Hmmm.....
PREGNANT FOR COUSIN AND KEEPING IT.
My story.
The first time I saw this cousin of mine was when we were teenagers. My siblings and I were squatting with his mom but he was living in another state with his dad. He visited once or twice. Fast forward to three years ago when we met at my late father's burial.
Four months ago he called me to inquire if I am still at my base and I said yes. For crying out loud, I work here. He said he wanted to come to pursue his late dad's gratuity in the Ministry and would like to stay a night or two at my place. No probs. He came by night bus and arrived my base on Friday morning.
I already took permission from the office so as to go with him to all the places he needed to go. It was a successful outing and just as we were about heading home, I was called to come to the office for a task. I had to drop him at a garden close to my office. By the time I returned there, this cousin of mine was already drunk. Just about four hours of dropping him? Well what do you expect from a rivers man.
I bought some fish and other take away and some drinks and we headed home. Low key inside of me, I was glad I had a drinking partner though I like to drink at home. We got home and I insisted on we having our bath before eating because I knew I would be tired after eating. I had mine first and my cousin went for his.
This guy came out of the bathroom without a towel or wrapper. He came out naked and walked to the room. I was in the parlor but I saw him. I saw everything. We ate and drank. He drank more. I allowed him have my bed and I slept on my blanket on the floor in the parlor.
Later that night I felt someone turn me over. To be honest, I was too weak to fight although there was no reason to fight because he was not rough. He had me. I moaned. I moaned for my cousin. It was like a dream. I said I will only believe if he apologized in the morning.
In the morning, he carried on like nothing happened. Well maybe nothing happened, so I thought. I made breakfast and the day went on like that. Sunday morning, he left. He got to his base and called to say thank you. That was all.
A little story about myself. I am 43 years old and had been trying for a baby when relationships were not favouring me. I took clomid to the extent that I developed cysts. So I gave up and was just living my life. I missed my period and thought menopause had caught up with me.
I didn't even think of pregnancy cos how is it possible after all the 'trys'? But then the doctor confirmed it. I am pregnant. I am pregnant for my cousin and I am keeping it. If the universe said the baby I have been looking for will come through my cousin, who am I to disobey. I can only pray to God that I carry to term and that my baby is free from the consequences that may come from the way he was conceived.
Thank you Stella.
Thank you Stella.
So, in other words, the universe gave you the baby you have been looking for through your cousin?. Hmmm๐. It's funny how people know something is wrong, but then they try to justify their actions, twist things so it favours them, and they don't look bad.
ReplyDeleteAre you suggesting abortion for her?
Delete๐๐๐๐ this one left Stella speechless๐
DeleteStella,s reaction got me rotfl
Pearl, not suggesting that, but she shouldn't say it was the Universe that gave her the gift. It seems like she knew what she was doing.
DeletePeople marry their cousin
DeleteIt’s just not accepted in certain parts of Nigeria.
How is he your cousin sef? First or second?
Ibidapo is allowed.Hausa Fulani people Dey marry their cousins all the time abeg.You will carry to term and deliver safely.
DeleteUsing one big problem to solve another. Make person pray make this world no remember am because one problem Will lead to another and another
Delete17:07, he is my aunty's second son. My father's younger sister's son.
DeleteHeii the blood closeness is too much naw, it's not even a distant cousin this is incest, no matter your challenges would you be proud to tell your folks the owner of the baby or tell your child tmrw, you see this thing people had normalised like because you re looking for a child therefore you can carry this one like because there is poverty you will steal ,or you don't have money you commit murder
DeleteI'm not happy when adults normalise immorality so at your age of a teenager does this what will you advice
That your cousin is adevil like you guys are this close he slept with you and you said you can't fight and because you re looking for a baby you will keep it .this type can comfortably sleep with his daughter Jesus at 40 sth years this is the least you can do well well
Negedu
ReplyDeleteSomeone help me pick up my jaw and close๐ง๐ง, nahhhh no advise from me.
DeleteYour cousin?????
Maybe cos i am based in the north. its no biggy to me..why all these shout of cousin cousin? at least its not her blood brother. they have different parents directly so not as bad as how everyone here seems to be taking it. chill guys!
DeleteEwe oo
ReplyDeleteThe foundations you set for your children MATTER
Deletethis is wrong
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ReplyDeleteOh dear๐ณ
ReplyDeleteAnyway northerns marry their cousin everyday and nothing has happened to them.. So long he is not ur blood brother, congratulations, @43, I will never advised abortion.. Carry ur baby with ur full chest but when ask the father of ur child please what will u tell people?
I sincerely think everyone will be happy for me, truthfully now. My mother was already on the process of adopting for me from her base but the reverend father changed his mind about giving out children that period. This was shortly before the last election. No one will pester me about the father especially as I am not looking at marriage.
DeleteIt is allowed in islam
DeleteCongratulations Poster. In my culture cousins do marry so it's not new to me.
DeletePoster I'm speechless, I just pity the poor child. Are you that selfish to consider yourself before considering your unborn child? I'm not suggesting that you should abort but you are a very terrible selfish person. Poor child
DeleteWell,all I can say is that in some cultures,Cousins marry each other. Even in Northern Nigeria. What I can't fathom now is whether you intend to tell your cousin he is the father of your child and the consequences this news will have on your family? But you both didn't do well Sha.
ReplyDeleteSis abeg no tell your cousin or any family member who the father is, no try am.
ReplyDeleteNka bu ezigbote ALU, which universe gave you child through your cousin?tufia
DeleteUnu na abuo e me ruo ala Tufiakwa mpu!
DeleteHaa!!!! I am speechless
ReplyDeleteNkan be laye yi. O ma sรฉ o ๐คฆ๐คฆ๐คฆ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
ReplyDeleteYou go explain tire.
ReplyDeleteWhat!!!
ReplyDeleteJust pray the baby don't have any deformity.
My thoughts too
DeleteThen half, in fact half of northern nigeria particularly core north wud be deformed by now. We marry our cousins. Infact there is an area in Kano where i am from, ask anybody, Galadanci is the name of the place, they hardly marry outsiders, only their cousins. First cousin oo, second cousin oo, all cousins. So everybody in the area is related to each other. I had a frnd from the area, he told me his grandparents are cousins, his parents are cousins and his eldest sister is married to one of their cousins. Guess what? All of them are fine and healthy.
DeleteJust know that, what is forbidden in one culture/ religion is perfectly fine in others, and believe me, if there were consequences by now they wud have shown. Even among u guys, whose religion forbids, believe it or not, this thing happens more than they say it out, ppl jst don’t come out to say it.
Ahhh
DeleteThe closeness is too much ooo
Ewoooo
Chimo ooooo
Chaiiii
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See the reason I don't like Alcohol
God will help you oo
It's the rape for me. That you moaned doesn't make it consensual and someone could read this as a justification for rape. As to the relationship, shebi we are all related at some level of we all came from Adam and Eve. ๐คท
DeleteThey are all fine because they haven't had any genetic issue that you know of passed down to their kids. Lots of people that intermarry within the family aren't that lucky. Same way sickle cell or albinism can occur when both parents are carriers is the same way other diseases show up in kids of married cousins who inherited those traits. There are many documentaries of real life families facing the impact of marrying their cousins and having kids with different genetic related issues.
DeleteS-H-O-C-K-E-D Things dey happen
ReplyDeleteHmmm,as In u even moaned sef.for ur cousin? meaning u enjoyed it .nawa .how can u even feel that way for ur cousin? Some people are just weird.
DeleteIf you can leave with this secret for the rest of your life., Good for you.
ReplyDeleteNawao! People Dey this life and things Dey occur on a daily! Nawao
ReplyDeletePoster the pregnancy is here already , you and your cousin did the wrong thing if you are coming from my place but i cannot judge you cos you both are adults. I will say you should ask your cousin to come around so that you both can talk about it and you both know how to handle this.
ReplyDeleteIf is in my place you may not survive during child birth if you both do not confess or do cleansing cos is an abomination for cousins to sleep with each other. Evil things will be happening around your family cos of this evil you both committed till the needful is done.
You both should have talked about it not keeping mute like nothing happened. He was waiting for you to raise the topic but you too pretended like nothing happened till you are confirmed pregnant. Keep the pregnancy but please talk to your parent especially your mother so that you can be alive to take care of your child. you bother should face the consequences of your actions as adults.
Only God can save us
ReplyDeletePoster please keep us updated as it goes. I wish you luck.
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ReplyDeleteI am coming back to comment , I need to relax and think twice because this ur chronicle dey make me shake my head .
ReplyDeleteSo, u mean the universe gave the the main and Les to pregnancy abi? Wait make I go toilet come back
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DeleteIt is acceptable in the north but frowned upon in some other parts. From her narration, it's obvious that it's a taboo in her culture, if she insists on keeping the baby, then let her leave her cousin out of the picture. Her choice, her responsibility.
ReplyDeleteYou people act like this child won’t grow up and ask for his or her father. Selfish lots!!! Selfish poster!!! You don’t even consider the well-being, and self esteem of your child and even feeling like an out cast amongst your family/community, possibility of not having a relationship with his father, etc. It’s obviously a taboo in your culture so brace up for what’s to come/consequences of your action. Imagine if child now looks exactly like him papa…hmmm na wa ooo.
DeleteThere's nothing bad there , some parts of Igbo marry their cousins and their father's brother sef. In their place the person that is their sis or brother is someone from their mother's side of the family, so they can't marry from there.
ReplyDeleteYou lied.its an abomination in Igbo land. Aru...
DeleteNahh mann it’s just too close to home. As in it feels violating. I personally CANNOT. Poster, deal with the consequences of your actions and pray that child turns out well without any issues else, you’ll be the one to deal with it.
DeleteWhat part does that? You would have mentioned the part because as far as I know it's a big taboo.
DeleteIt's a taboo in the East so what part are you referring to?
DeleteIt’s a taboo in Igboland! Please, do tell us the part you are referring to?
DeleteGod forbid and forgive you for saying it ,which part mention name which state did you see others saying it's approved in the north ,someone mentioned galadanci up there, do not say what you don't know do you know what we call it in Igbo Alu abomination, tufiakwa something that if you re caught you go for cleansing we call it ikpu aru don't ever say what you don't know before Amadioha will visit you
DeleteYou're a very wicked person to say igbos practice this abomination and pls next time state the fact.
DeleteGuessmeey
I know in Islam it's not a sin and some northerners also practice this type of marriage.
ReplyDeleteIf you're first cousins and not from the north,I don't know how your families would accept this news,then if this cousin is younger than you,I would suggest you keep it to yourself for now.
May you carry your baby to term.
Amen. Thank you.
DeleteHaa! Aru. Una dey try o. How can i unread dis biko nu
ReplyDeleteEyes popped out*
ReplyDeleteJaw drops open*
What did I just read?
Poster your cousin won't allow you keep the baby unless you don't plan to tell him....but hmmm can you be able to live with this heavy secret? Wo me what do i know sef๐๐๐
ReplyDeleteHmmmm. Poster, from your narrative, I don't think what transpired between you and your cousin was a happenstance. I think you took advantage of your cousin's weakness for alcohol to seduce him into having sex with you. Who piles an already drunk man with drinks? You saw your cousin's naked and you were stirred. All that your talk about being too drunk to resist and even shove him away is bunkum. You knew what you wanted all along and your cousin was just available for that role. The tone of your chronicle shows it was a premeditated act, and you don't regret it. That is why I wonder why you are sending this chronicle?๐ค๐ค
ReplyDeleteIn some cultures marrying ones cousin is not a taboo, it is even considered to be the ideal marriage as is obtainable in some parts of the Northern Nigeria and the Arab world. In the Bible, Abraham married his half sister Sarah, and Isaac and his son Jacob, got married to their cousins. But in the south South of Nigeria, where you likely come from, such marriages are an abominable act, but in your desperation for a child you didn't mind. Therefore, be ready to live with the guilt and societal consequences that will come up with your choice. Tell your cousin you are expecting his child. I hate it when people do things and want to shy away from the consequences of their actions. Or how do you intend to explain away the father of your child to your family and even the child when he/she starts asking you who their father is?
You have chosen a difficult route, I hope you can navigate the route
Thank you! If genders were flipped, everyone here would be shouting gRAPE
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DeleteNah she didn’t go to him
DeleteYou said it all
DeleteChai! Sometimes when God is about to answer us that's when we go the wrong route
Delete@ Cheks55, God bless you
Delete@cheks55, that’s Old Testament. We follow the New Testament after Christ came to this world. So it’s definitely an abomination.
DeleteThe part about him walking out naked without her saying anything and they even ate while he was naked is strange. Her reason for not resisting is also very weird
DeleteHmm people are really doing things in this life ๐ค
ReplyDeleteI can't believe what I read now
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ReplyDeleteBecause this chronicle ehn, I am lost or short of words.
So do we ban male cousins from coming over to our houses. Because how can a man be so loose as to sleep with his cousin.
Men when we tell you to avoid staying alone with the female gender, you go hear, you're too religious, too overzealous, abegii don't talk that thing. Athink you can see now.
Poster's cousin knew his weakness, then devil con help am add spices (alcohol) con ginger am. Right now, he'll be in shock ๐ฒ as his head will be spinning as to what Shithousery he has put himself in.
Fear Alcohol oh. It completely removed their limiters and inhibitors. Without alcohol everybody would Have his senses on.
If he's a remorseful person he'll be shaken and ashamed. God abegii may we not find ourselves in this situation. It's beyond embarrassing. Like how do you explain to your family members.
It is well.
I understand your dilema because you’ve been looking for a child so I get it. I am more concerned about the baby being born with defects and genetic disorders especially if he is your first cousin. This doesn’t happen in all cases and I’m hoping you’re an exception. Sometimes a single mother may feel like she’s better off childless than taking care of a child with developmental issues and limited resources. Please note that I said sometimes.
ReplyDeleteI am most surprised that at just 43, you have given up hope on yourself and God for a family.
ReplyDeleteAnd concluded this is d best it can be.
It's well with you
This right here ranks in one of my most SHOCKING ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฒ chronicles in my years on SDK blog. Omo ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฒ
ReplyDeleteI am just surprised that at 43 you have given up hope on yourself and even on God, to have a family of you own and kids.
ReplyDeleteAnd you have settled for this as the best you can get.
It's well with you
What if your child grows up and ask who the father is?and what explanations do you have for family members and people who may be curious to know who the father of your unborn child is?
ReplyDeleteThe imaginary pain or shame she doesn't want to face by being without a child at 43, she has transferred it to her child to face the real shame for her.
DeleteThe way I plan to take care of this child who has come to wipe away my tears, he won't ask for any father. Even the children with complete family will be jealous of him . That's a promise. So help me God.
DeletePoster, Amen to your prayer.
DeleteGod will help you ๐
Just prepare your self because that question will surely come. It's normal for the kid to ask once they start school and learn that other kids have their mum and dad. It doesn't mean you aren't taking care of the kid, it's just a normal question.
DeleteI pray for Mercy upon you
ReplyDeleteJust pray the child doesn't have any Genetic abnormality.
ReplyDeleteKeep the pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteDon't tell your cousin.
The universe will come through for you.
Amen. Thank you.
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ReplyDeleteWell, here in the north first cousins marry each other and they give birth to healthy children including the christians among them. I have a secondary school mate I reconnected with here, she's hausa but christian, she's married to her first cousin and they have 3 healthy children but where I come from it's a taboo....i cannot imagine having anything sexual to do with my cousin,tufiakwa!
ReplyDeleteDon't justify your action with that universe talk please,own up to your mistake, have a discussion with your cousin. I can't tell you to abort or not , it's your decision to make
It is well
ReplyDeleteThis one shock me ooo
ReplyDeleteWhere is my comment..
ReplyDeleteEE don enter sperm ๐
E don dey become normal thing for here. If we talk, dem go say dem get plenty viewers already.
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ReplyDeletePlease start praying for your unborn child chai
That is why I say NO to any guest coming to sleep over at my house be you cousin, friend or any relative at that unless you’re my nuclear family that I know and live with. I’m done with that miss goody goody.
ReplyDeleteThe “thank you Stella” at the end took me out๐คฃ Folks plan out their desire then make sure alcohol is in the mix so they can use it as the excuse when they had planned their deeds all along. Please
ReplyDeleteI just taya!!!! Poster was already salivating at cousin's nakedness before cousin too finished work.
DeleteBut how do people get sexually attracted to family????
Dainty, both of these ppl knew exactly what they were doing. Plus, she has given out so many details her ppl will know who they are. Everything this BV does is deliberate. I know her personality type, always acting innocent but sneaky all the time๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
DeleteThis is incest and it's a sin.That innocent child will come into the world to pay for a sin he/she knows nothing about.i pray for God's mercy upon that child.
ReplyDeleteSin yes, incest no! Sin because they're unmarried,but it's not incest because they're not siblings
DeleteHi,Game mistress. Pls check the definition out on Google.
DeleteIncest means sexual activity between family members or close relatives
It is well.
ReplyDeleteNkan sele o.
ReplyDeleteI hope you've thought thoroughly about the consequences of your decision in the future, honestly I'm more concerned about the innocent baby you want to bring to the world.
First Question, What’s your Tribe?
ReplyDeleteSecond Question, Your Religion?
Third Question, What will you tell your Parents, Sibling when asked who’s the Father of your unborn Child?
Fourth Question, Are you proud of yourself?
Lastly, Can you live with this Secret for Life?
Hmmmmmmmm this wan na bomb oooo please have a discussion with your cousin and plan to japa as that is the only safe place to have your child and be sane.
ReplyDeleteAll these people screaming abomination, who made it an abomination? If other human beings do it and it's good and normal, what was the reason for the other group that made it an abomination? Even God who created us told Abraham to go get wife from his kin, Isaacs same thing. So who is man that would now come and see it as abomination. Poster just relax and have your baby if you like tell your cousin, if you don't want you keep it to yourself.
ReplyDeleteI won't even tell my cousin. I won't even tell any family member till my baby comes. I live far away from them all and by the grace of God won't be needing their financial assistance. Everyone is married and minding their families. No one really care like that.
DeleteIn Badagry also is not a new thing
ReplyDeleteIt's well ooooo, God will see you through though we all prays our goodness should not be from difficult source.
ReplyDeleteThis one is a conundrum, but I tell you what, that child will be a reminder of your despicable act. Just go to God honestly, because I don’t know what to advise you. Cry to him and repent just like David did when he slept with Uriah’s wife. The child didn’t survive because it was wrong to bring that kind of a child to the world. Sincerely go to God, fast with Psalm 51 and let the will of God be done ✅
ReplyDeletePoster you deliberately did it, forget useing your age as an excuse,must it be your cousin
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo
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DeleteWow, this is really wrong, but like you said, "the universe wants that for you",Wish you luck then.
ReplyDeleteThe conversation was probably filled with innuendo. He did not drunkenly rape her as she testified. she enjoyed the sex. in fairness, she stayed away from him. dude knew sex was on the table and went for it. she didn't prove him wrong. Which is why people feel you planned it. get it now?
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ReplyDeleteWhy are people shouting shocking shocking up and down,? Even in the bible people married their cousins,the only sin is marrying your blood brothers or sisters, in northern Nigeria cousins marry themselves every other day,so what's the big deal, if I hear deformities or whatever,that's fallacy. Since you can comfortably take care of the baby,it's left to you to disclose or not to the donor. Safe delivery to a healthy baby
ReplyDeleteSafe delivery is all I need. Thank you.
DeleteGame mistress what are you saying like what is this you re spewing forgive my English,can you marry your cousin shebi you have a child can your child do this ,even if you don't have a child yet what in heaven's name are you saying
DeletePoster you said what you need is just congratulations,abeg keep that congratulations to yourself and since you re comfortable with what you did why send a chronicle I'm not God o or his assistant but you see this your type of congratulations I don't need it and may it reh who I know.congratulate yourself abeg our moral compass no need am , we re still from godly homes and people that know their culture
I'm ashamed on your behalf like what is this rubbish you re justifying did you marry your cousin,can you comfortably sleep with your cousin, that s how you people endorse rubbish for people but will never do it, defender of evil
DeleteWho will you tell the child is the father when he/she grows up and want to kmow his/her father. Na wa for you people o, does cousin's marry cousins in your place? Is it not an abomination to sleep with your cousin? Make una dey play.
ReplyDeleteIf you toss the coin both side...... Isn't a good thing I tell you. There's consequences to this things
ReplyDeleteSomebody it's from the south south you people are talking about north and Arab world , we want to hear from the poster if from their state maybe Rivers if this it's allowed.
ReplyDeletePoster you ll see when God wants to give you gift he will not give you the one that you ll be ashamed of, you said they wanted to adopt a baby for you during election therefore you ll use that and cover up well what we don't know in this life is that posterity is too far and it will shock to the marrows when you think all lid is covered, you will so wish that you didn't take this step well may it favor you sha but you see this situation it will forever be a burden in your soul
If truly what happened was an accident pls beg for God's mercy and ask him to take control. You may not know the consequences of your actions now but in future the truth will surely surface, what will you tell the family? Just pray to God
ReplyDeleteThe nakee and naker has been naking before, maybe not often but they must have had some form of intimacy before. Main reason why she didn't find it repulsive when he made that move! Forget that weak story she presented up there.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm... Poster,
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad.
1. You know it is wrong, that is why you are sending this chronicle.
2. Drunkenness, incest, fornication, deceit, lies etc.. See them piling up, and more to come.
3. What will you tell that child when it asks you for the father?. The child WILL SURELY ask.
4. I believe your time for answer had come, and you messed it up by falling for this devilish temptation.
5. What about the spiritual battles this will introduce to that child??
Way forward.
Please don't be selfish. I cannot recommend abortion, but go and ask God for mercy. Fast, pray, seek the face of God and sow a seed to an Orphanage if you can.
Ask God to please fix this, and be genuinely sorry.
He can and He will.
It is well.
Sha don't tell your cousin about the baby to avoid family wahala in future. Come to think of it, cousins married themselves in Bible times, you can tell him and also let the child know his father in future
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of weakness is that? I feel irritated
ReplyDeleteAm so speechless...What? This is barbaric......... Josaria
ReplyDeleteOmo!!! Please is this your distant cousin or very close cousin? If he is your distant cousin, then it's not bad. Even if you decide to keep the baby, what will you tell him/her when they inquire of their dad? The repercussion is too much ooo
ReplyDeleteGod forbid bad thing. You are not even considering the consequences of your actions and how it’ll affect your child.
ReplyDeleteSluttychic.
Please stop using the Old Testament times to justify this incest by a remorseless scheming woman who is only thinking about herself and not her child or her first cousin. The world population was very small and limited hence God did not frown on it in those cases. Read about Tamar, Absalom etc and the incest and how God’s punishment for David’s adultery played out within his family to include incest. The population had increased to exclude marrying close relatives or having intercourse with them!
ReplyDeleteHe was drunk yet you had a drinking buddy and gave him more to drink so you could try for a baby? Read about Lot whose daughters’ incest resulted in some tribes God commanded Israel to wipe out in the Old Testament. They got their old man drunk to get pregnant desperate like you for a baby forgetting that God brought made Adam and Eve from dust and would have sorted them out. He always sorts his own out. Was God pleased? No! God was probably about to give you a blessing that “added no shame” then you decided to help yourself. It seems to me like “rape of the cousin” to me taking advantage of his drunk state but I don’t expect many to see it. There is a reason exception for abortion is made in cases of “rape and incest”. Rape is about power imbalance leading to a sexual crime, you had the power in this case and your responses in the comment section shows you do not even get it. Having a kid, marrying are not ends on their own and at 43, with Rita Dominic, Kemi Adetiba etc stories you chose to shortchange yourself. Those asking her to repent should read her remorseless tone. You dragged your cousin who may have needed your help (why do I feel he is younger) into your situation instead of helping him. Desperation is not good. God gives with no shame. Pray that your sin will not find you out in form of genetics as you just wanted BVs to rubber stamp your scheming. You may need to apologize to that young man who may have been struggling with alcohol addiction, who may have at some point looked up to you.
He isn’t stupid, he may hear when you have a baby and his mental health may become messed up. Selfishness is not a good thing as it’s shortsighted and wicked. The child may need deliverance from foundational bondage if it’s a taboo in your area. It may even affect the man forever, who knows? A selfish person does not care. Only their “fulfillment at having a child matters”, not the child in 30 years time and struggles he or she may face due to this. Kicking the can down the road does not resolve issues.
There is a reason the US abortion fight excludes rape, incest. They are considered abomination even in the “tear eye” western world. May the spirit of genuine repentance visit you in Jesus Name.
Thank you o you finish work
DeleteNne you finish work in your writing
DeletePoster have you heard
Okies oooo
I still don't believe the poster ooo