When you see me on the road, pls give me a hug. It's not easy being a man. The things we do on the daily to keep the home and family isn't easy. Against all odds, some of us have chosen never to stain our hands to make it big. Pls appreciate us for this path we have taken to survive.
The sacrifices we have made in life is our genuine commitment to success.
One day everything will be fine someday and we will look back on the struggles.
Teejay, you can say that again. I wish I appreciated my father when he was alive. I never knew this is how challenging it gets to be raising a family. Nothing weighs like responsibility. What keeps me going is that he and countless other men didn't fail. I won't either.
As a father of two young boys and a beautiful daughter, I wake up everyday with the sense that I'm all they have and that's not changing. May God and good keep strengthening every man out there doing the best and good for his family.
Good evening house, I'm about rounding up from the shop,after then I will go home and decide whether to cook concoction rice or spaghetti jellof.? Chronicle of a single lady not easy to decide maybe I will allow my spirit to lead me on which to cook..
I use to like spag jollof, but recently I cant find myself eating it, I prefer it with egg sauce and that's is the only way I cant eat it. See wetin I dey like for this kind economy, no be gbese be that? Hello pure, hope you good.
Yes. Kinda. It's just not as methodical or of a strict recipe as Jollof. Just put in whatever is available in whatever order suits you. Looks and taste 'infrerior' to Jollof rice, but also nice in its own right.
This week is just there, kind of boring and my mood is just somehow. Nollywood be playing in my family, my dad is trying to come back after 30 years of divorcing my mum. Chai this man no try,looking back, am like why come back, is late. Mumsy is furious. His wife bore one girl, his wife and daughter left him. Leaving him with absolute nothing!!! Enough said jare, I am not much of a talker. When he was balling where was he!!!
He should stay where he is abeg, old age is knocking, now he's looking for who will care for him in his old age, mbanu. He should go ask his other wife and daughter that he spent his money on for forgiveness. A whole 30 years!!! Some people no dey fear God.
Let your mum forgive him but never to take him back They were divorced & he's coming back because he's stranded & he may frustrate your mum to death. Don't take him in. Please give us the full story The most complex B
Your mum should not take him back, you and your siblings should support her not to take him back, don't succumb to any pressure from his family or church o. Forgive him but let him stay where he is, far from you people.
Why can't we just have rest in this life ehn? You set a huge target for yourself, after going through several hoops, you eventually achieve it only to realise it doesn't end there and you're already setting the next target to achieve and even exceed. Adam and Eve you do us this one oh, because we suppose just dey lounge for garden of eden day and night like this if no be for Una long throat.
I have a major exam in October that I've started preparing for and omooo, this studying ish is raining on my parade, the coming summer months about to be 'unlit' for me😭😭. I can't even watch YouTube shorts without my mind judging me that I haven't read. BVs Abeg help me pray that I pass the preliminary exam I have this month end.
There are more summers to come. Missing out on fun for a greater purpose is good. You won’t be tossing to a fro in old age, so use your youth wisely. All the best on your exams and study hard, don’t let the enemy win.
I am finding that I like graphic design and creating documents. I really don’t know where this side of me came from because I was never into stuff like that. Still, I realize that no matter how old we get, there is still so much about ourselves that remains undiscovered. Please do not give up on yourselves and know that there is a whole universe of magic waiting to be revealed. We are all fabulous in so many ways💕
Bonsoir Blogfam ♥️ Something happened in my Nephew's school that ruined my mood, a Jss1 student after closing decided to go to boys hostel with 3 senior secondary school boys, this girl is 14 years old, I don't know why she is still in J.S.S 1, only God knows who opened the hostel for them, they all had sex with her and recorded it, it was consensual 😡😡😡 She was boasting to her classmates the next day, when her teacher heard, this happened in a catholic school in Ojokoro ( name withheld) She has been suspended from the school because the cleaner also caught them in the act, this is so heartbreaking ☹️ parents we have so much work to do especially on our girls, this generation is something else. I pray that video doesn't land on the internet 🙏 When I was in boarding school, we do have gateman at the entrance to check who is going in and out, where was the gateman when this happened, the girl wasn't a virgin hmmmmm
I hope the boys too were suspended? Something is terribly wrong with this incoming generation because what kind of news is this? Boasting of having sex with 3 boys at once at 14?? My God, where do they even want to start unpacking their problem from?
Yes, this is a sad occurrence. I hope all who were involved in the debauchery got suspended. A 14 yr old indulging in group sex is a sign of many things. Sometimes good parenting suffers at the feet of survival, making money and paying bills. A parent should ideally be at home when school is over to receive the children and watch over them. Sometimes parents send children to these parochial boarding schools in the belief that the troubled child will turn around and their absence will bring peace to the household, this is fast food parenting.
All the children who participated and witnessed the act need intervention.
Gosh! And what happened to the 3 SS boys? Why did they even have a phone? Too many whys. I perceive this isn't the girl's first encounter. Moral decadence is at an all time high especially se?ual immorality. I hope she gets therapy and the recording is quick gotten and deleted. I feel so sad for the victim and her parents
If you check, you may find out that someone close to home started abusing that girl at a young age. She didn't wake up and disvirgin herself. Someone stole her innocence and made her grow up beyond her age. The parents to have a heart to heart with her and make sure the person responsible is prosecuted. Sweeping abuse under the carpet and not getting the victim into therapy can make the victim to either hate sex or embrace it without shame.
What did I do wrong? I was discussing with my sister in-law (brother's wife) and we were talking about wealth and inheritance. I said I will like to be healthy, even wealthier than my husband. I don't know who told my husband about this discussion that was had long time ago, now he is saying that I don't want him to grow, that I am not wishing him well. How ?!!!!!!
Girl, there are some things you never let come out of your mouth. I don’t know you from a hole in the wall, so take what I write lightly. If you are a competitive person by nature do not bring it into your marriage. Your husband is not your competition, he is your family and the one you lay down next to at nights, the first face you see in the morning and the last at night. Do not compete with him in the world on anything. If you want to play cards or ludo together, that is entertainment not competition. If life should make it so you one day get to a higher status do not rub it in his face or look down on him. He is not your competition now or ever!
What is wrong in your wanting to be richer than him? He should be happy he doesn't have a lazy wife and see it as a challenge to be better. Abeg don't limit yourself to massage his ego.
This happened last year, I prefer entering my house from the backdoor/kitchen. Last year April I was coming back from church like 6pm. I saw an electrician whom I have been begging since to come fix something for me and he agreed to follow me home. He stood outside and I went through the backyard to open the door, . i saw a green snake at my backyard and shouted. The electrician saw the snake and ran away😭😭😭 I took a long iron and killed it. One month later, . I came back and was gisting with my neighbor outside. Something whispered to me.to.look.back. I did and lo and behold a snake was sidewinding towards us from the backyard . I shouted. My neighbor that I was gisting with ran away with her baby . I carried a heavy stone and targeted the head and killed it. The next two months. I packed out of that house. Till today, I still don't know where those strength came from but God be praised. So many things on my mind. What if I was unable to kill the snake. Honestly I will not sleep in that house again.
Zaram, I would have ran too. I probably would’ve burned the damn house down cause I ain’t here for no snakes to come calling. Anytime I am travelling to a new country, I always research the snake situation there, this is why my azz ain’t been to no Australia, Indonesia, Thailand or Brazil.
I applaud your bravery and presence of mind while under pressure.
My friend has a 13 years old son in SS3. God remembered the husband and he bought three cars. One for hubby. One for wife and general one. My friend Insisted her son should learn driving. The boy did and started driving. I cautioned her to stop the boy from driving as he is too young. She started avoiding me till we no more talk. Two days ago another of our friend called to say they expelled the boy from school and refused him to join those writing waec as he is into drugs. He drugs girls to sleep with them.
They won’t listen wisdom because their first thought of anyone who has a different opinion is that they are jealous/envious or an agent against progress. A 13 yr old with freedom beyond his years will find himself driving down some very different streets. Let her manage her home
Husbandman cooked ogbono soup yes in a strange way. He meted the soup with red oil in a plate inside hot water as usual and later turned it into a boiling pot of water then started cooking, after sometime, he added pepper, salt, Maggi and then the smoked fish was the last item he added. I query him but his rely was "shebi you asked me to cook, I'm doing it my own way" Honestly the soup smells and taste really good.
It's another method instead of frying and it does taste absolute delicious. What I do is pour the ogbono in a steel plate, add palm Oil then place it in the meat pot so as the meat boils, the steel plate heats up as well.
I boil small water in a small pot and then melt the ogbono inside the boiled water before pouring it into the pot of soup and turn it. It's the last thing bi pour in the pot before vegetables
How does a married man have a contact of someone a white woman that sends nudes like personal video of her with sexy lingerie,I saw him scrolling through the pics and asked him so you solicit for nudes online, cos i dont understand why and it's on whatsapp o . I just got pissed tufiakwa
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When you see me on the road, pls give me a hug. It's not easy being a man. The things we do on the daily to keep the home and family isn't easy. Against all odds, some of us have chosen never to stain our hands to make it big. Pls appreciate us for this path we have taken to survive.
ReplyDeleteThe sacrifices we have made in life is our genuine commitment to success.
One day everything will be fine someday and we will look back on the struggles.
Goodnight Guys.
© TEEJAY
Thanks Teejay, I pray that day comes soon. At your last paragraph.
DeleteTeejay, the only place to go when you’re at the bottom is up. It will get better🏆
DeleteAmen @ 20:34,
DeleteThanks a bunch. I love you already.
Thanks Emerald...
© TEEJAY
Teejay, you can say that again. I wish I appreciated my father when he was alive. I never knew this is how challenging it gets to be raising a family. Nothing weighs like responsibility. What keeps me going is that he and countless other men didn't fail. I won't either.
DeleteAs a father of two young boys and a beautiful daughter, I wake up everyday with the sense that I'm all they have and that's not changing. May God and good keep strengthening every man out there doing the best and good for his family.
How dem go use recognise you give you hug? send your photo nah
DeleteGood evening house, I'm about rounding up from the shop,after then I will go home and decide whether to cook concoction rice or spaghetti jellof.? Chronicle of a single lady not easy to decide maybe I will allow my spirit to lead me on which to cook..
ReplyDeleteI use to like spag jollof, but recently I cant find myself eating it, I prefer it with egg sauce and that's is the only way I cant eat it. See wetin I dey like for this kind economy, no be gbese be that?
DeleteHello pure, hope you good.
Emerald sis I prefer spaghetti jellof with enough pepper and ice -fish i'm good and you hope you have recovered fully..
DeleteAwww I love ice fish. Yes babe I am fully recovered, thank you.
DeleteAfter thinking so much what to cook today, I settled for concoction rice too with plenty bonga fish and crayfish😋.
DeleteReally, it's not always easy thinking of what to prepare. And naija situation now has made most people's choices limited.
Pls guys what is concoction rice? Is it like jollof rice?
DeleteYes. Kinda. It's just not as methodical or of a strict recipe as Jollof. Just put in whatever is available in whatever order suits you. Looks and taste 'infrerior' to Jollof rice, but also nice in its own right.
DeleteThanks and God bless u anon that answered me. Bn hearing it but now i kno.
DeleteThis week is just there, kind of boring and my mood is just somehow. Nollywood be playing in my family, my dad is trying to come back after 30 years of divorcing my mum.
ReplyDeleteChai this man no try,looking back, am like why come back, is late. Mumsy is furious. His wife bore one girl, his wife and daughter left him. Leaving him with absolute nothing!!! Enough said jare, I am not much of a talker.
When he was balling where was he!!!
He should stay where he is abeg, old age is knocking, now he's looking for who will care for him in his old age, mbanu. He should go ask his other wife and daughter that he spent his money on for forgiveness.
DeleteA whole 30 years!!! Some people no dey fear God.
Coming back to do what now? For the wife to take care of him? Some men no just dey try at all.
DeleteHe must look for them and follow them ooo
Delete30 yrs no be small 5 yrs ooo
Let your mum forgive him but never to take him back
DeleteThey were divorced & he's coming back because he's stranded & he may frustrate your mum to death.
Don't take him in.
Please give us the full story
The most complex B
Your mum should forgive him. But she should not take him back. Simple.
DeleteYour mum should not take him back, you and your siblings should support her not to take him back, don't succumb to any pressure from his family or church o. Forgive him but let him stay where he is, far from you people.
DeleteWhy can't we just have rest in this life ehn?
ReplyDeleteYou set a huge target for yourself, after going through several hoops, you eventually achieve it only to realise it doesn't end there and you're already setting the next target to achieve and even exceed. Adam and Eve you do us this one oh, because we suppose just dey lounge for garden of eden day and night like this if no be for Una long throat.
I have a major exam in October that I've started preparing for and omooo, this studying ish is raining on my parade, the coming summer months about to be 'unlit' for me😭😭. I can't even watch YouTube shorts without my mind judging me that I haven't read.
BVs Abeg help me pray that I pass the preliminary exam I have this month end.
Success beautiful 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
DeleteThere are more summers to come. Missing out on fun for a greater purpose is good. You won’t be tossing to a fro in old age, so use your youth wisely. All the best on your exams and study hard, don’t let the enemy win.
DeleteWishing you all round success
DeleteThank you Blogbrity and Slimzy.
DeleteAnon I don't have a choice, this book won't read itself😭😭, thanks for the encouragement.
Wishing you all round success in Jesus name.
DeleteWishing you success in your exams.
DeleteAll the best in your exams..
DeleteWishing you success in your exams.
DeleteThank you my people.
DeleteWishing you auccess
DeleteCame back from my yoga class 30mins ago. I'm now having pap and oven baked sweet potatoes.
ReplyDeleteI want to sleep from 9pm to 8am tomorrow insha Allah.
I am finding that I like graphic design and creating documents. I really don’t know where this side of me came from because I was never into stuff like that. Still, I realize that no matter how old we get, there is still so much about ourselves that remains undiscovered. Please do not give up on yourselves and know that there is a whole universe of magic waiting to be revealed. We are all fabulous in so many ways💕
ReplyDeletePls nurture it make something out of it I'm in my forties and I want to go into data analytics ,develop myself and have a better chance in employment
DeleteAll the best to you 01:57, May all your dreams come true and even more greater than you imagined.
DeleteBonsoir Blogfam ♥️
ReplyDeleteSomething happened in my Nephew's school that ruined my mood, a Jss1 student after closing decided to go to boys hostel with 3 senior secondary school boys, this girl is 14 years old, I don't know why she is still in J.S.S 1, only God knows who opened the hostel for them, they all had sex with her and recorded it, it was consensual 😡😡😡
She was boasting to her classmates the next day, when her teacher heard, this happened in a catholic school in Ojokoro ( name withheld)
She has been suspended from the school because the cleaner also caught them in the act, this is so heartbreaking ☹️ parents we have so much work to do especially on our girls, this generation is something else.
I pray that video doesn't land on the internet 🙏
When I was in boarding school, we do have gateman at the entrance to check who is going in and out, where was the gateman when this happened, the girl wasn't a virgin hmmmmm
This made me real sad and really scared
DeleteI hope the boys too were suspended?
DeleteSomething is terribly wrong with this incoming generation because what kind of news is this? Boasting of having sex with 3 boys at once at 14?? My God, where do they even want to start unpacking their problem from?
Yes, this is a sad occurrence. I hope all who were involved in the debauchery got suspended. A 14 yr old indulging in group sex is a sign of many things. Sometimes good parenting suffers at the feet of survival, making money and paying bills. A parent should ideally be at home when school is over to receive the children and watch over them. Sometimes parents send children to these parochial boarding schools in the belief that the troubled child will turn around and their absence will bring peace to the household, this is fast food parenting.
DeleteAll the children who participated and witnessed the act need intervention.
Gosh!
DeleteAnd what happened to the 3 SS boys?
Why did they even have a phone?
Too many whys.
I perceive this isn't the girl's first encounter.
Moral decadence is at an all time high especially se?ual immorality.
I hope she gets therapy and the recording is quick gotten and deleted.
I feel so sad for the victim and her parents
I was 😳😳, naaaaa I am speechless to say the least.
DeleteOh lord😔. This is so, so sad. And to think she is even boasting about it🥺.
DeleteWe also need to train the boys. Nothing stopped them from rejecting her advances.
DeleteI pray,the video is deleted without wasting time...
Delete14 yrs having group s#x,something is wrong somewhere.
They're there contributing money for korra's legal battle, to be able to involve her underages in her naked online madness..
DeleteWomen supporting women..
After they finish supporting rubbish and the repercussions come, they'll still come and cry and be looking for who to help..
Nonsense
😮😮😮
DeleteHer elder sister in S.S.1 heard the gist and was weeping, this is just too sad ☹️
ReplyDeleteIf you check, you may find out that someone close to home started abusing that girl at a young age. She didn't wake up and disvirgin herself. Someone stole her innocence and made her grow up beyond her age. The parents to have a heart to heart with her and make sure the person responsible is prosecuted. Sweeping abuse under the carpet and not getting the victim into therapy can make the victim to either hate sex or embrace it without shame.
DeleteWhat did I do wrong?
ReplyDeleteI was discussing with my sister in-law (brother's wife) and we were talking about wealth and inheritance. I said I will like to be healthy, even wealthier than my husband.
I don't know who told my husband about this discussion that was had long time ago, now he is saying that I don't want him to grow, that I am not wishing him well.
How ?!!!!!!
Girl, there are some things you never let come out of your mouth. I don’t know you from a hole in the wall, so take what I write lightly. If you are a competitive person by nature do not bring it into your marriage. Your husband is not your competition, he is your family and the one you lay down next to at nights, the first face you see in the morning and the last at night. Do not compete with him in the world on anything. If you want to play cards or ludo together, that is entertainment not competition. If life should make it so you one day get to a higher status do not rub it in his face or look down on him. He is not your competition now or ever!
DeleteWhat is wrong in your wanting to be richer than him? He should be happy he doesn't have a lazy wife and see it as a challenge to be better. Abeg don't limit yourself to massage his ego.
DeleteTalku talku...what was the point of saying that? This will teach you a lesson to speak of your husband with honor in ANY environment...
DeleteThis happened last year, I prefer entering my house from the backdoor/kitchen. Last year April I was coming back from church like 6pm. I saw an electrician whom I have been begging since to come fix something for me and he agreed to follow me home. He stood outside and I went through the backyard to open the door, . i saw a green snake at my backyard and shouted. The electrician saw the snake and ran away😭😭😭 I took a long iron and killed it. One month later, . I came back and was gisting with my neighbor outside. Something whispered to me.to.look.back. I did and lo and behold a snake was sidewinding towards us from the backyard . I shouted. My neighbor that I was gisting with ran away with her baby . I carried a heavy stone and targeted the head and killed it. The next two months. I packed out of that house. Till today, I still don't know where those strength came from but God be praised. So many things on my mind. What if I was unable to kill the snake. Honestly I will not sleep in that house again.
ReplyDeleteZaram, I would have ran too. I probably would’ve burned the damn house down cause I ain’t here for no snakes to come calling. Anytime I am travelling to a new country, I always research the snake situation there, this is why my azz ain’t been to no Australia, Indonesia, Thailand or Brazil.
DeleteI applaud your bravery and presence of mind while under pressure.
It’s 8’oclock pm and everywhere is still very bright. Hard to sleep nowadays 😪😪
ReplyDeleteKhally how far nah? hope you have settled down properly?e don happen?
DeleteYes Stella, I’ve settled in very well. Thank God.
DeleteI’m having the time of my life in this abroad!🎉🎉😁😁
Just got home now after today's hustle, let me just prepare small rice and eat with vegetable soup.
ReplyDeleteby this time?
DeleteMy friend has a 13 years old son in SS3. God remembered the husband and he bought three cars. One for hubby. One for wife and general one. My friend Insisted her son should learn driving. The boy did and started driving. I cautioned her to stop the boy from driving as he is too young. She started avoiding me till we no more talk. Two days ago another of our friend called to say they expelled the boy from school and refused him to join those writing waec as he is into drugs. He drugs girls to sleep with them.
ReplyDeleteThey won’t listen wisdom because their first thought of anyone who has a different opinion is that they are jealous/envious or an agent against progress. A 13 yr old with freedom beyond his years will find himself driving down some very different streets. Let her manage her home
Deletehow is his driving a car to do with his behaviour?
DeleteStellz, too much freedom too soon and nobody knowing his whereabouts because he can drive himself anywhere day or night.
Delete13 years is too young to drive.
Delete13?
DeleteHow can a 13yr old be in SS3?
Just got home not quite long. All I want to do is go to bed. Tired.com
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your sleep.com
DeleteHusbandman cooked ogbono soup yes in a strange way. He meted the soup with red oil in a plate inside hot water as usual and later turned it into a boiling pot of water then started cooking, after sometime, he added pepper, salt, Maggi and then the smoked fish was the last item he added. I query him but his rely was "shebi you asked me to cook, I'm doing it my own way"
ReplyDeleteHonestly the soup smells and taste really good.
It's another method instead of frying and it does taste absolute delicious. What I do is pour the ogbono in a steel plate, add palm Oil then place it in the meat pot so as the meat boils, the steel plate heats up as well.
DeleteI boil small water in a small pot and then melt the ogbono inside the boiled water before pouring it into the pot of soup and turn it. It's the last thing bi pour in the pot before vegetables
DeleteHow did the salt and maggi mix well? The ogbonno has already started drawing, so how will.they mix well?
DeleteSo non stick cookware are harmful and some even contain materials that can cause cancer
ReplyDeleteYes! Stick to stainless steel, glass, enamel or cast iron.
DeleteHow does a married man have a contact of someone a white woman that sends nudes like personal video of her with sexy lingerie,I saw him scrolling through the pics and asked him so you solicit for nudes online, cos i dont understand why and it's on whatsapp o .
ReplyDeleteI just got pissed tufiakwa
Bros is paying for only fans premium. Smh
DeleteWhere do people meet and marry he-goats?
Delete