Nedu cannot seem to get any other content except bashing Ladies day in, day out on his podcast...... Read his recent topic and say what is on your mind....Do you agree with him or not?
According to Nedu on his 'Honest bunch' podcast ,non-virgins make better decisions, while the majority of virgins are not competent decision-makers.
He said, “If I want to get married, I won’t marry a virgin,” The fact that you are a virgin does not make you the best woman a man can marry.
For me, why I think you should marry a girl that is not a virgin, girls who are not virgins, in my opinion, make better decisions better, because most girls who are virgins believe that their virginity is their pride and value.
“They would say my virginity is who I am as a woman. It is everything. I’m 30 years old and I’m a virgin.
Which means, every pride as a woman is that your virginity, so when you get married and you husband dis-virgins you, then what will become of you? In that case, anything a man tells you at that point, you agree, but for the experienced lady, you have that mentality to know what is right and wrong.
But that is not to say being a virgin is bad, it’s my personal opinion.”
Virgins keep yourselves oh. The STI's are not smiling at all. The ones that stay in the body for 5, 7 years before showing symptoms are not smiling oh. This Nedu ehn. Please oh the diseases in the market are not smiling at all.
ReplyDeleteYou are hilarious. As if virgins are brainless and because of Nedu, would decide to throw away their virginity 🤣
Delete14:35 most of them sound brainless oh, because I dont know how you say you want to keep virginity for a man who is not a virgin.
DeleteDoes it make sense??
You are giving him brand new and he is giving you knockabout, fairly used sexual organs that has entered every hole like a pig.
Disgusting.
Better keep your body as a gift to yourself and God that is if you believe in God.
With all the disgusting diseases around, soul ties etc what exactly is the pleasure people claim to gain in sleeping around like mongrel?
15:01 I think it's time women start making virginity a criteria for picking husbands. Seriously it's not a joke. Since you want brand new, you too have to be brand new.
Delete"Nedu cannot seem to get any other content except bashing Ladies day in, day out on his podcast." That's all!!. I dnt necessarily see it as bashing ladies but that he knows tlks like this would make news,
DeleteWhat's the connection between virginity and decision making?
Infact is the decision of abtenaince not a good decision on its own to begin with?
I imagine him laughing his ass out just reading comments. I dnt want to believe he actually means some of the things he says.
15:20 you want to present your body as what ? Christmas gift abi sacrificial lamb to somebody whose genitals are already stained with the fluids of women he cannot remember.
DeleteBut he is looking for brand new to feed his ego. You ever heard anything so funny??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This guy dey worry sha😅,zukwanike Chinedu,God bless you as you comply.
ReplyDeleteNedu you dey over do this gender wahala thing..In my opinion, virginity is different from purity....You can be a virgin but not pure...Na why we get foolish virgins, but not all virgin are bad decision makers...His opinion is very skewed, what he should have said is there is more to just being a virgin, it is not price or a gift, there should be more to just being a virgin...
DeleteThere should be more intelligent reasons why you choose not to get married to a virgin. You blame women for sleeping with men, you still have something to say about being a virgin. Bunch of clowns. $ex is cheap but a lot of women have their personal reasons for keeping their virginity, it's a choice! How do you people come up with conclusions like this sef
ReplyDeleteLike am telling you. The fear of diseases ehn has made me as a man to zip up until the appointed time. Come and see diseases that are deadly flying up and down. God help...., Hpv, oral herpes, cancer and what more. Very scary.
DeleteDon't mind them. All they are interested in is condemning women any which way.
DeleteMai dia. Last time, we were thoroughly warned against being independent 🤣
DeleteLollll, men are very very confused creatures.
DeleteIsn’t he married?
ReplyDeleteNo his unvirgin Wife dumped his sorry a*s like hot potatoes. I really used to like him but I don’t get his message above. You should be encouraging girls to abstain and wait until they are in a committed relationship preferably marriage so they are not trying and testing STDs upandan.
DeleteHe actually should be encouraging every unmarried adult to abstain. You should hear Lynx speak about it. Every unmarried person.
DeleteYou see all these men/women are scum advocates, I diligently avoid them because they are all damaged and toxic. All of them. No matter how good you are, they are just patiently waiting for an opportunity to say ‘I talk am’ whether it is your fault or not, they are even ready to manufacture that opportunity to justify their delusions.
When someone has nothing else to offer. I feel women should just ignore him. The only time he is relevant, is when he talks about women. No other content.
ReplyDeleteHe should have stuck to his comedy
DeleteThere are many things that make a podcast exciting. Chaii, he's just making his own boring.
DeleteWhen will this nedu pandemic end ?!
ReplyDelete😂 He is the new commissioner of women affairs.
DeleteHe is making money,all his posts and guests are hits,back to back.
DeleteSeems women chase Nedu in his dreams. Even in his fantasies it is women. While he is eating...women, even while he is praying early in the morning.... Women. Oga oh. Wetin woman do our brother nah 😭😭😭😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteI don’t buy the virgin thing but I will never marry a woman that hasn’t been there and done that.Can’t marry someone that hasn’t experienced life.you can turn a bad girl good but once a good girl goes bad,she’s gone forever.
ReplyDelete"They say you CAN'T turn a bad girl good
DeleteBut once a good girl's gone bad, she's gone forever" - Jay-Z :Song Cry..
You sef reason am, if bad girl is gone forever, how you won still come turn am to good?
We need to kill this SIMP mindset ASAP,. See men saying they'll choose non virgins over virgins,. I don't know if women have so manipulated y'all to be okay with short-changing yourselves or you just want to sound politically woke.. have you seen a girl say she'll choose a broke man over a rich man before? You guys make me ashame..
And please know your lyrics correctly before posting next time
Please explain to me, how having xes = experiencing life?!
DeleteIsn't experiencing life about travelling and exploring the world - trying new cuisines, cultures. Meeting new people and forming close bonds. Learning new skills - a language, an instrument, a sport etc.
Experiencing life means growth and improvement.
But...to you, it means getting your dick wet and quoting Shawn Carter lyrics. Tsk tsk tsk
So you'll pick an indisciplined person over a disciplined person? Same way someone was saying he won't marry a virgin because she's not experienced in bed. What 😳😳😳!!! Smh You don't want peace of mind and discipline? Men truly don't know what they want 🙄🙄
DeleteWell ya'll who are not virgins expecting virgins are deceiving yourselves. Some of you are directly responsible for disvirgining many by hook or by crook yet you are looking for virgins. And a lot of you still won't appreciate the virgins when you get them. You will find something else to use to discredit them. Na una sabi. Continue looking for what is not lost.
DeleteI dated a virgin,a very good girl and provided for her needs.Gave her all the good things her friends had so she wouldn’t do the things they did,Wetin happen las las?she still enter streets.
DeleteNedu again!
ReplyDeleteI feel he likes the attention...
Lol AHH!
ReplyDeleteNedu you know say you be my Gee,. But on this one I no gree oh..
Virgin Anytime, Anyday,. Twice on Wednesday..
Do you know what sexual imprint is? Most ex would still bang if the environment/chance presents itself,. Do you want to be in Cooper of Sex/Life situation? Bro, for naija babes weh no dey add anything for person life, going for a non virgin is short changing and playing yourself..
Yes, virginity doesn't determine the success of a marriage, likewise does fvcklicant girls🙄,. But which do you think would give your kids the proper moral upbringing they need?
Unless the babe has sense like BV BlackBerry,. Omo,. You better just go with virgins at least you have something you can still be proud of even when she dey do like ogbanje
Genuinely surprised your machine head stands erect for women. Thought you hated w.
DeleteNotwithstanding, I will start taking bets on when you come out of the wardrobinhcloset...
So telling women the truth means hating them bah..
DeleteNa why MM scam una
So we’re to assume you’re a virgin right? Since you expect a woman to be a virgin and sexual imprint goes both ways .
DeleteOr it’s about men expecting what they wouldn’t do themselves from men ?
Sexual imprint is not exclusive to a particular gender.
DeleteYou remind me of one guy that is always crying that he wants a prayerful wife that goes to church, but guyman na womaniser and drinks like a fish and mostly only enters church for weddings and other functions. Yet wants an SU wife. I dey pity the person pickin wey guyman wan frustrate.
DeleteOn the contrary...
ReplyDeleteA 30 year old virgin tells me that the woman has a lot of positive attributes.
1. She has self-control and discipline.
-In a hyper sexualised world, it's refreshing to see someone going against the norm.
2. She doesn't bend to peer pressure.
-When all your friends and acquaintances are doing something, there's a higher likelihood that you might tow the same path. So, having someone be different is worth applauding.
3. It shows conviction and standing by your beliefs.
-If the decision to abstain doesn't stem from a negative experience/trauma...then it takes a great deal of strength to choose to remain a virgin until marriage, or a deeply committed monogamous relationship.
4. It shows she has a high level of self-worth. -She would rather hold out (even when there's a strong urge) for a deserving man, than sleep with every Tom, Dick and Harry.
Your head dey there 💯
DeletePreach !!!
Delete5. Low libido
Delete6. Frigid
7. Mutilation of the genitals
8. Used the other available holes (as zaddy pays more for an@l, BJ&golden showers.
Infact stella do a secret post, let virgins wow you with shocking stories.
Keeping I.T. Real
9. Absolutely no man has had any interest in her sexually, she may get to 65yrs old and still a virgin cus no male has any drop of interest in her.
DeleteYes incel is not just a woke term. Its real
At anon 14:57 while there are exceptions, not every virgin has this experience. It's all a case of discipline.
DeleteAnon 14:57, you just had to ruin a really beautiful comment 🤣
DeleteAt anon 14:57 and anon 15:18 why are you using style to mock people because of their decisions. Yes there are exceptions.
Delete😂 😂 😂 😂
DeleteHow boring will this place be, if we all think one way.
DeleteNo I didnt set out to mock anyone, just bringing another angle to the discourse..
It appears as if folks here are very young, luke 20 to 25yrs old, so they haven't experienced or heard of how life can have twists.
Na so man do 'holy' courting with woman, that year, no single romance at all till marriage/wedding night.
After a couple of years of marriage he run comot, say wife's body doesn't respond to sex.
Funny enough he was a pastor, so can't indulge in side chick or girlfriends to ease his pressure. He left the marriage. Infact what made him trend at the time was bcos it was controversial for a redeemed pastor to not just get a divorce,(one sin) but INSIST on sleeping with his next babe (another sin) before marriage. He said there was nothing he didn't do to salvage that first marriage, from counselling to medication. He reached out to general overseer sef. They all said, marriage is forever and added a lot of other biblical teachings.
Man was frustrated He opened up small that when its time for gbench, she will just wail in pain or avoid anything that will make him bring his kini out.
I think he left redeemed to pastor another church sef as their views were strict. And from his awful experiences, he was determined to test the waters (have sex) before marriage
Back to my point, I was just highlighting the reasons why some virgins remain virgins till old age. Some of them simply don't have sexual urges but will claim resisting temptation, how did u resist when u don't even respond to erotic stuff?
An unsuspecting man fit meet that type of virgin, come dey very excited bcos in his head, she remained a virgin for so and so reasons and is stoic during temptations and peer pressure.....excited man go rush and marry her, after months of highly condensed congi, he go come dey carry face and misplaced aggression to office or business or even us innocent beevees and netzins.
Unlike women who talk about issues, baba can't even open up.
Stories full ground. If they do a confessions in anonymous mode kind of post, In a secret or anonymous post, you go hear confessions and expand your knowledge as a young person.
P.s: please am not bashing virgins nor mocking them.
I think i prefer a fiance and fiancee to both be virgins. But do some kissing and make out. Check if the heat is on, ensure she got wet(I don't mean fingering o, google it) ensure he got hard then have faith that other things will go naturally as you both fully commit.
And yes a celibate female can marry a virgin male or vice versa.
Make I go chop biko.
Seems Nedu's comedy career has waned reason he took up another career which is criticising women and painting women in a bad light.
ReplyDeleteI think he didn't start today though. All his skits has always portrayed women wrongly and people found him funny and applauded him now he has taken it few steps further and he keeps getting 'better' at it.
Some people's role model. Smh.
ReplyDeleteBia Nedu, shey na only women dey this planet ni? Abi why don't you have any other topics to discuss on your podcast except woman matter? Leave women be for once mai dia they are not the cause of your predicament 😤
Akuko ndi mgbu
ReplyDeletezukwanike Nedu
ReplyDeleteeveryday you must talk about women/ladies.
Its ok to like sex and practice safe sex, who did this to you people?
ReplyDeleteEven if you give me this short man for free.i won't take!! How do women find
ReplyDeletemen like this attractive?? A big turn of
Why is it that it is mostly non virgin men that are concerned with a woman's status? One up there is mentioning sexual imprint and implying that women are the ONLY ones that impart moral uprightness in the children. I laugh in male privilege.
ReplyDeletePlease marry whose values align with yours, virgin or not. If a man is a non virgin, he forgoes the right to expect an untouched woman as his wife. A virgin wife is NOT a prize for a man who has been sexually active and borderline irresponsible in his sexual history. I'm not interested in gender war, but I have to speak up when I see a pattern with a person or group of persons, regardless of gender. For example: what about a woman who waited till age 25 to have sex. This person has intercourse just once and thereafter decides to remain celibate. How then does one categorize this woman? I'll wait.
The world is not black and white and many concepts of existence and human interaction are incredibly nuanced. It would take an educated mind and a person who possesses intellectual range to fully engage in fruitful discourse. If you're not it, please sit it out.
Dear Oma should I order you suya, shawarma, cake? You really hit the nail on the head. Maybe isiewu?
DeleteAm anonymous 14 57 above
DeleteMillion likes for the part you said world is not black or white, its NUANCED.
I haven't seen my other comments published so let me paste it here.
How boring will this place be, if we all think one way.
No I didnt set out to mock anyone, just bringing another angle to the discourse
It appears as if folks here are very young, luke 20 to 25yrs old, so they haven't experienced or heard of how life can have twists.
Na so man do 'holy' courting with woman, that year, no single romance at all till marriage/wedding night.
After a couple of years of marriage he run comot, say wife's body doesn't respond to sex.
Funny enough he was a pastor, so can't indulge in side chick or girlfriends to ease his pressure. He left the marriage. Infact what made him trend at the time was bcos it was controversial for a redeemed pastor to not just get a divorce,(one sin) but INSIST on sleeping with his next babe (another sin) before marriage. He said there was nothing he didn't do to salvage that first marriage, from counselling to medication. He reached out to general overseer sef. They all said, marriage is forever and added a lot of other biblical teachings.
Man was frustrated He opened up small that when its time for gbench, she will just wail in pain or avoid anything that will make him bring his kini out.
I think he left redeemed to pastor another church sef as their views were strict. And from his awful experiences, he was determined to test the waters (have sex) before marriage
Back to my point, I was just highlighting the reasons why some virgins remain virgins till old age. Some of them simply don't have sexual urges but will claim resisting temptation, how did u resist when u don't even respond to erotic stuff?
An unsuspecting man fit meet that type of virgin, come dey very excited bcos in his head, she remained a virgin for so and so reasons and is stoic during temptations and peer pressure.....excited man go rush and marry her, after months of highly condensed congi, he go come dey carry face and misplaced aggression to office or business or even us innocent beevees and netzins.
Unlike women who talk about issues, baba can't even open up.
Stories full ground. If they do a confessions in anonymous mode kind of post, In a secret or anonymous post, you go hear confessions and expand your knowledge as a young person.
P.s: please am not bashing virgins nor mocking them.
I think i prefer a fiance and fiancee to both be virgins. But do some kissing and make out. Check if the heat is on, ensure she got wet(I don't mean fingering o, google it) ensure he got hard then have faith that other things will go naturally as you both fully commit.
And yes a celibate female can marry a virgin male or vice versa.
Make I go chop biko.
This story is sad. The woman deceived the man. She knew and she didn't talk. Chaii 😪
DeleteOma good
DeleteComing from someone that experienced alleged paternity fraud…you would think virgins are a great deal for him but he is here spewing trash. I am a virgin for myself and not for a man.
ReplyDeleteI understand what Nedu is saying.
ReplyDeleteI have met babes who are virgins with nasty attitudes and they carry on like that virginity is everything.
To the guy saying once a girl have had sex then she is likely to sleep with her ex again, don't generalise these things.
There is something known as self control for crying out loud.
The first guy I had a crush on, we dated for 3yrs, no sex was involved. Even if we made out we never had penetrative sex or oral.
And I'm talking for myself and for some like me who have self control.
Some of us non-virgings can be celibate for so long.
It all depend on how you see sex.
To me it's special and if i don't see you as worthy to have it with nothing you do will make me bulg.
It's good to be remain a virgin. Please if you are and you desire to remain, respectfully keep it so.
They just want to rubbish women. Divide and conquer. They know that women compete against each other. So now they would ignite virgins against none virgins, when they themselves are usually everywhere tarnishing and tainting their lives sexually.
DeleteNedu wan trend na, if he no discus controversial topic how una wan dey interested to watch him podcast.
ReplyDeleteWe move
The guy is just making his money.
ReplyDeleteEvery mallam with him own kettle.
The one that married as a virgin, did they not judy her still? Even before then were there not other women. Abeg leave story.
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