Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative - UPDATE

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This is an update to this CHRONICLE

''After i decided i would find a way to tell my friend that her new lover is carrying around the virus, I contacted a mutual friend, we talked about it, I didn't tell her that I knew from way back in Lagos ooo, I told her that I heard from somebody and it seems legit cos I once saw the guy at the general hospital collecting drugs, she shouted in disbelief and told me that she will not keep it to herself that she must tell our friend.

 I begged her to keep my name out of the story as I wouldn't want to appear as a bad person but I only want to protect our friend, she agreed.

She has done it as she called me and told me that she went to the lady's shop and they were gisting about almost everything, she brought up my issue because I lost a very close friend mysteriously last year, so when my issue came up, the lady told her that she owes me so much apology, that it seems the universe is punishing her about the things she said to me because I gave her a genuine advice. she said thatour friends death reminded her about everything I said and she hates herself for not listening to me, and now she's in a bigger mess, but she said the reason she didn't listen to me is because I had my kids under wedlock even though the marriage later crashed but was advising her to have hers outside wedlock because I think she was getting too old, that she felt i was shaming her but it took the death of our friend to understand the things I said cos if our had a child anywhere, she for no get mind go that waka wey steal her life till date, sometimes children gives you some sense of belonging and makes you responsible.

When she finished talking, she now asked her the big mess she's in, she told her that "shebi you remember so so guy, well we're dating, though no plans of marriage yet cos guy man no hold shishi, and yet has infected her with HIV", she shouted, so she now asked her how she found out, she said last year when she took in for him, it was discovered that the baby needed to be flushed cos it was ectopic, it was then they found out that she's positive, so she confronted him cos she knew her status before they started and she was sleeping with him alone, he didn't deny it but blamed it on him relapsing on his drugs, he said he got tired of taking pills, she said she was mad at first but had no one to fight for her, and he begged a lot, she said they're presently stuck together and have been taking their drugs religiously, she said they were advised that pregnancy is very much possible and they can have a virus free children but that another pregnancy is not coming forth but she's still very hopeful that it will happen.

She found out herself, we  didn't have to start singing like some canary, so the long and short of the message is that she already knows and is not ready to leave or do anything about it, she said it's a lifetime ailment and the best way to survive is to live with the person you contracted it from, the joyful part of the news is that they're on drugs, I pray God to bless them with children that will be free from the virus... 

I am not nosy, I just hate it when people step on a preventable landmines, it hurts me''