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IN HOUSE MEMO

A BV lost her little son yesterday and she is completely heart broken. he passed due to complication from heart issues.... I feel so sad.....

Please pray for her, that God gives her and the entire family the strength to bear such painful loss.....


Enjoy the rest of the day and thank God for whatever you have and wherever you are at......

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD





I visited a new mom recently and we began exchanging stories and catching up on old gist, I hadn’t seen her for about a year. 

The gist was going well and good till I got the shock of my life.

We were talking about colic in babies and she told me about how frustrated she was when her new born was going through it . She said she was so frustrated she wanted to fling the child away on several occasions and since she couldn’t, she resorted to spanking the baby till he cried to sleep.

The moment she said that the whole place went quiet, I couldn’t wrap my head around someone, a new mom who has been trying to conceive for years spanking a newborn.

She was oblivious to the sudden quietness in the room and kept on talking about how once she raises her hand ,the baby starts to cry already. I was so pained by her remarks and cradled the baby to my chest more gently since I was holding him.

She then asked in the same breathe why I was cradling the baby like he is fragile and went on to say why she doesn’t understand why her husband and people are treating the baby like he is fragile and all.

She complained about how everybody kept fussing over the baby and also said the baby was to heavy for her to carry since he is overweight. I was shocked oooo! Because the baby I was carrying in my arm was obviously underweight but I couldn’t say anything.

A lot of things went on in my mind but I kept quiet and on my way home one of the people we went together to visit the baby said “, You sure say na she born that pikin so". Everyone sighed and prayed the child would turn out well.

She might be going through Dangerous post partum, please call her every day to check up on the baby ooooooh.. If its abroad, that child will be taken from her ASAP until he recover.. please check up on her and visit often to know when to report her to child care services in Naija!!!

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PINKYS CORNER

Duping With Sense!

Recently I was with a man who takes me along with him whenever he is going to site(that's if I'm less busy)because he is an engineer.


We were at a site located around Ido(after Ologuneru) Ibadan. We were there supervising some bricklayers when he was called upon to come to Tennis club. On getting to Tennis Club, he was about to park when the engine gave a knocking sound but he managed to park shaaa.


He called his mechanic to come check the engine, when the mechanic called that he is at the gate but they need a proof from Engineer before he could be allowed in. I stood up and went straight to the gate because Engineer was busy discussing with someone.


I gave him the key to the Dutch Nitro Jeep to check then I went inside to get busy with the plate of assorted meat pepper soup he ordered for me. Not long, the mechanic came and explained what happened and advised him to buy a new engine instead of trying to repair the two face cylinder. Baba agreed.


Mechanic said, it's sold for 700k but Mr man refused and ask him to go make findings and call him once he gets to the spare parts market. Mechanic quickly left because Engineer wanted to fix it fast because he couldnt afford to be taking his car to sites due to the road. After some hours, he called back and they both discussed, he then asked me to get his token for him in his vehicle which I did.(sincerely I don't know how much he transferred).


After much enjoyment and watching of tennis match, we picked somethings in the vehicle and left. The next day, I was asked to go wait for the mechanic at the club because he will be bringing the tokunbo engine and some people to work with him. I got there at the said time and the mechanic appeared with two other people (rewire inclusive). We spent the whole day there and they couldn't finish the work. The next day, they came again to finish up(meaning, they spent two days in fixing the new engine).


It was time to take the car to Baba Engineer where he was waiting for us. I called him to tell him they are through and he asked me if I'm sure it's perfect since I have driving experience, that I should test drive that jeep and make sure no issue(I said ok). I told the mechanic to give me the key that I will be the one to drive it down there, on our way, I switched on the A/C and immediately, the engine went off. Mechanic said, it's wiring problem, that, they will adjust it when we get there, then I said ok oo

When we got to Apete, I parked, gave the key to the mechanic and went straight to where baba was waiting for us and told him what I noticed. He followed me,on getting to where I parked , the mechanic and rewire were busy with the engine again, then he asked them what was going on and they explained and told him the same thing they told me. Baba said ok, "just be fast and don't waste my time"

 We went back to where he was sitting. Not long, I asked him if he has his own rewire and he said yes, then why not call him to come check this thing, that was when his brain picked up.


He called the rewire and the guy came to the location after 3hours which the mechanic and the rewire he brought were still battling with the jeep. When the real rewire came, he was asked to check what's wrong. After some time, he came and sincerely told engineer that, the engine is not in a good condition at all and they shouldn't manage that engine, if not, it will continue having issues.(I was weeping in advance for the mechanic but didnt know why). Baba resulted in towing the vehicle to the spare parts market the next day.


When we got there, we both went straight to another shop to price the engine and not only that, he gave us guarantee on his product(Note : the receipt mechanic gave us was reading 570k but we saw a better one for 450k). We were there, waiting for mechanic to come meet us, mechanic had not arrived as at 12pm, then engineer was so angry. He bought a new engine for 450k and the same seller gave him a mechanic who charged him 30k to remove the engine and fix another one and his rewire also came.


Mechanic came around 2pm, and saw that another engine had been purchased, baba was panting, oyah, take us to where you bought this engine because it's bad and we need our money not another engine since engineer had gotten another one.(u people wont really understand this scenerio except you were there). He noticed engineer had changed his mood and his voice is becoming harsh then he took us to the shop. , my people, this guy bought the engine for 420k because we got to know this when engineer was shouting and called some police men to come to where he was. When the two officers came, the seller said and I quote "na 420k I sell am for you, na you say make I write 570k for receipt).


Presently as I'm writing this, the seller has been released because he has transferred his own money to engineer but mechanic only gave the officer in charge of the case 50k out of the whole money with him and his wife with an elderly man has been calling to beg engineer but all effort proved abortive. 

The engine they fixed for two days was fixed in just a day.

*This is so wrong but Mechanics do this a lot in Nigeria and if some people recount what they have passed through , you will weep for them.

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REPLY - EVASIVE HUSBAND

We are both young. He's 37yrs while I'm 34 and our marriage will be 4yrs this November.


I am not fat, I am not slim, I drift between size 10 and 12 cos of pregnancy and breastfeeding which is his spec according to him. We have two children. I don't have one single wrapper except for the one I use to back baby who will be a year this month end. I go about in pants and bum shorts plus sexy night wears as he sees on Instagram

I am 100 percent neat in every way. He on the other hand has issues with bathing, brushing in fact, cleanliness in general. I have complained to our counsellors and his Dad when he took matters to them. (Story for another day).

He goes on bathing and brushing Holiday on weekends and public holidays till he's to resume work again or church. Comes back from work all sweaty and wouldn't bath. When we were to have our babies, I begged him to upgrade his hygiene cos of germs and diseases he'll bring through his clothes, hand and every other place. I have fought this battle and lost so, I gave up. 

When I go to him, I plead with him to go and wash his pr**** before we do so as not to transfer germs to my toh*** sometimes, I get irritated by his sticky body and rush to bath immediately we're done. His sambisa sometimes turn to dread and I'm turned off.


He bragged of all his s**capades before marriage of how he used to do different girls and even older women randomly. We agreed not to do the do before marriage but, tested it against his wish three months before marriage and few more times. I was disappointed but, he said it's anxiety being the first time. He likes to dominate and does only missionary.

 I begged that we do other things but, na fight and it's just now that we comfortably do doggy and other styles except riding. Me wey I be James Bond before marriage, he just quench the fire on me and I had to adjust to his style, thank God he allows me use his joystick to wuzzuwuzzu then I come....lol


I have sat him down severally, begged, fought, and it ends in fight cos he wears his ego on his sleeves so, I stopped.


His new anthem is that I don't respect him that's why he's avoiding me. He doesn't know much cos he didn't have any exposure aside pressing his laptop cos he's an IT guy. When I try to make suggestions or request that we do some things differently, I'm over Sabi. He feels less of a man to let me ride him or do anything that will make him lie while I'm on top. He says it makes him feel like a woman.


He says he's pursuing some goals and wants to meet target, financial and other wise. I say to him that, there's no end to chasing dreams and goals. Do we remain celibate till he has achieved all his goals? I often tell him that if he says this does this mean that poor people do not have a right to an erection?... Even the richest man in the world is still chasing bigger goals. Will he abandon his family cos of that?.


Our counsellors and his Dad told him to make time for me and treat me right or sleep in our bedroom. He will sleep with the kids and I for two days or act nice for two days then he's back to status quo so, I've given up on spending time with him or begging for his attention.... I focus on myself and children. The only thing that should bind us together, I'm replacing with a dildo so, I don't need him anymore. I told him this yesterday in a chat and he said okay.


I forgot to mention that when we just got married, I noticed he was addicted to porn and masturbating. I begged and cried and fought, still it continued. He has an habit of watching naked girls on Instagram. He follows all the naked girls on Instagram. One day, I unfollowed all while he slept and to my amazement, he went back following then. I caught him looking at a naked girl on his phone and got upset that "I go naked" in this house all the time yet you don't see me but, would rather watch naked girls and masturbate, he didn't say anything and didn't apologize cos he doesn't know how to apologize.





WHATTTTTTTTT   PLEASE OPT FOR THE DILDO ASAP!!!!!

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