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Sunday, May 19, 2024

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative



A lady that admires me wants to introduce me to her brother who's coming back to settle this December. 
While talking about him, she described him as one who has pride and gets angry easily but she said he's a very nice person. How can can one person has pride and anger. According to her he dated a girl back home but because of his pride they had issues and he couldn't even beg her. 
She left and married an older man. Now he's searching again. Don't know how I feel about that at all. Didn't really give her any answer.

Well, when he comes study the situation and know if you can marry him...In fact test his anger....Please note that you should never ever marry a man who has anger and pride..It is a recipe for disaster..Please do not say Yes to her, nah you dem wan use do Testing testing......


  1. I have a relative that I’d describe as the best man for a woman but I’ll also freely admit he can be tough when he’s angry but it’s usually when he’s mad at third parties not at his own people
    If he gets mad at an outsider it could be tough to get him to let go. Doesn’t make him bad IMO
    In other words what type of anger does he have
    As for pride, I don’t see why he should have begged the girl if she offended him
    If you’re interested, ask him what happened and make your own decisions

    1. I love proud but intentional men!
      Re watched boys over flower and I love how proud gu jun pyo was but was still intentional with what he wanted!
      I will train my boy child to be proud, a bit over spoit yet kind.....

    2. There are different types of bride o Nk , hmmm . I guess you are yet to meet the other type.

  2. E go panel beat you na you go still beg am

  3. Don't say you weren't told ooo. Anger isn't something that goes away from one overnight. Unless you're that desperate. You're already being informed about the red flags and it's up to you to decide.

    I don't fancy this connection of a thing for grown adults. Learn to know people yourself and get them admired yourself.

    Most times connections like this don't end well especially from abroad returnee.

    All the best to you.

    © TEEJAY

  4. Stella you nailed it. There are 7 things you should avoid from a man or women. Don't even date or marry anyone that falls under these categories

    1. Stingy
    2. Jealousy
    3. Anger
    4. Pathological Liar
    5. Pride
    6. Manipulative
    7. A cheat

    If you do lets-see-how-it-goes, you ll most likely be love bombed and you won't realize it.

    Don't be their lab Guinea pig to test anything or any body.

    Don't see what you won't eat

    All the best

    1. Unfortunately, few very few and few people do not have one of the listed bad 7.
      Maybe that is why marriage is so much hard work with little gains.
      And those who shout the most about their sweet marriage are those who contribute nothing or extremely lesser in making the marriage sweet.

      A stingy person is, however, the best of them.
      Have your own and remove your eyes from a stingy person's own. You will find a stingy person better than the rest.
      If you want to share yours, a stingy person will even be your corner best person for life.

    2. You are so wrong and go and expand your knowledge. Don't deceive yourself, you can meet without any of these vices

      Don't say what you don't know about a stingy person; you think it's only about money. Liberate your mind!

    3. Phoenix you forgot to tell her to meet the man first then make her decision. She shudnt see him thru the eyes of another person, that’s not fair. What if he worked on his anger issues after his last rlship? What if he grew? So many reasons y she should see things for herslf too. Remember any man or woman you are dating today, was someone’s ex who was completely written off by the said ex. But today you might be getting a totally different version of the same person. Something called growth you know.

    4. @16:36, read first paragraph 1 @15:52 again.

      How many meanings does stingy have as an English word. Willing to learn more of them from you.

      In any case, there was no mention of money @15:52.

  5. I think you should have an open mind about it. At this stage, you don't need to say yes or no. This is because you don't know yet if he is the man for you or not. He may end up so in love with you that he becomes generally happier and kinder; I have sen this happen before. Some people act up when they are dating someone they don't really love - could that be the case with the other lady?
    If you decide to date him, you need to communicate often so that you can really understand him, observe him closely, and like Stella said test him very well (safely o .Don't put yourself into unreasonable danger pls). If at the end you find out he is not the man for you, then you leave.
    All the best.

  6. Once going abroad or returning from for marriage is in the equation, a very simple matter becomes confusing for the typical Nigerian woman.

    1. Everyone wants to escape the poverty line. Bad governance does not end with policy, it affects human reasoning and choice making.
      Poster, I'm not saying this is your case.


  7. They had issue and he couldn't beg because he has pride why the relationship ended. Let him work on himself if he really wants to keep the next one. When he keeps walking away at any little issue that means he is not serious for a relationship. I know their type, too proud to say ' I'm sorry '.

  8. InterestingπŸ€”

  9. An egoistic man with a short temper is a disaster waiting to happen. Talking from experience. Abort mission.

  10. Once you commit your union to God.he will reveal to you if he/she is the right one.

    Pls do not be in a hurry for marriage.take some time to pray and inquiry from God.

  11. They had issue and he couldn't beg because he has pride why the relationship ended. Let him work on himself if he really wants to keep the next one. When he keeps walking away at any little issue that means he is not serious for a relationship. I know their type, too proud to say ' I'm sorry '.

  12. Red flag
    He should work on his anger issue before entering a new relationship

  13. You should experience him for don't need to necessarily test him. You're not God to test people. He's behavior would just naturally show

  14. ChIka (hello iya boys)19 May 2024 at 20:08

    One person with bad full package
    Behold and beside my sister if this brother vex one day he can carry you up and back for ground oooo
    God forbid bad things..πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
    Run for your life my darling πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

  15. See red flag, please study him and if it is true please πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

  16. Better looks elsewhere he is not for you ,anger management is not a good thing better face your future by prayer

  17. They look like uncontrolled mad men when they are angry, i cant deal


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