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Wednesday, August 10, 2022

WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS....

 Hailings.......










IN HOUSE NEWS

Hellooooo, its me!

How the go dey go?

Until the next giveaway, let us remember that this is a Blog and i am a Journalist, so let us revert to Blog mode until further notice. no more giveaway talks.. Thank you.

Kisses and hugs to everyone!











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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD



There are things I learnt randomly while reading about motherhood and child care before I had my first. Bathing children with liquid antiseptic “dettol” and medicated soap is not necessary unless skin issues are involved. Learnt that just one of the two is enough, so one doesn’t kill off both the good and bad bacteria on the skin.

Bathing new born baby twice in a day is said to unnecessary since babies don’t move about really. A warm wet clothe is okay to wipe away any dirt or milk product on the baby. Bathing a baby twice daily is said to dry out the skin.

White powder should be avoided around a baby’s nose and face because it is said to cause breathing issues in babies.

Nothing apart from gel and sometimes spirit should be used for the umbilical cord. All other method of applying heat and so on is said to be unnecessary.

Baby should not be shaken vigorously and thrown up and down, the neck muscles of a baby is said to be weak and shaking it can cause permanent brain damage. Also babies should not be lifted up with their hands ,it can get dislocated.

Baby metholatum rub and eucalyptus oil should be avoided for babies. Baby metholatum ontains eucalyptus oil. The cineole present in eucalyptus oil can create nervous and breathing-related problems in babies. It's is also known to cause stomach issues in babies. Yet its the go too for African moms for cold and congestion

Newborns to six months old don’t need water. Breast milk it's sufficient and a constantly breast fed baby can't be dehydrated because breast milk is made up of eighty seven percent water.

Herbs should be avoided also ( drinking) for new born.





A new born baby if not born with sickness does not need much until they are a little older..
Please do not bath your new born baby twice a day......








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IJEOMAS GIST CORNER
IDO OSU



Today I want to go the traditional way as a proud local babe that I am.  I really  do not know how to translate the headline to English, biko pardon, maybe you'll understand it as you read through or someone can help out, special shout out to XP momma

     This topic came to mind because of the plenty happenings in my local and part of our culture 

   Ido osu is like appeasing the gods of the land to calm their anger or to stop killings in an extended family.  And to stop these sudden deaths, alot of money is required, money that runs into millions is what is required to get the items to appease the gods, which is why people in my local try not to get involved in anything that has to do with the gods. Of course there is freedom of worship, everybody stays in their lane. 

    Sometimes ago, I anchored a seminar in the church and we were trying to balance things up and know people's opinions. Alot of people believe there is nothing like deity, evil spirits and gods of a land, while others believe that God did not take power from Satan and that spiritual forces abounds. It was really an interesting program. Some believe we should give Ceaser what belongs to ceaser and God what belongs to God. 


1.What side are you

2. As a Christian, if you're summoned in a shrine, will you attend?

Back to the topic. My friends father is one of those terrorizing the villa with his charms, he has manipulated a lot of people, even his kids knows. He takes peoples land forcefully, just recently the gods visited him and he must do the 'Ido osu',  if not an entire generation will be wiped out. 



His son who returned from the abroad Has to use the money he's supposed to use for his projects to do Ido osu. This man knew the land he was dragging wasn't his own, he went as far as paying people to accompany him to the shrine to turn the face of the gods in his favor, guess what happened, his witness was killed, another was a given warning.


  Just few weeks ago, a man died and it was rumourd that an evil spirit killed him, why?

He was having issues with someone and the other man went to summon him in a shrine. He was sent for to clear himself, but he refused to attend. When the time he was given was exhausted, they sent the deity after him and now he's no more...


The koko now be sey, no member of his household is safe, which is why people avoid these kind of cases. If his family doesn't go to that shrine to do the idu osu, everyone will be wiped out. And to do the idu osu no be moimoi where I come from, if you no get money, you go sell property tire. 

  Another one is currently going on in one of the largest family in my villa right now. These people live in a very large compound like 1/3 of the community, they share things in common. Someone came to ask for one of their daughter's hand in marriage and paId the dowry. They usually share the money realized amongst themselves no matter how small. But the parents and the immediate family of this girl didn't bring out the money as was the norm. The others got angry and decided to do otherwise 

Two of them went to the village shrine to cry that they want to divide the family , naso people begin die for the family. Both young and old and even people that didn't know what these evil men went to do also died. 

My prayers everyday is 'what I do not know or partake in will never know or claim my life'. Let owners of evil loads carry their loads. Ometrani Jeh, isseee

   My sis always say that juju na useless and senseless thing, e go harm people wey no know anything leave the people wey bring the cause, but I refuse it for me and my household.  These deity is going about killing innocent, young, bright and the light of these families. People just dey fear now for that family, they've been calling meetings upon meetings to look for how to raise the money to do the appeasing 

 I was told the priest of the shrine where they went to cry will be the one to tell them what to buy for the idu osu. Cow dey oh, tortoise, goats, fowls, baskets, omu, and all the ngwakatra na ngwakatras

 Some people sey these things don't work yet on weekends like this, cars go park in front of these juju priest doormots dey find one thing or the other. These ido osu is one culture or tradition I really do not like.












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MONDAY CHRONICLES POSTER



Hey Stella! 

Please help me post. I just want to clarify some comments concerning my Chronicles. 


Some bv's said am scared of my husband.no am not scared of him, as a matter of fact I have discussed the issue of his elder sister dropping her kids in my house in the past.i told him is not convenient for me because the children are stressing me seriously beside their grandmother is alive which is my mother inlaw she should drop her kids for her mother not me, and he agreed with me that is not easy for me; the only problem is that he has refused to address his sister concerning that.


 Whenever his family wrongs me he is always aware that what they do is wrong but his problem is confronting his family or resolving issues pertaining his family is zero, as he would just be mute or pretend even if his offended. That is one of my major issues with him, he doesn't know how to put his family in their place and I don't want to do that on his behalf so they don't tag me as a bad wife or someone trying to take their son away from them that's why I wished he can handle his family or defend me to them as I don't want to get involved in inlaw trouble.


I am a very calm person and I try to avoid any thing that will trigger problem and I also find it hard confronting people no matter how they might have wrong me,I think that is my weakness that's why my in-laws are using it for their advantage.


 The only people am very open to are my siblings n mum,I can tell them anything and if they are wrong I can still confront them I just find it hard seeing my hubby letting his family do whatever they want even though he knows is wrong and won't say anything. 

Some one said am a pretender that's why my husband married me.thats not true,have always been my self from the on set, It is my husband that wants me to become someone else, because according to him all married women are supposed to be homely, like taking care of the chores and kids alone. 

He knew the kind of person I was before he married me,he waited till he married me before he started complaining to my family that i am lazy,I don't like waking up early, I don't cook early, I don't perform my wife duties. I was shocked hearing all that because he never acted like that was a problem before and after some months we got married. 


It was when his younger sister though she is older than me came to spend some weeks with us before leaving, came around that he started seeing so many errors in me. but we've been leaving peacefully before she came so why now. He even accused me of not liking his family, that am not happy they're around, I won't cook for them...the accusations was much, I was just surprised all that was coming from him never knew he was pretending all along.


 My family had to call me to caution me, that was when I decided to change for peace to reign even though I wasn't happy with him. About him being so attached to his family, I never knew that about him because we were not residing at the same location with his family so I never knew how attached he was to them till we relocated due to work reasons to same location with his family, that's when I started seeing another side of my husband have never seen before,to think I felt I knew him I was just realising the person I got married to as his family made him reveal his real self to me.


 I really don't know if I still love him as am still getting to know him because whom I thought I feel in love with is not same person am seeing right now. My story is really long don't really have strength to type





Na wah.............I really dont know what to say but it looks like your husband does not want to confront his family for reasons best known to him and maybe for your good.. Please find your way to handling these people......







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PINKYS CORNER
SLAVERY IN DISGUISE



This is not funny again and I'm beginning to get worried about how some parents train up their child most especially the males. It is so disheartening and heart-breaking to see a man treat his wife like trash.


Using myself as a case study(my wife will bear me witness cuz she is a bv also). My younger sister who came visiting never for once stressed my wife because they all know my rules. They know I so much accord respect to my wife and also respect my family and I don't combine both based on my kind of person.


Men should learn how to work hand-in-hand with their spouse for peace and love to reign. As for me, on Saturdays, it's either I'm busy washing the clothes and she is busy cooking and cleaning the environment or other way round. I do this not because it's part of me but because I love and cherish my wife and making her happy will automatically leads to submission.(I don't need to force her or command her to be submissive).


Men should note that, stressing your wife won't make her look sexy like those chicken  legs you are running after after close of work because she has being over stressed by your negligence and wickedness towards HOUSE CHORES coupled with the kids at home..it's very unfair as a man who knows what it takes to a responsible father and a reliable husband to a virtue woman.


Women on the other hand should be very careful and patient in choosing a partner because all that glitters are not gold because before, na woman Dem say make we train well but now, reverse is the case because when you see the way some men treat their wives, you will think they sold her to him. 


Men should please stop the following

*stop stressing your wife
*Help her out with house chores
*Appreciate her always
*Learn to make your families take responsibility of anything done when they visit you and stop turning her to a slave
*Put yourself in her shoes and consider her before taking any actions.


Have said my own but I know the strong head will still saying I'm talking trash.
We move::





It is easier said than done sometimes....... Just keep being good to your woman.








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273 comments:

  1. Divine Health Confessions!!

    I am the best of God’s creation because His Word of truth gave birth to me. This truth abides in me and produces the life of righteousness, glory, excellence, and divine health in me. There’s no space for sickness because I’m full of the life of God.

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  2. I am thanking God for strength and life.
    We welcome IHN. Please stay safe out there, this country is scary with all the news coming out of it.

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    1. Awwww.... Thank God. Your healing is permanent. 😘

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    2. Your healing is permanent in Jesus name πŸ™

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    3. Divine strength is your portion in Jesus Name

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    4. Congratulations Miss Ess, thank God you are getting better.

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    5. Welcome back Miss Ess, I wish you speedy and total recovery.

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    6. So happy for you Ess.
      Your healing is permanent Amen πŸ™πŸ»

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    7. I'm thanking God on your behalf..
      Your healing is permanent.

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    8. Double congratulations to you as a co recipient of the magnanimous give away and divine healing. Your healing is permanent in Jesus name. Amen.

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    9. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    10. Thank God for you dear πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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  3. Today may our labour never be in vain. Let the mercies of God continually locate us in Jesus name πŸ™.
    GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY

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  4. Good morning/afternoon my neighbours, reporting live from Toronto Canada!
    The last 1.5 week for me has been so hectic eeeee, but grateful for journey mercy for family and I as we finally landed on monday morning.
    Fam please send a word of prayer our way as we settle in this new land.

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    1. Success, happiness ,divine health i pray for you and your family

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    2. Congratulations, the land will favour you and your family

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    3. Wow πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ congratulations SisπŸŽ‰πŸŽŠ I'm so happy for you,God will help and favor you and yours πŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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    4. Wow ,I am so happy for you and your family,Dainty T. Please do settle in well. I am next in line o. Have a fruitful stay

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    5. Congratulations
      God be with you and your family in the land

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    6. Congratulations. God bless you

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    7. May the land yield increase for you and your family

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    8. Congratulations. This is such a great news!πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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    9. Congratulations, I wish you well

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    10. Congrats on "japaing".😁 May the land favour you.

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    11. Thank you all @ Fidel, anon, Olori jojo, Paris, Sensational, mummy pp, big mama, Helen. I say amen to the prayers.

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    12. Congratulations πŸ‘‹
      Happy for you.

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    13. Congratulations Dainty. May that land favor you and your family.
      Na this kind thing I dey like tag, God I need this for my family.

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    14. Big congratulations dearest. The land of Canada will favour you and yield to you her increase. Enjoy God's mercy

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    15. Congrats to you and your family dear. May it favour you in Jesus name...Amen

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    16. Congrats, e go better for una.

      Lekwam le Canada in Ada Owerri voice.

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    17. Congratulations πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    18. Congratulations to you
      God will favour you and your family πŸ™

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    19. Congratulations

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    20. Congratulations 🍾 πŸ₯‚
      May God flourish you and yours in Canada

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    21. Awwww... Congratulations to you and the family πŸ₯³πŸ₯³πŸ₯³πŸ₯³. May the land favour you and your family

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    22. Congratulations πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ
      Emi lo kan

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  5. If truly you believe your body is the temple of God, please take your bath regularly and maintain good hygiene. Make you no con righteous for earth finish, then body odor make you miss heaven...
    I come in peace. 🚢🚢.
    SDK Yard Pipo, Una Gud Afternoon....
    #ALiSpeaks

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  6. Good afternoon y'all
    I'm so sleepy at work ehn. Didn't get enough sleep last night.

    Enjoy the rest of your day people πŸ’•

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    1. Pele oh

      Why didn't you get enough sleep last night?? πŸ€”πŸ€”

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    2. Body no be wood. Work and rest

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  7. I dey hungry. Be right back.

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  8. chronicle poster you should find a way t balance it or speak to your husband to find out why he cannot defend his wife. Your husband cannot tell his family to stay clear his wife, that man no get liver at all.

    if you don't place boundaries you will continue to suffer in your marriage.

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  9. IHN Don land
    My people , how.una dey
    @motherhood corner, thanks for the info, same with Stella, thanks.
    @pinky, pls keep it up, don't allow people change your mind or how you treat your wife.
    Lots of❤️
    πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

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  10. Good afternoon All, Monday chronicles poster may God help you, that last image gat me Thinking πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€” d words loud o

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  11. Good afternoon my yard people

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  12. Who here watches The Boys series on Amazon prime? Oh please do! But it's rated 18 o!

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. Na that kind 18+ you dey like.
      We go do you deliverance here one day. Lol

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    2. I didn’t like it when I watched,I managed to watch all episodes of season 1

      Alexa

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  13. IHN is hereπŸ’ƒ
    Good Afternoon All

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  14. Noted Stella

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  15. Hugs and Kisses well received mama. Good afternoon Stella mama and BVs.

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  16. Hello IHN....I came early today. I wish us all a pleasant day ahead.

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  17. Poster please put a stop to these excesses before you die out of stress. When next they visit without informing you go and lie down and fake sickness.

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  18. Welcome IHN 🧑
    Greetings everyone

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  19. I believe this country will be great again...

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  20. Good afternoon beautiful people πŸ’œ.

    May evil not triumph over good people in Nigeria anymore. πŸ™

    The closing words on marble, I'm me Even behind closed doors. I try to live according to Christian law. Love your neighbors as thyself..
    Ps:I'm not perfect.

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  21. Today I'm feeling so good after having a meeting with myself last night.
    I assured myself that everything will be fine. It will only take time.

    May God bless our hustle πŸ™

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  22. "Don’t judge or hate a whole group of people based on the actions of a few, hate people one a**hole at a time."

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  23. Good afternoon everyone. I have been following this site since 2 months now. This is my second time to comment.
    Pls I want to know if it's for christians only , I'm asking because I am a Muslim. .
    Thank you all.

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    1. Its not only for Christains
      And I make friday post too every friday

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    2. C'mon, it's for everyone. You are welcome. Good afternoon

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    3. You're welcome. Know that this space is for everyone. Christians, Muslims and even Traditionalists (lol) visit the blog and you'll surely enjoy every bit.

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    4. It's for everyone. Welcome on board.

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    5. We are multi religious. You are equally welcome here as a Muslim but pls maintain decorum and respect for other people's faith.

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    6. No sir. The site is for humans regardless of their faith.

      I feel your question is kind of insensitive though...

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    7. No dear. The space is for all. We have Muslims here too. Just keep contributing.

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    8. Thank you everyone. I"m a student (female, 20yrs) and find here so educative.
      I will like to be known as Miss H.
      How do I get ID

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    9. This blog is for everyone, be u Muslim or atheist, Buddhist etc... You are welcome to the blog...I hope u love it here n comment often.πŸ€—

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    10. If I say I understand this comment,na lie I dey lie. You mean to say what exactly?

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    11. Welcome Miss H, the blog is for everyone. You will like it here.

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    12. HOW TO GET A BLOG ID

      1) Go to Blogger.com and sign up first..Then after signing in,visit the Blog and locate the "comment Box" on any post of your choice(You would see your email signed in from the Drop-down menu)..

      Now click on that letter "B" by your left which is where your photo is supposed to be displayed..

      2) A page would be shown,then click on "EDIT PROFILE" at the top,by your right..

      3) Scroll down and locate "PROFILE PHOTO" then click on "CHOOSE FILE" and select any picture of your choice..
      Be patient and allow it load properly(a spinning circle) then scroll down and click on "SAVE"..

      4) To edit your BLOG ID,scroll down and click on "PROFILE NAME" then edit it to any pseudonym of your choice..

      Hope this helps..

      @MARTINS

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  24. All sufficient God!!! The Immortal. Thanks for a successful trip back to Port Harcourt. Will leave for Bayelsa very early tomorrow morning. Mehn e no easy but a man get to survive.

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    1. Your going out and coming back will be blessed with testimony

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  25. It's only in Nigeria women continue to suffer in marriages for peace with her "in laws". Until you get exhausted and stressed to illness that's when you realise your peace of mind matters.

    You are not a slave to your inlaws...you're a wife to their son and if you don't act like it, this is what the rest of your life will look like.

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  26. Hello everyone ❤❤❤ Good afternoon y'all. Hope we are all good.
    Paris Savannah darling 😍😍🌹 hope you are good, thanks for always checking on me.
    Essah hunny πŸ’•πŸ’• hope you are recuperating. To God be the glory.
    Choc noir sweet, hope you are strong and good πŸŒ»πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸŒ·. God bless you as always.
    Love you girls to the moon and back.
    Wishing everyone here love and light ❤❤πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’•πŸ’•

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    1. Thanks Momma πŸ’•❤️πŸ’• so good reading from you..love you plenty πŸ’–πŸ’–

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    2. Good to see your comment here momma, yes I am doing well now. Sending you plenty of love darlπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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  27. Good afternoon good people of SDK. Thanks again and again oooo to blog angels in human form. this blog has really proved to me times over that God never fails and He will always come through even when one feels all hope is lost. Angel Koof and Angel SDK!! Thank You!!

    IHN welcome.

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  28. Thanks Motherhood poster for all you write.Your column is quite educative.I have heard about not bathing new babies twice but I usually feel like bathing twice.Please at what age is it advised that they bath twice in a day without problems?

    Good afternoon fam😍

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  29. @Monday chronicle, for how long will you keep ignoring the ills of your in-laws, no matter how good you're,some in-laws will still tag you a bad wife. And you cannot please all of them, so just do you.

    Well done@pinky.
    A happy woman makes a happy home.

    Hello IHN!

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  30. Welcome IHN

    Who am I when no one is watching?πŸ€”πŸ€”

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  31. Good day everyone.
    Motherhood mama,nice one and all noted.
    Ijeoma's gist..hmmm I naturally don't believe in evil spirit but recent stories are making me digress.
    Chronicle poster,stand your ground on any decision you take,don't be a pushover.
    Pinky,I wan copy and save this your opinion for my future husband,E make sense daiii.
    Sign out; I'm still the same jolly good fellow with good intentions.
    Ok bye.

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  32. Good afternoon all!

    Well said Pinky, may God bless your home.

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  33. I passed my driving theory exam oh πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½. The tension ehn. Failed only one out of 30 questions. The fear of 350 euros na ya mate????

    Kai, so relieved. Now remaining to face the main one, the battle of the gods.

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  34. I made my first 1k from tailoringπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌπŸ’ƒπŸΌ during sallah my neighbor wanted making dresses for her and her kids but she didn't have money so u told her to get the materials that i will do it for her
    She was not too sure whether to give me or not...she finally did and the dresses came out nice with the help of my madam( cutting instructions)

    Initially we agreed on 1k per dress but when she gave me 1k and promised to pay the balance later I just told her not to border
    That she boasted my moral by giving me the dresses plus she no too get like that

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  35. Poster, hear yourself.
    "He knew the kind of person I was before he married me, he waited till he married me before he started complaining to my family that I am lazy, I don't like waking up early, I don't cook early, I don't perform my wife duties. I was shocked hearing all that because he never acted like that was a problem before and after some months we got married."
    So if you were like this when you were single, you did not think you should do better in marriage abi?

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  36. Praise God, The acquaintance of mine her husband and four children have finally been released from bandits after been held captive by the abuja-kaduna train kidnappers.
    Pls appreciate God with me.

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    1. o my God! Congratulations. i pray God grant them fast recovery from the trauma of all they've gone through. More safety on us all Amen

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    2. Thank God for them. It's wonderful that they came out safe and no life was lost. Praise God!

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    3. Aww thank God for them,I was so happy when I saw the news. The Lord is GoodπŸ™Œ

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    4. Glory be God for his faithfulness.

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    5. Wow! Thank God they back, safe and sound.

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    6. Thank you Jesus πŸ™
      This is good news

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  37. So, I will be married to a man, and the sister will bring 4 toddlers for holiday without any help and I won't say anything? If they're teens, that can care for themselves good, but toddlers? Then I won't say pim to the sister? Okay nah. I can't even let my own family stress me like that, talk more of my in-laws that tomorrow won't even appreciate it. Them dey look person face sha. Cos from day1,I will show you my limit. No time. Just imagine such stress

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  38. Good afternoon my SDK Family, do have a great day.

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  39. Welcome IHN
    All I ask is for strength to carry nd move on cos d burden is much

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    1. Be strong Sis. There are trying times and favorable seasons. May things turn out positive for you.

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  40. Welcome IHN
    All I ask is for strength to carry nd move on cos d burden is much

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  41. Women who have good and God fearing hubby should value and pamper him because they are rare out there

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  42. This can only be God!

    My brother has been discharged, and the case is settled

    It can only be God!

    #totalrestoration#greatnewbeggining#

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    1. May your strength be renewed as a new dawn. Please hang on and keep pushing.

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  44. Madam chronicle, tell him you want to be pampered by your parents and siblings, pray and travel. I don't like men that can't stand up for their wives. I thank God for my husband. Everybody dey dia dey. Also, if you are tired, leave the chores and rest/sleep, work no dey finish. Get a good food warmer, put his food every night and go and sleep. In fant, tell his sis, that you plan sending your kids to their mother (MIL) for holiday so that you'll rest.

    Pinky keep loving and helping her.

    Ijeoma, some people thought those things don't exist, they do well a. I heard that in my place now, people go to the shrine to summon people, if you refuse na kpai. Esp when you dupe someone, the aggrieved person will have no option than to visit the shrine n complain just to get his/her money back. One guy that reside in Abuja died few years back. One guy sold his land n gave him the money to do Dubai visa for him, guy ate it and refused to pay back, well the shrine served him a paper to appear before it, he thought it was a joke. They don't bury that kind of death, na troway.

    We should be very careful in this life.

    'Ometere buru'

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  45. Good Afternoon Beautiful People!

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  46. BV pinky,na man you be. Chop knuckle πŸ‘Š

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  47. πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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  48. Pinky, you are very right. I see no reason why men shouldn't do chores around the house. It's their home too for crying out loud!
    If I can go out and bring money to the table for the family, I see no reason why my hubby can't do chores too. You are not helping out, you are taking care of your house!!

    Women, train your sons. No one should be left out of home training.

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  49. Good afternoon peeps, my golden heart angel Koof and angel Stellicoco, I salute you specially

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  50. @IJ I believe your story, this deities are the new norm for some people, they consult it even on the simplest matters and it very deadly too.
    @Chronicle writer, it's well with you, pls do all you can to stand on your right, don't allow anyone bully you in your marriage. You are not a slave to anyone OK.
    Good afternoon.

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  51. @pinky. God bless you. Just do your part and make your home healthy.
    Don't die in silence. Nobody receives award as the most suffered or most endured woman. Saw a former colleague yesterday and my soul has not had peace. She was a vibrant sweet jolly good fallow. She use to tell.me then that the office is the only place she has peace and rest. Closing hour gives her panic attack because of the man she married. She made up her mind not to leave because of her children. She has been jobless for a while and the home front has dealth with her. She looked very unkept and old. We discussed for few minutes because we saw by the road side where I went for supply. God please help homes. Do not allow Satan win in marriages.

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  52. Let me share my experience. My husband has no issues whatsoever with helping with house chores. I'm a stay-at-home mum for now. I do some little online businesses from time to time. I don't earn much at all but it's better than nothing. My husband's job is quite flexible, so it allows him time to help with house chores. We recently moved to an environment where people see it as a strange thing for a man to do house chores (despite the fact that some of these people know that I cannot do everything alone as we have no one staying with us. We have a baby and a toddler).

    I know how to ignore side talks and snide remarks thrown my way. My husband does too but I noticed recently that such talks were getting to him. I gently and codedly advised him not to let how other people feel or live their lives affect our marriage. Thought all was well until he stopped helping out with chores. Just before he stopped, he made a statement that anything he does around the house is just to help me and nothing more. I felt very bad. Then I asked him, when I add my money to any amount he gives me to buy provisions and the countless times I buy things for the home from my pocket, why doesn't he see it as me helping him and nothing more? In fact, if I mistakenly ask for a refund of part of any money I spend, he would say I did it for the home and should not expect a refund. Supporting the home financially was never a big deal for me. I only pointed it out because of the statement he made.

    For about two weeks, he wasn't doing anything concerning house chores. I kept quiet, didn't complain. During the two-week period, he asked me to buy a certain provision with my money, I gently told him I didn't have money for such. He knew I was lying but kept quiet. Although, I was still buying some little stuff I needed for the children and me with my money o. And he knew.

    Guess what happened last night? I broke down. He's home now. Had to take the day off. He's been doing the dishes, laundry, babysitting, cooking etc since daybreak, while I've been on bed rest and medication. I only breastfeed and eat.

    He's a good man honestly. I hope he realizes now that he can't afford to stop being himself because of what people think. If I break down from doing too much work, who suffers it?

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  53. Weldone jaree Pinky, God continue to uphold your home.
    Motherhood poster more power to your elbow.
    Pearl, Thank God for your brother.
    Bear hug everyone πŸ€— as the day progresses ✌️

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  54. Lovely afternoon less stress today but I love this weather 😍 good afternoon folks πŸ˜€

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  55. Good afternoon people of SDK villa.

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  56. Good afternoon.

    The woman going through motherhood, I agreed with you. Even all this drugs new mummy's buy for their babies ( vitamin c,cod liver oil,abedec) that our Africa mum will tell us to give our baby. Doctor's are against expect if the baby is not feeling well.

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  57. Good afternoon beautiful people of God.

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  58. Somebody says he's tired of life ,he wan die, dem tell am to drop him ATM, guy man said kuku kill me,

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  59. Some of you ehn, your audacity is smelling. As in stinking. You won't face your gbagaun riddled gibberish that you leave like rat droppings all over the place, you are coming to check somebody else's comment. Somebody who is jejely facing his life and minding his business. Talmabout he should not be using abbreviations in his comment.... IN HIS OWN COMMENT?????? As per you be owner of the blog.
    Is that the first comment you are seeing with abbreviations here???
    Lolllll true true ori e ti daru. Always looking for ways to display your brightly coloured daft.ness.

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  60. Wahalurr
    Ok yes some mothers or grandma's do too much for newborns, maybe out of ignorance.
    Maybe nurses should educate new moms more to help situation.
    Monday chronicle poster just have a talk with your hubby & if he doesn't do the needful then you dovwhta need to be done to jelp yourself

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  61. Good day house, happy new month. Please Mr Martins, how do I contact you to make inquiries about a good laptop for my brother, his birthday is on the 23rd and this would really make him happy.
    Thank you Stella for this platform

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    1. Hi Nonyelum,kindly use the details on my Bio lets serve you the best..Thanks

      @MARTINS

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  62. Pinky pinky. Wait fess make money enter, I understand you're trying to make up to your wife from lacking some things,make money enter hand,you won't be doing all this. I do pass you that time.

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  63. God bless you Pinky..I like it when men defend their wives from their family

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  64. Light don dey here since two days now..what is really happening oooo

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