He spoke at the inaugural edition of the podcast;'What's Underneath Masculinity', and admitted to manipulating many women in his past because he prioritized personal ambitions and his own selfish interest over creating a family.He stated that those women helped to shape his life despite the fact that he treated them unfairly.
In his words:
"I robbed some women of their baby making years. Dragging them along, they built me up. Look at me now and look at them.
"If you were creative, I folded you into my artwork. If you were in my artwork, I gave you a job,I mastered your life, I gave you a house, food, everything you need, I protected and provided for you, I did whiat men are supposed to do.
"I remember different quotes I said like just like really manipulated things to say like, 'No one is going to love you the way I do'. Oh my God! I'm ashamed of it, and that's what makes me angry when I see my brothers do that to women that have done so much for us, to even exist.
"And I saw myself for the first time, all the things I've said are horrible.
"Bit by bit,I stripped myself of my former self and I swore that the next relationship that I would get in, I will work as hard at love as I worked in my career"
"I robbed some women of their baby making years. Dragging them along, they built me up. Look at me now and look at them.
"If you were creative, I folded you into my artwork. If you were in my artwork, I gave you a job,I mastered your life, I gave you a house, food, everything you need, I protected and provided for you, I did whiat men are supposed to do.
"I remember different quotes I said like just like really manipulated things to say like, 'No one is going to love you the way I do'. Oh my God! I'm ashamed of it, and that's what makes me angry when I see my brothers do that to women that have done so much for us, to even exist.
"And I saw myself for the first time, all the things I've said are horrible.
"Bit by bit,I stripped myself of my former self and I swore that the next relationship that I would get in, I will work as hard at love as I worked in my career"
Yimu! He might be fishing for another victim 🙄
ReplyDeleteU should be proud of yourself now.. U got what u wanted... How will u make up all those years now?
ReplyDeleteWill these regrets and narrations change anything? U should pay for what u did to them..
Amen to that
ReplyDeleteClassic narcissist with low self esteem. As Ladyp said, he's fishing for his next victim. They never change.
ReplyDeleteGbam. Only Christ but that’s a conversation for another day.
DeleteHow can I like this comment???
DeleteThey want us to believe they have changed. Lmao.
DeleteHe even has conscience. Many people won't see anything wrong in those statements
ReplyDeleteConscience?
DeleteAll these fine boys with their wahala, Biko i jump and pass
ReplyDeleteAs in ehn! I'm not surprised in the least. Even though I have a crush on him, I can only like someone like him from afar. In real life, someone like him will use a woman so much because he thinks he's doing her a favor being with her. Wahala for who Wan marry classic man.
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ReplyDeleteI hope Janelle monae is not one of his victims, causing her to switch to playing for rhe other side because of friend zoning and heartbreak
ReplyDeleteJust one woman must have made him realise this.
ReplyDeleteProbably one woman who showed him absolute love with whom he misused and thoroughly regrets but the deed has already been done.
Or women who loved him walked away and he was surrounded by the ones who wanted money. Then he decided to have sense.
DeleteOk ooo
ReplyDeleteI commend him for speaking publicly about his flaws and his selfishness. Over the course of my lifespan, I too have recognized some distressing flaws within myself that I had no desire to die with. Thank God for some decades of life that I could work through these things and purge them from me. Spiritual success is also a part of life. Achievement is only meaningful if we are also achieving growth in becoming the best version of ourselves.
ReplyDeleteHe’s a NARCISSIST
ReplyDeleteHE never Change.
They never truly change.
It’s just flying Monkey Tactics
CEO EMPRESS
ReplyDeleteYou never start
ReplyDeleteEither he is trying to rationalize a 'me too' kind of situation,
ReplyDeleteHe's trying to 'explain tire' to girl who sees a pattern in order to get her or
It's the very rare and highly unlikely option of him having remorse for his past actions.
Let him deal with it. Women shouldn't line up to pet him on this.
Who gives a flying fuck? They are not victims but suckers who got played.
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