According to Benito.....
''I'll like people to finally know the truth of what really happened I have been seeing a lot of rumours and yeah I got expelled, there are a lot of mistakes that people make and we learn from it. I am in the UK right now
I got expelled when my dad picked me up and we were driving, he started shouting, then he slapped me and it moved to punches repeatedly.. The security guys in the school tried to hold my dad back but he kept on punching me on my head; it got worse and I tried to leave, he grabbed my tie and was like shaking me, kept on punching my head and the security men were still trying to stop him from doing that to me.
''I'll like people to finally know the truth of what really happened I have been seeing a lot of rumours and yeah I got expelled, there are a lot of mistakes that people make and we learn from it. I am in the UK right now
I got expelled when my dad picked me up and we were driving, he started shouting, then he slapped me and it moved to punches repeatedly.. The security guys in the school tried to hold my dad back but he kept on punching me on my head; it got worse and I tried to leave, he grabbed my tie and was like shaking me, kept on punching my head and the security men were still trying to stop him from doing that to me.
He now left the car and I was there catching my breathe after being shocked, two securities were trying to calm down my dad because of the blood coming down all over my uniform, marks on my necklace. He came back into the car and while driving home he kept on punching me repeatedly, I had to keep my guard up because I did not know what necessarily was gonna happen next.
He was driving recklessly in the school, almost running over people, threatening to kill me that I was useless to him, he kept on punching my head and my ribs I had injury there.. in my mind I thought i need to get out of this place.
We drove to my house picked up my cousin then off to the beach, when we got there I jumped out of the car, my dad begins to chase me around then he comes at me with this big wooden stick trying to hit me, I dodged it.. went down the beach met some locals I didn't know who helped me clean the blood, I thanked them.
My dad was driving recklessly trying to hit people and my cousin was trying to calm him down, he hits my cousin and everybody screamed like my dad was going crazy ,he came out of the car screaming "he is my son I can do whatever to him" then he gets back in the car. I sat in the front seat while my dad at the back and he started hitting me with objects, my neck was bruised, my ribs it was so difficult to breath he kept on punching me at the back of my head screaming he was gonna kill me.
My cousin drove us to estate and I jumped off the car, my dad tried to come after me, I entered the house, locked myself in the room, my face covered in blood my eyes were black. My dad kept on screaming that he would kill me that I won't leave the country, he was going to make my life a living hell.
Those people saying we are jealous, we want to trend ,I and my family just want justice for what happened. I had to keep cool vibes with him because I wanted to leave. At the airport he kept on apologizing that he lost it and was sorry for what he did to me''.
My cousin drove us to estate and I jumped off the car, my dad tried to come after me, I entered the house, locked myself in the room, my face covered in blood my eyes were black. My dad kept on screaming that he would kill me that I won't leave the country, he was going to make my life a living hell.
Those people saying we are jealous, we want to trend ,I and my family just want justice for what happened. I had to keep cool vibes with him because I wanted to leave. At the airport he kept on apologizing that he lost it and was sorry for what he did to me''.
*This is not how to correct a child, the verbal and physical abuse was too much abeg!
You got expelled, its OK for your Dad to be furious, but he went too far, However, he apologized..
ReplyDeleteHey, you are not getting any justice cause this is Nigeria and bad kids gets beaten by their Dad all the time. Sorry kiddo, go private and fix this, its a family business... Hope you've learnt real lessons though..
And yo! You had no right calling your Dad's wife out like that.
Well the uk govt doesn’t feel the same way
DeleteAnd don’t tell that lie. You can’t get away with beating your child anyhow in Nigeria
Go ask those in jail for child abuse
I can’t go by a Nigerian schools action unless I know what happened
DeleteSome expel for permed hair sef
When my coz failed and asked to repeat a class, he didn't bother going home. He went straight to their parish priest ( the only place sacred to his father) and lived there for a year. He only went home when he had a good result.
DeleteExpulsion?!!!
He should throw you a party.
And who is to decide what extent is far enough in disciplining him since your lips are still intact, just one small bleeding...you never see nothing.
Benito is lying my reason being that there is no way you can remember the things your dad was saying while beating you and not mention what you got expelled for in reporting his speech.
DeleteHe probably was reminding him of all his fuck ups during the beating that's if it happened like that, but the boy came and said nonsense remembering only when his dad said he'll kill him. Is that one not a common language most African parents use when they're angry?
Him and his mum should go and rest. I like Funke's silence though.when she'll sting them, their eye go red.
Leave people to be talking rubbish
DeleteIf any man beats my 17 year old like this will not let it slide.
He may have been angry but man, control yourself.
I remember ozo saying he was expelled from school because of the company of friends he had back then, I remember how he said his father helped him through that age, the father never beat him up like a thief, that’s why he has so much respect for his father today.
You don’t assault a child in the name of correction even if you gave birth to them.
Sheybe when a man beats his wife in the name of correction you will say it’s a domestic issue abi?
DeleteKeep the same energy… assault is assault
You no nothing
DeleteThe child will remember what was said long after he has forgotten the beating sef
My own is what concerns Funke's twins and her pregnancy with all this drama? Imagine a mother leaving such a serious matter to focus on someone else's personal gist?
DeleteJJC was in the UK just last week. Why didn't Mella alert the authorities and get justice for her son?
You left your mother's house a nuisance and after eating your stepmom's money and wasting her millions in fees, still got expelled and your mother's only focus at this point is pregnancy and the face of small children. Awon didirin.
How will you not see child abuse as normal? When they beat the sense and dignity out of you as a child n there was noone to fight for you in the jungle called Nigeria. A parent telling the child he will kill his child is a sign of mental illness, so sad we see that nonsense as normal in naija.
DeleteGod may you not give me a child that will make me run mad with Anger please. Please Lord. A child that will make you wish you never had him.. Cos i don't even have strength to beat at all please God
ReplyDeleteAmen... And his father apologised, took him back to his mother and he still came online to tarnish their image.
DeleteThis one no be better pikin.. I don't believe him one kobo
No parents will tolerate this kind of bad attitude from their kids but honestly, he overreacted. You discipline in love and not in anger.
ReplyDeleteSay no to drugs and YES to JESUS people. Therapy or rehabilitation doesn't work for most people, I heard froma source that it's kind of hard to get off it once addicted. JESUS IS THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN REDEEEM ONE COMPLETELY. Let God heal this family. JjC was very angry... I think he was too disappointed and fed up of the his act.
ReplyDeleteBaby mamas and Daddy's please take card of your kids from when they are little, have time for them, partake in thier school activities this way you would be able to monitor them properly and guide th properly with God's grace of course. Not all love children end of being irresponsible.
His dad smokes too. Like father like son.
DeleteFunny enough I am more surprised that jjc is this strict and macho. This is because una dey call Mrs funke akindele for here so I thought he was effeminate and calm, collecting his food/house husband money jeje.
ReplyDeleteAs for the assault i feel say dem be men, dem go make up las las
There is a lot of unconfirmed allegations. He should be careful,
Deletesex without consent is a big deal in the abroad o unlike here. The weed rumor can be stepped down. I think weed is now legit in some parts of the abroad.
Las las all na rumours.
However what is clear is that he was expelled and he also was beating up.
He can choose the path of hurting his dad and eventually be estranged from him or he can accept his father's apology, know that this man las las is his blood who ultimately means well for him.
All that said his mother should get ready to watch over her son thoroughly now that she has the chance.
She better monitor him thoroughly
now Because boy will soon be 18, and 18 is regarded as an adult ( tho 21 in other parts of the abroad) sha I think 18 is an adult and such an adult is free to choose his own path in life without mum or dad influence.
Naija morals can be so hypocritical sha. So jjc, years ago, had a baby boy with a woman he didn't wed and this is BAD according to naija morals.
So now the baby is now a teen and acting out Does jjc have the moral standing to punish his son? Story for the gods?
For me sha I feel Jjc should ignore the provocatiom and draw his son close, speak to the son lovingly and tell him how he doesn't want him to make same mistakes as he did. He only wants the best for him. Etc etc
Just my thoughts though, and yes I could be biased cus the boy is quite handsome
P.s: I agree with Eka, as per how the drama come take consain Funke and the twins? I can't see the bad thing Funke did o, so why bring her up??
Anon 18:53 maybe he is transferring tht aggression of being called mrs. Funke akindele to his son. The same way will Smith transferred aggression of his cheating wife to Chris Rock
DeleteHeard the boy sexually assaulted a girl… got away lightly with being expelled. Has anyone thought of the girl involved and if she is okay?
DeleteThe boy got exactly what he deserved and more. In the UK, sexual assault results in Jail big time… so he and his mother trying to pull a fast one by accusing the father of assault… even the judge in UK will give the dad a pat on the back for dealing with his son who allegedly sexually assaulted a girl then got away with it.
His mother is just trying to shame Funke for no reason
@13:24💯
DeleteAnd to those comparing this to a man beating his wife, y'all need to get your brain checked
Nowadays!
ReplyDeleteYour dad beat you, you run to the internet.
In our days;
Daddy beat you, you run to mommy, and she will commence her own beating.
We were well disciplined but not killed or injured. Hmmm🤔
Yes o
DeleteAnd that's why most of your are fukd up
DeleteAt 02:50 fucked up you say? You need to get your brain checked
DeleteSo abroad that y'all are running to aside for the good basic amenities how are the people? How is the level of crime?
He got expelled for what? I am not understanding.... This made it to the sm because they're exposed.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of justice do they want for him, behind bars? Truth remains no parent wants their own to fail after spending so much to ensure they succeed, the African father in him came out a little too much to the extent of dashing his cousin. That's the issue with all these oyibo land brought up, now he wants justice against his own papa even though he had apologized.
Drugs
DeleteHe's a spoilt, sick child
DeleteBear in mind that Nigerian parents ("who LOVE their kids and 'WANT THE BEST' for them") ALWAYS discipline their kids (even though extremes are not good at all) so at least they become useful to the society and not wayward.
ReplyDeleteNow, WHAT LED TO THE EXPULSION OF THIS KID to start with? I mean only an irresponsible parent won't be heartbroken where his/her child gets "expelled" from a school ("private school for that matter that overlooks many atrocities unlike government school"). Abeg let's be realistic.
That expulsion really ignited his anger. Probably the boy had done so many provoking stuff several times which made the expulsion to trigger the father to the point of beating him badly.
DeleteThe mother of the boy should find a way to sort out this issue before it gets out of hands. The boy still needs his father till tomorrow though there should be a limit to disciplinary actions to avoid had I know....
They don't want to be realistic, the man is suppose to pat him in the back... They keep spewing trach all in the name of woke
Delete🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
ReplyDeleteCarry frustration from house to the son. The attack was much. This is an assault abeg
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
DeleteAssault ko assaulta ni
DeleteSo his father should do party for him for being expelled from school abi
Our parent beat us back then for misbehaving and no one ran to the net to spill out nonsense
But here we have woke generation
Now that he has disgrace his father
Hope he won't call for upkeep at the end of the month
Rubbish upon nonsense
18:57 peleh o witness. I'm sure you were there when it happened
DeleteI don't know why y'all keep believing this boy's story... Oh I forgot, he's the saint here
But this kind beating is barbaric,is like something else was troubling the man...maybe funke toxic nature got hold of him and he decided to unleashed the anger on his son.
ReplyDeleteAnd you still found a way to bring Funke into this. World people sha
DeleteExactly, it was transferred aggression.
DeleteCant you make your comment without dragging his wife Funke into this?
DeleteOlomo maybe Funke was supporting the beating from the sidelines
DeleteYou know how mothers and stepmothers do sometimes
Na wah. Funke must take the blame in every thing. Na wah...
DeleteFunke must have told him to beat him. I see her hand in this.
DeleteWat is this one saying?
DeleteFunke Funke Funke... It's obvious she's your problem. Hater
DeleteOk, your daddy want to the extreme,he could have killed you . but in all this, I don't see where Funke is involved,jjc d8d not beat him at home, maybe cos he knows Funke will not allow battering of his child, that's why he took him to kill at the beach like Abraham did Isaac, but Witt different purpose
ReplyDeleteHe said Funke has been bad to him for the two years he stayed there
DeleteHe didn’t say she beat him this time
Truth.
DeleteIf that was Funkes kid, he wouldnt touch that kid in same manner, cus the mother is miles away na, he has strength.
Which mother will be happy?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI had a good laugh, thanks.
Anon 19:50, bad to him for 2 years yet he remained in the house??
DeleteGolibe I’m sorry how many options do you think kids have
DeleteEven the kid that the parents put in a cage still stayed
A kid is not a wife that you’ll say run away of why did you stay
Your example made me laugh, na real kill him at the beach ala Abraham and Isaac, i hail Sdk BVs always seeing the humour in so many issues of life.
DeleteAnyway second/third/fourth/ tenth wives 'with full chest' geng, how market???
Not UK kids who are very expressive and bold, he will say he is going back to the UK if he was mistreated.
DeleteLol I don’t know what you people think abroad Kids are
DeleteIf they could save themselves like you say, thr be no continuous child abuse in the uk
@21:47... Hahaha,he must have been a helpless kid
DeleteSo he doesn't have a phone to call his mother... Oh I forgot, Funke the evil sep mum took it away from him
Violence is wrong.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I'm not sure how I would react if my child was expelled from school for an offence that could be a crime. I am glad that the dad apologised to him afterwards.
I hope they both heal from this ordeal.
Exactly.
DeleteThat is my thought.
He might have been expelled for something that could be a crime. Maybe they let him off cos of his "famous" parents... make you no go open can of worms by yourself o.
Cos if they tell me my pickin rape person...only God will help me not to kill him. It is better they arrest him.
He overdid it though if this is actually true. He should have controlled his anger, I understand how mad he was at that moment though but it didn't call for violence. Now tell me why you people released the pictures of those innocent kids. You and your family want justice and this is how to go about it??
ReplyDeleteWas he the one that released it?
DeleteLet's see recipes na. I'm sure you have a couple. if you don't then OYO.
ReplyDeleteWizkid FC
Proudly TIV
He overreacted yes but do we know the offense of the boy to have been "EXPELLED" from an ajebo private school of which we know a lot of ajebo schools love to pamper kids (some to a fault) and wouldn't even like to expel their students as they are looking for students baje sef?
ReplyDeleteThe man is now held to ransom as revealing the offense of the boy may bring disgrace to him (the father) and even the mother. Abeg that woman should chill jare and not tarnish the image of her son on the long run.
It’s a lie oh
DeleteSome of those schools have outrageous rules
Attempt to Force yourself on a girl is enough to get you killed in most climes.
DeleteAt 19:51 that's why they have suspension... For you to be expelled you must have done something really wrong
DeleteI hope he was not expelled for rape or attempted rape sha. God abeg o...may we not kill our children in trying to correct them.
ReplyDeleteWhy ur mind run go rape now?
DeleteHe was actually expelled for attempted rape and drugs(weed).
DeleteThank you Anon 20:45.
DeleteI just knew that it had to be rape related. That is something that can make a parent go crazy either parent of the victim or the offender. Me i dont know what i will do so i cannot blame JJC yet.
Why where you expelled from school? You lived with someone for 2years and all you could do was a bad call out? What has Funke Akimdele and her kids got to do with this?
ReplyDeleteThose people saying we are jealous, we want to trend ,I and my family just want justice for what happened. I had to keep cool vibes with him because I wanted to leave. At the airport he kept on apologizing that he lost it and was sorry for what he did to me..... you seem evil to me. Olorun ma je ka bi ota lomo
He is evil... God forbid
DeleteThis boy is something else, you were expelled and expect your father to hug you Africa father for that matter. I think your mum said if she's going to exposed Funke and her hubby if they didn't apologize. Spoiled brat
ReplyDeleteWe will see how his mum and stepdad in London will handle him going forward. Their eye go soon clear. Good luck to them.
ReplyDeleteHonestly... Yeye people
DeleteMy own is what was Funke's crime in this whole matter, awon team there's no smoke without fire.
ReplyDeleteAt least now I can say there's no trouble in her marriage but this boy only sent such information to 'deal' with his dad'.
I do not support hitting ur kid for any reason but I do sense a lot of exaggeration in this matter.
BTW, was this the beating video his mother promised us or should we still be waiting for the video?
This woman lost social media sympathy because instead of going through the 'truth' path, she chose to pour her aggressions on Funke by exposing her children that she had been keeping away from the Internet then proceeded to start malicious lies against the family.
If she had just stated the abuse of her son by the father, she would have probably garnered more support on the social media she was crying to. As for me, you decide to malign an innocent woman (there's no proof even till now that shows she was involved in any of these), who I actually respect, let her haters and others side with u. Next time, u will not try to bring someone down as part of revenge against ur Ex
Is the doctor exaggerating too
DeleteDoctor said minor traumatic brain injury in the hospital file
Ikr child services is looking into it too
Are they also exaggerating
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Delete@20:50 you can lie about symptoms and all those signs stated would clear out in a couple of days even without seeing a doctor. The signs must have been really obvious because he is light skinned
DeleteAlso, you can pay a doctor to lie... No be new thing. Nawao, y'all sounding as if this people are saints
If they are really honest people, they would not bring it on social media... Instead, they would collect all evidences and sue the Father to court
But no, they had to bring it online to shame them and in the hopes of destroying Funke's career.
I know kids and some would paint and treat you as the enemy once you try to correct them.
I hope y'all screaming dialogue and violence encounter troublesome/ possessed children
Why were you expelled?
ReplyDeleteI think this boy was sent by his mother to go live with his father and Funke for ulterior motives.
ReplyDeleteProbably he was collecting information about them and transmitting to his mum.
My FIL's younger brother remarried after he and the first wife broke up...they had 2 boys.
The older one came to live with his father as soon as he married the new wife. Anytime the new wife is preggy, the boy informs his mum and after some time she will lose the pregnancy. It was an open secret that the first wife is into jazz. Till date the 2nd wife doesn't have any child, keeps miscarrying anytime she conceives.
My MIL told me once that the lady had gone to 'Iju ese'and has been told by several of the place she went that her hubby's ex is d cause of her misfortune.
I remember one occasion I visited her after I newly got married to my husband and she kept talking about an ex she could have married; I didn't really understand her melancholy till I got home and told hubby about it and he now narrated to me about her ordeals.
Some ( if not most) step children can be a pain in the ass. They are never easy to please as they will always see u as the person that took their parent away from them even though u might never had been the cause or ever being in the picture when the parents broke up.
How he and the mum conveniently left out the reason for the expulsion is quite profound. The father acted irrationally agree wetin you do for the school wey go make dem expel you to make your papa come kolo like that? From wetin dey trend online dem say benito attempt to rape person. Now my question is why him don arrive sharpaly abi e get wetin him dey run from use dis matter det deflect.
ReplyDeleteHe might be saying the truth but l see repetitions. Beating me. Hitting me. How many days did this beating last that you ran to the beach. He chased you. Ran into your room and he chased you. No good parents will smile at a child that was expelled from school. The heartbreak is second to none especially when you like that child. Heard JJC has removed the boy from his Instagram page. It is well. May God give us the grace to birth children that will give us peace and make us proud. Amen.
ReplyDeleteMy dear and in all the beating, choking, trying to run over people with his car, saint Benito conveniently FORGOT TO TELL US WHY HE WAS EXPELLED.
DeleteAbeeeeg!!!!
Saint Benito 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteThank God you said your dad apologised. I am sure he regrets his actions because he went too far.
ReplyDeleteYour dad was hurt and disappointed. Yes we make mistakes but how many times will you make yours? You have everything going for you so why not make the best of it?
The reason you were shipped to Nigeria is due to your wayward behaviour in the uk so I understand why your dad was upset.
Ok what kind of justice do you want? You want your father to go to jail? Will that fix it? Forgive your dad and prove him wrong that you are not useless. Turn a new leaf for real.
Your mom appears to have issues with your dad so do not let her influence you. Settle with your dad off the internet, be a son he will be proud of. Stop doing drugs and be the best version you can be.
His do you know that’s why he came to Nigeria
DeleteMaybe he wanted to be around his fathers people
Got here and thing were too much for him
Last straw and he was on the first plane back home
Dad knew he did wrong that’s why he agreed to him going back
How do I know that is why he came to Nigeria? I am telling you that is why he was sent to Nigeria. He was misbehaving and they thought sending him to Nigeria will mould him.
DeleteHe doesn't even need to be the son JJC can be proud of. Is Benito proud of himself? With all the noise against abuse and assault in this generation? How about being the person he can be proud of since his Mom won't tell him the truth.
DeleteSee this spoiled brat, that's why they raise irresponsible kids over there
ReplyDeleteAbeg getat!!! I am sure the spoilt irresponsible ones raised over there are the ones coming here to perform ritualistic killings, rape and kidnappings.
DeleteAnon 21:28 why so triggered? are you one of them?
DeleteNothing my child could do would ever warrant such a response from me. And guess what? I also want my child to succeed in life and I'm a very loving mother. People need to control their anger. There is no justification for this.
ReplyDeleteMella why did you bring Funkes kids into this?
ReplyDeleteBecause Funke was nasty to her child so she had to retaliate. Does that answer your question?
DeleteHow exactly was Funke nasty to him? Just say you don't like funke, awon haters.
DeleteYou want justice ko, you want jaundice ni.
ReplyDeleteI still don't get the correlation between the beating you received and you revealing the faces of innocent kids.
ReplyDeletethem nor beat you reach, silly boy. you must have done something outrageous for the school to expel you, what exactly did you do?
na your type dey wake up one day become school shooter. spare the rod and spoil the child. you omitted your offence that made the school to expel you, tell us before anything else.
The mother wanted to hurt the man for hurting her son
DeleteYour father however went too far with his action but as an African father, he has the right to correct you in any manner he deem fit. You should make peace with him since he already apologized. No father can be proud for his son's atitude that led to him being expelled from school.
ReplyDeleteAm afraid this incident might come back to bite JJC skilz in the future in the UK
Haba JJC you took it far. It hurts though when you are doing your best for a child and he turns out bad.
ReplyDeleteThe question now is ,what if he did not survive the beating? it would have been another case.
Son have some respect for your dad,take this off social media. It is good to speak up,I guess this is a family issue.
Just imagine the words "Yeah I got expelled".... Pikin wey the Dad suppose beat sense into, seize his phone and banish him from coming to social media. Do you know how much parents pay for tuition expecially in these ajebo schools.....
ReplyDeleteI can imagine the Principal giving the dad a long speech before handing over the expulsion letter to him.
The way he even said the yea I got expelled is annoying.
DeleteParents shot do better with the up bringing.
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteMy own is when you beat your partner ,you're abusive but if you beat your kids it's not being abusive abi?
ReplyDeleteNope, it's correction
DeleteYour partner is a fellow adult but some kids just need to be beaten for their evil actions if not they won't give you rest in the future
There is no instruction manual for raising kids,some kids are more challenging to raise than the other. In UK the law has taken the power from the parents and most black kids turned out very badly especially when there is no father figure. The unemployed rate among black university students is about 45%, this particular guy is missing out without realising it because he is still a teenager, but by the time it comes to start paying the bills, he will realised that in this life you have to fight for your destiny and that it takes discipline to be able to achieve greatness.
ReplyDeleteHonestly. See the rate black kids join gangs and get killed in the uk. It's scary..
DeleteNot just UK. US included... The rate at which people commit crime in all those woke societies is alarming just because their parents don't beat them to rest their brain from an early stage
DeleteI will rather say Funke was desperate to marry. I will rather stay single at my age, than marry any man with 5 children just to prove prophets wrong. I don't have anything to prove to anybody in this life. If the Benito is a drug addict and you beat him up like this to damage his brain , then you as a father , have been damaged emotionally. Where is the empathy For you own son . It means you want to finally destroy the boy because, you want to please Funke your wife, which is stupidity at its peak. You could just have bought him a one way ticket, to return to his mother and let her take her son to rehab. I will never condone DV whether to a woman , man or a child. Maybe Funke is your own Jada, who is dishing you shit , because she holds Finance and is like your financial backbone, you use the aggression to face your son, because he wrote that she is not, who she is potraying herself to be! Your son must have seen how Funke treats you and has a right to his opinion; Just the way people see how Jada treats Will. It was for you to remove him from that environment , because a 17 year old is a child. As an adult of over 40 something, I live with family and I mind my business in my brother's house, because I am matured enough to mind my business. This same evil brother that the wife dishes shit to, is the first to get involved in other people's business , he himself is not innocent, as both him and his wife are 2 pea in a pod. He is what they call in deliverance, now you dey do me, now dey pity me. No woman could marry him, until he met a woman who used jazz to subdue him and women like that bring destruction to the extended family. I personally caught her and her mother with jazz. After all said and done , everyone should manage their issues they created. Jjc did not have any African right to lift a hand against his son, especially with a single mum, who may have him as her only son. Them say if you hit a mad man on the road, that's when you will know, he has family. Talk more of your own child. Funke does not have any blame here, because she is in her house minding her business and whatever she deems fit and however she wants to operate her household is her business. Even women without money control their household and their husbands with the money . Talk more of Funke , who is the sole bread winner. Jjc is ready to take Funke's shit and is not complaining and so would have set boundaries ; so his son does not see the shit , he is chopping from Funke.
ReplyDeleteMy advise to intending singles, please stay away from people, who have lived a rough life, as is better to stay single than to go and face unnecessary battle, all In the name of marriage. Please choose your battles wisely, as there is no marriage in heaven. Shalom
Go and marry a man with kids if you like and stop binding yourself with unnecessary rules
DeleteAs an adult of over 40 something, I live with family and I mind my business in my brother's house, because I am matured enough to mind my business
DeleteMy friend, grow up and stop living in your brother's house. If we ask his wife, she may have a different tale to tell. Can you imagine, coming online to accuse people who are housing you of jazz? I hope they see your statement and ask you to leave.
Abi...if you don’t want to marry, at least move to your own place.
DeleteIn your mind now, the wife has brought destruction to you
You mind your business and brought all these here?.Ok oh.
DeleteThat's why you all are breeding prostitutes and yahoo yahoo children. A generation of self destructive youths , who are in a hurry to procreate and be independent without values. Continue to live reckless lives and face the music. At least you guys are the ones that use hands to write chronicles of woe. It's not everyone that came into this world to breed like rabbits and turn into domestic animal for another human being. Shalom
DeleteWhy are you living with your enemy? If your brother is evil and the wife does jazz as you said, why camp within the gates of evil doers? Your narrative doesn’t make sense to me. Most individuals run far from dishonest people not to mention terrible families like you described.
DeleteHmm…side eye to people like you for your story/ choice to stay with them does not seem logical. Abi they jazzed you to live there?
Pls why do we blame women for the actions/inactions of full grown men? Case1. Psquare. We saw psquare themselves fight each other on twitter, on Instagram, even in a leaked video, but society blamed their wives for years (wives that never said a word except wish them all happy birthday and pray for their comeback). Case2. Will Smith. We saw Will walk up a stage and slap a comedian, and society blamed his wife for his own action. I had to go rewatch the oscars to be sure Jada was not the one who slapped. Case3. JJC beats son. And society wants to blame Funke?
ReplyDeleteAccurate analysis
DeleteYou escaped punishment for sexual assault but you are seeking justice for your own assault. That says a lot. You're lucky the father of the victim didn't shoot you.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I got expelled... And your mother is watching you self-destruct but she's only bothered about Funke's twins and her pregnancy? What a shame.
Why didn't the mother put it on social media that he was expelled for sexual assault?
DeleteBig shame... Like he can't be bothered. May we not give birth to this kind of children because they can be really frustrating
DeleteAnd I hope they don't become a problem to Funke in the future when they don't make a meaning for their lives... Because, it's people like this who kill their step parents all in the name of inheritance
I'm still trying to understand why Funke was dragged in this matter.
ReplyDeleteHis father's reaction was an overreaction. However, WHY was the son expelled? It must be for a serious reason.
ReplyDeleteHeard it was sexual assault and the boy even got away with it lightly by being expelled. I don’t blame the father…NO TO RAPE
Deleteso assaulting your child helps to correct rape? tomorrow that same child beats his wife then we cry abuse. una dey think so? where does the cycle of abuse stop?
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