TUESDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

 Hailings!!

TUESDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

I hail all of una.....how is the go, going? You don chop? Abeg find food wack and stay on your lane......

To the warring parties Eka Joy and Dante.. what do i say? You are both adults and if offloading all these horrible words will make you both feel good then go ahead, I am honestly tired of deleting comments......

I cannot even give advice cos i dont listen to anyone when i need to do what i need to do.........Just try to find better words to express your anger.... To the supporters on both camps, nah una be the problems sef...why take sides instead of calming them down?

Today I am making buttered basmati rice cooked with diced carrot and then plantain and beef cooked till tender in spicy tomato sauce (Rice and stew with meat and plantain  in Naija) Hahahahahahahahahaha

I am on my way in one hour to the dentist to get the stitches off my gums..wish me luck....

Warm hugs to all, including those beefing demsefs..

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FROM UMMUGATE NIGERIA LIMITED

''Good afternoon SDK. 

Here is the receipt for the payment. The name of the POS sender is **********
I'm sorry it came a bit late today. I found it extremely difficult to meet up as I had exhausted all means of getting my own share of the weekly payment. I'm glad I was able to borrow at last.

Pls I will sell my Android phone between today and tomorrow in order to pay back those I'm owing and I may not be able to reply your mails on time, already negotiating. I will try and check my mails every now and then at a cyber cafe. I won't use anyone 's phone cos I don't want them to see what I did, in case I forget to log out. I'm letting you know this so you won't think I'm ignoring your mails if I don't reply you on time.

I'm ashamed of myself for what I did. Pls forgive me from your heart and pray for me to make a headway in life. I'm a changed person. I'm really sorry SDK. Pls beg Angel Star, Angel Koof and bvs for me. I'm sorry Angel Star, Angel Koof and blog visitors''.

Hmmmm it is well.....Ummu i know you will see this cos I dont believe that you are selling your phone...You see eh,it is only God that forgive totally.If you have truly repented,God will forgive you and prosper you....Everyone will forgive you in their own time or choose not to forgive you at all...It is up to them but please know that your paying back this small money does not make what you did right or let anyone hasten their forgiveness...

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ATTENTION TO SOME SINGLE MUMS

Why are you using your single mother to create excuse for your liability?
I know this post will hurt a lot of people but let call a Spade a spade.

That you are a single mother did not stop you from working for your money,
I know a lot of single mothers that doing well more than some married woman.

This is the reason some men don't take single mothers serious because they feel like you and your child will be a burden to him,

Build yourself and you will see men I men real men running all over you.
The way you present yourself determines how the man will take you.

Please being a single mother is not the reason you are poor or suffering, you just want to use it as an excuse.

You can ask for a help from anyone but using this word.... I'm a struggling single mom please help me my baby have not eaten for days now,is your responsibilities to take care of you child. Stop all this pity card you are playing dear.
Darling you can do better, build yourself my love
I hate seeing woman behave as if they didn't have two hands to work or see woman depend so much in a man so bad

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Abeg na copy and paste oh, not directed at anyone here.

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Important Things To Remember When You Are Married Or In A Serious Relationship:


Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.
Love needs reminders through actions, not just words.

Date nights are a must.
Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

Time alone together matters.

Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.
Nothing gets better by staying silent.

Learn each other’s love language.
We all don’t perceive love the same way.

What makes you feel seen might not do the same for them.

Go to bed mad sometimes.
Don’t force a resolution.
Sleeping on it does help.

Sometimes space is love, too.

When you fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry.”
Say what you’re sorry for.
Say how you’ll do better next time.
Accountability builds trust.

It will get boring sometimes.
Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
It’s normal.

It will fade, but it won’t fade on its own.
This is the time you have to show up the most.

Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and some days, they’ll carry you.
That’s how balance works.

Check in on each other’s mental health.
Not just with “how are you?” but with “what’s been heavy lately?”
Or “how can I support you better?”

It’s okay to go to couples counseling.
It helps.
It doesn’t mean you’re broken.
It means you care enough to grow.

Talk about money.
Talk about intimacy.
Talk about resentment.
Don’t avoid the hard conversations, they’re where closeness is born.

Turn off the phones an hour before bed and talk.
Even if it’s about nothing.
Connection lives in the small moments.

Ask questions like:
“What do you need more of from me?”
“What’s something I’ve stopped doing that you miss?

Be kind.
Even when you’re tired.
Even when they’re annoying.
Especially then.

Love each other.
Fight for each other.
Protect each other.
Never forget that love isn’t always fireworks.
Sometimes it’s just showing up again and again,
when it would be easier not to.

Love is not always easy.
But it is worth it..
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Please help Ooooh What does this mean????

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WEIRDFACTS

---Nothing makes a man more dangerous than realizing he can always restart, refocus, and rebuild himself again.

---Pay attention to feet when you stand talking to someone. If their torso is facing you, but their feet aren't, they lack interest.

---Give. Even when you know you can get nothing back.

---Six-pack abs indicate nothing about your strength, your flexibility, your stamina, your speed, or your overall level of health.

---According to one neurologist, music imprints itself on the brain deeper than any other human experience.

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