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HEARTLESS BOYFRIEND
He has been my boyfriend but there is no s#xual attachment. He had an appointment in my location and told me. I helped him with his hotel arrangement and took food to him every morning before going to work.
I had a 3 days event in his location and told him to help me get a hotel near the venue of the event. He promised but did not fulfill it till I got someone else who helped.
I arrieved and gave him update of my movement. We were supposed to be paid at the 3rd day of the programme but weren't. They promised to pay us when we returned. I informed him and pleaded if he could help with part of my transport fare home and I promised to refund when I get paid.
He said he had no money.
The next morning he called to say he has a plan. That I should not leave on the thursday which was the last day of the event, He promised to pick me up and Lodge me in another hotel near his house for two days and pay my transport back on the Sunday. (He is staying with two of his nephews)
But it flashed in my head that he said didn't have money to lend me. How come he suddenly had money to want to lodge me in a hotel for two days; Feed me and pay for my transport fare?. He said he would borrow the money.
I hung up the phone on him and He called several times but I didn't pick. I entered night bus on the Thursday and got home safely.
Thank God for journey mercies
You too how did you get money to return?Or you were trying to use the opportunity to get money off him? How can you even go to a strange town and be looking to borrow money? The heediot knew he was taking a risk borrowing you money and wanted to quickly consumate the relationship.....
He is not a good person at all, to think you took care of him when he was in town but he did not return the favour
Stay away from him and do not make the mistake of taking the relationship to another level...
Poster Haba! Thank God for journey mercies...You never hear of Vex money...How you go wan ask or borrow money from person wey no even regard you...Shey na test abi exam you set for am? How you see money travel back on Thursday?
ReplyDeleteCunny man die cunny man bury am!
She explained that she had to use night bus to return. She probably wanted to travel with a more convenient and expensive option. Poster he is not a good person, block him everywhere and move on.
DeleteWhy are men like this sef?????
ReplyDeleteSelfish and mean men are like this
DeleteGbam! Stella has said it all
ReplyDeleteYou only gave us information about what happended between both of you, what advice did you want from us because from your message, you didn't ask for any advice except Stella that tried to read your mind and asked you to stop the relationship ?or are you asking us whether you should marry him or is he husband material or asking whether you overreacted?
ReplyDeleteStella which one be heediot? hahah Poster listen to Stella.
ReplyDeleteI think poster took a cheaper and more Eisner route home by taking night bus. That’s why she could afford it without his help.
ReplyDeletePoster the bigger deal is that he didn’t try to see you during the 3 days you were there. Seems like someone who has a woman in his life and can’t move freely. He suddenly had an opening for two days and wanted you to stay longer so he could meet up
He’s either in a serious relationship or married. Gurrrrrrl, please leave him and move on.
DeletePoster
DeleteMove on
Ogaooooo
ReplyDeleteGlad you collected sense and moved on.
ReplyDeletePoster so sorry about your ordeal,from your so called boyfriend. Most men don't know how to help a woman,if it's not transactional. That's the way,they're wired,if not sex,you're paying back,one way or the other.
ReplyDeleteIt’s not most men abeg
DeleteThis your comment really weak me honestly
DeleteLet's try no to generalize issues please.
Some men and women, right?
DeleteMany men are like this especially for women
DeleteDid you inform him earlier before the event or you just woke up and asked him for money!?? just asking.
ReplyDeleteThe one that gave you water when you were thirsty is who to appreciate most, you know what I mean?
You did well poster, thank God there’s no sexual attachment. Please move on with your life. You never get boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteHope the 2 nephews are not his sons
ReplyDeleteAsk a Nigerian girl to be your girlfriend and you automatically owe her money and favours.
ReplyDeleteYou didn’t see where she did him a favor first
DeleteHelped book his hotel and took food to him everyday
Sometimes I’m just saddened to realize him in this world with people that only think of themselves
If someone wakes up everyday for three days to not just make good but bring it to you, doesn’t that person deserve more when they are in your city
He was tryiing to take advantage of you because you needed financial help.
ReplyDeleteHmnnn....Thank God he didn't succeed,that would have been the end of the relationship.
move on pls.
I like the fact that you have sense and you used it. He set a bait but you were smart. Forgot this guy , he's not serious with you at all
ReplyDeletePoster just leave him and move on with your life.
ReplyDeleteThis relationship would go nowhere. Both of you are not honest with each other
ReplyDeleteWha a kang
ReplyDeletePoster this your man seem like a married man from what you said, how comes he didn't take you to his house at least to spend some time and take you back to your hotel room.
ReplyDeleteThis guy is either a married man or has a serious relationship. Just face front since he didn't show you some care or love while in his state of residence.