Hmmm.....
BABY MAMA DRAMA
Greetings Stella, thanks for all you do in this blog pls I will like bvs opinion and advice on this issue...
I am from the North and I met a guy during my NYSC through a friend, he is from one of the Southern states and we have been dating and i have visited him twice.
I also have a boyfriend here who I have been dating for three years, he proposed marriage but he does not have the financial capacity to marry me. The Southern guy is a hustler but has not yet proposed marriage but he is serious with me and I love him so much .
He just told me he has had a kid from another lady that his family does not like as he is the last and only son; he wants me to take a decision whether to stay or not:
I don't really like baby mama drama as the lady seems to have a trait of it because she was furious when she saw my picture with him that his cousin posted on his status and threatened him.
I love him but I don't know what to do especially this baby mama issue.
SWEETY, please ask him very well if he is still sleeping with his baby mama or maybe he did not end the relationship cos she has no right to get angry when she sees your photo except they are still together and he is trying to eat his cake and have it.....
Find out well before you chook leg inside problems.....
I like that you did not put all your eggs in one basket, this is what men do as well *tongue click*
If he's still sleeping with the babymama? LOL.
ReplyDeleteSo much going on. Don’t go chasing waterfalls, stick to the rivers and streams that you are used to.
ReplyDeleteYou get boyfriend for North, he has a baby mama whom he services when you ain't around because if they weren't involved, she won't be angry over a picture of you. Both of you suit each other Sha, may the best payer win.
ReplyDeleteLol no be small both of you fit each other pls heed to the red pen advice and ask questions properly-
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From my understanding, it's her new boyfriend from the south that's having baby mama drama.
DeleteThey're so much together, if not, why would she be angry when his cousin posted their picture? I can't deal with any baby mama ni'temi sha
*Larry was here*
The baby daddy is the southern guy BB.
DeleteAhhh yes. Anyways, both of them have someone in their lives, so let the best player win.
DeleteStella Dante is coming for you and the egg you didn't put in one basket
ReplyDeleteBroke guys are always quick to engage, but will use that ring to hold you till eternity,and don't be surprised his taste might change later when money enters.
ReplyDeleteYou nailed it. destiny holders
DeleteFirst, Men don't do it...
ReplyDeleteBut even though, shey if men put hand in fire🔥 women would put theirs too??
Shebi men have been paying for Tfare since, how many women agree that they can give Tfare on yesterday's night post?.. you people won't see that one oh.. it's only ahewo things only they like to compete with..
Big Stellz🙄🙄🙄
Lol 😂
DeleteHmmmnnn, as for me o, the two guys I dated that had baby mamas, I found out they were still sleeping with the ladies. In fact, the baby mama from my last relationship just had baby no 3 for my ex. He reached out asking me for marriage, what I told him, he won't forget in a hurry. Nonsense!
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DeleteBut why haven't you broken up with your boyfriend of three years since you don't love him anymore, and you love the other guy SO MUCH?
ReplyDeleteWhy are you stringing the first guy along and still keeping him despite no iota of love there? That is my only concern here. You have Guy A and B and your heart has already chosen Guy B so let the first one go and be with the lady who would love him.
You people will be dishing out to people what you can't take nor wish on yourself.
That was how a guy that was asking me out was complaining that there was a lady he met before me who had a serious relationship but still wanted to date him and led him on only for him to find out that she was engaged and he asked her, what are you doing with me? And she said, but I am not yet married now. He said he was pissed and broke it up with her. Only for me to find out he was also engaged and asking me out. I just blocked him. Hypocrites everywhere
And Yes, he is cheating with the other lady because just like you he is not putting his eggs in one basket. You think you are the only one looking for various options?
Poster,keep moving. She is not only his babymama.
ReplyDeleteDo what makes you happy dear poster. That is all I have to say
ReplyDeleteWhat is your instinct telling you?, Follow it
ReplyDeleteOmo if na by only babymama drama, my sister put your slippers under your armpit and gbese, because most of these men be lying when it concerns the said babymamas. As you are already doubledating either find someone new or stick to your northern boyfriend. But if the babymama is getting angry your picture was posted, i can categorically tell you for free that they are still either sleeping together or in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteStella, since you like she did not put all her eggs in one basket, then why are you and poster bothering about the baby mama, maybe its the man not putting all his eggs in one basket as well. Abi the rules of the ame are different like this ni?
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DeleteVery different since women won the right to choose husbands.
Double dating has been the right of women since then. No bi today matter.
Every woman who does it is usually surprised at complaint about it from one of the men.
Na only women get right to complain about cheating.
A dating man complaining about cheating is usually asked if he is a woman. He is expected to play along until he wins the woman as wife or leave immediately he confirms cheating. Only a woman cheats and has the right to complain about cheating by her main target; sorry, main dating partner.
Na woman get the earth and man.
You made someone an optionwho you feel made you an option too, so please identify the issue here. OK, you want him to make a choice of you when you can't do the same for him. Poster, your craze is burgundy in odour.
ReplyDeleteThe baby mama won't be angry with your posted pictures if they are not having anything together.
ReplyDeleteYou guys have not met crazy folks
DeleteAnother second babaymama loading.
ReplyDeleteHis family does not like her so he left her and his own son.
ReplyDeleteSo if his family doesn't like you, he'll dump you, too?
And her son or daughter.
DeleteWhy are you confused?
ReplyDeleteYou have a man in the South and one in the North. The southern man has you and his BM. You have both decided to keep different eggs in multiple baskets.
The equation is balanced on both sides! Fret no more!
Gbam.
DeleteShe liked first guy but three years no marriage and now someone else showed up. What to do? Sit and hope ?
DeleteI don’t like the reason he gave for not marrying his baby mama but not everyone must marry cause of a child. If you like him, go for it. You clearly do like him
Your southern boy that hustles, I wouldn’t leave him cause of no job. But if he’s wasting time with marrying you, start thinking
Poster sit down here.
ReplyDeleteHe is married to a different lady with kids and has a babymama with a son. He is from South. I can provide more information but the question is, do you want more information? You can describe him as a hustler because he does not have any focused job. He does this and that.
No need to tell you to run, I want you to stayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.
The one with the baby mama issue is a swingler,he is still sleeping with her that is why she was angry when she saw your picture ,just be careful....so that they will not pour acid on you........ Josaria
ReplyDeleteAre u even sure she's a baby mama or he's wife? I remember when my hubby told a gal he has a baby mama meanwhile we have 3 kids together den. Wen I found out he cheated on me with d gal wen he travelli to akwaibom. Men can lie just to get under ur skirt. So make more enquiry about d said baby mama
ReplyDeleteChaaiii!
Delete18;13, When last did you do HIV test?
DeleteBoyfriend for North and South.
ReplyDeleteDon't forget East and West.
Anything Baby Daddy, a 1000 God forbids.
Your guy is still dating his baby mama, your guy should define what you both share together and also set boundaries for his baby mama. Make sure you are sure he is not with his baby mama before you go 2 zero.
ReplyDeleteHave a conversation with him.sometimes, getting married to someone who already has a baby isn't too easy cos you may end up fighting both physical and spiritual battles.be prayerful and the lord will direct your path.
ReplyDeleteMost of baby daddies I know always want to be sleeping with their baby mamas unless the baby mamas have remarried or have serious relationships, except the ones that have dignity.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
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