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Tuesday, January 30, 2024

Lady Sends Memo To Mothers With Teen Daughters On Signs Of Red Flag From Pastors

 Hmmmmmm...Everyone needs to read this post and contribute what they can.....







23 comments:

  1. Gbam,my life experience wt my ex husband,there is no lie there

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    1. Plus allowing teenagers to go for vigil with Pastor or man of God - Mbanu
      Allowing teenagers to sleep in the church in the name of deliverance - Mbanu
      Abeg! Abeg!! People are just abdicating their roles as parents nowadays

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  2. few mothers don't have time for their children, na to be pressing phone, watching Instagram barbie girls and tiktok every now and then but then again, we have some good mothers who have instilled the word of God in their children but they still turn out bad. for example, my neighbour's children. I always pray to God that my children should turn out right because it's not by your power, flogging, going to church every now and then or kabashing that will amke a child turn out well, na God's grace

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    1. My dear, it is not by our power oooo.its the grace of God. May God continue to help us and protect our children, amen πŸ™πŸΏ

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  3. So true,not just pastors
    Be it god-dad,uncles and mentors.

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  4. I no kuku like church, going for my kids sake see any rubbish that is bye for life.

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  5. So yea, when my bby cous was 15, I was still in uni then, she called that night to report that their youth pastor attempted to molest her..

    So apparently, this guy visit the house, they give him food, he'll finish and take the plate to the kitchen to drop himself, and use the opportunity to touch her but then, he wasn't yet touching her in private parts but she do feel uncomfortable, so she started avoiding him..

    She went to school (she was a border) then came back for holz, and this guy would be calling her that she should visit him at home let them talk, she'll tell him she can't leave the house to go out..

    He went ahead to be telling her mom whenever he sees her like, tell Joy that I'm not happy with her, her momsi sef go mumu come house dey ask am say "What did you do to brother Femi, he said he is not happy with you".. she'll just say nothing..

    Then one day, she decided to go to his place.. only for her to reach there and then Baba enter room then come back parlor stack naked and was begging her to touch his deek.. na so she begin dey cry, in her shock, she threw away her phone and the screen got damaged..

    When he saw that his plan wouldn't work, he twisted the narrative and started to blame her for seducing him, saying that's the reason he doesn't allow girls to visit him, that she has a seducing spirit.. my baby was just crying, after awhile he apologized told her to clear her face then promised to help her fix the phone..

    She couldn't tell anyone about it, she was even like if she tells her mom, her mother won't believe, so she called me to report the matter, I told her to send me the guys number, but she refused cos she was scared about how I'll react.. so I called a girl I exchanged number with the last time I visited them and went to the church with them, the girl was schooling in one private uni them, told her I need that the youth pastor Bro Femi phone number and address, she asked why, I told her and told her not tell anyone, then she repeated the same thing, that even if she told her mother, her mother wouldn't believe, that a lady in the church had once accused him of impregnating her and he denied it that he has never slept with the lady, she said at home, her mother do call the lady a witch sef, that she wants to tamish the youth pastor image and anointing..

    Anyway, I called the guy, introduced myself and ask him with happened between him and my bby cousin.. he said he doesn't know what I am talking about. I said no problems, then ended the call..

    I don already put call to 2 of my gees say we go roll out the next day to go bash person for him house, before my baby called asking me what I did, that the guy just called and was begging her to forgive him and to beg me.. I said I didn't do anything, shebi she no gree give me him number πŸ™„
    As I was ending the call, I got a message from him too, apologizing and thanking me for not casting him.. werey..

    He later relocated to UK, got married too,. Then after still called my cousin around that "me too" movement to apologize again πŸ˜‚..

    Me sef shock when my baby told me cos the day I visited and followed them to the church, you should see how the guy was preaching, sweating, praying in tongues and not caring that spit was gathering on the sides of his lips.. ashΓ© werey na potential rap!st..

    The atrocities that goes on in church ehn! Let's leave the discussion for another day..

    I'm yet to read that post I say of a man divorcing his wife cos of her too much engagement in church activities, but it is a very valid ground.. you go talk whether na Pastor or am you marry.. pastors are controlling many homes from the shadows.. that's for the wife's they're not nackin and blackmailing..

    PS: didn't use real names

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    1. They will always denied and trust most Nigeria mum not to believe their own flesh and blood.

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    2. I pray he tries it in UK.

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  6. I agree totally with this. My priest took my daughters to a Chinese restaurant once. After that experience, we stopped them from visiting him.

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  7. Protect them always, no matter who is close by. Pastor o, Uncle o, Aunty o, Dad/Mum's friends, just at alert. May God keep them safe for us. Amen.

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  8. Not only pastors, most male included

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    1. And most females..

      Since you want us to do it like this..

      Well, most of my guys were molested by older females when they were young..

      I know 3 girls that their mothers sister practiced lesbianism with them when they were very young too..

      So the females are worst.

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    2. You lie dante

      The number of male predators outnumber females please

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  9. Not only pastors o, many of them around us as well.

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  10. Their is a girl that was living with me then , her mother is one of close friends( we are about 3 living in self contained apartment including d girl) her parents lives far away in Lagos but bcos transportation issue her mother beg me and my roommate to accommodate her when she got admissions to LASU. She joined a church in our neighborhood, she was so committed to Gods work and prayer warrior .. After some times I noticed she won't come back to sleep. At home. I reported to her mother but she told me that her daughter said that she always attending night vigil But because of the nature of my business I do not stay home most of the time. So d affair has being going on between her and a pastor of the church she was.attendng for some times I did not notice . Until my friend wife told me that her husband said that ( het husband is a Keke Napeb driver) he always see the girl with d pastor in a community, The girl later told me that she will be staying with some friends then she left my house .Her mother is aware that she is no longer living with me. Just 2 weeks later I was just coming in when I saw a woman
    had been waiting for me, she introduce herself as the pastor wife ( the pastor of the church where the girl is attending) And that d girl is pregnant for husband, that her husband has rented an apartment for her,.I was shocked , so I called her mother in the present of the woman to explain what is going on.3 of us including the mother went to the house where the pastor rented for the girl. When we got there we saw the pastor and the girl sleeping on bed. When the saw us he started shouting devil is a liar. The mother of girl descend on the pastor with teeth . We arrested him, but to my disbelief the pastor wife was saying that the girl is a witch that she must have bewitched her husband ( in the police station) she is just 17 yrs old.

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    1. Stupid deluded woman
      Male centered

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  11. This is an eye - opening write-up. No close relationship with Uncles, teachers,drivers,guards, neighbours and even same gender too.

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  12. I am a gentle man. But I will not be gentle when it comes to my three daughters. Any man who goes near these my teenage girls is only trying to hold the tiger by the tail.

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