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Thursday, February 02, 2023

Boredom Eliminating Post

 

35 comments:

  1. Good communication
    Finance
    Sex

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  2. A happy home has no specific manual. Happiness depends on several factors to a given individual. In my own perspective, I see a submissive wife and a loving husband making a happy home.

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    1. No manual atall... Treat your spouse the way you would treat yourselves

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  3. Na this kain question I dey like.

    1. Most importantly for me, when u put ur partners needs and feelings above your own ego, you are already on the right track.

    2. Be as helpful as possible. As a woman, do everything possible to assist with finances especially in a situation where your husband is not Dangote or Burna Boy (you know what I mean sha). As a man, assist with chores, kids etc. If u take ur hand wash plates, toilets, bathroom etc, you won't die. If u baff ur pikin, prepare am for school, ur head won't fall on the floor.

    3. Respect, respect and respect each other. Your wife alone does not owe you respect, both of you owe each other respect.

    4. Leave that controlling and obsessive attitude where it should belong, in the 18th century. Your wife or husband wants to go hang out with friends, let her/him. Your wife or husband has a party to attend, go with if it's possible, if not, let him/her go.

    5. Avoid unnecessary kurukere movement. This builds distrust. Your spouse allowed u to go out does not mean you should now abuse this and spend the whole time outside. As u are outside, remember you have a family you need to return to and don't spend any unnecessary time outside.

    5. Avoid being stingy to ur spouse. Spend and spend on ur spouse when u can. If u are the type receiving allowance from ur spouse because u ain't working, take from that allowance from time to time and spend on ur partner.

    6. Do not forget to celebrate your spouse on special occasions. Birthdays, anniversaries, valentines etc. It has a way of making ur spouse feel even more special than they already feel.

    I'm sure others will have more points to add.

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    1. Great points.

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    2. Well said

      Gifty

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    3. Mehn Eka you've said it all o... Love and respect your spouse's.. treat them well

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    4. Oil dey your head, you gave valid point.

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    5. Yes oh. Men need to realize this is the 21st century. There's nothing wrong in helping with chores and taking care of kids.

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    6. "when u put ur partners needs and feelings above your own ego". Yes this right here is it. Drop the ego. Marriage is a humbling ground especially to we men. Marriage just shows you REAL LIFE.

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    7. Well done, Eka Joy. What you wrote up there needs to be laminated for this generation and generations to come.

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    8. πŸ‘ πŸ‘ πŸ‘

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    9. How about those of us who are Christians and don’t believe in valentines. Besides, some of these questions really differs. For people who live abroad e.g America, you can’t be talking about treat your wife good, respect, help her, etc. it comes with the manual of living there. As in, u no get choice. Infact as a man, that’s ur DAILY and HOURLY job. I change diapers, do groceries, dishes, etc. even when friends and visitors come around, I serve them too.

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  4. Respect
    Love
    Joy
    Peace
    S*x
    Kids
    Money πŸ€‘

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  5. Communication
    Finanace
    Loyalty
    Respect
    Being intentional

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  6. I will be reading comments cos honestly I don't know again. What works for A does not work for B most times

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  7. Good communication
    Stop snooping your partner's phone
    Trust your partner
    Be committed
    Tell yourself this marriage must work and you both should work as a team.
    Do not see your partner as your competitor but rather as your team member or mate
    Have boundaries with your friends, relatives, colleagues, church members.
    Never you disrespect your spouse in public, among their siblings, colleagues, your maid, pastor, children for no reason.
    Men should learn to assist with house chores .
    Stop discussing your spouse, family, how you treat each other with friends or relatives.

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  8. Love your wife.
    Buy her gifts spontaneously and at every celebration (birthday, wedding anniversary, child dedication, lovers day, Christmas etc)
    Give your wife money.
    Just give her money
    Don't bother about what she is doing with the money. just give her more money.
    Make sure she knows how much you earn.
    Talk low of beautiful ladies in your office and compound.
    If you do all these You don't need to beg for respect, she will even kneel down to serve you food at a restaurant.

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    1. "Talk low of beautiful ladies in your office and compound". Ha yes πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Guys need this. How do you talk excessively about another woman in front of your wife. πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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  9. Communication
    Transparency in finance
    Be Generous to your partner
    Help at home
    Respect for each other
    Faithfulness
    Etc

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  10. Good communication
    Love
    Respect
    Transparency
    Peace
    Humble
    Etc

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  11. TASTE BLISS CAKES AND PASTRIES2 February 2023 at 20:18

    Great communication,
    Faithfulness,
    Team work etc

    But what makes home A a happy might not make home B a happy one, just do what works for you.

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  12. Two individuals that truly love and respect each other

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  13. Not marrying a Nigeria lady is a sure banker. That way you can live happily ever after. Behind every sad man is a Nigerian lady.

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    1. 04:19. You need to let go of that mind set of yours. Your happiness is within you. Oyibo girls are gold diggers too. They are faithful and unfaithful girls all over the world.

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  14. All in one sentence; Husband love your wife as Christ love the church, wife submit to your husband.

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  15. God first, Love, Tolerance, Understanding, Availability, Basic affordability.

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