound, Fresh one for that matter. It will surely hurt deeply. Then you commence treatment; cry, console yourself, pray, go out, hangout with friends, engage in a hobby that will distracts you, register in a gym, go for a retreat, do things that will make you happy.. Etc.

    Over time, that wound will be an aching pain, then gradually it heals. Sometimes though healed, it will leave a scar, but it is healed. That scar is the memory of that relationship, it could be bitter-sweet 😏😏 but you will be fine 😊😊.

    So don't be in a hurry. When you feel like you've lost something, try to remember why you broke up in the first place and thank God you dodged a bullet.

    Finally ask Our Heavenly Father in prayers to help you. Jesus knows our pains, and knows how to ease and erase "bad memories."

    Cheer up dear, you'll be fine 🤗🤗


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