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I have been married for almost 18yrs now,and my s#x drive and stamina has increased. I go up to 45 to 1hr foreplay included, but hubby can't keep up. So i rather avoid the s#x,and be s#xually unsatisfied. When you exercise, you have a healthy s#x drive and stamina. I Told hubby to exercise and he said he is not fat,which is true, but he has no stamina......
S#x is not food eeeeeeeh, You want to kill somebodys son.. Well done Ooooooh-He used to have stamina righ8t? Yours increased and his did not so give him a breather and discuss with him on other wiays to please you...Men also lose their stamina and drive when they are stressed, worried or going through mid life crisis, less pressure would be good at this time....
If it was the other way round now
ReplyDeleteAll u will hear is : satisfy ur hubby, it is ur home dnt let anorher woman take over ur home
Upgrade ur sex life bla bla bla
Hmm obirin raaye wa(women don come dis world)
Get wat to boost his manpower for him
Abi
DeleteThats exactly right
DeleteAbi ooo
DeleteLife is not a competition, we are not at gender war. Relieve yourself of what is doing you. Drink cold water please
DeleteShe talk true abi she no talk true?
DeleteThe advice in red is also given when a wife is unable to meet up with the husband's drive.
ReplyDeleteNo be every matter Dem take dey do gender war.
Poster, please get a Dildo.
DeletePoster, 45 to 1 hour? Well done o.
ReplyDeleteJust discuss with him. But consider him o. Don't expect too much. Make the man no go faint all in the name of satisfying his wife's high sex libido.
Abi o, that's why is good to marry your type, sometimes these things are natural. Everybody can not be into sex.
DeleteMadam please take it easy on your husband, make you no go kpai your him on top you where you dey shout harder harder.
Sex drive has nothing to do with marrying your type. What if her partner is hypertensive and on Medications. Where will the drive come from???
DeleteStella is write, sex is not good. However, you both need to discuss it and come to a compromise.
Look for a young blood to be servicing you na
ReplyDeleteNooo
DeleteRoad no dey there abeg
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DeleteShe needs to say it,she's sexually starved. Poster,you need to send your message across,in a way,your husband can understand. You guys have been together for 18th years.
ReplyDeleteExercise is good for general well being not just sex life or weight loss. Encourage him to exercise regularly for his general well being.
ReplyDeleteYou can have a heart to heart talk with him about your sexual needs and how he can satisfy you better But 45mins-1hr is kinda long. Consider him pls.
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ReplyDeleteAnd some women are running away from it o. Na wa
ReplyDeleteLoL 😂! Jeweluchi ooo!
ReplyDeleteSo the man no fit upgrade his headgame and exercise? 😉
Abi o
DeleteIf you know other ways to boost his drive and stamina, please discuss it with him. I heard that there are other foods and fruits to do the job, why not check them out?
ReplyDelete45 minutes to 1 hour and you think you have achieved something? Madam it is like you were not informed. There are guys that 1 hour for a first round is rather short. And no, it is not an exercise thing really. I don't exercise and I can go for longer than an hour.
ReplyDeleteDon't sweat your husband. Everyone has his or her limits. You push him into taking performance enhancers and he dies on top of you, what have you gained?
What you should do is adapt sex styles that quicken your cum. So that you can cum within your husband's stamina level or lasting time frame. If your husband drinks, then let him take erujeje or any of those bitters. I don't take them but there's one i hear is very effective. Can't remember the name at the moment.
It's the erujeje for me 😂😂. So that thing na sex enhancer 🙆
DeleteUnfortunately they don't work same way for all people.
DeleteIf there is a way to help him boost his libido e.g advice him to eat healthy foods, fruits and vegetables and he should reduce his intake of sugar/sugary foods. And also if there is anything bothering him wether work related or personal life crisis tell him he is free to discuss with you remember a problem shared is half solved. I wish you the best.
ReplyDeleteI wish people were like this if it were the other way
DeletePeople are like this all ways round in matrimonial matters.
DeleteOnly few (usually embittered, unhappy, and sadistic) people are interested in the destruction of marriages or adjudging marital issues from the tunnel view of one side.
We have the choice to read and focus on or listen to the fringe sayers.
18 years of marriage is not 18 days in the pot beans that should be thrown away without suggestions to look all round at the matter at hand especially where there is no complaint of any bad deed by either partner.
If it is expected that she would be told to tow the adultery path, that has been advised already. So no need to kick the heels of other worthy suggestions. But
since there is no manna any more, would it not be better to add that she leaves the marriage in search of 2 hours+ sexsions in the new marriage. Afterall, there is no marriage in heaven. And she is entitled to enjoy all marriage gives here, right?
Anon 18:12 thank you for this response.
DeleteGod dey create oh,some dey enjoy sex while some don't enjoy it talk more of going an hour, kabiesi Eledumare 🔥.poster I no get advice,I just envy you ..you can as well get a dildo to help your self
ReplyDeleteE reach to envy, Lol
DeleteEncourage your hubby to take more fruits, vegetables, water and join you to exercise.
ReplyDeleteNo need for sexual enhancement drugs cos they're temporarily.
Wishing your hubby an increase libido that will match yours
Poster how you take survive all these years?
ReplyDeleteThe kind thing wey I dey read here sef dey always make me laugh
ReplyDelete45 minutes -1 hour? Haaaaaaaaa.... Na marathon? Let the man breathe please.
ReplyDeleteMake e no go faint on top kpekus satisfaction
Nawa is 1hour not too long baayi
ReplyDeleteYou should have a heart to heart discussion with your man..may God help you both 🙏
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ReplyDeleteHonestly, 45 mins to an hour is not long with foreplay included. Not long at all. How many days a week are you interested and how old is he? Perhaps he is having service issues and is hiding it. I actually like couples who are still hot for each other as they get older. I am not sure what to tell you to do, other than to talk to God about it and ask for a solution. For women it is good to maintain their sexual drive so they can stave off vaginal dryness and vaginal prolapse as they move into menopause, both of which makes sex difficult and a turn off for many older women. So I am happy your body is even providing protection for you. For men continuing with an active sex life helps to prevent prostate cancer. Sex is not just for pleasure there are health benefits in there, real health benefits.
ReplyDeleteContinue to exercise and take care of yourself. And continue to encourage your spouse to get physical, even just for simple daily walks after dinner to stimulate digestion and provide heart protection.
Eheeennn... Poster you no quick talk on time so that I'll start exercises early. Make I go register for gym in order to prepare for lawful tatatata next year🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteOn a serious note, no Kee person son.
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ReplyDeleteNot only exercise, let him take fruits that boost sexuality to help him. If he is above 50's his sexual drive should have reduced by now, don't push him to the extent he will hide and take drug to satisfy you..... For him his body is going through change
ReplyDeleteHave a heart to heart discussion with your hubby,how you feel and I believe two of will come to agreement concerning the issue..
ReplyDeletePoster do waht most men in your shoes would do, get a man to satisfy you
ReplyDeleteWhen I tell my guys that love making is an art, they look at me as if I'm speaking spanish. No be everything be energy. No be everything be ta ta ta. Some men will be using too much energy and grunting like a cow without address in Mushin. Men should add sensuality to their routine. If you as a man uses your legs mainly for your thrust, you are doing it wrong. You go tire. Your waist should be where every thrust and movement comes from.
ReplyDeleteSwitch positions every now and then. You notice you are getting tired? Pull out and get your head down there. Let your tongue work while your body rests. Assuming ofcourse that early ejaculation isn't an issue for you.
I find the table top in the kitchen or any table at all to be very effective. It is intense for the woman and gets her there quicker when she is on the table facing you. Her legs wrapped around you of course.
If you feel your man comes faster than you want him to, you can try jerking him off couple of hours earlier. That way, he will last longer when you really want to get down to the act.
Another thing worth asking about, OP, how often do you orgasm during your sessions with oga? It appears you are focused on quantity not quality. If you orgasm early enough, stamina becomes a non factor. Identify what gets you there and do it. Yes, women can orgasm multiple times but after a point, soreness starts setting in and you become tired yourself. Identify your orgasm triggers and get your man to deploy them.
Your husband is doing great. Majority of men will struggle with even 15 minutes. From your post, that's not the case. It is commendable you have an active interest in improving your sex life with your husband.
I wish more men will read this
DeleteHead can lead to cancer of the throat, please note.
DeleteHead only leads to throat cancer if the female partner has HPV. Then the man is in trouble. Well those that have multiple partners, na Dem know oh.
DeleteBut if you're in a committed monogamous relationship, then no problem. Go on and enjoy yourselves.
Poster discuss how to solve the problem with your husband, you need to be satisfied sexually abeg
ReplyDeleteMost guys that exercise and spend time in the gym can’t do jack in bed…it’s not an exercise thing it’s actually inbuilt.if e didn’t dae e didn’t dae!!!
ReplyDeleteProof this oh 😁😁😁
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DeleteMadam get the vibrator to join, if he can not satisfy you then help yourself.
ReplyDeleteHmm
ReplyDeleteMadam abeg manage the sex.
Soon now we go hear say one thing let to another.
Sha no let one small boy with heavy stamina stain your white for outside o