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Tuesday, October 04, 2022

Boredom Eliminating Post

 

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  1. I see myself as being too gentle. I pray none of my children will be as gentle as I am.

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    1. You want to groom Vawulence FC?

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  2. Worrying so much over what I can't control.

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  3. Stubborn.My son is already showing signs๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฟ‍♀️

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    1. Anon we have a new title for stubborn it’s “strong willed” Don’t call him stubborn anymore inugo☺️

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    2. Stubborn is stubborn. Forget all that 'woke' lingo that that will be pampering rubbish till it tips over the edge.

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  4. My wanting to always be alone. I don't know how to put the English but it is worse than being an introvert. Though my son is an indoor person but he socialise than me. He goes out with his friends, goes to the movies, he hangs out but at the same time can be indoors for a week and cool with it.

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    1. You are a loner,your son is an ambivert and knows how to balance up;very nice trait..

      My fear for core introverts or a loner(in my head) is;what if you faint one day and you are alone??

      @MARTINS

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    2. This is it.
      I don't like going out,I have stayed one month indoors without going outside my house, its even worst to the point I don't like visitors. I really love my space. Maybe na why I never marry. My father is singing marriage in my ears if only he knows his daughter doesn't like to go out. Na God go help me.

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    3. I have stayed same time frame too without going out, except Sundays for Church, and believe me i didn't even know. I have my cousin with me that attends to my needs like Gen and market. If i spray the house cause of mosquitoes i sit at the balcony.
      One of the reasons I like long distance relationships too and maybe why am not married at 40+ and not even bothered. Luckily for me my mom is not on my neck for marriage. I am not outgoing at all and if you see me at your event then you mean the whole wide world to me. I hate crowd, I love being alone, if I enter my room I lock my door behind like am in an hotel. My cousins and mom don't lock theirs but I am trying to see to that.

      Some years ago when I had a shop my son said I can be kidnapped cause i live an obvious l Sundays ifestyle. That people knows my movement Monday-Sunday. Home to shop, shop to house, Wednesday evening shop to Church, Church to home. Then Sundays Church to return home........hahahahahahaha.
      A friend told me that its a depressed lifestyle that I might be low key depressed and I don't know. But no, it is cause of my upbringing. We were these children that they never allowed mix with other children in the street, we were secluded from other children growing up and it affected me a whole lot, at the same time I love it.

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    4. This is my number one problem
      I'm a loner, I love my space, I don't know how to start a conversation and interact with people and lastly I don't know how to keep a friend...

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    5. I'm on this table, but I'm working towards it.

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    6. I love my space too so much more I have forgotten what keeping friendship is about. It is just me, my husband and my siblings and we mostly relate on phone due to distance but I kind of like it, no pressure, no competition around me. One character flaws I won't want my children to inherit is my poor eating, hmm I am a poor eater, in my forties still struggle maintain size 8, and I sometimes reduce to size six but seriously working it.

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    7. Miss Ess and Co e be like sey we plenty ooo. Abi make we form whatsapp group?

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    8. Thought was only me.

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  5. Lateness. I do everything late including eating and sleeping ๐Ÿ™ˆ

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  6. Worry. I worry a lot, even about things that have not happened. I'm working on that sha.

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  7. I get angry easily and lack patience.

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  8. I procrastinate, worry alot and I give up on things easily.

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  9. Trusting people easily.

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  10. I say my mind,I no the fear face,but,my children are calm, except my first daughter,she will just say it n walk away

    Ada ohafia

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  11. Procrastination. I don't take life too seriously. I trust way too easily. I let things slide for peace to reign....
    Abeg, make my children rugged!

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  12. Procrastinating
    Hot temper but thank God for Jesus and His words

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  13. I'm too logical.
    I overthink situations most times that I end up messing it all up.

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    1. Exactly same ish with me. I am too calculative and I hate it sometimes ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ

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  14. Stubborn
    Temperamental but I'm a work in progress
    Impatience

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  15. I am too simple. Like too calm. I don't get angry easily, I don't take things seriously. I'm the type that you slap and I will use my palm to rub the spot and say God will judge you (in my mind o, so I won't collect another slap๐Ÿคฃ)
    This makes people to ride me and cheat me. I don't wish for my kids to take after this.

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  16. I keep to myself ,no friends, stubbornness,

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  17. Quick to anger, very bad character.

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  18. Don't like being an object of attention.
    I worry too much and I think more than I talk.
    Don't easily warm up to people

    Thank God my children are the opposite

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  19. Little things trigger me.

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  20. Quick temper, impatience, always wanting to be loved by others ND if someone does wat I don't like, the only thing dat comes to my head is they don't love me.
    Am getting better now with loving my self ND getting wrapped up with Jesus love

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  21. Public shy.....I fit because of busy road follow another long short lonely road

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  22. Being a people pleaser. I need to learn to stop that rubbish

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  23. I am an introvert would love my kids to be an extrovert.

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  24. Hey God! I overthink, I procrastinate and I worry a lot. I don't wish any of these for any of my kids cos that worrying and overthinking can give one unnecessary headache. I'm working on every every and I can say I'm seeing changes

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  25. Trusting people and procrastination ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  26. I procrastinate alot and I hope my kids don't take that. I hardly trust people. I just deal with them with an open mind so if they mess up, it doesn't affect me too much.

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  27. Miss ess, you are not alone.
    I am like you, add hating all social media's to mine, I hate chatting with passion, I hardly post on my WhatsApp status because I am avoiding the need to respond to people's messages but the funniest thing is that if I am pushed to go out or chat, or gist on phone, I end up enjoying it alot.
    I hate picking calls infact I hate the sound of my phone.
    I don't like going out at all if not for my beautiful daughter.
    People find me strange but I do tell them there are people like me out there only that we are a small percentage.
    Someone just invited me for a small hang out I sent them money instead if attending. How do I explain my situation to her without sounding weird. The funniest part is that my husband understands me perfectly because we are almost the same. We just sit down on weekends and binge netflix

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  28. my mischievousness and stubborness, God forbid any of my kids should end up with such trait๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜” they should have their father's character cause I nor get character at all. I too spoil

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  29. I'm an introvert and I would want my kids to be more out going.
    My friendship with people na for phone e dey end. Whatsapp chats and mails only because phone calls gives me anxiety.

    Online coaching has helped me to mix up with people at work but after work and you want to gum body, you are on your own.

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  30. Procrastination, and I also hate the fact that my fingers are sluggish(I don't know the right word to use, somebody help) lol. No, I am not sluggish but my fingers are. Eg, the clothes that you'll spend 30minutes in washing is what I'll spend 1hour washing. The only thing I know how to do fast with my fingers is writing. When you see me walking briskly you'll think that that's how other aspect of my life is mtcheeww...

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    1. And to undress a lady nko? Lmao

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  31. Do you know that I prefer to watch my films at the comfort of my home than the Cinema? ๐Ÿ˜‚

    I prefer Takeouts than eat in when I visit a restaurant.

    If I'm out on a date I'm thinking home. "abeg make this man talk this talk finish make I dey go home"
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    Night parties? Bro thanks but no thanks. If I have to keep wake it has to be work or prayers.

    When there is no light, I don't care as long as my phone is charged .

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  32. I worry too much this minute I will be happy then the next minute I will be getting so worried that something might spoil my happiness. God please take this anxiety away from me and my daughter should never inherit it.

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    1. Amen! My dear! I pray that the sickness of anxiety stops with you. Amen

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  33. I easily get frustrated especially when looking for something I misplaced.
    I transfer aggression.
    I don't want my children to inherit it

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  34. Anxiety(worry) and over thinking,I overthink and ruin everything, I can think of what you have never thought of before and fly to conclusion. I pray my kids worry less.

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  35. I don't want my kids to inherit my smiling in uncomfortable situations especially my daughter ,I don't know why but when a man is trying to Be touchy I just can't help but smile at their actions even doe I am boiling deep down my face just makes them think I consent until I run off or fight my way out before they get the memo that am not interested and am just making fun of them in my mind .

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    1. You are extremely polite and don't like confrontations or offending people.

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  36. I think I may have ADHD. I think my older daughter may have it too. I can be disorganized, find it hard to learn something if it requires a long period of focus, rush through projects to get it done. On the opposite spectrum ADHD has gifted me with hyperfocus, such that I can focus on studying, getting a project done without eating the whole day. I finally figured out this cheat code when studying for SSCE and scored all As and blasted my jamb with 288. I am a doctor now, practising in the US. I worry for my daughter, and I keep praying for her to find herself. She is smart but can get very distracted and loose focus and start to make silly mistakes in her school work just because she is rushing to finish, to play or watch TV. Her dad is always on her case, though shes only 8, he gets frustrated when he is teaching her. Blog visitors help me pray for her. It breaks my heart to see her struggling, and I dont know how to help her.

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  37. I think I’m very calm. I don’t want my son to have that trait. That’s why I named him Alexander, Bold, Courageous, Defender of men. Don’t be too calm like your mummy biko.

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