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I am falling in love with my senior female manager and she is a single mum.
She is beautiful, she is a sweet soul, adventurous, disciplined, smart and attractive……
We are very close and her daughter likes me..(She is 13 Years old and she is smart like her mother)
I Don’t Know If She Is Giving Me Green Light or She Is Just Doing It Because i am Working With Her..
BELOW ARE SOME OF THE REASONS
I am falling in love with my senior female manager and she is a single mum.
She is beautiful, she is a sweet soul, adventurous, disciplined, smart and attractive……
We are very close and her daughter likes me..(She is 13 Years old and she is smart like her mother)
I Don’t Know If She Is Giving Me Green Light or She Is Just Doing It Because i am Working With Her..
BELOW ARE SOME OF THE REASONS
She always buys me gifts when there is occasion, like birthday, Easter, etc.
She sometimes pays for my meal, when we meet in a restaurant..
She is open to me, we discuss deep things and she discusses her personal issues with me...
Sometimes she will bring food from home for me.
She doesn’t eat with anybody in the same plate, but one day, we work late that day, she called me to eat with her from the same plate…
Sometimes she will ask me if her hairdo is fine..
There is one lady that always brings materials to our office, if the lady comes, she tells me most times, to choose for her..
She most times, goes out of her way to make me happy.
Stellas Pen and SDK BVs What should I do?
She sometimes pays for my meal, when we meet in a restaurant..
She is open to me, we discuss deep things and she discusses her personal issues with me...
Sometimes she will bring food from home for me.
She doesn’t eat with anybody in the same plate, but one day, we work late that day, she called me to eat with her from the same plate…
Sometimes she will ask me if her hairdo is fine..
There is one lady that always brings materials to our office, if the lady comes, she tells me most times, to choose for her..
She most times, goes out of her way to make me happy.
Stellas Pen and SDK BVs What should I do?
Hmmmmm, i think she has given you enough green light to approach her...
Go ahead and croos your heart and do what you ahve to do since you say you are already in love with her but make sure you stop taking without giving back....She bought, she gave, she did...Make sure you reciprocate the nice gestures....
Nothing Wrong. All the best 💛
ReplyDeleteStart by paying for her food when you you guys eat out. Invite her to lunch or dinner 2 or 3 times, if she accepts, then you can proceed by asking her what she thinks of you and if she can date someone like you. She may just be comfortable with you but not in a romantic sense.
DeleteWhat if she is like me? Some females only have male friends. I relate with
ReplyDeletemen very well. No green light there. I am just more comfortable with the masculine gender.
I can meet a guy today and we will gist for a long time but with a female, one year after i am still scared to open up.
Sometimes, some of these my male friends start having ideas but i always say no.
Poster, are you sure she is not like me?
Don't read meaning into a harmless friendship.
What if she is not like you? Is he the only male in their work environment? Why him! Poster that lady has given you enough green light just as Stella said. Tell her how you feel. You are a man, even if she’s not interested highest she will say no and it doesn’t matter. Hope you’re genuine sha
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Long throat because of gifts,you want to marry her or just eat and clean mouth just know that free food dey run belle,a woman with 13 yrs old daughter ,hope this evil eye for free things hasn't turn you into jigolo .You can't do as you wish but know that your life may go for it if you want to eat and clean mouth.Your type will look for your mate later to settle down,it is then you will know that Hell knows no fury as a scorn woman
ReplyDeleteYou are always angry and bitter. You should go for therapy
DeleteOh boy! 🤦♀️. Why do you like to pass your message across with insults? Eh!!! It makes you sound bitter. Everything no be fight, na.
Delete😂🤣😹
DeleteOga gone never disappoint..
I like u though.. U have a way of passing ur massage harshly.
And in his headache inducing English sef.
DeleteI thought I was the only one that finds this goke guy annoying. He never has anything good to say about anyone.
Deletesomeone is passing a message harshly and being stupid and you find it amusing? what is there to like? some of you have no values walahi
DeleteBetter approach and marry her sir. The light is dark green now cos it has been green for too long.
ReplyDeleteVery shiny green light
ReplyDeleteGo for it
Gifty
She likes you. Be subtle about it sha.
ReplyDeletePoster are you a guy or a lady?
ReplyDeleteE reach to ask
DeleteShooter Gyal
Good question
DeleteI was wondering the same thing. Especially when I saw the material choosing part.
DeletePoster please come and tell us if you are male or female.
Am a guy
DeleteAsk and you shall receive!
DeleteKnock and the door shall be open until you!
L' Amour....Oui! Oui!! Hmm someone is in love 💞💕💖💖 Goodluck...Love is sweet when it is mutual..Go for it...
ReplyDeleteAll the best
She loves you and have shown enough sign already. The question here is, do you truly love her genuinely or for the gifts?
ReplyDeleteDo you think you are ready to wife her and it is what you really want? Aside this kind gesture of hers, how much do you know her outside the work place? I asked all these questions cos, sometimes love goes beyond the surface.
Anyone can do what they think is a bait to get what they want.. I have gotten a woman who did similar things like this to me years back but not in a working environment. She was so kind but possessive. When she doesn't get things her way, she yelled and flared up. She became so domineering and disrespectful at a point.
Again, I don't know the age difference here but I will advice you to check very well and don't get too emotional about it. Study very well before you get committed.
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The green light is so visible enough to see now, bros do the needful only if you are equally in love with her ooh , no go waste somebody's daughter's time when you know you don't like her
ReplyDeleteAdding to Stella's pen...
ReplyDeletePlease don't bring out her love if you are not ready to love her back. Be sure you really love her
Go find your mate.na oju kokoro dey do you
ReplyDeleteThank you!! Dropped a comment asking what he too has done for her 🤷🏿♀️
DeleteA man that knows himself will sometimes reject such gestures respectfully.
SluttyChic and Anon don't say so. If tables were turned, you all will cheer the woman to go immediately. This is one reason I'm beginning to agree with Numero and Dante that men hardly get good advice from chronicle post here.
DeleteI will keep saying, selective truth here is no truth but hypocrisy.
All my concern is if it's what poster really want for himself and again, the age difference how comfortable it is and lastly, aside the gifts, what aspect of her lifestyle did he know better.
We shouldn't just scare him or judge him but advice and guide him properly. Love sometimes can be found in the least expected places.
© TEEJAY.
I do love me a chronicle with potential happy endings in sight. OP it appears you have found a woman that has oil on her head. An actual woman and the very definition of feminity itself. That's such a rare breed. They don't make them like that anymore sadly.
ReplyDeleteI'll say go for it. There's potential there and i think it all depends on you. Love her just the way she wants to be loved and your Union will be full of bliss. Marriage won't really be her thing so you'd need to know how to navigate that.
I'll be rooting for you. So cheers! You got this!
Dear poster shoot your shot
ReplyDeleteWhat if she is just being nice/friendly,maybe you should also start by reciprocating before shooting your shot.
ReplyDeleteAll the best!
You sound like a gold digger. Why allow her pay for your food? Ewww
ReplyDeleteShooter Gyal
You get,she bought,she gave,poster,you give the vibes of a free loader 🙄🙄🙄
Delete@Blogbrity,
DeleteAnd if it was A man doing all that for a woman, what will you call the woman here?
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i have done things for her too...that i will not want to mention...
Deleteam talking about her in the chronicle, just to know if i should shoot my shot ...
You haven't done sh!t poster
DeleteShooter leave me hand eee
Delete😂😂😂
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Poster,, don't you want to mention it. ?
DeleteI love to read sweet chronicles like this. Try your luck then. Reciprocate her kindness and let things flow gradually and naturally, do not force it
ReplyDeleteGo ye forth and possessed your possession.
ReplyDeleteI’m not sure if she likes you
ReplyDeleteBut if she does, try to make her feel comfortable with the age difference.
Also You also bring some good food and see if she’ll take yours
Woo her already. All the best.
ReplyDeleteI can't ever support office romance 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDelete💯
DeleteGbam! That was how I was crushing then killed it. I think I got bored
DeleteGo ahead guy but ensure that she doesn't have any man in her life right now before asking her out sha so everything doesn't become weird.
ReplyDeletePoster is a real gold digger, no mention of anything you have done for her, only things yiu have gotten from her. Meanwhile most of the reasons stated are so materialistic. Ole poster.
ReplyDeleteThe Green light is so obvious, no lady will do this to a guy there aren't interested in. Please reciprocate like Stella said. You can also start by taking her out for special occasion or dinner. Please be fast about it, else someone will take her attention.
ReplyDeleteI think you should go for her, tell her how you feel about her, it won't hurt. I would advise you take things easy and slowly though, as the lady might want you but not ready to commit or love. At this point, I won't advise you to be too eager for a commited relationship with her, she's got a teenage daughter; a big distraction for a young man like you that might seek a lot from a relationship.
ReplyDeleteI don't know your age but I'm guessing the lady is way more older, experienced and matured than you are. You said you are falling in love with her, unfortunately be ready for a lot of heartache. Wahala sit down, you dey use your own hands invite problems.
You love her money,she gave me this,she did that for me,she bought me this,so dear Poster what did u do for her apart from taking taking taking
ReplyDeleteLmao. Stella no dey like to hear that a man is collecting without giving 😂😂😂. I wish you the best as you approach her. Update us
ReplyDeleteArrange a picnic for 2, take her to an event: a play, concert, cultural event and see how things go.
ReplyDeleteThe biggest issue with your situation is that there is a power imbalance, she is a superior and you are below her. Go read your HR handbook to see if your company frowns on office romance. Do not bring that woman into a situation where she could lose her job, she is a single mother. If you are both interested and your company rejects office romances, then you will have to look for other employment elsewhere and then proceed with a relationship after that. Please do not do anything to jeopardize her work.
Poster you no be learner now, take it from here already, make the final move and I wish you both happiness and peace.
ReplyDeleteGuy, you shouldstart by buying her gifts too. SHOW HER KINDNESS TOO!
ReplyDeleteThen, when next you have a good time alone with her, make a sad face, look at her in the eyes and tell her you have hopelessly fallen in love with her.
Tell her you don't know if it is good or bad.
Look confused.
Watch her reaction.
If she is fine with it, build it up,
If she's not, tell her you will control your feelings and mind your business.
Awww I just played this in my head. Another perspective
DeleteO boy be ready to be washing plate thats the thing now horny every where.
ReplyDeleteThese plates folks are washing…. Remember incidences of oral and throat cancer is increasing o.
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