FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS...

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IN HOUSE MEMO

Hey!!

The face of in house news competition will be posted sometime next week...It will be spontaneous... Please those of you i replied to and asked that you resend your photos, do so and get back to me Darlings....

There will be four winners in the next face of in house news competition courtesy of BV Jeweluchi Chocolate Noir who is celebrating her birthday month MAY.....

The birthday is bleated though....

Happy Friday, see you in the night post with hot gists.....*wink*

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.



I just started a small fish farm and it’s really tasking. It also means I have less  time to spend with the kids despite having the farm around . My morning routine with them has changed so I started to feel guilty and bad.

I was getting worried and slightly anxious because when I finish with the fishes I am usually tired and I felt I was not giving them my best, on the other hand I was happy to have a fishery( who would have thought, I used to hate it because of the smell and slime)

So few days ago, after much thought I decided to involve them in the activities. They were so glad and excited, I give them a bowl of water each and small pipes, the giggling and joy is infectious. They make it more stressful but it’s fine, we all tire out together. They also get to touch and feed the fishes so it’s a win win for all.

WOW Nice one!

Congrats!

Are you selling the fishes or its for home use? are they big enough? Please let us know when you start selling.....

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GIST FROM BV ON WHAT SHE WITNESSED

Just wondering why some men are irresponsible.

A woman held onto her husband's shirt in front of my office this morning and was demanding for some money from him, she said her son needed 3,500 for school but he told her he doesn't have. She accused him of not taking up his responsibility as the family head making her hustle more to provide their needs.

She said he gets money but squanders it on his sister and some other people she doesn't know.

A man that knows them said the man collects rent from two houses, though he isn't the first born, his elder brother who's based abroad allows him collect the rent and also sends him some money to take care of his family so he has no excuse for not providing.

Just wondering what he does with all the money he's getting

Will what she did solve the problem? I don't support that such confrontation because it can turn Violent.. I pray she looks for a calmer way to solve... He might be using the money to place bets or drink...

I dont see giving his sister money as a problem and i dont believe that to the extent that he cannot pay his kids fees.  Dnt blame other people for the actions of an irresponsible man








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GIST WITH BIBLE EXPLANATION NEEDED

Please can someone explain this to me (with Scriptures if you know?) A very fine and honest married lady and mother of kids suddenly became mad, tore her clothes and ran to the street. Her kids caught her, chained her and kept her in a church premises while they all began to fast and pray for her. 

Her sister also. 

They continued fasting daily for some weeks, until Jesus healed her. When she came to her senses, she said that she was "taken to a very mountainous city ruled by a very tall and wicked woman. They (she and others) were put in chains and flogged. 

They poured all sorts of liquid on them (her skin actually looked discolored when she came back). She mentioned that someone paid a heavy price in human heads in a medium to get her there. Often times, they were unchained and given rags and containers to fetch water and scrub the streets. They hewed stones for construction there and did parade around the mountains. They were clothed in rags and mercilessly raped. Talk about evil, talk about this place. The woman ruler never smiles."

 Meanwhile, those that looked after her while the ordeal lasted said that she was talking rubbish, cursing and making obscene comments. She always wanted to go to the streets and eat from the refuse dumps and rejected all the foods brought to her. I think I've written the much I remember from what she and her care givers said.

 Where is this place she was taken to and who is this "wicked lady ruler?" Assuming her spiritual body was taken, who occupied her body. And if she died (a car nearly ran her over when she ran naked to the streets), what would have happened to her spirit where it was chained?

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FORMER CHRONICLE POSTER SENDS ADVICE TO THURSDAY CHRONICLES AND INCLUDES TESTIMONY

Read Thursday chronicles HERE

Thursday Poster, you need to have a personal relationship with God about your prospective MIL. Talk to God himself to show you the hidden things of the secret place. You need to be alone and pray about the family you are about to enter. Your MIL might be innocent, or be a victim of evil manipulations cos some evil people make use of an innocent person's image to cause havoc in the spirit realm, and she might not be innocent. But you won't know until God reveals things to you.


I'm led to share just a tip of what I faced in my former relationship. I never knew things about my ex's mom. Nobody told me, there was no sign, there was no Informant, I did not hear any story. Nothing! 

All I knew was that the woman never liked me and I saw the signs at the initial stage of the relationship. I thought it was cos she didn't want her son to marry that early cos that my ex was the only one doing well among her children. My ex showed me love but he was a mama's boy.


Shortly after introduction, I dreamt. I saw a very big stone placed in front of me. She placed the stone and she was behind me and commanded me to go and me moving forward would mean stumbling over the stone or hitting my leg. 

I rebuked her immediately in the dream, I said I won't go forward and I commanded her to move and hit her leg on the stone. I woke up surprised and with fears. I prayed about it and did not tell anybody. But that was when I started channeling my prayers towards her. Few days later, one of her sons died mysteriously. May his soul RIP


Then, I had another dream. Then, I started noticing that I worked like an elephant and ate like an ant. During this period, she was already making plans to have a grand wedding party, asoebi and co. 

Nothing bothered her that I and her son were no longer in good terms. She just wants to do this wedding so that people she brought to the intro mock her. I told her to calm down. My people were even ready to postpone the wedding so as to properly mourn her son but she did not agree.


When she lost her son, my visits to her place were more frequent, and that was when my eyes were seeing my nose. I started shining my eyes without emotions clouding my sense of judgement. And I backed everything I see, hear or do with prayers.

 One day, she went to one church and she came back with holy water. She wrapped one white cloth inside nylon. I was the only one in the sitting room when I saw water on me. In the name of her cleansing the house, she sprinkled water on me was intentional. I got angry but kept my cool. 

It was that day I remember how she sent my ex to me when we first started that I should buy sweets and distribute to children, that where she went to pray on my name, they told her that I am an ogbanje or so. I rebuked it immediately and told her son that I am nothing of such and we never had that conversation again not until he told me that his mom said she would buy the sweets on my behalf and distribute. I just said "ok".


Then I started forgetting my dreams. And one of the important means God communicates with me is through my dreams. I take my dreams seriously as they do always come to pass. I didn't know where it came from. That period, I had already moved to my ex's base because I had a programme I wanted to run then in his state, and also to keep his mom company. 

 One Sunday, our parish invited a pastor and his message was about an axe that fell inside water; a God-given gift that got lost. I went out for altar call and the MOG laid his hands on people that came out. Then, God restored my gift. I started remembering my dream clearly.


Days after, we visited my ex mil and I innocently ate. Then the battle began again. I stopped remembering my dreams. I would know I dreamt but recalling it to pray over it was a problem. God brought my mind back to the food I ate. I prayed oh!

 I prayed for days and fasted sef and things went back to normal. I ate again and I had the same attack and I prayed my way out again. Then, I got the confirmation. That was how I stopped eating in her house o.

 I asked her son if he dreams and he said he doesn't. And even if he does, he hardly remembers them. I limited visiting her, and I stopped eating her food. And anytime I visited, we looked at each other suspiciously. 

My ex changed towards me and I knew it was a spiritual manipulation. He became the opposite of what he was before. I was depressed!


Then one day, she came over herself to our house to visit us and brought two tempting big fishes. She refused to eat despite my pleadings of allowing me cook for her. When she left, my mind told not to eat the fish and I didn't. Although I prepared stew with the fish and gave her son all, I made sure I didn't eat out of the stew. Till today, I never had that kind of attack again.


Many things happened o that I had to run out of the relationship ( I'll be sharing my story bit by bit). I went to a church and immersed myself with prayers for days. I prayed with my mouth, kneeling and crying, pouring all my heart to God cos I was already tired of all the wahala. Then, the pastor told me things God already showed me about the woman. He said the ex loved me too bits but the mother is strong spiritually. He said so many things. Then, he told me to pray hard. Mind you, I already took my decision before I went to the house of God to pray. What the pastor told me was just another confirmation.


Running away was one of the best decisions I had made in this life. When I left, things started getting back to normal with me. My ex that was misbehaving came back begging, he even went to see my parents but they stood their grounds and supported my decision. He bought gifts, sent money and all but I did not go back even though I never knew how I would pick up but I was always trusting God.


Two years later, I am now married to the best family on earth; God fearing, nice and loving. They don't do anything fetish. My MIL loves me, she loves me to bits that hubby sometimes gets jealous; and we are from different tribes. I love my MIL so much and I do tell her how much I love her. 

 I thought my ex loved me but I saw true love with my God-given hubby. By God's grace, I got the home and family I always wanted to be married into. I would have been sending chronicles of frustrations had it been I married my ex, as I was always sending then asking for advice. Thank God I listened to those that advised me to put my shoes on my head and run. I still remember Stella's response to me that year. She said "you never see husband, your own husband will come". Thanks Stella and the Bvs.


Some of my friends that were castigating me for leaving a relationship that was almost ending in marriage are now tapping into my marriage now. I graduated as the best in my programme and I now have breakthrough in my career wise. Now, I work like an ant and eat like an elephant. I got the breakthrough in my dreams; I saw where my destiny was about to be sold for someone else but heavenly soldiers came through for me.

 It wasn't easy as I had that same dream for about 4 times, but God did it for me. He fought my battles and gave me victories.


My mom and family members look back now and thank God on my behalf. Till today, my friends do applaud me for the courage and strength I had then during the trying period. I pray for God's strength for anyone going through similar situation. Do not manage any man, do not manage any family. Just make sure your hands are clean, you're a good person yourself and you are Godly.


So, yes some mothers can be evil. I am not saying that the poster's bf mum is evil but please my dear sister, you alone should seek the face of God in prayers.

Ah ah, what a story!......

So what happened to your would have been mum in law when you called off the wedding and ran? what did she say?

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