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Saturday, September 03, 2022

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative......

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Hello SDK, After reading Sunday's Chronicle, I was touched in a way to drop mine, which has something to do with another past chronicle or so, posted some months back. 


Where the posters made reference to dating a guy she meet on singles and mingle who she thought was struggling only to have come to realise that he is actually comfortable. And she severed ties for 3 months while the guy begged for reconciliation, until he couldn't take it anymore and broke up eventually with her. So I'm getting married in October to this same man - a man of my dream. 



Well dear poster, I already asked your permission to post this and thanks for granting it. As we happened to have met each other trice before your break up, and introduced you as his girlfriend and I, a friend. And the first time we met also happens to be my first time of meeting him in person, we laughed about this too when we got talking. 



Understand that I only started dating your ex months afterwards but we have always been friends from an edition of the single and mingle 3 years prior to the one that connected you guys. Just like you, I wasn't comfortable with his disposition in the friendship we shared. So when he asked that we get into a relationship I declined because I wasn't comfortable either. Like what manner of guy doesn't see anything wrong in calling a woman he is interested in. And yes I understood your fears and reservations with him - I had more of those too until we fell off from being friends who chatted everyday to once in a while. But we never blocked each other. 



I had more reservations honestly about him than you did - at least I shared this with you in one of the 3 times we met. And I also remember telling you that I had come to understand him better and realise he is a good man in and out. That if only I could turn back the hands of time to when he asked me for a relationship, I would jump at the chance if the opportunity ever presents itself again. Because he is a very good guy, such time any right thinking lady would decide to get married to. And you acknowledged that you have a great guy in him. 



Which we laughed to as you told me you already know that. I'm sorry you guys broke up. But like they say, one man's disappointment might be another's blessing. Indeed he was struggling when you two met, we talked about that as friends prior. Although he doesn't look like someone who is struggling, but like the husband of Sunday's chronicle, he too is a laid back guy but also very smart. He has this uniqueness of not being overwhelmed by the struggles around him.



 Being a distant friend with him, made me see some of those qualities I didn't realise he had. So when he told me you both are done with the relationship, that you refused to forgive him from finding out he lived comfortably. That he is done and will need to heal, then see if there's any reason to still search for love or go on a sabbatical. For 2 months we didn't exchange any chat/message. 



Until I reignited my interest in our friendship again, and the rest has now become history







WOW



55 comments:

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    1. Wetin you want make person talk? Carry go jare

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    2. Anonymous4 September 2022 at 00:13
      Poster wishing you all the best. Ya'll should move on. One thing I know about life is what is meant to be is meant to be. There is no winner or loser, though it seems so atimes. Invite us to come chop rice and jaiye when the time comes. πŸ’ƒπŸΎ

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  2. Nothing do you sister πŸ˜…

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    1. You sure say nothing do her so?

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    2. Why is the poster apologising?
      Something is fishy.

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    3. Why are you apologizing since yesterday ?
      I hope that all is well with three of you. I am so happy for you, if your hands are clean and if not please remember karma is real. I am not judging you, this is just my observations about your chronicle.

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    4. Why are you apologizing since yesterday ?
      I hope that all is well with three of you. I am so happy for you, if your hands are clean and if not please remember karma is real. I am not judging you, this is just my observations about your chronicle.

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  3. If what you wrote is true then I think you are a noble lady. If they truly broke up and you had no hand in it. Pls go ahead. It is well with you


    Zendaya

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  4. Good for both of you, ex shouldn't be angry now. One man's poison is another's meat

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  5. Enjoy your relationship, life 🧬 happens!

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  6. This story get as e be. I wish you all the best dear

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  7. I am sorry but the essence of this post is?

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    1. I want to know too.
      Why do u see the need for this explanation when u can just see or call to tell her..
      They were done before u started a relationship with him so abeg enjoy your marriage.

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    2. I tire, u both have talked about it so what is the essence of bringing it here?

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    3. Honestly… don’t seem to understand why this is necessary

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  8. Happy reignition and happy wedding. Well done

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  9. 😲

    It's easy to judge.
    It's more difficult to understand.
    Understanding requires compassion, patience, and a willingness to believe that good hearts sometimes choose poor methods.
    Through judging, we separate. Through understanding, we grow.
    ~Doe Zantamata

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  10. I felt dizzy😡reading this.
    Una well done.

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    1. Ah tor! I think say na only me. Pleeeeeeenty English, round and round in circles, busy saying nothing. Abi e get any info pass "I'm marrying my friends ex?" So why didnt you call your so called friend to plead on his behalf, did you do your part to see if they could come back together. Did you make any effort at all? No matter how minimal? Scavenger.
      Any man that will be testing me for whatever reason, all I can say is I'm sorry for you.

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    2. I thought it was just me. At a point I just decided to read dey go like that

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  11. How are we sure you did not encourage your friend to break the relationship so that you can come in ?anyway your and you know the real story.Karma is a beast if you are guilty but if you are not ,no problem happy life ahead

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  12. Good luck
    Since poster found out he was comfortable and refused to accept him back,it shows it's not a matter of being comfortable, other factors could have been involved.Goodluck o

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    1. I read that chronicle. She wanted back. But the man was gone after 3 moons of begging that Poster.

      I said it that this Poster and the other female ex are Bvs here. Stella, I don dey learn from you small small o.

      #thelsokoman

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    2. If I could remember the lady begged him after he paid her back all the money she has spent on him. Why did she waste so much time from forgiving the guy after she find out he was very comfortable?

      Her lost, next time she should just do small shakara and accept the person back if you still want him. You should flex your man.

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    3. it could be a trust issue. i dont see anything wrong the lady did. We all have our ways of dealing with things.

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  13. This triangle is getting too long, is this the continuation of yesterday's chronicle? Ko ye mi mehn.
    Congratulations to the love birds

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  14. I don't even know what to say. But I think that we all will marry someone's ex , as far as you had no hand in their breakup.
    May God direct you both.
    ✌️

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  15. I guess this is the chronicle poster of yesterday. This is where it started...Toh

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  16. Bad guy!!! I greet you specially!!!
    We gather dey.

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  17. πŸ›ŒπŸ›ŒπŸ›ŒπŸ›ŒπŸ›Œ

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  18. Dis one just de like Nigeria movie...e clear

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  19. Speechless, silent, talkless 🀐🀐🀐🀐

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  20. Am here to read comments to understand so funny comments section una weldone

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  21. U scatter person relationship finish dey type nonsense

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    1. Lolll 🀣 she said she didn’t oo. Let her marry oo

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  22. 🀷🀷🀷🀷

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  23. The shalaying is too much go and sin no more

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  24. ok o.we await the bros in question to send in his own version of this ogbonge gist😏😏

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  25. The emphasis on him being comfortable makes one think that is the predominant reason for wanting to pursue anything with him. People find love in the strangest of places anyways, i hope your connection with him is not for material things.

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    1. Gbam. But then again, who no wan be comfortable?? Especially in this Economy hmmm

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  26. I no like this chronicle..looks like they are mocking someone indirectly..Sorry,I don't just like someone in the picture when I enter a new relationship

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