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Monday, August 15, 2022

Actor Stan Nze Narrates How He Almost Broke Up With His Wife Before They Got Married...

One of Nollywood's cutest couple.... Fact!








What were the first words you said to your wife when you met her?


It would have probably been, “Hey, it’s nice to meet you.” The truth is that I don’t remember the first time I met my wife, she remembers. Judging from how I would respond to people, it would probably be ‘hey, good afternoon or how are you?’ But from the time we knew each other, it (the greeting) became, “my friend.”




How did you meet her?

It was at the Eko film festival. I featured in a film screened at the festival, Just No Marriage., That was where I met her for the first time. She was also there for the screening. I don’t remember that, but she showed me the picture because we took pictures then.

The first time I took note of her was on my birthday, May 15, 2017. I went to a studio in Ilupeju, Lagos, to give them one of my contents, a film I had made, and she also as a producer came with one of her films. A guy named Tunde Onakoya, who used to work with Africa Magic, said to us, “you don’t know Blessing, she is a producer oo” and he tells her, “he is an actor oo make you na meet na.” And I started saying to her, madam, give us a role na. That was the first time I took note of her.




When did you know you would end up getting married to her?




We started dating in 2017 and I knew there was something there but I was not sure. In 2020, we travelled together to Dubai, United Arab Emirates, and we returned with a big fight and thought that it would be all over. But I said to myself that if we were able to cross this hurdle, this might just be it. We took some time off, thought about the relationship and ourselves and we came back stronger. Today, we are married.



What event made your wedding day memorable?


There were a lot of memories to be honest. The decor was beautiful, we had Timi Dakolo surprise her and she screamed to me, “thank you for giving me the wedding of my dream.” Just hearing her say those words meant a lot to me.



How has the marital journey been?

It has been amazing. There have been ups and downs. Everything that has happened has mostly been contained and we always find ways to make up.



What’s your advice to young people planning to marry?


My advice to them is to put in the work and stop expecting that the next person will be an angel, I mean, we are human beings with flaws and will have bad days too. Concentrate on making yourself a better person. I always say to people, you that are looking for a Beyonce, are you a Jay Z? For the women looking for Jay Z are you a Beyonce? Always make sure to work on yourself and be better for yourself and the next person. The next person is not your happiness, God is your happiness.


Find wholeness in God first so that the marriage will be a union of two whole people to be a union of two broken people. Relationships and love are about giving, God so loved the world that He gave his only begotten son. If you say you love someone, you have to constantly give to the person. What if you don’t get things in return? Well, those that give will also receive but your concentration should be giving peace, joy, happiness and exuding bliss.

from Punch Newspaper....

74 comments:

  1. Nice read. You can tell he genuinely loves her. May yours be counted among the best Stan. God bless you.

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    1. Good advice. In everything put God first and the rest go be jara.

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    2. I like this couple abeg. Their YouTube videos dey funny I swear! Very original ppl. No be all the fake fake ppl everywhere. Jessy baby! I see you o!😘😘

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  2. Cute couple. I pray you continue to stay strong together.

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  3. Yes king. Go for a big fish. No be only women dey date for money. What a woman can do, a man can do better

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    1. Does she have money? Hmmm
      And I was thinking he just married someone that will see him as a trophy there by allowing him to live his trust. What do I even know

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    2. Which bigger fish. I think he went for love. I wish them heavenly blessings.

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    3. Happiness and peace of mind is priceless.

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    4. Anon 8:14 why? I just wan ask you why? Na God go forgive you o. I greet all fellow Nzerians !! How body!!

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    5. Big fish ko, big whale ni, Is she rich?

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    6. God help all of una
      So person cannot marry a bigger sized lady in peace? There must be something attached to it. Sounds like u guys are projecting. Fyi he loves her because she feels worthy of love. Most of you half her size can't even find a man that wants a relationship with you because of your low self esteem and bad character. Ke gerrout

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  4. Nice one, God bless your marriage.

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  5. Find wholeness in God first. (Increase your mic brother) Marriage is blissful with God holding the wheels.

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  6. They are really lovely couple.

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  7. God bless their home. Cute couple.

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  9. You nailed it, nothing was left out. Wishing you and yours more happiness, peace and joy in your union.

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  10. They started dating since 2017 and no one knew about it,Impressive.
    I wish them more bliss in their union.

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    1. Smart people. By how the girl was bullied for marrying the guy I can see why. Too many "fine and gorgeous" haters on her

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  11. Wishing you guys pure bliss forever

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  12. Sounds very mature.

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  13. I love their union. God continue to keep them

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  14. This guy seem unromantic πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£
    Which one is 'my friend' na?
    I guess the sparks grew and didn't start from the beginning...
    I like love at first sight 😍 lol

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    1. Does love at first sight even exist. I think it's just a fairytale.
      Maybe you say attraction at first sight..i.e I was attracted to this person the first time we met

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    2. Chichi I believe it does cos it happened to me. Didn't believe it before.

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    3. I believe in love at first sight o, it has happened to me oooo. To start finding the spark is a long thing abeg

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    4. Lust at first sight u mean. Slow burn and friends to lovers is better and longer lasting jere.

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  15. My favorite couple at the moment. i love them. May the Lord uphold your union. Yours must work in Jesus.

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  16. This guy is a sensible being and Blessing is blessed to have him. may God protect and bless this marriage

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  17. His answers to the last question makes so much sense. God bless your home/marriage.

    Both of them can act ehn!

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  18. Sound mature
    May God continue to uphold your home πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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  19. I like him and his response

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  20. I wish them a blissful marriage.

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  21. May God uphold your union Stan and Blessing.

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  22. May God continue to bless your home

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  23. Congrats stan, without Christ in a home, marriage becomes a nightmare

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  24. I like! Very sensible response. Everyone can pick a thing or two from here

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  25. He sounded so real. No sugar coating. It's God that keeps marriage and then you both do your own part.

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  26. A successful together forever I wish you both

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  27. Wishing you a blissful marriage my people.

    Lina

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  28. God bless your home continuously. My

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  29. God continue to bless your home. She looks like a good home maker. I love Stan

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  30. God bless your home Nze n blessing. Amen

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  31. Mature responses. May God uphold your home always amen.

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  32. Please I hope that rumour about he and osas aren't true cos hmmmm osas is hot o

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    1. Pls stop. If he was going 4 hotness he would have married someone even hotter than Osas. Don't project ur insecurities on them

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  33. May God continue to bless your union.. Wishing you pure bliss in your marriage

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  34. For this chubby and beautiful lady to get married to Stan Nze. That means I have hope of getting a fine and godly guy cus I have this lady physique.

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    1. Madam pray for Gid to send you your own. Stop conditioning your blessings on another person’s. Nawao

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    2. Difference between you and people your size that have what they want is that they believe they are deserving of it no matter what they look like. You are still using your weight as an obstacle for why ur not married yet but if u believe deep down u can still get the fine man of your choice, then it will be true for you.

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  35. I so much love his answer to the question asked..
    God will continue to bless your home 🏑🏑🏑

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  36. She is not fat. She is just a bit chubby.

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    1. Abeg she is fat. I am fat also. I don't know why everyone is afraid of saying someone is fat. The only time saying fat or skinny or slim is when it is said like an insult or condescending manner

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  37. Find wholesomeness in God first, I like thisπŸ‘Œthe essence of a Long lasting marriage is making God the sure foundation .

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  38. He is so right ✅ marriage is not for broken people ,looking for who to fix them, but for whole people, whose confidence is in God. Who will ever think that this guy who dyes his hair different colors ,could ever reason like this; in the spirit. The wife is highly favored. Sometimes we need to look inwards with vetting people for marriage.

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    1. πŸ‘ŒπŸΎ

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    2. So if someone dyes hair different colours, does it affect the brain? Many of you with your unilateral hair colour reason so primitively.

      "Sometimes we need to look inwards with vetting people for marriage."

      Sometimes???
      Sometimes??????

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    3. 15:21,

      Most times, I just ignore some comments. Let them continue with their warped idea/s of what makes and ideal marriage/relationship.

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    4. That's how they keep falling for external facade

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  39. This is what true love is. God bless your home Mazi and Lolo. There’s hope for me listening to their testimony. Lolo is a black beauty. I love them.

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