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Sunday, January 08, 2023

EX Beauty Queen Anna Banner Reveals That Single Mums Are Stigmatized In Nigeria...

 EX Beauty queen Anna Banner has found her voice and has addressed the problems of being a single mum in Nigeria..



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    1. It is these women who put the label on themselves. You're a MUM! Period! Why attach Single to it? Do you see married women saying "I'm a MARRIED MUM"? When it suits them they brand "Single Mum" like a trophy to say "I'm taking care of my child alone without help from the father." Stop addressing yourselves as Single Mums and just as mums!

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    2. Nigerians are hypocrites. Just have that at d back of your mind and trust me, u can deal with any pressure that follows...
      Raise your child well, u owe him/her that,not what society thinks of you period!

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    3. Nice comment Anon 9:44.

      That's why I love BVs here, we're so smart.

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  2. Sorry oh Anna, I hope you're finally done pinning for Flavour sha?
    The discrimination is the unfortunate truth which is why we keep telling babes to try their absolute best to not fall into the baby mama trap, but some are still not listening.

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  3. That is sad, my dear but do you have a reputation for dating married men or generally irresponsible behaviour? Last I checked, Genevieve is a single mum but doesn't seem to have this problem.

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    1. Anon 08:50, has Genevieve ever told you that she's a single mum? Has Genevieve ever posted a picture with her supposed child and tell you this is my child?

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    2. Anon, where you born in 2019? Who doesn't know Gene daughter chimebuka? These indomie generation be doing the most.

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    3. Anon 9:18's question is whether Genevieve has ever posted that she is a single mum or publicly acknowledged the supposed child. Yes or No?

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    4. @ 10:59
      This your logic get as e bi
      Hahaha

      Licious babe

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    5. Anon Enuka is not Genevieve's daughter abeg!!! We went to the same school fggc akure, and ebuka graduated in 2005, we were roomates.
      How old was Genevieve in 2005?

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  4. That's why you should be, beware of brief delight.

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  5. It's just like people with Pass coming to complain that companies are discriminating them over 1st class candidates..

    Why won't? Why not? There are consequences to every choice you make.. instead of playing victim, trying to manipulate people and deceiving yourself.. focus more on building your personality, have good character, stop supporting trast and acting woke, and pray for God's favour..

    Good luck

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    1. 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Perfectly said!!!
      Dante this year will be good. Are you still on Holiday ?😁.

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    2. 💯👍. That's the truth

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    3. Nicely said Dante....
      Single mothers get level ooo, not the one you open your eyes enter hoping to trap a man wey no send una.

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    4. Actually some companies have realized that the grade in school does not define intelligence so most don't ask for it.

      Anna, be strong.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    5. XO..

      Why you no use am go do Masters without first doing PGD (developing yourself)😏..

      Don't come and be arguing nonsense under my comments this year abeg

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    6. Nna, I didn't get pass in school. I have good grades and intelligence.

      Save that energy for Davido that is a single father of many yet he is regarded him as a high value man.

      Moreover, Masters degree was originally meant for people who would love to enter academia before Nigerians starting getting it like pure water.

      Anna is a high value woman, single mother or not.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    7. Dante
      Price goes before a fall
      You are not an oracle, you are fallible

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    8. XO

      I'm not gon do this with you this year..
      If in your 'intelligence' you still think men and women are judged with same standard.. then all I have to say is keep up with your wokeness🙏👍..

      @16.25

      Hope all is well?

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  6. Babe, it's like u did ur own intentionally
    Cos u know say ur baby daddy dey with Sandra
    My 2cents oh🚶🏻‍♀🚶🏻‍♀🚶🏻‍♀

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    1. Hers was very intentional and annoys me till date. She knew Flavour was in a serious relationship then but still went ahead to carry bele and was flaunting him all over thinking she could totally snatch that one from Ugegbe.
      See where it has landed her now. I don't pity her one bit..

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    2. @BabyRella, thnk u oh
      Mk she allow us hear word
      I no baby mama shame her oh but d real n genuine baby mamas dat didn't plan for it r nt dat discriminated as she said

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    3. Make una dey tell uneselves the truth. which serious relationship? Has Flavour publicly acknowledged Sandra as his wife/girlfriend/babymama till date?

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    4. Anon 9:52 has flavour ever openly acknowledged or even posted the Sandra? Do u know what flavour told the the innocent young girl before she opened leg or flaunted him? Most igbo women hate this babe cos she's not igbo no other reason, and flavour seems to love her child a whole lot, and takes very good care of bother mother an child so yall can keep crying while flavour continues to f*ck both genders and fooling Sandra.

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    5. Stop accusing every celebrity of being gay. Flavour is always on his own. He is not a clout chaser. He doesn't look for trouble and he loves Sandra.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    6. The flavour is not worth a stick of gum, gigolo looking men with serious ashawo vibes are a turn off

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    7. @Sandy Neky, how did she know Flavour was in a serious relationship with your namesake Sandra? Flavour that has never acknowledged Sandra from then till now? You lot are even fooling yourselves that he has married her, when? How? Keep dreaming

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    8. Anon 13:51 you know what’s up. Take it or leave it your flavor is Bi and I’m telling you from a place of a person that has shared a bed with him in the past and heaven knows that I am not lying(Yes I am a guy) so you all to rest before you swear about someone else’s sexuality and end up dying whilst the other person lives.

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  7. Forget my dear many Nigerians are hypocrites

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  8. They only discriminate single mum's when you are poor,not educated, needy and promiscuous by nature,if you are rich,well educated,have a high dosage of self confidence and carry yourself with decorum,even the "married mum's" go dey come to you for financial assistance, discrimination is all in your head, what you make out of life is what matters the most,talking as a single mother now preparing to go into marriage full of happiness.

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    1. 12:05 e hugs and glory to God Almighty. Same thing with me my trad is coming middle of this year

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    2. They only discriminate when they want to act like their real foolish self. When they want to beg for money, married people no dey discriminate o.

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  9. There are women who really don't deserve this discrimination like those who left abusive rships or were abandoned. But you see some of these shameless girls eh, sense is very far from them. There's one in my street who has 2 kids for a married man. He visits from Enugu. The man got her a house in abj and she was forming madam and birthing anyhow. The irresponsible man is tired of her now and sent her packing. Now, another small girl is in that same house playing woman of the house. Unfortunately, the stigma is there BCOS of such people, thereby, making things difficult for mothers whose state was no fault of theirs. I have seen someone with 5 children from 4 different men. I mean, how do u even take such a person seriously.

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    1. People are who they are with their experiences

      Your last line don't count.

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  10. Anna girl,

    Look at you.
    You are beautiful, educated and you have a good head on your shoulders.

    Why on earth would you accept other people's labels Anna???

    Your name is Ann's not single mum. Loose the labels and fly high.

    Do an unknown bv on stelladimokokorkus.coms blog a favour this year....Anna go and Soar!

    Anna go kick ass!

    Anna find purpose, Find time to talk to your maker , find peace within you love your baby deeply in 2023 and GO KICK SOME BLOODY ASSIN 2023.

    I want to see you make headlines for different causes not the labels in 2023.

    You are beautiful and loved by the almighty. ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕

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  11. Sister girl. Loose the labels.

    A time in Naija divorced women wore their labels and allowed other people label them 🏷

    Just look at Toke Makinwa and what she does.

    Tonto is divorced and running for Gubernatorial office.

    Tiwa is divorced and doing fhingzzzz.

    Go Anna!

    Go Anna!

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  12. There are consequences for bad behaviors and there are some you live with till a miracle happens. In her case she opened her eyes and decided to be a single mum to a serial baby daddy and she expects a pat on the back. Abeg I don’t want any form of stress this 2023 as it’s been hard to even keep up with the FALEX saga. Abegi!

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  13. There is stigma in many states of life for women. Unmarried women of marriageable age face stigma, marrying late carries stigma, married infertile women face stigma, married women who only gave births to girls face stigma, married poor women with many children face stigma, widows face stigma in some cultures, and poor widows face stigma. Women carry the burden of stigma more than men on earth.

    Yes, being a never married woman with a child is stigmatized, and yes your child may be treated differently. But who can take the title of mother from you? You gave birth you didn't commit a crime and no married woman's child has more value than yours. Empower those women and girls who lack your resources and who face an even harsher reality than yours from being an unmarried mother. Help them to rise and you will turn your shame to glory and use your life to co-create with God beauty on earth. Use your life!

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  14. Anna baby
    You are a high value woman. You just need to work on certain things.

    1) Why did you use your friends to shame Sandra? Sandra barely talks. She is always on her lane.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  15. Is Genevieve not a single mother and she is doing fine? Anna is the one giving herself the title of a baby mama. The fact that you are a single mum should not stop you from breaking barriers. You are far better than some people that did abortions.

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  16. Stella be featuring Bv False prophet's girls since yesterday. False prophet, see your second babe, Anna

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