Newly Married actor Blossom Chukwujekwu's ex wife Maureen Ezisi has granted an Instagram story interview where she addressed some issues via the questions.....
She revealed what crashed her Marriage and says she was not served Divorce papers.....
She also revealed why she and actress Padita Agu took their friendship off the Internet....
Hmmm all these self Interviews concentrating on one person......... Its OK to move on but if telling your story is so important you need to do it then please do it and move on, love will come again, dont stay bitter...
#loveandlight
From Red to Red. Anything to drag Mr. Blossom. Move on woman.
ReplyDeleteEasier said. They were married and he bailed to marry a so called Pastor. I hate biase. He did not do well. I encourage Red to move on though. She will be fine in the end.
DeleteJust like I said in other posts concerning bigamy/polygamy in Nigeria, Ladies, know it that a man can very well marry you in court (under the Act) and still have the liberty to marry other women under customary law. Blossom married Red in registry and traditionally, he didn't resolve that and is permitted to marry the pastor lady under customs/tradition and bless it in church. Our Constitution is a mess and terribly patriarchal to allow this. No insurance for women. Kindly ask google how many bigamy cases in Nigeria saw the light of day since independence.
DeleteStop the stupidity you anonymous. You wanted him to do what? Stay and endure? He bail how? Is marriage or love by force? So called pastor because of what? Wasn't he single for 4 years before meeting his wife? What is bias about someone who decided to end a marriage he didn't want to stay because of society and half baked brain people like you? She is obsess with Blossom, he doesn't want the marriage anymore, she should really get a life and move on. It has been 4 FUCKING YEARS!!!!! What the hell is wrong with you people?
DeleteI just googled and, hmmmm... Sapphire is right. In fact, Lagos state has completely erased Bigamy as a crime. It looks like in Lagos state, you can even marry more than one wife in court.
DeleteNa wah O. No assurance that the man you marry today won't throw your life upside down bat any point be deciding to marry more wives and no repercussion. So if your husband bail on you and finds one smalie or a gwegwegwe to latch on like Blossom did to red, you have no case?
I just want to know what will happen when a woman does the same. The law in Nigeria does not protect women. Thank God say I don japa. Lawless country.
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DeleteI am very confused right now. What is your point ? Do you mean that RED can't marry another man today or ever ? Must she wait to sign a divorce paper ? Blossom CAN'T stop any man from marrying RED. If I'm feeling RED like that and my paper is straight, blossom can't stop me. In fact, it adds to the adventure if he tries to.. Secondly, court marriage or no court marriage, marriage is NOT a prison. Marriage certificate is just a paper. If the marriage fails, everyone should move on. I sincerely doubt that Blossom is that insensitive but we(married and divorced men) could be wrong. We too fear Nnewi men in our group.. They are wayyyyyy too stingy.....RED, you are in our prayers. You will not locate your man rather he will locate you this yearrr!!You will become a mother next year!!.... Here are our 8 signs for you 1) He has a strong bond with his MOTHER( minor bond with his father)...2) He has no presence on social media (ZERO..I mean ZERO).... 3) He is God fearing but not too churchy 4) When you act silly and act like a child, he blushes (Please pay attention.. I said blushes... Not laugh.5) He is a boob man( Please pay attention again...not ass man.... I mean breast lover). 6) He is very stable AND works in IT sector.. . 7) He is Dark ( Not light skinned ) 8) Though he is from Anambra, he is definitely NOT from NNEWI. Your score must be 8/8........
Deleteanon 10:40 That is another good reason why I refused to marry a Nigerian man in Nigeria under naija law. of kos i never reasoned it the way u did but i just had this intuition that sth is very wrong with nigerian system concerning marriage. b4 I japa, I was looking 4 only men that had plans 2 relocate. the men that were saying ehn they wanna stay back to "do business" and "work in govt to improve the country" i just stylishly reduced contact with them. Because such men know what they are doing, n funny enough all of them had that controlling, domineering nature about them. Red flag.
Delete. naija women day experience tins in dat country biko. i feel bad. And ashamed. Even my dad used 2 beat on my mom in naija to my embarrassment n each time I remember it I feel so much shame. But thankfully he has calmed down now that they are both relocated to the U.S. they are now like romeo and juliet. pls if ur a woman try to think of ur japa plans or look for how 2 manipulate to your favour and have the upper hand in any situation u find urself with a man in Nigeria o. a word is enough.
They know that they can't get away with crap abroad and plan 2 get away with a lot in marriage and naija govt will protect them. Married to a foreign man now n I couldn't be happier. Not advocating for marrying foreign men or nigerian men, just go for the kind of man with the qualities you like and that knows how to cherish and love you the way you want. don't settle. I know some naija women don't find foreign men attractive and that is okay. Me, I find them attractive so immediately oga gave me green light, I gave him green light back. lol
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DeleteYou are absolutely right at anonymous 15.33 most of them like to relocate to Nigeria because they have upper hand in naija to treat women as second class citizens. Since my abusive baby daddy relocated I knew that's the end. I like it here in Uk where my right as a woman is being protected married or not married with my kids.
DeleteLove will come Red, I totally understand how you feel.
ReplyDeleteYou're a beautiful woman and you deserve the best.
Love and light baby girl
Seriously I feel her pain. It is well with you Red.
DeleteI think she is acting bitter.
ReplyDeleteWhy the need to shalaye all the time?
I used to feel for her but this is getting out of hand,STOP IT PLEASE.
Blossom wont say a word,and that is what i think is paining her.
Red i admire your strength but resist the urge to always make your ex seem so important and irreplaceable,Do your family not advice you, haaa!?!
ReplyDeleteWhat strength that she has? Someone who pretend to ne a bad girl on instagram for gullible people like you to think that she is the victim and went through what NOBODY in this earth has gone through? What 's the strength in her if i might ask? For 4 years, she has stayed obsess with Blossom and he has not talked about her or anything concerning his marriage, yet she is still running skater, acting crazy, depraved and attention seeker for people like you.
Delete10:11 Are you sure you're blabbing based on this post or you've got a problem with yourself and not me??
DeleteGo and heal pls
Are you sure you are okay upstairs or you just reading meaning to things in your head? Go and heal my dear, there is no strength anywhere, i said what i said!
DeleteK Ambi. Don't stress yourself, welcome Winifred as a new bv, dazallllll🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷
DeleteDelusional, you think everyone is idle like you. You really thing his new wife will be here reading and replying you because you are? Can you talk to her for road? Do you even have the gut and level to talk to her? Pity yourself nah, your reasoning is very low average.
DeleteWinifred rest nau.
DeleteWhat do you do for a living? Eeehhh now I remember,you eat Tithes and offerings from Christ Embassy members and music ministry from your mum kwekekekekekeke
Who is Winfred
DeleteMaureen rest! This guy has never said pim since the marriage ended.
ReplyDeleteDoesn't mean he was innocent though. I feel he did something terrible, Maureen got hurt and betrayed, retaliated...then boom! Guy man said marriage is over.
Red is still hurt. I feel she should block everything that reminds her of him to aid her healing faster.
It's well!
Ever heard of a masculine triangle?
DeleteLook at blossom well,zoom in the pictures. What did you see?
One day Maureen will exhale, everywhere will burst.
Keep quiet! Everything is not about your deluded imagination. Nothing might have happened, because she said it herself in the beginning of the divorce, that they didn't fight, he just up and left without telling. Stop being deluded and thinking the worse on people you don't know nor never ever met in your life! Let her explode and talk, you think this attention seeker, would have had a dirty secret about blossom and not expose it? You lot are sick like her, she really need therapy and a lot of love from family.
DeleteAnon 09:18. Do you mind explaining what you meant. I will love to learn more and understand. Thank you
DeleteThat a man/woman actually keeps quiet doesnt mean they are innocent. Some ppl will hurt u so bad,keep quiet and still make u look like d crazy guilty one to d public when u explode.
DeletePlease explain as Blossom mother, always coming up with excuses to justify whatever, which exhale please? what has she been doing then if she is waiting to exhale? Can't you [people accept the simple fact that there are people who have no love for themselves and refuse to move on, or obsess with someone?
DeleteBed and Roses, loud it, that's how my husband acts so mature emotionally and mentally, I have to read a lot of books on psychology to beat him at his game. Blossom might be taking advantage of Red "i don't care attitude " and him being a man. Infact I am grateful for the books I have read so far and still willing to read.
DeleteTo Sapphire, thanks for talking about the secret, I am on it
Please can you recommend any of the books. I will be so delighted
DeleteHmmmm anon 11.28 many men actually use their silence as a tool. Many play psycological games with silence, malice, lack of affection,alienation. You will just be loooking crazy cos everyone will see u as trouble maker and d man is d quiet saint .
DeleteI am waiting to see explanation of Masculine Triangle
Deleteb n r that is why women should master the art of silence and mystery as well
Deletethat is why as a woman I mastered the art of silence and mystery as well. because men expect you to react, to speak and when you don't, they don't know what to do with themselves. especially Narcissistic men. some toxic men will intentionally poke u just so u react and then u look evil and then they can say "you see, she is crazy" that is a privilege I will never give a man again. was tough but took years of practice and reading on how to know my worth and all. plus people get apprehensive when they don't know ur next move. I always move in silence. that is how one guy I was dating then went and started toasting my best friend. unluckily for him she showed me the chats. I was deep in the throes of my 'villain era' from a previous terrible heartbreak that numbed me so, while I was hurt, I just decided to do absolutely nothing. I did not block him, i did not contact him to shout at him. Nothing. Til today the guy is disturbing me. novels of chats that remain unread and missed calls. Red is giving blossom the uppherhand because she talks and talks, while he stays silent. He has mastered the game, she hasn't. i bet he reads robert greene books.
DeleteI actually think Red is the narcissist in the marriage. The guy ran for his life. Best way to deal with a narcissist is go totally incommunicado which blossom has done. He got the right therapist.
DeleteIt’s well
ReplyDeleteAt this point,it's well is all I can say too cos Red doesn't look like who will stop to shalaye soon
DeleteI don't have access to this woman, but I hope she reads SDK blog...
ReplyDeleteDear Sister Maureen, receive strength to REST in Jesus name. May God give you the grace to accept what was, what is, and what is to come. It is well with you...#ALiSpeaks
I just feel I am the only one who loves Red Vigor with all my heart, controversy or not. 😜😜😜😜. I just feel sorry for the next guy she will be with. Man must show working! And be ready to always be judged by her and sosho medium. *In broda shagi's voice.
ReplyDeleteWhy will anyone want to date red_vigor with all these bitterleaf in her soup when there are millions of women our there who are not yet damaged?
DeleteYou think say it's by being 'yellow pawpaw' and sharing half naked pictures on IG?
ALL of that will only attract low value men and guys wanting to just fuck and move on.
Anon, I don't think she's all about just sharing half naked pics on IG and yellow paw paw o🤣🤣. There could have been something else she was bringing to the table that made Blossom smile and happy then, they might not be together now doesn't mean at some point she did not make him feel like the greatest man in the world. Time flies, people change, Love dies! But let's keep living.
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DeleteHere is a man saying he loves her with all his heart but u are still claiming that no man would want to date her.
And yes, for many men, it is all about sexiness & yellow pawpaw. We see how these men fawn over and marry such women everyday, dumping more 'responsible' women for them even with their history of runs/prostitution, etc. For many many men, all they want is a pretty bad b**ch. We see it happening before our eyes everyday but u lots love to claim otherwise. Was it not a man that married Red? Who married Kim K? Nina (BBN), Toyin (the designer), etc?.. Why do u like to lie to yourselves?
It is not okay to remarry when you are not yet divorced. Why is no one concentrating on this? If what she said about not properly divorced is true, the guy should be jailed. Full stop.
Delete11.25 read Ms. Sapphire's comment up there 👆👆 and others under it. No one is talking about Blossom's Bigamy just because he went for an aunty Gwegwegwe. It makes them feel better about their pathetic selves. If only the Aunty was a younger and prettier girl than Red, they will all call her husband snatcher unending.
Delete12:25 you get it 👍
DeleteNobody is talking about it because he has divorced her already.from the way she spoke about not signing divorce papers,it’s obvious they tried to serve her the documents and she didn’t make herself available.You can divorce a partner that is not physically and emotionally available without them signing any stupid paper.Nigeria has laws and she would’ve sued him for bigamy if he hasn’t divorced her.she’s just playing the guilt game
Delete@12:25, very sure you are a woman. Be here age shaming another woman. Tomorrow, same you may comment about body shaming, marriage shaming, any other shaming of a woman.
Delete@16:55, Thank you very much.
In this case, it is all speculations that the marriage between this woman and the man has not been dissolved.
Is not always easy when your ex moves on before you. It would have been easier for her to get a serious relationship too but not with her over exposure of her body. She's gonna be okay too. Time heals wound.
ReplyDeleteIt is not easy but possible. I am speaking from my personal experience. How long will she renain bitter? How long is this life sef? She has to heal for herself and no one else. My ex and I are now great friends
DeleteWell said @ anonymous 09.57👍
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DeleteNa wa for this people.
ReplyDeleteYou agreed to divorcing him but you didn't sign any papers?
ReplyDeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteIf you want to share your story,share it ,and if u don’t rest!! This is getting out of hand.Everyday ask me any question and I know in ur heart that 99.9 of the questions u will be asked will be about ur ex husband yet u will be opening channels for such questions.
ReplyDeleteRest Abeg this is very very unnecessary,shows u haven’t moved on .
Na she dey ask herself
DeleteI feel the guy must have hurt her deeply.Reason he never uttered a word after separation.. However, babe, you need to move on and stop giving the impression that your whole life revolves around him. May God heal you completely.
DeleteShera keep your thinking to yourself, why are you people like this? Did she tell you Blossom hurt her? Why must you always think the worst on men or others? Because he kept quiet which Blossom has always been, you think he hurt her?
DeleteI don't agree. I'm a woman. I was hurt badly. I never made any noise, I pulled myself together and moved on. Said man even married my in law but up till now, I'm still quiet on my lane living my life. God judges better.
DeleteWomen hurt men a lot everyday. Men pick and eat their breakfast and move on.
DeleteYou all want equality - but will demonise men. Funny enough - they are claiming he hurt her. Blossom has never said anything about what happened.
Was it not on this same blog people were hailing korra obidi and it turned out she was fucking another man when she was pregnant.
Women - they will paint themselves as saint and paint men bad as much as they can. If a man now decides to walk away and not take their bullshit - they will try and tarnish his image.
Maureen - go find another man. If you are so hot as you said - you should be busy servicing another man you are in love with.
Mehn, this is so embarrassing, why are you making your ex so important? Were you not loved well at home? Don’t your friends and siblings love you? Don’t you know what love look like? So why are you making it look like it’s only your ex that has love to give to you?
ReplyDeleteOmo!! Me I can’t o, if you don’t give me full love, I move on without looking back, I can never stoop so low to make any man feel important, and it worked for me cos I met my soulmate, I understand that people are different and heal differently, but Mehn I can’t deal.. Tsk tsk
Exactly!!! Why is she making the guy important?? Looking for validation!
DeleteThis lady needs to move on with dignity.
ReplyDeleteI mean there are no children involved so move on. My exhusband abandoned me and my son and left me to care for the child alone, I've never talked about him publicly even though i have more reasons to be aggrieved than you. This girl lacks maturity and i don't think she has honest people in her inner circle advising her
ReplyDeleteThis is getting out of hand
ReplyDeleteNa wa o
Everyone is here thinking Maureen was the villain and Blossom was the perfect Angel… I honestly don’t think that was the case. Maureen might be wild on SM but she doesn’t come off as the resentful, vengeful or bitter ex wife. In fact, I think she’s not spilling any tea on her crashed marriage only to protect her ex Husbands image, depite all the hate and backlash she constantly gets. Notwithstanding all her social media shenanigans, I honestly think she’s a genuinely good person with a pure heart. Time will tell.
ReplyDeleteWish her the best and I wish Blossom a blissful and long union with his new wife.
NOBODY said she is the villain, besides both of them, NOBODY is privy to what transpired in their marriage. Why are you insinuating that she is protecting his image, because she is what? An angel from heaven? You really think if there were something to tell, Maureen will have kept it ? Nobody hates her, we just don't want to hear her rants and cry ever 4 market days. She should move ON and leave social media rants. If you think she is a genuine person by just watching her on social media, a lot of us also think, Blossom is a genuine person with a pure heart as his colleges and friends always say about him, even her own friends Padita and Mofe said it.
DeleteThat you think all these still doesn’t make it the truth. Only those two know what truly happened. And hey, her social media lifestyle while she was married is enough to make any guy with any atom of value very troubled.
DeleteHer display on social media alone sef as a married woman has already made her a villain. And see her still saying she doesn’t regret being that way online. How many men would be comfortable with having their wife display her body for the whole men in the world to see in the name of being free and happy? Abegii
Delete@ Snarker, is better for her to have done the spilling since, not wait until the guy married someone else. It’s obvious Blossom was a user and a digger! But now he said he has given his life to Christ, I can’t judge him. Is obvious he used Maureen and now he has moved on to the love of his life. Maureen too should move on.She too did not study the guy properly.She was the one doing all the flaunting in their marriage, now is Blossom flaunting Ehinome. Women let the man do the loving, while you respect him. I had to put Maureen in my prayers yesterday, so she does not do something stupid to herself, because of a man that has lost memory of what they ever had. If she can comport herself properly, she could meet someone better than Blossom a 100 times, but she should first seek God to help her clear this heart break, and focus on God as her first love. The truth is, if Blossom has really given his life to Christ ,he will still faceGod, if he actually did evil to Maureen.
DeleteAnon 11:33 Please do tell how did Blossom use her? You lot are delusional. Like, how did he use her? Because of what? What does she has that someone will use? Blossom was a profiling actor by the time he met her and married her, she was just starting her tailor business, she approached him, he wasn't looking for her, she did the pursuing and all. She is not Dangote's daughter, she wasn't living in her own HOUSE somewhere in Lekki or Ikoyi, we didn't her anything monetary about her, she comes form a middle class family so what the HELL is the using about? You people think with your half brain, this talk about Blossom using her, need to stop because NONE was involved in that situation. Blossom was not and is not poor, he left with NOTHING except his belongings, what did he use her for? He was not a billionaire but was doing decently well so is she. Not like she bought a house, bought a luxury car, go to YOUTUBE and see their flat during marriage, what the HELL is wrong with you people? Just because she show up online which is not even that much, a lot of you with nothing accomplished in life think she has money, which money? Where is the gold he digged? Her mates are buying houses in Lekki and driving Range rover, do you know the car she drives? Sick and tired of this narrative you lot have in your empty brain. Gold digger my FOOT!
DeleteTo all my dear anons, especially the one that’s so certain that Blossom is now born anew, time will tell.
DeleteHopefully I never have to come back to reference my comment.
Born again ko. Fake ass repentance,guy got his eyes on the cookie jar
DeleteAnon 12: 34!!! Blossom welcome o!!! I am anonymous 11:33,It’s you that is going up and down here , defending your wickedness to Maureen on here, but you have entered trap today. This Ehinome wey you go marry, now trap you catch. You can’t try the nonsense you did with Maureen with an Ishan Girl, forget her pastor level and her being Pastor Chris’s niece. I have met your type , the way Maureen was smitten with you Blossom, and the guy was a Dr based in the Uk ,with plenty £, but a digger. See Maureen’s Dad is rich! Now you don trade up, this one will give you the baby boy lifestyle that you crave for, but you go humble, if not you are done . Is Maureen, I even blame for not seeking God quickly!!! For the madness you put Maureen through because of her plainness and clean mind, that she used to follow you; you could not even marry your Pastor Wife and enter house! I was even supporting you as per Christ Embassy member!until the Holy Spirit reminded me of what I went through in the hand of a narcissist like you. You gas lighted her with your marriage pictures everywhere, because you know she is very emotional, my own hid sef to go and marry. You were always doing things to drive her mad! Trust me, she is God’s child as Ehinome is! You want her to commit suicide abi? She is in our prayers and she will marry a billionaire, like someone said above, a man who likes her for who she is! Maureen if you read this, know that you are loved, even Ehinome is loved. But this demon called Blossom, if you carry this your demonic traits go meet Pastor, your own finish! My prayer for you, is that you are a changed person. Guys/ Ladies please be very deep in your assessment of potential spouses, as most people out there are now are calculative users, looking for who to leverage on, to attain comfort in life, not minding, how they damage others in their quest for the good life.
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DeleteStella don't swallow my comment from the lies of this Anon 17:03 AKA MAUREEN AKA RED seek help and heal from the pain your ex has put you in. You and Red are the same, delusional attention seeking lot! Her father is rich? you are sick! Which rich? how much does he have? You need psychiatric evaluation, just read what you wrote there, i ma nit even Blossom but i feel pity for you. Your ex really did you a number. So you want Blossom to hide from Red because she is what? A billionaire my Foot!!! Which billionaire will marry that over expose used chucky bride girl? You really thing with your anus, which rich doctor? Maureen that we all know the story how she went to Blossom DM to ask for a date and forced herself in his life same as she did to Kenneth, but trust Kenneth okoli, he bail out before her obsession takes the best out of him. Blossom suffered in her hands, always seeking attention online, putting his life on social media, following him everywhere even when he is shooting, you literally choke his life, you stopped your life because of him, trying to control a grown man, showing these thirsty deprived Nigerian women how love was doing you. blossom please if you are reading this, you are in our prayers, you are blessed, surrounded by love from your friends, Stan, adesua,Ifanyi and many of us from Chris embassy and your prayerful wife Ehi! You are blessed, your children are blessed, you will never know poverty, your destiny has been set out! If e easy, make they run am! Anonymous, go heal, seek peace and love, leave Blossom and his beautiful educated calm wife, don't burst a vain, Blossom doesn't have your time, you are too small for him, you no reach!
Red, come out and speak if they born you well, all your dirty secrets will come out, remember the pill you posted online that Stella called you out, come out please! Go find help and love yourself, leave Blossom alone!!!!
DeleteStella don't swallow my comment from the lies of this Anon 17:03 AKA MAUREEN AKA RED seek help and heal from the pain your ex has put you in. You and Red are the same, delusional attention seeking lot! Her father is rich? you are sick! Which rich? how much does he have? You need psychiatric evaluation, just read what you wrote there, i ma nit even Blossom but i feel pity for you. Your ex really did you a number. So you want Blossom to hide from Red because she is what? A billionaire my Foot!!! Which billionaire will marry that over expose used chucky bride girl? You really thing with your anus, which rich doctor? Maureen that we all know the story how she went to Blossom DM to ask for a date and forced herself in his life same as she did to Kenneth, but trust Kenneth okoli, he bail out before her obsession takes the best out of him. Blossom suffered in her hands, always seeking attention online, putting his life on social media, following him everywhere even when he is shooting, you literally choke his life, you stopped your life because of him, trying to control a grown man, showing these thirsty deprived Nigerian women how love was doing you. blossom please if you are reading this, you are in our prayers, you are blessed, surrounded by love from your friends, Stan, adesua,Ifanyi and many of us from Chris embassy and your prayerful wife Ehi! You are blessed, your children are blessed, you will never know poverty, your destiny has been set out! If e easy, make they run am! Anonymous, go heal, seek peace and love, leave Blossom and his beautiful educated calm wife, don't burst a vain, Blossom doesn't have your time, you are too small for him, you no reach!
Red, come out and speak if they born you well, all your dirty secrets will come out, remember the pill you posted online that Stella called you out, come out please! Go find help and love yourself, leave Blossom alone!!!!
Thank you @ anonymous 12.01. This life...
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DeleteHmmm, it's easy to tell her to move on when we are not in her shoes. Anything goes on in Nigeria when you have money. If actually Blossom didn't divorce her properly why did he go ahead to marry another woman. It's like legally married to her ,how can she move when he has not left her completely. Red, how I wish you can have the heart to play Blossom in his own game, despite both of you una own dey for una body. And please if playing him by his card can give you peace ,do it and be free. Stop being loyal and seen as a bitter woman.
ReplyDeleteShe can move on, move on and get busy!!! Mercy Johnson husband did the same to his first wife and she talked and moved on. She is just an attention seeker, she loves social media attention, what is she going through that nobody else has gone through? Do you know how many women are today raising kids abandoned by their husbands yet are surviving without letting the world know what they are going through? Since she started talking, what have you and her fans done for her?
DeleteNa wa oh 11:12 are y’all trying to control a grown woman’s mouth
DeleteLet her talk or rant if that’s what you think it is
Wish she can take a break from social media. You don't heal by giving out negative vibes about your person by the kind of life you put out on social media. Blossom may have been the one in the wrong but because he's not saying anything no body comes for him.
ReplyDeleteMaureen, they say, is a free spirited one, exhibits some wildness and even when she is innocent, people will still see her as the villain.
Maureen, lie low as you go about the business that puts food on your table.
Was it not this same woman that said she's had more ducks bla bla bla
ReplyDeleteGod's strength 💪 🙏 upon her..
ReplyDeleteNot easy
But you must moveeeeee on Red.
Madam move on.
ReplyDeleteRed. Sue him. This is bigamy. Make him pay! Your gain, his loss!!
ReplyDeleteLooked this one dreaming, go and sue him nah. What are you lot waiting for? She is very much divorced and she knows it, papers or not. Same happened to Mercy Johnson, is she not married and went ahead to have 4 kids? Stop these noises and get real. You think Blossom or pastor Chris is stupid to wed them without looking at all these points? You really think you lot are the one that can think? A lot of you need to really mind the business that feed you instead of worrying about people you know NOTHING ABOUT!
DeleteWhich divorce papers does she want to sign? This is not hollywood where divorce involves you signing papers. Once you are served the divorce petition in court, you either choose to appear through your lawyer or in or person or not appear at all. If the petitioner cant find you to serve the divorce petition, they can get an order for substituted service, meaning they can attempt to serve you through any reasonable means they feel you will be aware of the petition. It could be by pasting it on the walls of your house/business, send it to your email/social media page, posting it in a newspaper etc. So, if you have something to say about the divorce, you better make yourself available in court (however way you are served the petition) and have your say. You may even tell the court you don't want a divorce and the judge may give you guys some time to go and attempt settlement etc. Don't ignore a divorce petition (except you want the divorce too and dont want to waste money on paying a lawyer or don't have strenght to be appearing in court) because proceedings will go on in your absence and the judge will grant the divorce behind you. You will be there brandishing a marriage certificate and claiming that you haven't signed any divorce papers whereas husband has gotten the decree absolute to dissolve the marriage and gone on to marry someone else.
ReplyDeleteI was sharing with someone we are in male dominated society where culture tops everything we learn from the western world.
DeleteReligion - we add culture to it to favour men, that areas like "a man that cannot provide for his household..." is hardly preached.
Education- imagine being taught that beans is protein,and reason to eat more of it,whereas beans has carbohydrate concentration. Meat,fish,eggs have higher protein content but children that like them are seen as uncultured and longer throats.
Marriage- in court marriage, a woman presence is needed but to divorce her in same court, she is not needed. No be here we read where a lawyer is demanding a woman presence to sign the divorce paper.
Women supporting women , my foot. Why did the new wife no make sure say everything with Maureen was properly completed before her own. No body is saying Blossom must continue to marry Maureen but should have done it well so she won't have anything to rant about as per "ungodly and naked wife" she is.
You contradicted yourself but saying once you are served in court
DeleteShe said she wasn’t served
Actually a mans presence is also needed if a woman petitions the court. This is not a male or female thing. It is a "party thing".
Deletena which school una dey go sef?
If a law does not favour women - they say it is patriachal. What is patriachal about a law that states that a divorce petition requires the other parties awareness. If that party decide not to show up, the judge will rule in favour of the petitioner. It does not matter if the petitioner is male or female!
But because it does not favour a woman - una dey shout patriachy. When it comes to men providing finance in the house, una go forget patriachy. When it comes to going on a date or asking men for urgent 2k or asking men for contracts - una go forget patriachy because it favours you.
Why is everyone ignoring what she said about not signing divorce papers because they were not served? Is she still legally married to him? How is it that a church can conduct a marriage ceremony for someone who is still married to another woman or is there something else missing?
ReplyDeleteIf what she's saying is true, then you all have no right to insult her. How can she move on if she's still legally married to Blossom? Which man would want to marry or have children with a woman legally married to another man? Are you all not seeing how unfair society is to women or are you all just blinded by your bias because she dresses anyhow in instagram while the new wife is a "pastor"?
Maureen should sue him, new wife and his church to court if really she's still married to him and has grounds to. Or she and her family should drag him to court demanding for a divorce.
Not "... are you all just blinded by your bias because she dresses anyhow in instagram while the new wife is a "pastor".
DeleteThey have a problem with this combination, young, sexy and rich/not hungry/successful. If Blossom had left Red for a younger, hotter instagram firebrand, they would have all called the hotter one unprintable names. They love they have for madam pastor is all for her inadequacies and short comings, the fat, the age, the not pretty features. Thats what got their sympathy and support.
Ha! The comments they fear me sha. A little empathy will not hurt anyone. I am not a fan of red but this woman was married to a man she LOVED AND ADORED. She didn’t cheat or wasn’t abusive but her husband leaves her without property divorcing her and everyone still calls her bitter? She is not allowed to feel bad. Imagine your husband or wife does this to you please come online bless and pray for him. If she was horrible to by now you think the story will not be everywhere. Sometimes it’s easier for you not to say anything and look like the mature one because you know that you are not the one that is so broken and needs healing.
ReplyDeleteExactly my point!!!
DeleteThey judge her too harshly and despise her because of her supposed conduct on social media meanwhile they’re probably much more rotten whilst being fully clothed.
Red is beautiful, brash and not starving. She is not fat and she has not bowed to societal pressure to be off social media and waking up every 3am to pray violent prayers for her husband's progress or against stage women.
DeleteShe is not going to get sympathy from the same women who denied their true or wilder selves and yet, were not rewarded for their docility by their husbands or society. Many women are even presently contending with people they think are like Red in their marriage right now where weekly prayer meeting and cooking skills doesn't seem to be enough to keep a selfish man at home.
They don't see the obvious resemblance between them and this hurting woman in a situation where love is just not enough.
@anonymous 12:01, you're the only one that knows she loved and adored her ex husband. na only you sabi, like you're her ex husband to make this confirmation. busy body
DeleteSame here o @anonymous 12.01. I am so scared for Red with all this harsh comments everywhere. Pls Red, if you are reading this, put 11.33 & 17.03 comments to use. God heals all pains, seek HIM alone. and the future is bright pls.
Delete~La creme
I don’t see anything wrong with her answering questions from her fans
ReplyDeleteShe answered what they asked
One thing a lot of people don’t understand is that you don’t need to wait for your spouse to sign divorce papers if he or she has been physically and emotionally unavailable for a period of time.you can divorce people in absentia especially if they do all they can to avoid being duly served with court documents.He divorced her or he wouldn’t have been able to marry another wife.end of story
ReplyDeleteThank you. All these noise everywhere for nothing. People are just too gullible.
DeleteStella I see you refused to post my comment on the true reason for their break up.
ReplyDeleteI've always known you to be an investigative journalist and it would only be fair on the victim to do your findings and speak the truth. No wham
Some Nigerians and keen watchers of Nollywood video drama think Nollywood is Nigeria. They believe marriages can be dissolved in Nigeria by signing of papers as dramatised in Nollywood.
ReplyDeleteEvery marriage in Nigeria under the Act (marriages conducted at the Registry or by a Church licenced to conduct marriages under the Act) can ONLY be dissolved by an ORDER of a STATE HIGH COURT. (Pardon my shouting).
The steps for getting a court order is simple:
1. A case is filed.
2. The case documents must be served on the respondent. Some sign to acknowledge . Some do not. Whether the respondent signs or not, the case continues IF the court is satisfied that the respondent is aware of the petition for dissolution of the marriage. The important word here is "aware". Where the court is not satisfied that the respondent is aware of the petition, the Court orders service by substituted means - this can be by a range of methods. Any respondent aware of the petition who refuses to attend court does so to his/her loss. Any respondent who evades service of a divorce petition so as to say "I have not been served" face the risk of the case being heard without him/her
3. The case is required to be proved by oral and documentary evidence. The petitioner and, if needed, his/her supporting witness must attend court physically to present the evidence. However, they may do so by virtual means where the rules and or practice directions of the particular High Court permits virtual proceedings. In exceptional cases, the Judge may, as an exercise of discretion, permit zoom proceedings where not provided for in the court rules .
4. Where a petitioner fails to prove the facts of the petition, especially where grave allegations are made against the respondent, the court will not grant the dissolution of the marriage if there is no counter-petition for dissolution by the respondent. This is the reason some people live appart for 3 years before filing the petition because in such case, no serious allegation need be proved other than they have lived apart for 3 years.
The procedure listed above applies to both male and female.
A person married under the Act who marries again under Native law and custom or even under the Act runs several risks whether or not the bigamy provisions of Nigeria's criminal laws are not being enforced in Nigeria or have been repealed in Lagos State.
In this case, only very few people know the truth as to whether or not Maureen and Blossom are still legally married or whether a legal order of dissolution of marriage has being made.
I think Stella should make this comment a stand-alone post because the ignorance about simple things I see on this post is baffling. And ignorant people have the temerity to talk like they have all the answers
DeleteAnon 19:20. Thank you. Very insightful.
DeleteFound out my ex is married and when I contacted him about divorce he allegedly carried out a divorce proceedings without my notice and when I asked for decree absolute or details of case file, he claimed he can’t find his copy anymore or remember details of the lawyer who helped him & his new lawyer claimed sometimes divorce in Nigeria are not registered. Pls can someone clarify this if possible?
My beautiful Red.
ReplyDeleteThe way I love this lady.
You womem are just biased
Accusing Mercy Aigbe of snatching someone's husband yet this one gets a free pass cos it is Red and she does not dress like your average long clothed woman.
Red remains the beloved of God.
Love her period.
Blossom , you are a Christian now, please call Red and apologize. Give her closure. She didn't do evil to you.
KING XOXO MYSTERY