STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
RESET SLAP NEEDED
RESET SLAP NEEDED
This married man won’t let me rest. At first I didn’t even send him at all. But gradually my heart is just warming up to him. God abeg o. I don’t want to be the source of any woman’s pain. These men just know how to pamper.
BVs pls send me resetting e-slap.
He has been spending much on me without even asking. Some times I wonder if this man is after my destiny or what cuz I don’t know what else would make someone so persistent, and generous without even as much as a hug or kiss from me.
Yesterday he told me emphatically that he knows that I would eventually be his baby after all my shakara. I snubbed him again, he probably knows already that my walls are gradually coming down.
If not that we work in same company and I answer to him I would have blocked him since.
He recommends me a lot for projects and promotions not that I don’t work hard and merit it but I see how he takes my matter personally. It’s kind of endearing and My heart is just beginning to warm up to him. He’s been so kind and gentle. Even though I’ve turned down his advances for almost 3yrs yrs now he has never tried to be vindictive for once.
I think I know exactly what he’s doing and
I feel so manipulated and almost weak now. I know this is so wrong.
Why does he just have to be a married man.
God help me.
Leaving my job is not even an option because this job took me and is keeping me out of the trenches I have no desire to go back to.
AHEWO!!!!
*sends resetting e-slap*
ReplyDeleteNext case!
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DeleteMay God send someone to give you a thunderous slap.amen
DeleteThat's your direct boss. You should not agree oh. So what happens if you have an affair with him and it ends. How will your working g condition now be? Na d small xhange him dey give you dey turn your head bah you had better not agree.
Delete"Cut off anything that causes you to sin". Start by returning all his gifts, it won't be easy but you will be able to tell how 'genuine' his intentions are.
DeleteMen like this see women like you as a game that they must win. You are winning now and he's putting everything he has to weaken your defenses; once he sleeps with you or you give in and start dating him, It's game over! The way he will discard you, your emotional and mental state will be worse than returning to the trenches.
You're smart and you're making your money, please focus because your husband is around the corner. Don't allow this smokescreen confuse you because the devil always strikes when God's Blessings is about to manifest!
RESIST THE DEVIL AD HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU.
ReplyDeleteOR,
RUN AWAY FROM THE COMPANY LIKE JOSEPH DID FROM HIS MASTER'S WIFE... DO YOU TRUST GOD TO PROVIDE FOR YOU?
Your "walls are not coming down," you are the one using bulldozer to scatter them.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you receiving his gifts?
YOu do not need a resetting slap, you need to lose that job to come to your senses.
Poor girl 🤣
DeleteThose days, I never found any married man attractive. I couldn't understand how girls did it but I was friendly and courteous. All smiles and laughter anytime they broach the a topic to take the friendship further than platonic. More than 80% of them would forget about it and enjoy the friendship and business relationship, 15% cut all ties while a few will take it as a personal spite and hate me for stringing them along.
Nne, wait, what is bringing down your walls? What has he done for you that friends can't do? Things you get for free just as a blessed beautiful young girl, you want to and pay for with your body?
Meanwhile, let me no forget to remind you that all these crazy generosity he is exhibiting is an investment he intends to reap shortly. Ask yourself if it's worth it because, I promise you, this is the peak of his generosity. Once you sleep with him, his eyes will clear.
God bless you Ms Sapphire, once he chop am, he go change am for her, the worst is that office go tire poster, see the confidence he's showing that she'll fall for him.
DeleteSorry but they do marry them
DeleteHe might even wait till marriage for sex
18.19, you are right.. it's up to her to decide if that is what she thinks she deserves.
DeleteThat’s how my friend and colleague in the bank followed her boss. Over 10 years later she is still following him and waiting for him to leave his wife. she now has a small child for him and he is hiding it from his wife. He hardly sees her and still sneaks her to hotels to gbensh. And she is still telling me he will leave his wife. He has never introduced her to any of his friends or family. I wonder what sort of life that is?
DeleteGreedy woman, Jesus is calling you. Open your heart to him and do not harden it.
ReplyDeleteThink of you being married and another woman is receiving gift
from your husband and about to spread legs for him and collect babies.
That is the point you are in now and thinking you are smart. Don't sow
what you won't like to reap
Run from him and try as much as possible to avoid staying alone with him or you can leave the office door open
ReplyDeleteWhich kind resetting slap, please enjoy yourself and fall in love, love is a beautiful thing
ReplyDeleteI just tire. Are you marrying him? Please, enjoy the goodies and enjoy life. If my comment doesn't sit well with you, biko, Waka 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Deletewhat I don't understand is how you go about as a lady receiving gift from someone you're not interested in having anything with and his intention is obvious he's not showing up for frienship sake.
ReplyDeleteStart by rejecting his gift and pray him away if you're actually not interested.
Felicity
Reject fire? Abeggi
DeleteWell said, greed won't let them hear word until they enter the trap. A typical example already replied above.
DeleteReject ko, reject ni! My sister collect and enjoy yourself , but don't ever date him. When he is tired , he will look for who to spend his money on.
Delete20.10 Smh
DeleteYou all would probably call her names but it is worthy of note that she has been turning him down for three whole years. Three whole years. No matter how holy you wish you were, resisting freebies is very difficult especially ones connected to your job. Lady poster, you have done well so far. Please post his number here so we can all send him messages telling him to respect himself, his God, his vows and his wife for once in a whole 3yrs. God forbid! How will one man so embarrass himself to this extent? He very clearly does not have shame.
ReplyDeleteLoooooool
15:20 I agree with you except the posting number part. Poster report that man to HR for harassment. 3 good years is too much, he's a predator. Stop taking his gifts and warn him one more time. If he refuses, report him to HR.
DeleteShe won't report him... She's fallen already.
DeleteYou're a prey, so he will monitor you, stalk you, chase you till he gets you. Dont worry he has time🤣. But he will do what most of them do, get the cookie and discard you or keep you to keep servicing his desires. Nut nothing will ever come out of it. By the time you're done, you'd realise you wasted your time and all those help he rendered are but a shadow. All is vanity!
ReplyDeleteHe might marry her tho
Delete16.43 so that makes it any better?!
DeleteE- slap sent, kindly receive it.
ReplyDeleteBbjac
But you're already dating him on code nau. You accept his gifts, he recommends you for projects, you even love working under him. Una done dey date abeg. It remain to do the do. You don't need brain reset slap, you need a standing ovation for wasting 3 years lying to yourself. If you won't leave that job because you don't want to go back to the trenches, you better just start dating him officially and accept your position as a home wrecker. I just tire for all this lies. Be waiting for slap when you know you deserve konk on your left eye. See you head like my comment.😤😤😤😤
ReplyDeleteOlojukokoro ni e....
ReplyDeleteNa fuck go end everything laslas...
There's no indecisiveness here, you are just a greedy bitch.
Bv Agadi na gwo Oveh
As a woman we are often our own individual problems. When we raise the girl child to believe it's the responsibility of a woman to take care of them, then we've foundation built a weak mind.
ReplyDeleteNo matter the trenches you were in, there are lots of ladies in a much worse ones, yet with their moral discipline intact.
If you encourage a process, please be bold enough to bear the consequences or repercussion(s), if any ever comes your ways. Why do we often get involved in what we understand we don't what? Later we blame it of the devil, as supposed our inexcusable glutton. Gragra to much. Chase was right after all, 'every man has a price' including myself. But why cause another innocent woman pains with your fun-filled merry go? It's so sad whenever as a woman we justify decadence with a vulnerability we advertently or inadvertently encouraged.
To think you are working and earn a living, you are still collecting money and gift from him, greedy girl.
ReplyDeleteMtshewwww
Even Dangote still dey find money. She should reject free money ba. You try gan.
Delete20:12 but the gift/money is clouding her sense of reasoning. Destiny destroyer gifts. Gift that will soon F*ck her up. Is that one a good gift?
Delete21.58 help me ask her ooo. That is how they sell their birthright for a plate of porridge.
DeleteBe very careful before you lose everything, stop taking his gifts and face front. You are biting more than you can chew but greed is not letting you see it now. Do everything in your power to avoid that man. The way you are going, you might lose your job and your self esteem when everything blows up.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, only when you begin to see this man as a destiny destroyer, only then will you understand that he is there just to steal, destroy and to kill. What does he have to offer you? Is the woman he is married to better than you? Don’t you deserve your own husband? While he is building his family, he wants to prevent you from having yours. The pain and self-hate you will go through after you give in, will be worse than the false emotions you are feeling now. Selah…. Repent before you descend
ReplyDeleteG.D
This right here!!! WORD!!!!
DeleteThank You
Delete👌👌👌👌💯💯💯
DeleteFirst let me commend you for resisting him all this while. Well done. A lot of ladies would have agreed and justified it.
ReplyDeleteNow please can take a step further and stop receiving gifts or money from him?
start working on a transfer from that branch if possible , if not please and please look for another job, you will find one.
Nice comment.
DeleteI support this comment 100%.
DeletePoster pleas do this 🖕 and know peace.
Congratulations for resisting him for 3 years now. You try.
ReplyDeleteOk..ignore those telling you to resign or transfer, you are in a coperate environment, you need such person to put in good words for you at the appropriate places to climb faster.
Pls never slack in honing your skills,and being the best at what you do, so that you can maintain such elevated positions even if he is not in the picture. Such favours don't last forever, utilise it to your benefit.
Continue to resist him, he will one day give up. He will soon pick interest with another female.
Except being a side chic appeals to you, don't bother to give in. He will stop every favour once you drop booty and his attitude will change. While you can, utilise this interest to your advantage before it wanes.
It is what it is!
Why should she ignore their advice and take yours? What makes what you wrote better??
DeleteAnon 16:02 is right, people are saying stuff but I have been in those shoes before, received benefits and opportunities I didn't deserve cos a boss wanted me. At a point, I started getting weak, coupled with no serious relationship that time and I had been celibate for years.
DeleteI reminded myself that I am a child of promise and that dating a married man is an insult to my God. I prayed for strength and God came through for me, Oga was transferred somewhere else and we are still cool with each other today.
Is he treating his own wife this way??,yeye men with pant on fire!!!!
ReplyDeleteEach time he brings any gift to u,ask him if his wife has eaten,. always talk about his wife whenever he is around to tell you rubbish!.
Better comot ya eye from person property before e cast!!
Na company u dey so oo,e be like yard.
My dear, better resist this man!!!!
ReplyDeleteAfter he gets the cookies, he might discard you ohhhhh or better still he keeps you and you keep servicing him...
Next, his wife would start cabashing on top of your head leaving her husband who is also a culprit!
Anyway, just know it won't end well.
I am talking from experience sha
He is giving you gifts,and you are collecting, continue , you are already dating him.No need for E slap.
ReplyDeleteStella mapami 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDelete😀😀🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 Stella will not kill somebody o, abeg which one be Ahewo 🤣🤣🤣
DeletePoster sounds naive. Give him the cookie, he will nack and move onto another chic, or you think you are the only one on his payroll? Hahahahahahaha... You are warming up to him, meanwhile dude just wanna nack and will say anything, give you anything till you off pant.
ReplyDeleteLet me read comments, I have a similar case.
ReplyDeleteLook at your mouth like "married men can pamper". Greedy,covetous woman. Ask him if he pampers his wife the way he "pampers" you. Long throat
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her. He's just fattening his calf for the slaughter. Nor be only pamper
DeleteWill the e slap reset you? You sound smitten already. Someone you should use all your power to run away from. Wahala.
ReplyDeleteHe just want to use you to catch cruise. I already fell victim for 2 married men. The first one was so generous but at the end of the day he left me even insulted me that he lost counts of our sexual encounters. The idiot always write the dates down. The second one just blocked me for no reason luckily no sex yet.
ReplyDeleteAbort mission. The hostility starts the moment he starts sleeping with you. Speaking from experience. Mine is worse because he is a narcissist and a manipulator. Please and please and please I beg you with everything you hold dear to your heart not to try it. Be firm and tell him that it is not going to happen, in fact, stop accepting gifts from him because it is the gifts and material things you are getting from him that is making you to like him. Believe me, it will not end well. I wish someone had told me this. I am stuck here and still looking for a way out.
ReplyDeleteMarried men are bad market, us a matter of time they would start to devalue you as a woman. As a single mum I thought that was the only option for me but now I changed my orientation. I can have single dad or divorcees as companion.
ReplyDeleteAll the good girls in Nigeria are on Stella's blog! Una do well - deceitful lot. Even the ones killing themselves always and even with married men this weekend are condemning this girl. I laugh in Spanish.
DeleteLaugh in spanish or even French sef, but do not assume everyone is like you. Own your morals, or lack of it, with your full chest.
DeleteThe lord is your strength amen
ReplyDeleteTell him you have a boyfriend and he has started to notice the closeness.
ReplyDeleteGet a boyfriend fast and introduce him to him.
This will make you know if he is vindictive or not, and if all his generosity is not because he is investing on you and waiting to get his money's worth.
You need distraction, get one fast
She won’t trust me. Until something bad happens, that’s what will reset her brain. For now she’s enjoying someone else’s man’s attention. Not knowing she’s also not giving space for a single man to date her. At the end of the day na she go lose out, including her job and not the man. Watch.
DeleteThe power of money will open some women leg even some married women.
ReplyDeleteGbam, especially in this harsh economy
DeleteEnjoy yourself girl. Don't mind people on this blog. If they were in your shoes they'll do worse.
ReplyDeleteWill you help her when things eventually scatter finish? Make she enjoy for now, now.
DeleteAbeg, always speak for YOURSELF. When the consequences come now, you will start sending chronicles.
DeleteIt’s well
ReplyDeleteGirl do not allow him cheat on his wife through you.three good years and he is kind and nice to you.I know of a lady who a married man ask her for sex,the lady declined,the man laughed and told her he was just testing her to see if she was really a good girl.back then when I was posted to Bayelsa for work,the married man will come to my house telling me to be his side chick.I refused,I later heard it from the wife that she was aware of what the husband was telling me that both of them planned it.Girl, be wise..
ReplyDeletePlanned it keh?
DeleteAvoid both husband and wife!