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Wednesday, July 13, 2022
Stellas Singles Mingles Update.....
The Singles Mingles Initiative has so far been a success story for some...
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Let me just go under anonymous with this one. And bro if you are reading this you need to correct your mindset about women and watch your bad mouth.
ReplyDeleteI dropped my details and many men came some of them were looking for hookups and some too young. I chat and block straight
One particular guy with a strange request that fascinated me came.
He wanted to be my slave and all that kinky stuff.
I was curious and so I played along. But man was too rude and had a bad mouth.
He quickly assumed I was poor and naive. He throws tantrums and is quick to insult and also apologize.
He even called me old cargo and ashawo one time and I called him a thief.
I got tired of his tantrums and blocked his sorry ass.
Guy with beards and shiny head that sells at a popular market in Lagos. Be calming down stop feeling your self na change you get LOL
Yes annon, I know that guy, very rude,uncouth,uncultured, ill mannered and so on. He insulted me because I said I was busy and few minutes after I reached out to him and that was my offense,I wasn't supposed to tell him I was busy. Told me how his sales girl was better than me,how I had bleached my skin for Christ sake I am even dark skin Lol.
DeleteThat guy acts like a psycho,I couldn't even reply him, I was just numb like really? I blocked him,he continued on SMS aah! I have been wanting to write about this guy but busy schedule and how I hate to type has been holding me back. Even if you have money whatsoever! You don't own all the money in this world
From this description. I know this guy very well. Beard and shining head. Sells at Lagos. He gave me 20 missed calls in an hour. Called back to say I was very busy at work. He insulted my generation. Told me responsible women don't look for love online. The guy insulted me no be small. I blocked him. I intend to send his picture and our chats someday to SDK but felt no need.
Delete😂😂😂😂. I’m sorry for laughing Abeg. Which kain crase person una jam Abeg?
Delete21:55 pls send
DeleteMaybe he can he blocked from participating
Guys like that are so depressing to encounter
I know that guy🤣🤣. Called his mother and sisters ashewo and all forms of unprintable names not me. Said no responsible lady looks for love on SDK. He told me this 2018. Calling every 5 seconds as if you are with his kidney and if you say you're busy, insults rains🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteIkay na you? 😆😭😄😆
DeleteI can't wait to participate
ReplyDeleteMine is great and my wife is the best..
ReplyDeleteWe will be clocking a year in marriage by august
I'm happy for you. Congratulations
DeleteCongratulations in advance
DeleteReading mode activated 😎 🍦
ReplyDeleteI just weak...
ReplyDeleteThe thing tire me and the annoying part is, the ladies will collect contact, initiate a chat and disappear.
As in, they won't be available on WhatsApp again.
To pick call, bigger problem.
One contacted me and said she just want intimacy, we agreed on a date to meet and madam stopped picking calls.
It's been like a circle with me.
It's never a case of my inability to state what I want oh! At least they do admit to reading my comment and assimilating it before reachout...
I participated twice. Met a few people but distance. All of them were in Lagos and I am in Kogi State.
ReplyDeleteYeah I think we just did an update post so maybe it’s time for the real thing
ReplyDeleteStella still do a friendship post. I need friends. Thank you
ReplyDeleteI have to go anonymous for this one. I participated once and I was contacted by a few ladies.
ReplyDelete1. Lady A wanted me to become a business mogul overnight. Aunty advised me to start a business on credit. She advised me to contact a company and tell them to give me some goods on credit. As soon as I sell the goods, I'd refund the money and use the interest to keep the business afloat. It sounds like great advice, but it is also a recipe for disaster.
2. Lady B is seemingly kind. I made the mistake of asking her to lend me some money. She refused and our friendship didn't remain the same. I tried to make her understand that my asking her to lend me some money was inappropriate, but she couldn't look past it. If she had lent me the money, I definitely would have paid it back. I'd say hello on WhatsApp, but she wouldn't respond. I had to let her be.
Lady C advised me to relocate to her state and that she'd get me a job at her school. Ok, since you want to help me, lend me some money and let me secure accommodation. When I start the job, I'll tell them to deduct a certain amount from my salary and credit it to your account. Aunty got angry and said the job she was hoping I'd get was given to someone else. She wanted me to stay with her. Months later, I relocated to her state of residence and stayed with her for two weeks. I had to accept a useless job because it came with accommodation. I couldn't stay with her for two reasons:
A. Her reluctance to accept good advice
B. She isn't a neat person.
Lady D wanted me come over to her place. She assured me that I'd get a job in no time. She made the offer more than twice, but I declined. At the time I finally agreed to relocate, aunty had a change of mind. She started telling me bullshit. She didn't outright say don't come, but I didn't need a soothsayer to tell me that she didn't want me to come. I stayed put where I was and things turned around for good.
Lady E isn't an active member of SDK. She will just call me out of the blue and start advising me. She is my special adviser. I think we have realized that we can't possibly date, so we are keeping it platonic.
Lady F seems like a nice lady. We never really talked about dating but the chats we've had have helped us to ascertain our incompatibility.
I don't think SDK is the place to find the sort of lady I'd love to marry. A lot of people may have found live on SDK, but it's not the place for me.
Broke looking for women to lend you money.what happened with going to the bank for a loan hehn? Women are wiser now
DeleteWhat exactly are you looking for? Job ? Accomodation, Marriage ? Organize n prioritize.
DeleteMr the only thing causing problem between you and all the ladies you talked about is money.
DeleteDo you want to scam them?
If you are the one all of them ask for money, won't you see them as gold diggers?
I think you’re too quick to reject their advice
DeleteThink well before you say no cause if you say no too fast, it’s not easy to come back and find the opportunity
Na only you waka come?
DeleteTeacher Nk, chop knuckle for your brilliant analysis ( short and sweet).
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 e for eweleke.
DeleteOnly you 6 ladies and none to your very high taste ba, each one having issues?
G,H,I,J,K,L,M nko???😅🤣😅🤣
Eyaah, boya you wii take time out tomorrow and go and buy smoh cement and pure water to mold the one you want?
Ehn, but what exactly do you want? Is it financial help or a relationship?
If it is money you want, own it with your chest. Draft a fantastic proposal and show a potential investor the kind of equity they can gain by partnering with you.
If I were you lot, I would focus on business networking, etc. You can make a lot of interesting, powerful contacts, mentors here. Not this genital meet and greet and whocup y'all are on about.
All this cunny cunny style of pretending to look for relationship then start asking for money, lolll, if na me I will block you before saliva dry for your lips.
The same way men are irritated by women begging for money before they jump into relationships is the same way women are irritated.
The ladies may feel you are not genuine and rightly so. Everyone is looking for someone who will bring positive impact. What positive impact can you make?
As for me, I'm just looking for mature minds who like to chill. Plenty of beautiful places to discover in Abj, I'd rather not go alone. But if I put up a post, na so so smallie and agbaya den go dey reach out looking for who to drain thinking they have found 2022 maga.
Issokay, we what?
We meuve!
Awww..From lady A to F sabi👏🏾
Delete17:13, Wow! Wow!! What did l just read. Can't you look for any available job and do. Why are you acting like a baby ,l can't date someone like you, not to talk of marriage. You are a gold digger. Did you give them money to keep for you. How can a grown up man be so proud to say this kind of things. For your mind now you be hot cake. 😅🤣🤣😂😂
DeleteLmaaooo nigguuuurrr! You’re a red red flag! It’s all about money and Job you keep asking from these ladies ? Do you have no shame ? Do you think it’s a poverty alleviation program they’re doing here? Lmaaooo man
DeleteTeacher NK, covid-19 did me dirty and I lost my job. I made it crystal clear in my S&M post that I was out of work. That was why some of the ladies offered to help me.
DeleteI didn't have sex with any of them. There was no genitalia meet and greet.
I have lent money to some of the ladies. They paid back. This should tell you the sort of person I am. If I need help and I consider someone a friend, I won't hesitate to ask them for help. And if someone I consider a friend seeks my help, I'll help them. The mistake I made was assuming that some of the ladies saw me as a friend.
I am financially ok now. God has been faithful. I am not a leech or a gold digger. Honest guys like me are a rarity. I can beat my chest and say that no one has ever called my integrity into question.
Like I said, some of these ladies have sought financial assistance from me and I didn't say no.
'Her reluctance to accept good advice' ...all the advice your alphabet ladies were giving you and you were REJECTING were what?
DeleteWere bad ba?
Only you gives GOO advice abi, which should be followed.
You have a looooooong way ahead.
Congratulations to those who dodged your missile. 👏🏼
Honestly, na only you waka come?
Delete21:32 don’t ask ladies you’re getting to know in this way for money. They are not your friends
DeleteThey are trying to find a boyfriend or husband and your request is putting the person in an awkward position
If you never met them, you would have figured out a way
Chai ooo! But poster haven't you noticed a pattern in your approach of women? You need to check your motives because you are saying something else in your response than what you first posted.
DeleteThey don’t know you and your goodness
DeleteBe financially balanced and have enough self respect please
By the way don’t be arrogant
You don’t know everything
The Northern Guy is that you? You don't have to go anon. I can see thru the letters. I am supposed to be lady E. Na advise you need now not love.
DeleteTime will remove you from such situation naturally.
I will go as (ANONYMOUS). We met on SDK not single n mingle though. I saw a request from him wanting a wife bla bla bla, I contacted him n then boom we started, small time unku say make we marry, fiam we marry. Bifor u know it unku dan change to what I don't know, starting keeping to himself and all. I got tayad n left ooooo...... It is well with my soul. Abeg post it oooooo
ReplyDelete.
I’m sorry love
DeleteI participate in the last one. I would say it is time consuming and mentally draining. Lots of ladies would contact you. Want you to call back or keep chatting with them on WhatsApp etc.
ReplyDeleteI found a few interesting ones but religion is a big issue( I am a Muslim). Fortunately I found someone who is a Muslim, she's in Abuja while I stay in Lagos. I didn't meet her physically but was into her and we kept contact. But Aunty declared that she's naturally stubborn and don't forgive. At last we call it off, even before starting anything.
I can say this, most women want to settle down but they are not ready to settle down.
Lord of people say they’re stubborn and lots are stubborn and don’t forgive
DeleteWhat’s wrong with that. Do you plan to be offending her.
I can't wait for the next one. Would like to try my luck
DeleteThe few ones I met here rejected me after telling them how much I earned.is 120k that small?plus say no house rent.i still dey collect rent for lagos."somebody daughter go find me someday."😥
ReplyDeleteOne like thought he could use me, I think he has an old man who is also on the block pushing him, lies full im mouth, las las I block am .KMH
ReplyDeleteMentally draining, one saw me as a wife to be, I dare not miss his call and not return within 30 min.
ReplyDeleteNooo that’s not good enough
DeleteOnly social rejects do SnM. If you are good, love will find you in person not SM
ReplyDeleteLol people are finding love online everyday
DeleteThis ya statement no follow
That idiot igbo trader in lagos also messages me, I was busy and replied later he insulted his generations and I eventually blocked him. Very useless animal
ReplyDeleteIkay 😆😆🤣
Delete