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Wednesday, March 15, 2023

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
LONELY WIFE

Good Day Madam Stella.
My chronicle goes thus.

My husband has been cheating on me for over 5 years now in a marriage of 10 years to the extent of bringing his female married girlfriend to the home.

Recently, he went to almost wanting to hit me the last time we had an altercation of which I defended myself by telling him not to push me to the wall with his behaviour.

 He now said okay is it because I have people to run to.

Fast forward to last month, I met a widower while on transit to work. He has been on my case and wouldn't let me be.
To wade him off, I told him I won't date him cos I am married but he won't take no for an answer. I even said okay I don't know your health status but he said he doesn't mind us going for medical tests.

Looking back to all the heartbreaks and betrayal from my husband, I hurt a lot and part of me desires this man, I want to feel loved and wanted. Please what do I do in this dilemma I have found myself. Is it possible to date him without sleeping with him? He really adores and plays with me like a teenager in love again.

I also have developed feelings for him, he calls me "Utom" .
Please I need BVs advice before I get entangled with him. My heart yearns for love, I am lonely even as a married woman.


''Utom'' why do you want to jump from frying pan to the fire? This man just wants to sleep with you oh....Or you want to jump from one Marriage to another? If you want to be with him then please make sure you unentangle from your present husband.... Do not also start sleeping around to get revenge please.
Utom have you heard?

97 comments:

  1. Utom have u heard. If u wan flex, end your marriage and move on. Don't let ur adulterous husband drag u down to his level

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    1. Interesting
      Go on ahead and do away with the exasperating man

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    2. If your self control is above 85%, enjoy the flirting with him secretly. Trust me, you will HEAL and that your husband will get scared and adjust.

      But if you know that once he says utom paent don reach ground, my dear abort mission!

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    3. Utom what do you want us to tell you now? Woo Gid fo help you o.

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  2. Hahahahah Stella leave untom alone.
    No matter the advise she get here.she won’t take it
    Her body Don dey road.

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    1. Aunty Stella, how do you know the next man is fire compared to her husband? That’s how people keep staying in bondage and end up bitter.
      There’s no love nor respect in your marriage so what exactly are you guys still doing together?
      Your husband may have found love (infatuation) in the arms of a married woman… it hurts but it is what it is.
      Men may cheat but a man who is disrespectful about it doesn’t deserve your space.

      About the new man, let him not be the reason you cheat on your husband, be respectful of your own body.

      Leave first, that way your hands are clean also leave because you are no longer in love, you are being disrespected and because you don’t think you can work things out not for another man cus men can disappoint you.

      I hope you have something doing and can provide for yourself so you don’t become a burden to any man you decide to end up with, so they don’t feel like they are doing you a favor.

      Push up (original)

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    2. That’s why I love you push-up

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    3. @Push up why are you always quick to tell married women to leave their marriage? After 10yrs you expect a woman to leave because her husband is cheating. Poster do what makes you happy

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    4. My Darling Utom nwanne... Iris you a been lookin for....

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    5. So she should stay and cheat?
      We know cheating is already on her mind, it’s best she does it the right way.

      I am not in the habit of telling anyone to leave, but why stay where you are not happy, I don’t subscribe to “facing your kids” when your spouse is who you married for companionship.
      When the kids grow old and they face their own partners who now does one face?
      You people give advice in a wicked way, it’s wickedness to keep a woman unhappy for the rest of her life.
      My cousin has been treating all sorts of infections because she’s enduring rubbish.
      I do not subscribe to a rubbish life because at the end they always regret it, life is too beautiful, way too beautiful to endure when you can enjoy it.


      Push up (original)

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  3. Don't give in ma'am. If you must, kindly separate from your husband by applying for a divorce.

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  4. Hahahahahaha.. oh lurrrrr.
    You think that widower loves you for real? Knowing that you are married? Hahahahahahahaha, he will knack shege from ya waist and discard you.
    It's either you continue staying with your husband, or leave. Or try shake things up, get the contact of his married girlfriend, and inform her husband.

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    1. If he only discards her, that will be easy for her. Poster that widower will blackmail after he's satisfied or when you want to leave him. You think a responsible man will go after a married woman? Don't move from frying pan to fire as Stella rightly said.

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    2. He might love her for real
      Y’all say things you don’t know
      Many women have left bad marriages because a bed guy showed them love

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    3. Don't let your husband lead you into what you. Didn't plan for.

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    4. Exactly
      Many women have left and found love even more wonderful than they could dream of. Stop keeping women in bondage. Haba

      Isn’t it better than treating infections?

      Push up (original)

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    5. Utom means work in my dailect. Push up I love your reasoning.

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  5. Follow your heart, life is too short to be sad and bitter.

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  6. Two wrongs don't make a right.

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  7. Sleep with him and Enjoy yourself like your husband is doing. Why should you answer divorcΓ©e name. If you sleep with him and enjoy, you can think about whether to divorce your husband
    You have one life

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    1. As if divorcee name is a death sentence. Let stay and die Mrs sad and lonely for una na

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    2. How come nobody is saying the husband cheating with a married woman is brining curses on his family
      Yet if it were a woman they will say she’s brining curses on her hubby

      My dear, just leave the marriage because no gender was born to take rubbish or suffer. I personally cannot stay in a disrespectful marriage, like you are rubbing mud in my face and people expect me to keep patching… it can never be me


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    3. 15:29 I said that because most of the time that’s all that’s stopping y’all from leaving bad marriages
      So let her stay and have an affair, Nigerians prefer that

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  8. My dear, DO NOT LET ANYONE OR ANY CIRCUMSTANCE CHANGE YOU FROM WHO YOU ARE.
    Don't become a cheat because of your husband.
    Don't daint your character, personality and person because of him.
    Marriage has turned many into people they never thought they could ever be. Don't join the no.

    That intended adultery with that man will complicate your life, take your peace and it will be the beginning of an unending adulterous path. (It won't end with just him)
    And the end thereof is destruction.
    Adultery is a like a cancerous spirit. It won't leave you until it kills.
    Pls don't tow that path.

    You have only two options.
    To divorce
    Or endure for reasons best known to you.
    Remember also that there are consequences for every action. He will get his some day. It might not be at your timing or expectation though.
    Meanwhile, protect yourself so he doesn't give you diseases. Especially the deadly STIs.

    E- Hugs sis.

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    1. She should protect herself and not get stds. Chai women are suffering o. She shouldn’t cheat back ( meanwhile he has been cheating for 5 years). All I can say is if you like be faithful in marriage , you will still likely get stds from a cheating husband. Ehen! if you like be faithful in marriage, if you don’t love and care for people, you will still go to hell. Nigerian women who endure bullshit, hell is still waiting for you for not having sense. Atleast Nigerian men will enjoy earth while it last before joining you in hell.

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    2. Anon 15: 40 pls read my comment again to understand.

      I told her she has two options
      1. Divorce
      2. If she stays back for reasons best known to her... So if she took option 2, shouldn't she protect herself?

      I didn't ask her to stay. It's not my call to make .
      Hope you understand now?

      Meanwhile, if heaven is your goal, you won't want to become a sinner because of a man and marriage.
      And the bible clearly states what qualifies one for heaven. Pls go study it

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  9. Hahahhahahaha 🀣 Stella abeg leave “Utom” alone o, she don fall for the man , funny enough he might not be a widower.
    Only God knows the lie your husband also told the married woman he is frolicking around with.
    Never change from good to Evil because of a man, rather walk away or ignore if you can take the heat.
    Poster you ll regret what you seek in the hands of that stranger, it shows that to sleep with him raw don Dey hungry you from your narrative . Flee from sun of the unknown and allow karma to deal with your 🐎 band. Utom hope you have πŸ‘‚ heard.

    Mummy Anthony-Clever

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    1. You’re not a nice person

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  10. You didn't say if you want to remain in your marriage by all means. Do not give into the pressure, try and seek God's face.

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  11. I really don’t know what to say.. May God guide you.

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  12. Lol,Stella @ your last words. Poster,my dear I understand you. That's what I am facing too. I am currently separated from horse and for a year now cos of his cheating lifestyle,he also got me while I was pregnant and other issues. I have lost all feelings for him as he is not even remorseful and he doesn't hide the fact that he brings these women now I am no longer with him. The only difference is that I haven't let myself go to love again but with the way the man is going I am done pursuing peace. I will love again,go on and have a good relationship but definitely not with a married man. It's well

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    1. Please pursue peace, this life enh it’s meant to be enjoyed Walahi.
      Haba, someone they dint give birth to you with will just decide to be your headache.

      Take your time and heal and yes you can find love again, I believe in true love so much that I cannot compromise.
      I hate disrespectful cheats, like everyone will know and be laughing at your back.


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  13. Madam utom, I don't have anything to say but utom just do you, utom, utom 🀣🀣🀣
    Utom just dey sweet 4 my mouth utom utom

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    1. Your comment got me ROTFL!!! Your own dey ya bodi sha!!! Abeg, leave space for me make I call her too.... 'Utom,, omalicha, ughebe'm, tomato jos'm, Gollibe'm.... Loooool

      Ms K

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  14. You can’t let what he does dictate behavior. At the end of the day, you’ll
    be the one that will get shamed.
    Where you at home when brought the married woman? If you were, what did, what did you do?

    Sluttychic.

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  15. Hmmm
    The evil part of me wants to tell u to date him even while married so that cheater will 2 can play the game but does mess up yourself because of another person's mistake so leave him and move to the widower with confident ,date him and let him pamper u abeg..life is too short to live unhappy....

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    1. The evil part of me already took over my comment πŸ˜‚

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    2. Some men will just bring the worse out of u

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    3. Chai!!! I just saw your comments through my evil glasses...#evilgrin.. Lol

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  16. According to BB, you have two choices; STAY or LEAVE.

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  17. Utom pls don’t allow your Hubby’s adulterous ways drag you down same dirty road.
    Adultery is already grounds for divorce so if you must follow your “utom” make sure he’s really worth it and then do it the proper way by ending things first with your husband.

    Ps; Be very careful, a man that doesn’t mind sleeping with a married woman doesn’t have much in stock character wise. It most likely is konji. So you don’t go and put yourself in a big mess by ending up with someone worse than your present horseband.

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    1. Thanks. Your comments are always on point and nice to read..

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  18. poster why can't you direct that widower to your single sisters, friends or colleagues? You are on the same boat as your husband cos you too is cheating on him with the man calling you sweet name.

    you are in love with this man cos he already calls you a sweet name, are you saying your husband does not call you with any pet name? Stop giving that man attention, block him from everywhere and face your marriage. This man will chop you, mess you up, even set you up that you will regret ever knowing him.

    you should have a talk with your husband about how you feel, tell him he is not treating you fine. If he is not ready to stay married with then you both can end it. I will not allow you to start sleep around cos your husband is cheating on you. Society will never see fault with what your husband is doing but yours society will say alot about you.

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    1. Nigerian women and society. Chai I feel for them. Still it doesn’t stop them from going to hell if they err in other areas and protect their marriages like gold. This same life that Jennifer Lopez don marry like 5 times , this same life that women abroad are not judged by their marital status but still do wonders , women abroad dating young hot guys , living life to the fullest like the men.
      Nigerian women Kontinueeee……

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    2. Leave their only badge of life is dieing in misery answering Mrs agbakoba

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    3. @anon 16:09.. Please, tell her something!! Imagine the legendary Madonna, (singer), check her age up and she just recently got herself a boy young enough to be her grandson.. Which society will judge her? In fact, do you know how many people will want to give all they have only to get a handshake from her? African women be chopping rubbish in the name of Marriage N society.

      Ms K.

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    4. Leave them, look at Cher and her guy.
      Nigerian women are so timid, docile and 1Q challenged,caged by their primitive men. Boasting 'ehn my husband finally bought washing machines after 25 years of asking him to buy washing machine in the house.
      Debating such stoopid topics eh should I sit in the front of the car or murderinlaw should sit infront, ehn should I eat tail of fish in my husband house, ehn my husband is sleeping with different women and dashing me plenty diseases, wot shulaidu??
      Empty brains everywhere.

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    5. Which marriage? As itis they're living in house mates whom the man has moved on his married lover, madam pls make yourself happy by dating the man that makes you happy, uwa bu ofu mbia, when 2 cheats they had inner peace, more than 85% of married women cheats now,remember na married woman be your husband sidechick and she didn't leave her marriage, and definitely something pushed her outside, stay her and be listening to nonsense advice don't go and make yourself happy

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  19. Things might get worst with you if you start your relationship with Utom o

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  20. Any man who knows you are married and does not respect you enough to stay off, is not a man you should even think of being involved with. His values are already questionable. He has no concept of boundaries. OP, premium tears awaits you. If you get yourself involved with him, he will use the fact that you were in your husbands house while sleeping with him to insult you tommorow.

    Your husband has given you sufficient reasons to go for a divorce. If that's an option for you, pursue it. However, that he-goat that wants to sleep with you even knowing that you are married should be avoided. He will be worse than your husband.

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    1. Poster is blinded by love. She won't see these signs

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    2. Yet premium tears is not awaiting her married husband and his married side chic… shey you Dey whine me ni.
      Wo karma is now gender specific 🀣🀣

      My dear if you want to cheat, divorce your hubby first and enjoy all the romance to the fullest, after all this own is willing to do test with you, not the one sleeping with a married woman under your nose.

      If the new relationship doesn’t work either you bounce, enjoy your life ooo, I am telling you now
      Nigerian women behave like their lives begins and ends with a man. Okay ✅

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    3. That insult side is so true hence, get divorced properly before having any affair.. That will add value to the way he might talk about you in future.

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    4. Divorce is not an easy fry in Nigeria and it doesn't favour women, nne poster do what others are doing and be happy, your husband & his beb is happy and you are dying here,

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  21. Abeg have fun. Be coded. Code as if your life depends on it. You also have the right to be happy. Just make sure you are not caught. Still be nice at home. Look away from his cheating ways n raise your kids in your husband house. Rem never get caught. Make your husband feel you love him die n still do your thing. No let anybody tell you not too. Ones you fall out of love with the widower break things off n stay put in your house. Last last no sin is bigger than the other. It will make you stop being jealous of your cheat of a husband n give you space to think logical like men do with putting emotions to it. Act like a woman n think like a man. Good luck

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    1. Best comment everrrr.....

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    2. God bless you for this aptly advise

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  22. A married woman is making another one like her unhappy. Na wa for some women.

    Poster, please do something about your marriage before thinking of another man. What do you want? Sort yourself out with your husband first and don't do what he's doing to pay him back, it never ends well.

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  23. Poster, don't you think any man that can comfortably pursue a married woman, and even suggesting medical test, is actually a very bad person? Stay away from that evil man

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    1. Not really
      Sometimes the guy knows you’re in nonsense marriage and he’s like move on.

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    2. What if the widoer has no idea that she is in a nonsense marriage?

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    3. 18:29 he knows caused they’ve talked and quite frankly a lot of women in bad marriages are easy to spot anyway

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  24. Do people really know what divorce mean? If you're a true Christian do you know after divorce you're not supposed to get married again unless one partner is dead. It's in the Bible and the words of Christ. I wish a topic on this issue will be brought here for discussions.

    The only thing that can entangle one from their partner in the real sense is when one person is no longer aliv. Do you think ''till death do us part'' is a mere statement.

    This is why true men of God don't marry when they're divorced.

    Divorce isn't something anyone should jump into unless there's a threat to life and domestic violence involved. Cheating is bad but shouldn't be the sole reason you leave or walk away from your marriage.

    What if the new love you found cheats on you as well? Will you keep divorcing and going into new marriage?

    Utom,

    Please think over this. Don't let the devil lead you astray. Have you explore every other option to this situation?

    Aside the cheating which I frown at and condemne, is he a good man and father? Does he provide and take good care of you?

    Truth is that, it's not always greener out there as we may sometimes think.

    Please look carefully before you leap.

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    1. So a good man will cheat on his wife, bring his side chick home and still threaten to beat her on top! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      Poster, like I said, repay evil for evil!

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    2. @Eka, this one no follow ooo. Two wrongs don't make it right Ooo
      Vengeance is mine says the Lord.

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    3. So did she tell you she’s a Christian

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  25. It's the utom for me hehehehehe
    If u are really tired of his philandering pls leave him but have a fresh start with someone else, not the ogbugi of a widower that wants to knack u by all means knowing u are married, he knows that he has nothing to loose when ur husband catches u cheating with him.
    No responsible man will desperately want to bang another man's wife.
    That man is OGBUGI be wise
    He will rubbish u and leave
    Don't ever cheat bcoz ur husband is cheating

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  26. Abeg, flex if u wan flex jare. Two can play the game. Just have ur exit plan tho because I don’t want to see u begging if u ever get caught. Someone is bringing his side chick to ur home and you are still asking questions.

    I don’t have time for love and light today. Flex away Abeg.

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    1. πŸ˜‚
      Aswear my evil self will not even think twice before falling for him

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    2. Ewooooo!!! This comment na from old testament!! No mercy at all... Lmao

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  27. Hmmmm you'll soon become Ε²fΕ³m if you don't give yourself sense

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  28. Poster the grass is almost not always greener on the other side. If you’re tired of your marriage then leave but don’t go into MR widower’s waiting arms, I feel there’s something off about him.

    Eezi

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  29. Madam that widower does not have good plans for you. If he did he wouldn't have stopped making advances at you the moment you told him you are married.
    If your marriage is no longer "marriaging" as you would love it to, better get out of it first before dating another man.
    Ndo

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    1. Mr Widower may have a living, healthy wife! The Bible allows divorce on grounds of adultery. Your man has zero love or respect for you but the widower may be worse unless you lied to him that you are single. Married women think through divorce. This woman’s husband is cheating with a married woman. If cheating is a dealbreaker why go destroy another woman’s home by sleeping with her husband like the third wheel is? Don’t sleep with Mr widower while married. Do things in a way that God will continue to fight your battles and till then, have your husband wear protection so as not to have std or don’t allow him touch you.

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    2. the bible did not mention adultery, the bible mentioned fornication meaning that it is impossible for a married person to commit fornication. God hates divorce, the bible encourages us to forgive in such situation.May the Almighty God help us in Jesus name

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    3. I won’t debate the Bible. I know cultural context has affected its interpretation on divorce, earrings, pants (trousers), make up etc. yet Nigerian Christian’s listen to Joyce Meyer (she divorced her abusive ex), Joel Osteen (his dad divorced an ex before marrying the mom, he inherited the ministry they founded). Not all marriages are made in heaven so God does not expect you to die in an abusive marriage or remain single if you leave such abuse at 29 or 45, sleeping around! God is our father, he is not a “ wicked mafia godfather” that many Nigerian Christians paint him to be. Yet most theft of public money is laundered in many churches. Makes you wonder if they think God wants you to die of abuse but doesn’t mind stealing community money. It’s called “itching ears” in Timothy.

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  30. Dem go soon untom you o!!!
    E be like say you never sabi men.
    That man that is doing like you are the oxygen to his asthma, once he chop he go clean mouth.
    From there, e number go busy.
    Any man who is worthless enough to ask you out knowing that you are a married woman, is less than the shit hanging from a pig's anus.
    Don't allow your husband's sleeping around drag you to his level.
    You have survived for 10 years meaning e never belleful you.
    If e belleful you, you will know what to do.
    I hope by then it will not be too late.

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  31. See sinner encouraging other to be like them when will people honour the santity of marriage pls don't do if you want to leave your husband do first before entering another Fear God oh

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    1. Pls save us some stress na. Work with ur punctuation marks.

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  32. Abegi date and sleep with the man.
    In fact let him spoil you well like a baby.
    This life is just once oh.
    So it is okay for your husband to cheat but not you.
    If I hear say you let this man go because of your Mrs status.
    My dear, start the relationship, but guard your heart.
    A widower can make a fantastic husband, will treat you better than the suituationship you are currently in.
    Dont mind all those holy holy advice up there, if they were in your shoes, they will do the same thing.

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    1. If your husband jumps into fire will you do the same? I ask all those asking her to revenge cheat without leaving him.

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  33. A person who has been in the desert for a long time wilk drink water from any source, good or bad. It doesn't make them a bad person. But do not let your hunger for and affection cause you to take roads you have no business travelling down. Let us remember Empress Njamah's ordeal not so long ago. In her vulberability she let the devil enter into her life and she paid dearly for that one choice. Please work out your problems and life before you look to complicate them with a man you barely know.

    If your husband have checked out of the marriage, there is no point fighting him. Arguments will not heal his heart. You could bend yourself into pretzel if you want, if he is emotionally and spiritually removed from the union there will be nothing that you can do. It is up to you to decide how much you can take. I do not know your finances or what you are capable of doing, but please separate if it is possible. Take the separation time to heal yourself, not to entertain anyone. Get some counselling, seek legal guidance and see how you can become more financially fit if you need improvement in that area.

    I truly wish you all the best.

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  34. Please stay away from this man. Run away from his as much as your leg can and DO NOT look back. The man will only use you and dump you and will wish you had not done but it will be too late.

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  35. I Just Love the sound of that Name "Utom" 😁

    Madam please don't do it !

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  36. Someone who is not a bad person won't press further if he knows you are a married woman. You think that man does not call other Laddies sweet names like that? You believe he will be a good person because he is a widower ? Have you tried to find out from people or even his kids the cause of the wife's death? It could be due to a disease he contracted and transfered to her which she didn't discovered on time until it deteriorated , it could be other awful reason. Ebidosia ona ato.
    I am not saying you should mange your husband, all am saying is that this widower you are seeing is not as good as you see him.

    Assuming you told him you are no longer married or you have issues with your husby and he decides to try his luck with you, then I would adviced you to give the relationship a try

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  37. Run away from this so called widower because he's not a widower. You're are going to regret your action

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  38. No logical guidance just bashing and crazy advice.
    Poster, why not have a conversation with yiur husband and see if you guys can separate for a while, while you decide what you want. Then for the widower, tell him you are separated and u need to know his intentions. But then, any man who knows yiuur are .arrived and still wats u???? Utom, biko check am well.

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  39. Morality has been so watered down in today’s society. I am always amazed at how quickly people recommend: leave, break up, divorce etc.

    The oyibo people we tend to emulate, have no morals.

    To each his/her own. But God must be looking at us and saying “you fools!”. He has given us himself for free, his Holy Spirit for free, but we don’t want it. Hmmm.

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    1. That is what you wre surprised at?
      You are not surprised that Nigetisn men marry and sleep with anything that moves, even the one that dies of move?
      That one no surprise you?
      Untop of all the churcheousness and copious prayers?

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    2. My statement does not justify cheating. It all boils down to the morality I mentioned. Women are always at the short end of the stick whether it is her who cheats or her husband. Especially women with children. We are always the victim if things do not go well, so making rash decisions like leaving the marriage, bring even more suffering than many are ready to admit. Leaving though recommended by the Bible, is not always the perfect solution to the heartbreak of a cheating partner. Just remember that if you choose to following the Bible by leaving the marraige, you cannot enter into another until one of you dies. You see what I mean by the oyibo we are emulating do not have morals? Oyibo will jump unto the next relationship which is what is always recommended here.

      Another thing to think about is the sanity of the children. You are not only responsible for yourself as a man or woman, but also responsible for those little souls God has entrusted you with. Is this how you really want them to live their life? Get married and leave the marriage just like that? As a mother or father is that what you want for your child? Where is that moral example you are setting for that child?

      This way of life is definitely not what God wants for his children. But who I am to judge. Like I said: to each his/her own. Only God can judge.

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  40. Pls do everything to mak yourself happy for your kids, divorce is not an option cos most men cheat, if you're leaving a man because he cheats you will be in 20 relationship in 1 yr, your husband is nolonger in the marriage emotionally, he's with you cos of your kids, raising kids alone as a single parents is not an easy fry, DON'T DIVORCE YOUR HUSBAND, Afterall the married woman dating your husband didn't divorce her husband and something made her move outside unfortunately your husband became his catch, pls give yourself peace, DATE THAT MAN(WIDOWER), You have 1 thing you're seeking, happiness pls do everything within your power to make yourself happy so you can be a good mom to your kids, take your husband as a housemate and live your life, make sure you get a job, save, stop contributing to the house, allow him do everything in the house, whlie you save yours, hide your new relationship as the society are quick to jugde women, and be ready finicially, emotionally and physically to leave the house anytime catch you and want to start drama DON'T BEG HIM OO, Make him understand that he started it 1st and the woman he's sleeping with is someone's wife and the husband didn't divorce her, PLEASE DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY

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    1. I totally disagree with your opinion. Don't advice people to do what is not morally right because you can do it. At most you could advice her is to follow her conscience in whatever decisions she wants to take.

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  41. It's better to be separated and heal than to be married and cheat because your husband is cheating. Revenge is never an option to get back at anybody, and I bet you will regret it. The widower is a wicked man; he just wants to sleep with you and move on; don't you have sense! Are there no other single ladies or fellow widows that he can entangle with? He has no regard for your marriage; he is just using your present emotional challenge to play you; don't be a victim.

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